The Darkside of Sydney's punting scene. Gambling/Drugs/Loneliness

[Gucci2012]

You know how eventually this will endup
You had fun, enjoyed the experience, now your brain is taking over and telling you what to do, as clearly appears through your post

You have a good job, you have enjoyed your life so far...don't risk everything just for a pleasure that might last few more days or months

I would tell her that this is not the way you live your life and you need to go back to your reality, your job, your friends, your carefree punting
Excuses do not work because there is always room to find a way around excuses; better to be brutally honest
You are probably gonna hurt her, but at least you do it once rather than slowly every day with petty excuses.

Once you are out, delete her number, block her incoming calls; if you get sucked in again then will be 10 times more difficult to get out
This is what she would do if decides to not see YOU again...woman are much more rigorous than man when decide to break up. She would move on and forget about you

Now, sorry i have to say this, it is brutal but is probably true:
1) You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer
2) She gives your money back sometimes to keep sucking you in. Drug dealers always gives freebies to their customers to keep them in the loop
3) She is addicted to her lifestyle, and she won't change it for you
4) Her "lifestyle" will eventually consume her and she will loose all the appeal she currently has on you
5) You might consider her special, but honestly she s not that smart at all, considering she is throwing away her life with drugs and gambling
6) You will eventually get bored of her
7) She will eventually get bored of you
..no need to continue further

#realtalk

Lol I was never trying to be her boyfriend. And she has brought me into a world I knew existed but never walked in. It has been fun but pending doom approaches I feel tha, hence my request for advice. All of which has been very sound. I am thankful for this.

[berger123]

You know how eventually this will endup
You had fun, enjoyed the experience, now your brain is taking over and telling you what to do, as clearly appears through your post

You have a good job, you have enjoyed your life so far...don't risk everything just for a pleasure that might last few more days or months

I would tell her that this is not the way you live your life and you need to go back to your reality, your job, your friends, your carefree punting
Excuses do not work because there is always room to find a way around excuses; better to be brutally honest
You are probably gonna hurt her, but at least you do it once rather than slowly every day with petty excuses.

Once you are out, delete her number, block her incoming calls; if you get sucked in again then will be 10 times more difficult to get out
This is what she would do if decides to not see YOU again...woman are much more rigorous than man when decide to break up. She would move on and forget about you

Now, sorry i have to say this, it is brutal but is probably true:
1) You are a customer, not her boyfriend. She might like you more than others, but you still a customer
2) She gives your money back sometimes to keep sucking you in. Drug dealers always gives freebies to their customers to keep them in the loop
3) She is addicted to her lifestyle, and she won't change it for you
4) Her "lifestyle" will eventually consume her and she will loose all the appeal she currently has on you
5) You might consider her special, but honestly she s not that smart at all, considering she is throwing away her life with drugs and gambling
6) You will eventually get bored of her
7) She will eventually get bored of you
..no need to continue further

Yes - don't break up and get back together. It just reinforces the destructive behaviour which seems to be this girls thing.

Guccibro: you seem to have basically figured it out already. This girl has so many bad habits she is a disaster that you don't need. Move on and don't look back.

But it might be fun to keep fucking some of her friends if they give you a big discount. No need to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

[the doctor.]

Judging by all these sensible replies..its good to know
we have qaulity people on this forum.

[Gucci2012]

Yes - don't break up and get back together. It just reinforces the destructive behaviour which seems to be this girls thing.

Guccibro: you seem to have basically figured it out already. This girl has so many bad habits she is a disaster that you don't need. Move on and don't look back.

But it might be fun to keep fucking some of her friends if they give you a big discount. No need to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

I suppose I was just waiting for someone to say Y.O.L.O. Her friends are ok, and she's ok with me being their customer. But the danger factor on this situation rises daily.

[berger123]

I suppose I was just waiting for someone to say Y.O.L.O. Her friends are ok, and she's ok with me being their customer. But the danger factor on this situation rises daily.

It sounds like these girls prefer to be sugar babies, instead of working in a shop. Do they advertise on websites like seekingarrangement.com?

[DeepImpact]

Bro Gucci2012 the easiest way out in the world with any of these girls if you want an out that is, is to say you lost your job and don't have any money anymore. You'll be but a quickly fading memory to her in no time.

If you want to keep doing it, why not but just take it for what it is as being cheap sex nothing more. I am sure boredom will set in before too long and other girls will suddenly become not just attractive but too appealing to turn down. Good luck with it and you already know a girl that will appeal to you Bro!!!

[garfield]

Find another girl that you are interested in, and you will find your shift in focus and attention and soon you will find saying No isn't that difficult after all.

[pro_seeker]

How many PMs have received so far asking for her name and number?? Haha. Speaking of which, what's her name and number??

[Max Impact]

Just the number is fine.

[CunningLinguist]

One of the reasons we see WLs is for variety ...

[SmilingGiraffe]

This sounds like the "light grey" side of punting rather than the darkside. It's all too common & easygoing.

[loaded]

How many PMs have received so far asking for her name and number?? Haha. Speaking of which, what's her name and number??

Like.

But seriously what's her number

[Gucci2012]

This sounds like the "light grey" side of punting rather than the darkside. It's all too common & easygoing.

I give you permission to write a poem about your version of the "dark side"

[SmilingGiraffe]

I give you permission to write a poem about your version of the "dark side"

I appreciate the gesture, sincerely I do. But, I've already announced the next poetic submission will be a more
love-oriented/semi-erotic piece. I like variety, it's the spice of life.

But, seriously, the dark side in your context is when you wake up next to an OD girlfriend or friend,
or when you or her wake up stone dead, or you wake up with all your possessions gone, or you get badly beaten up by
a jealous ex or pimp, or you get busted by police, etc etc....

I think you already know what you have to do...you just have to do it. I understand that it's easier said than done.
There is something seductive about the more sensual aspects of the dirty underworld.

[greybeard_]

Son, postitutes will use every trick in the book to make you feel special - they will share personal intimacies, send you random SMSs telling you they miss you, give you occassional discounts, etc etc, whatever it takes

Its all just designed to STRING YOU ALONG and keep you SPENDING MONEY!!

Do you really think this hardened old whore has fallen for you? Like a ditsy little innocent schoolgirl?? You think you can convince this working girl to quit sucking cock for a living and be your wife, maybe spit out a kid and play happy families together? Is that what you think? LOL

Wake up sonny boy

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

You sound like a good kid, my advice - check yourself before you wreck yourself sonny boy

[pantydropa]

Son, postitutes will use every trick in the book to make you feel special - they will share personal intimacies, send you random SMSs telling you they miss you, give you occassional discounts, etc etc, whatever it takes

Its all just designed to STRING YOU ALONG and keep you SPENDING MONEY!!

Do you really think this hardened old whore has fallen for you? Like a ditsy little innocent schoolgirl?? You think you can convince this working girl to quit sucking cock for a living and be your wife, maybe spit out a kid and play happy families together? Is that what you think? LOL

Wake up sonny boy

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

You sound like a good kid, my advice - check yourself before you wreck yourself sonny boy

well said!
Do you mind if I steal a few lines for my Facebook quotes,

[Gucci2012]

Son, postitutes will use every trick in the book to make you feel special - they will share personal intimacies, send you random SMSs telling you they miss you, give you occassional discounts, etc etc, whatever it takes

Its all just designed to STRING YOU ALONG and keep you SPENDING MONEY!!

Do you really think this hardened old whore has fallen for you? Like a ditsy little innocent schoolgirl?? You think you can convince this working girl to quit sucking cock for a living and be your wife, maybe spit out a kid and play happy families together? Is that what you think? LOL

Wake up sonny boy

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

IF SHE IS CHARGING YOU MONEY TO BE WITH HER YOU ARE JUST A CUSTOMER

You sound like a good kid, my advice - check yourself before you wreck yourself sonny boy

Lol your advice has as much worth as a cum filled tissue in a brothel rubbish bin which also coincidentally is where every post you've ever made belongs.

[slowmotion]

Take a 3-4 week holiday interstate or overseas bro Gucci. Just tell her that you have some work to do. It gives you time to to think clear, to readjust and to have good reasons to stay away for awhile. Hopefully when you get back, you will be able to say goodbye but still remain in good terms.

IT may be too late I feel, for you to influence her to run away from gamblings and drugs. - I suspect the reverse has already happened. She has dragged you in her way of life but I dont think it is too late.

If you truly feel for her then help her. But if you dont, then as other brothers have suggested, leave NOW before it is too late for you.

[Gucci2012]

Take a 3-4 week holiday interstate or overseas bro Gucci. Just tell her that you have some work to do. It gives you time to to think clear, to readjust and to have good reasons to stay away for awhile. Hopefully when you get back, you will be able to say goodbye but still remain in good terms.

IT may be too late I feel, for you to influence her to run away from gamblings and drugs. - I suspect the reverse has already happened. She has dragged you in her way of life but I dont think it is too late.

If you truly feel for her then help her. But if you dont, then as other brothers have suggested, leave NOW before it is too late for you.

Thank you all for the advice. Also i think there may have been some misunderstanding along the way. I never said i wanted to pull her from her life style (gambling, drugs, wl life) i just wanted out our mutual arrangement without hurting her.

[Gucci2012]

I appreciate the gesture, sincerely I do. But, I've already announced the next poetic submission will be a more
love-oriented/semi-erotic piece. I like variety, it's the spice of life.

But, seriously, the dark side in your context is when you wake up next to an OD girlfriend or friend,
or when you or her wake up stone dead, or you wake up with all your possessions gone, or you get badly beaten up by
a jealous ex or pimp, or you get busted by police, etc etc....

I think you already know what you have to do...you just have to do it. I understand that it's easier said than done.
There is something seductive about the more sensual aspects of the dirty underworld.

Lol just trying to help a brother seeing as how your poetry thread is subjugated to the netherworld where its only chance of reemerging to the front is another member making a comment or you yourself bumping to the front.

OD??? Dude I'm talking about things im experiencing and that everyday punters on this forum can relate to, not things you see in movies or in the news. Your context is highly exaggerated unless your that Indian neurological surgeon who's wl's od in his apartment from cocaine... but then again he isn't an everyday punter on this forum.