"She chooses to keep working in this industry, the money's good, and she may genuinely like the power she has over men and all the benefits that come with someone at your beck and call. it really does our head in."

Great point

Some men feel GOOD about themselves if they have the attention of a few women, wine and dine them, all the while spending HIS money

However, attractive women feel GREAT about themselves, since they also can have the attention of several men, and SHE is wined and dined, and she has the money spent on HER - a much better type of fun

This second scenario is a much more addictive and nice situation to be in, and beautiful women will always have more fun with two timing !