To be perfectly honest, on rare occasions I would feel a little jealous about other guys getting to enjoy her body/company, but I knew what I was getting into in the beginning and I am a pretty open and relaxed about things, so it was no biggie. The thought that worried me that occasionally entered my head was that she was kissing &/or providing unprotected services on customers, however she always said she would never provide those services and I trusted her, so that was enough for me.
We always got tested at the same time as well, as according to her that's the done thing if you're in a relationship with someone who is a sex worker. We were both always clean.
It wasn't really that hard... I mean, I'm pretty open minded about things in general and I don't really believe in monogamy anyway. Like I think it's fucked up to shut yourself off to the idea of romantic love outside of a special one and it's fucked up to expect somebody else to do that for you, so it wasn't some big emotional thing that I had to deal with or anything like that.
There is always going to be minor feelings of jealousy if you're being completely honest with yourself, much like you would feel a little bit jealous if some friends went out and forgot to call you, but it's no massive thing and just fleeting thoughts.
Where did you get that bizarre idea? You're way off base with both my friendship with her (which is based more on shared ideas and interests) and the reasons she does what she does.
Women are capable of choosing sex work without being in desperate financial straits or because they want handbags. They don't have to be either damaged or nymphos. For the vast majority of these women, sex is a job, which pays relatively well and has a bunch of convenient aspects to it. Most can take or leave the sex, despite whatever fantasies we might have about whatever kegel exercises they're doing when we think they're having an orgasm!
Interesting read. I think.sex.would be great but I.wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy on my side.
Call me crazy but I see some ups for dating a WL/ML. I've done it and I've also tried to date people I meet through friends, and online dating.
There's a lot of BS to go through when you meet someone in person or online dating. You have to guess if they like you or not, you can't act too fast, or you can't act too slow. People on online dating will readily ignore you if they think they have found someone better. Not to mention, all the dates you go on can cost $$$ and lead to nothing.
With WL/ML, you get to pick from many and it's more upfront. Being in a room naked gives you privacy and makes you both more relaxed to have fun. Visit her a second time, get her number, and ask her out. She knows what you want, and you know what she wants. There's a lot less BS than the 'traditional' ways.
What do you want? What does she want? You've met for sex and money, but how do you know that's what you're actually after in the longer run?
That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??
I think if any brother who is interested in seeing a WL/ML outside, just keep it simple, treat the lady like any other girl, coffee, dinner, movie, karaoke or whatever, and if the date leads to your place or hers then congratulations !! along the way, you just gonna make sure that you actually enjoy the company and not just thinking about the sex later. easier said then done though, once either or both parties started to develope some feelings and emotions, it gets complicated !!
Good luck to all and enjoy it while it last
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Spot on xboyx. Different cultures have different expectations and responsibilities. I'll never forget the first time that I was in Singapore, and saw these massive long lines at a few places in town. Only later someone explained to me that this is where people queue to send money home to family.
And let's not forget the hugely different attitudes to working as a WL. Perhaps taboo in western culture, but less so in Asian cultures.
[QUOTE=AHLUNGOR;533147]That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??/QUOTE]
That doesn't sound right.
I want sex and a girlfriend experience outside of her work. She wants companionship, money or citizenship. From my experience anyway, that is what most WLs I see want.
This is very important. Do not look down on them because of their job. Outside of their work, they are just like any other girl, treat them with respect.
Yeh, I agree. Fuck what others think. Guys and girls are probably jealous of her attractiveness (I assume she is attractive).
But surely you would want to support her enough that she doesn't work.
I had a date with Therapist (TMC). We went to French Japanese restaurants in CBD.
when she finish work 1st day. I asked her to go to dinner. It was my first time with Date with WL. we stay there around 3 hours.
It was nice dinner. Therapist looks very elegant so I can't take her cheap restaurants. because of cheap restaurants use cheap oil and salt.
It' not good to take that place. I order Vintage champagne Moet Chandon Millesime Blanc 1999 for welcoming drink.
If i get girl on the street or somewhere in night club or bar. I will ask them to go to Kebab shop and feed them and fill up stomach and take them to go to my place.
My first date with therapist cost me $1500 for dinner. It's worth more than $1500
And I had my way with her just before you had dinner! Could you smell pirate on her?
I have dated a few unfortunately its always ended up in tears, Mine!