Tell me who's wrong here...

[Milhouse]

If you had been clear about the hotel, you may have scared her off, but equally at least then you know not to book the hotel

Some women just dont feel comfortable going to a hotel room
Women who are well brought up realise that you are treating them like a working lady

Dont get me wrong, you can invite a lady to a hotel, but she has to know you and be able to trust you

The first thing a woman wants to know is if you are married or not

If a woman doesnt know yoiu well, and they dont know where you live, and you invite them to a hotel room, it feels odd

I understand that, and if it was a girl I had never slept with, I probably would be very reluctant to suggest a hotel. But this girl is a girl I've slept with more than a few times, and she definitely wasn't "well brought up".

It seems she did agree "um, yea" to "stay in the city together"; what was she expecting, a park bench?

Exactly.

Also, remember girls frequently changed their minds, so need to secure a commitment, nor just a uumm yes answer.

This is what gives me the shit. Let's forget about the hotel for a minute. She agreed to come out that night, and then at 8PM CANCELS. And this is the second time she's done it. I understand sometimes people need to cancel, but at the last minute? There was no "sorry", just "can we meet up tmr?"

If you agree to something, then fucking stick to it.