Whatever u want to beleive mate, your paying for it regardless..................but if u make each other feel good its a good thing.................
I have seen numerous times that fellow punters here call themselves friends of this mamasan or that mamasan. I am just curious how they (the mamasans) view us (being a regular to any particular shop). Are we really their friends or just a walker boner on two legs (or wheels in my case).
At the end of the day I guess it doe not really matter but being a business owner myself, it is kind of tiring when some customers think that they are on a much more intimate relationship I have with them than reality. Like wise, this question also extends to the girls we all see. So is there really a connection with the regular girls or is it just a routine/scheduled session similar to what we have going with a hairdresser?
After spending a fairbit of time at some shops, I would like to think I am pretty "close" to the mamasans but am I really? Hahaha...
Whatever u want to beleive mate, your paying for it regardless..................but if u make each other feel good its a good thing.................
Purely business. Anything else is a lie.
Unless she is offering freebies, you are a customer.
Does free STDs count?
I have friends who are working ML, mostly chatting online, but occasionally catchup for lunch or dinner, sometimes I also visit them in shops but just part1 not part2.
If you are paying then they are not friends.
People in the service industry pretend to be your friend to get repeat business.
It really is as simple as that.
I'm not a religious man but, in God we trust & the rest pay cash!
your a customer first always, but there are exceptions to that rule.
do you talk outside?
do yous meet up outside?
Just remember, they only want your money.
We do talk, meet and eat outside.
No only that they sometimes accompany me to my physio appointments too. They never asked for money but buying them a meal before/after seems the way to go.
I kind of feel sorry for some of these MLs. The way that we punters being so fussy about how they look or service. I am just glad that they even entertain me, given that I am not very mobile.
I'm ashame of myself for being fussy at times hahaha...
The distinction is in "being friends" or "being friendly"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYaPZw5fUW0
"You wanna fuck twenty dollar. You wanna make friend.. cost more."
So this is a good scene from 'Men of War' that is relevant.
When you pay, you will always be a customer in the eyes of a WL. I will remember this for as long as I live. A Chinese WL told me once that if a guy pays to have sex with her and even if he takes her out to dinner many times and chats with her on the phone, she will always regard him as a customer.
This is so true on so many levels!
When I used to do private ESL work, no matter how friendly or casual you get with students, they will ALWAYS consider you 'sensei'.
Even when you fuck them! They will call you 'sensei'! I guess it's kind of a 'notch' on their belt...like it'd be for a student to fuck their professor.
No one ever says "I wish I would've fucked less" on their death bed...
customer. .
Well that's how I view it.
Great clip. Now I want to see the movie.
I like to believe that I am more than just a customer with some special ladies that I see.
They have shown me with their actions.
We all know that WLs do this work to make money. Yet I have had Ladies contribute to the cost of me extending our sessions. (I do not make a habit of this).
In the last 2 weeks I have had 2 different WLs pay for me to extend for an additional hour.
In both cases the Ladies involved wanted me to stay and they said that I had given them many things in the past.
It was a great gesture from both of them. Win / Win situation.
I do believe that in some special cases, you can be more than a customer. (I know !!).
I am not sure if this situation would continue if I could not afford to pay.
No Money, No Honey.