
Originally Posted by
Sextus
"When some poor schmuk writes a bad A/R or dares to criticise her attitude or behaviour he is rubbished mercilissly whilst the W/L is defended as JOAN OF ARC /MOTHER THERESA /FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE all wrapped up in one package. Hypocritical/double standards??? I THINK SO!!!!!!"
Numberonebigsize, you must be thinking of the recent fabulous Sammi threads and poor KickAss who complained he was later 'hung, drawn and quartered" after he posted a few negative remarks about his experience with Sammi (that weren't even very negative at all.)
But I think our defence of the ladies shows one of the best qualties we men have. Our chivalry. It is a positive quality, a little self-deluding perhaps, but not hypocritical, because our protective instincts towards beautiful members of the weaker sex is natural to us. It is a poetic quality we have. It makes us feel good, and it makes the ladies feel good too.
As for the rest of this debate, I am honestly more comfortable living my life in a state of trust and seeing and believing in the good of people.