Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.
A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.
Btw any tips to avoid spammers
I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.
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In my situation, yes, there is connection and attraction, my SB doesn't like males her own age, and her circle of friends are up to 20 yrs older than her.
If I just wanted random sex, I would go back to punting. This arrangement as I see it is better than marriage, we help each other out, we do care for each other, and we respect each other.
Where it will go or what it will lead to God only knows, at least at the moment we enjoy each other's company and are having fun.
I can assure you mine is not fictional.
Costly ??? Compared to the shit I put up.with in a marriage, this is heaven.
I guess I have been fortunate in business, worked bloody hard to make it happen and now am enjoying it. Sold my business to a bigger player in the industry I was in for a substantial sum.
Scammers, one tip, never pay them for anything online like pics etc, or as a deposit for a lunch date or coffee. If they are not prepared to have an initial coffee and chat with you without asking for payment, walk away. Thats not how it works, any potential SB that asks for money upfront is to be avoided.
If you have to "hide" your SB from anyone, you are in it for the wrong reasons and should stick to punting
Thanks for your candour. Great to see nice things coming to your way.
I believe the girl would stay with you for a long time because many girls go for an elder man because not only he is established and emotionally mature, he is also caring, generous and gentle. I think you have all these qualities for her to be with you.
Being sugar daddy is for rich people, if I have money to splurge then I will probably have a expensive hobby such as fucking different escorts everyday instead of having one or 2 girls for long period, these girls most of the time are fucking someone else on the side without your knowledge so why go through fake BF/GF relationship when you can spend that money on beautiful WL's. Girls looking for sugar daddy will never be loyal, they are in it for money, who ever shows them more mula, they will open their legs for them. I think lot of punters here are very naive, more girls cheat in a relationship then boys do. I had too many female friends and all of them were cheating and none of their husbands nor BF knew, pussies have more power, we guys just underestimate what normal girls do in their free time. Every single girl will have backup guy, I know this since few girls have asked me this already and I am their backup guy.
Sounds like you have 3 problems:-
1/ Jealousy (I worked bloody hard to get to where I am)
2/ Trust (My girl and I are exclusive to each other, the fact she lived with me during lockdown, and we spend more time together than apart confirms that. Maybe you need to learn trust rather than listening to a few random WL's
3/ Understanding (if you understand what a Sugar Baby is, you would know it is not a fake BF/GF relationship, it is FWB (Friends with Benefits).
The purpose of having a regular SB is a bit of stability and familiarity, rather than going hunting all the time. And I get my morning wood looked after on a regular basis.
That is just crazy!
I will be homeless in 6 months if I started paying $1600 per week.
Clearly, this is for executives and businessmen who are rich.
Not saying you are doing anything wrong.
Just saying personally I can't afford it.
I have been on SeekingArrangement before.
Hot ones will always demand higher money.
Even if they ask $400 per week. That's a steady loss of $400 per week.
With punting, there is no arrangement. I control when I go and spend the money.
Once I left the scene for 3 months. There was nobody to tempt me with her come hither look or memories of past copulation with a hot teen.
Everybody's giving their opinion.
Let me give mine.
Do whatever floats your boat.
There is no one right answer to this.
If someone can afford it, go for the arrangement and bang as many hotties as you want.
Anything that helps to get over you mid-life crisis (impending or otherwise).
If you are happy with your partner, be with her.
If you like to hookup at a bar (with no money changing hands), go for that.
Good morning gentlemen - thank you to whoever started this thread. I’m new to au99 but not new to Sugar Dating as I’ve been using SA and SDM for the past four years. I’ll try to add some value here for those who are curious or just starting out.
I never pay more than $400 for a meet. Meets generally last 2-4 hours, depending on whether I’m having a good time.
In saying that, I’m 40, look mid 30’s, keep myself fit, work in a professional environment, put up photos that reflect an upmarket experience, etc
I paid $500 a couple of times in the beginning when I had no idea what I was doing, but have since had $400 as my cut-off. I aim to move this down to $300 over time.
I pick the ones that seem like normal girls just on SA / SDM for a bit of fun, not pros, who have their own careers or are uni students with lower expectations. So money is not the deciding factor. A good time and the possibility of great sex with a decent sounding older guy is what they can expect - then the money is a bonus. It’s like a tinder date, without wasting their time with a possible psycho.
A number of girls say no thanks. Then 2-3 weeks later they are back and interested when they realize its a good offer, and if they play their part, there could be multiple dates.