out of the 5000 or so gods that humans invented, which one follows you around? just so i know who to steer clear of.Originally Posted by Sibon
My biggest challenge is my own head. I have so many opportunities to go and play but then I think of all the other things I can spend the money on - her, kids, my other hobbies, saving etc...I really put myself into a mind fuck and yet I so badly want to. I guess I'm a little older and wiser now than 30 yrs ago but still horny as ever. Heck I log into this forum every morning when I wake up and also check out the rosters for my favourite shops.
I can relate to this dilemma. Recently been browsing thru all the SB profile on seeking/SB and opportunity cost considerations come to mind amongst other things.
The shaft god … most powerful of all gods … often shafts you multiple times before moving on to the next victim; you can’t steer clear of the shaft god, you just need to accept his/her shaftings with great humility
Taking out cash bits at a time no so there's not a big $100 withdrawal that I can't explain away. I'm also in the habits now of showering at night so sometimes after a punt (I'm RnT only btw) I'll jump straight into the shower after work. I'm lucky to work mobile so I'm driving around Sydney a lot, let's me sample places all over the city and half an hour of radio silence is pretty easily explainable. I don't punt often though so my biggest dilemma is making sure I pick a good parlour and don't feel like I wasted my cash!
I can go for a few months of holding the line but eventually my mind find some justifiable reason to step into a shop. I was 'clean' for a few months then had a really great month at work in March. Everyone got their bonus. So I decided to reward myself with a massage visit. I'm up to three rewards so far.
you mean repent and then do again ?
luckily the god of shaft hasnt struck me down yet
I’ve been punting and mongering for a long time and haven’t been caught yet. There are a few rules to follow:
1. Don’t punt in your home suburb. That’s the equivalent of shitting in your own nest. Your neighbours will see you coming out of a rub and tug and the game is over
2. Have a secret bank account where you can withdraw cash from. I have a business, so I can transfer between accounts easily
3. Always pay in cash. Never, ever pay by credit card
4. Never tell a ML/WL your real name or address
5. Keep changing shops frequently so you can spread your risk
6. Don’t fall in love with an ML/WL as nothing good has ever come of it. There are thousands upon thousands of cases of misery and may be five cases where it’s worked out
7. Don’t chat or text ML/WL in your spare time. See point 6
8. Don’t ever tell anyone about your mongering habits, ever. That includes your colleagues, best mates or relatives. Just act dumb
9. As unpalatable as it may seem, fuck the missus once every few months so that she doesn’t suspect anything
10. Park your car a block away from the massage parlour and leg the last 500m
11. Use the back entrance to the shop if possible
12. Don’t ever meet or socialize with other mongers on these forums - they can be your worst enemy
13. Avoid the temptation to get involved in ML/WL affairs. I know many mongers like to help out with visas, rental applications, loans, English lessons etc all in the hope of getting some free girl friend action. It’s not worth the hassle. Just pay for the service and go home. See point 6
Solid advice Fred. All comes down to self discipline.
14. Don't bring your usual phone with you when you punt. Missus can track you through the Find My app. Have a separate punting phone.
Nevertheless, if you get married you give your word that you will be faithful. If you’re not, and you break your word, don’t be surprised that it doesn’t work out.
Yes, that is correct. Everyone starts out with good intentions for their marriage. Unfortunately, in the West, 50 % of marriages end in divorce and another 20% continue to live in misery without divorcing. Only about 30% of couples are happy. With those sorts of statistics, be thankful we have easy access to so many girls who help us out.
I also think serial mongers like us are wired a bit differently. Even if the situation at home was fantastic, I’d still definitely be using hookers.
Yes, the value of the sex industry and the number of sex workers would indicate that (for men, at least) monogamy is not the rule, indeed, quite the opposite.
I'm happily married at the moment, love my wife...but like most marriages we went through our rough patches especially around 5 years ago. Its hard to go months on end without sex and that's when I started punting again. Me and the Mrs have sex on average once a week now but I can't give up the punting. Wanking to porn is no longer an option for me, don't enjoy it. But I enjoy that once a week punt.
^ This.50 % of marriages end in divorce and another 20% continue to live in misery without divorcing. Only about 30% of couples are happy.
I have met plenty of people in their 60s who travel to Thailand and are "divorced, with kids; wife has the house but hey life's still good right?".
I am choosing to skip to the end game from the start. No wife. No kids. Live like a 14th century Sultan.
I don't know how long that will last for. Maybe I'll want a dog and kids some day.
Never heard anyone term it as being a Monger hahah love it. Wish I could change mange my user name.
What excuse have punters here used to be away from the missus so you can punt? Coz time is a strong factor in this game.
Short for whoremonger, mate.
When I was getting my vasectomy done, I overheard that the guy who went in after me was only a late 20s guy, never had kids, who said that his reason for getting the snip was to “help reduce over population”. They were all talking about it at the clinic.
In my mind, I was thinking this must be a hardcore punter who also loves BBFS!
Anyway, I brought this up because I thought you might want to consider that spur of the moment life decisions sometimes may not be the best. Times change, your perception of what you need changes too.
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