Quote Originally Posted by 4FoW2 View Post
If you are willing to share would be interested to know your perspectives re marrying a ThaiML/Wg. How did you meet? What were your reasons for marrying? How long did it last? Why did it end?
If this is too personal, its ok to pass.

Re Language barrier - I have a Asian partner of 15 years. Although she is not university educated like me ( and don't worry going to Uni doesn't equate to intelligence), she still can carry an intellectual conversation to some degree. I am constantly impressed with her command of the English language and often will hear her use a word and I say OMG how did you know that word. I tolerate fools and dumb people badly.
Me for one, if I can't connect on an intellectual level the rest don't matter..thats why I have never been out with a Doreen, Doris or Delorus.
4FoW2
No worries:
I was one of her customers. We hit it off fairly early. I asked if she had a BF. She said no - not long split up. I asked if she wanted a BF - she said yes. And off we went. She needed a visa and her bridging visa was about to be canceled. We had been dating for a few months by then and marriage was an easier route to PR. And we wanted to be together so it seemed OK at the time. It lasted 11 months. I found out she was still doing FS which I had suspected for a while and she swore she was not. She had promised to stop FS when we married. She was also doing BBBJ which concerned me in relation to STI's. In addition, sex with her was awful - no foreplay, no kissing and no touching her. She would grab my cock, rub it, get lube and then jump on. I asked her about being more affectionate and she did not repsond. So that was it.