Here goes...
I've had an old username that was banned a long, long time now. Apparently someone is sooooo obsessed with my history that she remembers almost everything up until today. I totally forgot that username until she started bringing it back up. You won't be able to search my old posts under that name as the ban came with total erasure of its existence.
What else would you like to know?
When a moderator bans a user they also have the option of deleting all their posts. At one point I was also subjected to an IP ban. Didn't stop me from accessing the site as I was working for a networking company long time ago so I know quite a fair bit of IT and networking stuff to bypass this forum's lack of infrastructure.
I know quite a fair bit of this forum's workings. Tbh it looks like child's play with the tactics used to get SEO to draw in advertisers.
A lot of actual punters who first started populating this forum had already left. I used to get a lot of PMs from real people few years back that can actually hold proper conversations rather than behave in a rather toxic way, unfortunately those real punters also have been banned and stopped visiting this forum to join other forums with less toxicity.
Must be in the pronunciation: you say "toxic", I say "contrary". But then, I don't feel obligated to join the circle, hold hands, and sing Kumbaya... Free forum, opposing views welcome.
And if you think this forum is toxic, you have obviously lived a sheltered on-line life.
Fact of life, punters do "age out" or "move on", not necessarily because they couldn't stand the heat.
If members could hold proper conversations rather than toxic, then why were they banned? Seems a contradiction in terms: proper and banned. From what I've seen, you only get banned if you're not proper.
Still, you made me smile by talking about "real people PMing you years ago..."
https://despair.com/collections/demo...oducts/give-up
I guess your definition of "heat" IS the definition of toxic LOL
Well, real because they weren't talking about WLs as if they're sex toys. Real because they also talked about real life stuff, about brothel prices and quality based on honest advertisement. Everyone was basically trying to avoid being ripped off by shops. Tbh most of the real punters don't post ARs because they just don't like talking about what they did in the bedroom - many are scared of being judged. They just lurk the forum and create accounts to use the PM functions.
Many of them who couldn't stand your "heat" all migrated to other forums where the moderators are a little more proactive in filtering toxic posts.
Maybe, maybe not. In her blog she wrote about having her cash stash stolen in her shared accommodation of roughly $10K that sort of drove her mad but coincidentally it happened closely right after I made sure she received the "cease and desist" warning letter by posting it as a comment on her blog back then.
I can't "make" people crazy. It has to be an internal trigger like trauma. I was basically responding to her accusations and doxxing as part of my own trauma response as well. Before that "cease and desist" notification I practically left her alone to write whatever BS she wanted about me. I believe it's karma doing its thing. I'm not in control of karma, neither are the gods or Buddha.
Once upon a time this forum was also severely censored you know. Posts go missing and people get banned with no reason given nor given a choice to appeal the ban. These people only rely on one email and can't be bothered creating a "burner" email to create a new account, and that's why they give up on this forum and migrated. I saw a couple complaints about AUS99 on TNT back when I maintained my account there.
i will be seeing my regular thursday or friday so im looking forward to that