Honestly bro, not wanting to sound like dick, but I think it’s a suck it up scenario. Some girls only accept bookings from regulars due to getting burned by first timer no shows repeatedly.
First come first serve unfortunately. I’ve even had some scenarios both here and elsewhere where I arrive first, followed by another bloke, my intros start first followed by his, and because the mamasan went to his section first to ask for his choice I missed out and didn’t get my first pick, despite rocking him before him. Just gotta roll with the punches sometimes.
Would def give Vincent’s approach a go though, couldn’t hurt to ask haha