The answer should be so obvious I don t even think it s necessary to say it lol
Not too long ago, I visited a place and saw a Chinese girl. From the beginning, I thought she was a money waster. Didn't want to do this, didn't want to do that. Covered her breasts as we laid on the bed. Acted like she didn't want to have sex at all.
When we finished, we started talking, and she said she wanted to go eat afterwards. I thought she was just flirting so I played along, but turns out she was serious. So I waited a bit for her to finish work and we went out to eat. I met her a few days later for dinner, and she asked me to be her boyfriend, and also that she wanted to marry to get a visa (gotta give her credit for honesty!). She also said she wasn't up for sex before marriage!!! We hadn't even held hands yet.
Problem is, I'm not really attracted to her. I picked her because I wanted a punt, and I went out with her because I was feeling lonely. We're supposed to go out later this week, but I'm not too sure about it. If I go, am I just wasting both our time, or should I see it as just "fooling around"? If I don't go, I can probably save some money (dinner for two is fucking expensive these days) and focus on other things. If I don't want to marry her, am I being cruel by going out with her? If I go out with her, am I being a fool for taking one step down towards the marriage/visa path?
The answer should be so obvious I don t even think it s necessary to say it lol
So she's a hooker but not up for sex before marriage.......hmmmm the irony. And she wants a visa. Mate sounds like a scam. Even if it wasn't a scam you said your not attracted to her so clearly u know the answer.
dont play with fire incase you want to get burnt
That s why i didn t bother answering in my post.
He already knows the answer to his own question lol
There could be another side of the story, the WL may be planning to pay you for her visa!! It's nothing wrong separating business from pleasure !!
Say if she is to pay you $20,000 for a fake marriage to help her get her visa. Free sex along the way may or may not be part of the deal!!
I have known ml who had a financial deal with a guy, they live together , share the living cost, she pays him by instalments and no sex. But he couldnt keep his dick inside his pants, he fucks her, she moves into his bedroom and stopped paying !!
True story
Cheers
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I agree with some of the above - treat it completely as a business transaction and make sex a currency.
Unnecessary trouble
No point going ahead as you don't even like her
This is surely a joke. Also I've always said yeah might be tempting to go for the money but remember for the time that she will be with you, it'll make it awkward if you bring lady friends home etc
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Quote from Goldman Sachs.
"If you want to die rich, abide by the 3 F's.
If it flies, floats or fucks, rent it, don't buy it."
That is gold!
I'm surprised I hadn't heard it before - I reckon I've done pretty well abiding by them so far as well!
faking a marriage for a visa isn't easy. you will visited regularly by an official to continually assess the legitimacy of your marriage (think that Ashton and Cameron Vegas movie) over several years. also if there's evidence of you being unfaithful, it won't help the situation