Seeking Arrangement Experiences?

[Aussieguyinsf]

So was horny today and agreed to meet a Korean Australian girl off SA. Have done it before and experiences have been mixed. She booked hotel so no traces back to me. Met her outside the hotel - she was so innocent and cute. Agreed on $600 and had two hours of blissful lovemaking and naked conversation with ithis beautiful girl. Think it’s going to be dangerous for my bank balance. She was 26, slim and hot. Anyone else have SA experiences they can share?

[personaa]

Most are WLs....young ones (Caucasians) from Sydney are not looking for anything less than 800-1000 bucks. I don't find it really value frankly speaking . But I think in regional areas you might get some real gems at good rates

[rooter]

Just sounds like good old fashioned prostitution to me.
And a 26yo young lady who advertises online and meets a total stranger in a hotel room and charges him $600 to fuck her is far from "innocent" :)

[smallasian]

So was horny today and agreed to meet a Korean Australian girl off SA. Have done it before and experiences have been mixed. She booked hotel so no traces back to me. Met her outside the hotel - she was so innocent and cute. Agreed on $600 and had two hours of blissful lovemaking and naked conversation with ithis beautiful girl. Think it’s going to be dangerous for my bank balance. She was 26, slim and hot. Anyone else have SA experiences they can share?

If you don't mind me asking, did you have to pay for the hotel? Or was that part of the $600?

[surething91]

So was horny today and agreed to meet a Korean Australian girl off SA. Have done it before and experiences have been mixed. She booked hotel so no traces back to me. Met her outside the hotel - she was so innocent and cute. Agreed on $600 and had two hours of blissful lovemaking and naked conversation with ithis beautiful girl. Think it’s going to be dangerous for my bank balance. She was 26, slim and hot. Anyone else have SA experiences they can share?

This looks interesting! Although I think it's just an escort changing her buisness model?

[rooter]

This looks interesting! Although I think it's just an escort changing her buisness model?

That's exactly what it is bro.
Its a professional WL using several different business models to earn money.
Good luck to her.
Punting is a fantasy. You cloak your brain the moment you hand over your money.
If you want to believe that she is a shy young virgin just doing this on the side, or you are the only guy she is seeing, or you are her special guy, and that turns you on and gets you over the line well that's great. Enjoy!

[B J Hunter]

So was horny today and agreed to meet a Korean Australian girl off SA. Have done it before and experiences have been mixed. She booked hotel so no traces back to me. Met her outside the hotel - she was so innocent and cute. Agreed on $600 and had two hours of blissful lovemaking and naked conversation with ithis beautiful girl. Think it’s going to be dangerous for my bank balance. She was 26, slim and hot. Anyone else have SA experiences they can share?
What did you do in your own for the other 22 hours in the hotel room?

[letsgo]

saw a chick from uni that was in a few of my lectures a couple years before, always wanted to bang her in my dreams because she was total babe tall, blonde ripping surfers body.
you can browse for free but need pay to message, so i subscribed for a month and messaged her and agreed to meet up for $600 she gave the rate so she definitely knew what she was doing however she didn't know what i meant when i asked if she could "host" at her place.
her only rule was no anal but anything goes was meant to be for 2hours but ended up being overnight was amazing.
cost way too much and it was off my bucketlist so that was it.

[tawer5ag]

saw a chick from uni that was in a few of my lectures a couple years before, always wanted to bang her in my dreams because she was total babe tall, blonde ripping surfers body.
you can browse for free but need pay to message, so i subscribed for a month and messaged her and agreed to meet up for $600 she gave the rate so she definitely knew what she was doing however she didn't know what i meant when i asked if she could "host" at her place.
her only rule was no anal but anything goes was meant to be for 2hours but ended up being overnight was amazing.
cost way too much and it was off my bucketlist so that was it.

Damn, definitely nice and lucky experience. Someone you kinda knew and wanted to bang.

Did she recognize you?

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[letsgo]

Damn, definitely nice and lucky experience. Someone you kinda knew and wanted to bang.

Did she recognize you?

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Nah she didn't I didn't even know her name to be honest - but when I saw her photos on SA i knew it was her she was definitely the hottest chick in my uni course so she always stuck in head.

[Aussieguyinsf]

She paid for hotel - included in the $600. I really don’t believe she’s pro but of course she has done before. Had a great conversation, came twice with lots of cuddling in between. Daty too - so good and sweet. All in all not bad imho

[smallasian]

She paid for hotel - included in the $600. I really don’t believe she’s pro but of course she has done before. Had a great conversation, came twice with lots of cuddling in between. Daty too - so good and sweet. All in all not bad imho

That's a pretty good deal then for an australian-korean!

[Aussieguyinsf]

Thank you small Asian. She even sent me a restaurant recommendation today by text. Lots of eye contact and a great slow BJ. Her pussy was nice and tight as it took in my 50 year old thick white dick.

[Xorro]

My experience with the girl I met on Seeking Arrangement was pretty lousy.

Here’s how it went for a ‘Meet & Greet’:
Dinner at restaurant - around 100$ which was fine by me.
Rather unexpectedly at the end of the ‘date’ if one can call it that, the girl asked for 200$ to cover her transport costs back and forth.
I didn’t follow up with the girl thereafter.

All up, 300$ spent rather pointlessly except perhaps for the lesson learnt - lay down the ground rules in terms of payment and intimacy before meeting so both parties are on the exact same page in terms of expectations.

Haven’t been on SA since.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Xoro, I feel your pain. Last month I met with a hot white inner city chick at a cafe. She invited me back to her place - excellent fuck but was ready for me to leave after one round. $500 damage and I came too quick

[personaa]

I had two meet ups with SA...one was with an American girl at Croydon ( her shared house) damage was 250 for the hour , after 1 years I realised she is the same Ameriy Lili who moved to Strathfield and later in Bondi Junction doing privates. The other one was a Canadian girl from BC , almost a BBW . Nothing really spectacular. The experience with Lili was better but later I realised she was a pro!! Lesson learnt to stick with my FS joints!

[personaa]

Btw if someone wants to try then dugsrdaddy meet seems to be a much better deal. SA membership for 1 month is 99 USD , around 140 AUD but the other one is 50 something for 1 month and most of their talent are the same.

[Minathy8724]

The numbers being thrown around this thread is ridiculious and it appears we have a few wealthy punters amongst us. If these WL is able to market themselves to lure these punters, good on them. It just makes top establishments great value. I'll stick to the tried and tested rather than the hit and miss.

[personaa]

Yes anything above 300-400 is quite a lot particularly when you realise the girl is actually a pro working either as private or in a shop.

[paulgallen]

Are there non WL on that site ? Can you ask if they are WL or not ? I thought the idea of SA was for non WL to make a side hustle, no ??

[GoldfishMan]

I don't understand what all the fuss is. There are blokes who try to get WLs to see them in private, that's ok and a "win" if you get it. Now you see a girl privately and then find out she's a WL, all of a sudden it's bad?

[Dettol]

I don't understand what all the fuss is. There are blokes who try to get WLs to see them in private, that's ok and a "win" if you get it. Now you see a girl privately and then find out she's a WL, all of a sudden it's bad?

If I see a WL at her apartment and pay the same rate as I pay at her shop (even for free on occasions, or if I visited late she would ask to me to spend the night at her place ), I would imagine many people considered it to be a lot better than the opposite ie. paying a WL a higher rate at private settings then finding out that she is available for lower rate at shops.

[GoldfishMan]

If I see a WL at her apartment and pay the same rate as I pay at her shop (even for free on occasions, or if I visited late she would ask to me to spend the night at her place ), I would imagine many people considered it to be a lot better than the opposite ie. paying a WL a higher rate at private settings then finding out that she is available for lower rate at shops.
That's the thing, dude. The OP had 2 hours in a hotel room, private setting, and it only cost him $600. Even the hotel room cost was included. That's a fricking bargain mate.
Then another guy had an American girl for $250 an hour. Wtf, that's actually cheaper than at the shops. We're talking about western shop rates here.
So, what the F are you guys complaining about?

[yug]

Are there non WL on that site ? Can you ask if they are WL or not ? I thought the idea of SA was for non WL to make a side hustle, no ??

Being naive is one thing but what the f you talking about.
In what world asking a girl you have just met on the net whether or not she is a WL is appropriate!

The site is called Seeking Arrangement and not "We are a brothel on the net; everybody here is a hooker" site.

Unless people are too much into this sh*t and have jaded reality, the very first impression of any girl in the outside world should be "They are not a WL". That's the general rule of thumb.

[personaa]

That's the thing, dude. The OP had 2 hours in a hotel room, private setting, and it only cost him $600. Even the hotel room cost was included. That's a fricking bargain mate.
Then another guy had an American girl for $250 an hour. Wtf, that's actually cheaper than at the shops. We're talking about western shop rates here.
So, what the F are you guys complaining about?

Yes but she is charging the same amount on her Locanto advert, so it was nothing special.

You may find genuine girls there , for sure. But my two meet ups were just okay and one turned out to be a pro.

Some young ones won't settle for less than 800-1000. Not value IMHO

Yes many guys would like to spend time with a WL in her place , but with SA you are kinda looking for a different type ( not a WL) so once you realise that in reality the same girl is doing privates it kinda kills the moment .

[happy1234]

So was horny today and agreed to meet a Korean Australian girl off SA. Have done it before and experiences have been mixed. She booked hotel so no traces back to me. Met her outside the hotel - she was so innocent and cute. Agreed on $600 and had two hours of blissful lovemaking and naked conversation with ithis beautiful girl. Think it’s going to be dangerous for my bank balance. She was 26, slim and hot. Anyone else have SA experiences they can share?

Any chance you could let me know if her details ? Sound like a dream!

[Aussieguyinsf]

DM me Or hit me up on kik with the same handle as here

[Aussieguyinsf]

I gave her details to a few guys that messaged me. Have any of you been successful at organizing a meet?

[cuteguy]

Just sounds like good old fashioned prostitution to me.
And a 26yo young lady who advertises online and meets a total stranger in a hotel room and charges him $600 to fuck her is far from "innocent" :)

Totally agree! People are trying to change the name of this job occupation that provides sex in return for money. It's about removing the stigma that is associated with working in the oldest profession. In the old days, they were called prostitutes and hookers then it got changed to escorts and working girls. Now they want to make it appear that they are not prostitutes but seeking arrangements with guys in order to do them a favour but it's still relates to a sexual service that is being provided in return for cash. In any event, if a girl has sex with a stranger for money then she's not innocent. Simple!

[Rickyon]

Maybe it's because I'm Asian and under 30, but I've never paid more than 600 for dinner/overnight stay at a hotel. SA for me is high risk, high reward because you don't know of they're crazy or a dud in bed. I've always been more successful when I talked and got to know the girl first before discussing any term of arrangement. I used it extensively when I'm travelling so I had someone before I landed.

Some girls I've met in Sydney over the years

- A certain popular 23 year old Filipina ML who gave me everything
- A 19 year old Eurasian trying to make it as a cosplayer/make up artist
- A early 20s Australian born Korean med student


Picking the girls wisely based on their profile and investing a little time in getting to know someone and the reward comes back tenfold.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Confirmed, the young Korean girl is seeing guys again on seeking.com She is young and fresh. Two hours and multi shots for around $600 - hotel included. She is on and off the site when she needs money. Innocent surfer chick.

[Shoryureppa]

Posting on seeking offering to get fucked for $600 is "innocent" ?

That price is too high for me unless they are a certified pro I guess. To each their own, enjoy.

[rooter]

Is there the opposite of Seeking Arrangement?
Young very rich, very attractive girl, very horny girl ... looking for a poor old man with a ugly face, small dick, shit body.
Come on it's gotta be out here somewhere ... :)
Give me hope and a reason to iive ... :)

[AHLUNGOR]

Is there the opposite of Seeking Arrangement?
Young very rich, very attractive girl, very horny girl ... looking for a poor old man with a ugly face, small dick, shit body.
Come on it's gotta be out here somewhere ... :)
Give me hope and a reason to iive ... :)

Mate, I’m sure there are Young very rich, very attractive girl, very horny girl ... looking for man out there !

But not necessarily looking for poor old man with a ugly face, small dick, shit body ?

[Kwinko]

Maybe it's because I'm Asian and under 30, but I've never paid more than 600 for dinner/overnight stay at a hotel. SA for me is high risk, high reward because you don't know of they're crazy or a dud in bed. I've always been more successful when I talked and got to know the girl first before discussing any term of arrangement. I used it extensively when I'm travelling so I had someone before I landed.

Some girls I've met in Sydney over the years

- A certain popular 23 year old Filipina ML who gave me everything
- A 19 year old Eurasian trying to make it as a cosplayer/make up artist
- A early 20s Australian born Korean med student


Picking the girls wisely based on their profile and investing a little time in getting to know someone and the reward comes back tenfold.

Age is with you bit i agree but i thought being an Asian guy would be not as an appealing thing?

[Rickyon]

Age is with you bit i agree but i thought being an Asian guy would be not as an appealing thing?

Nah, most asians usually date other asians. Maybe we just notice it more when they don't. But apart from that money speaks louder than looks. Many of the girls really just want friends with financial benefits haha.

[Jtee80]

Lucked out meeting Asian lady on another online dating site that’s not a sugar dating site. She has been popular on seeking arrangements the last couple years. I’m now dating her and considering casual relationship with her, we are both unsure at the moment. Love the sex and connection at the moment. Funny that she has stacks of cash at her place, must have been fucked lots on seeking arrangements lol

[cuteguy]

Lucked out meeting Asian lady on another online dating site that’s not a sugar dating site. She has been popular on seeking arrangements the last couple years. I’m now dating her and considering casual relationship with her, we are both unsure at the moment. Love the sex and connection at the moment. Funny that she has stacks of cash at her place, must have been fucked lots on seeking arrangements lol

It sounds like your girl has had many guys like you handing over loads of cash for her time and all tax free. If she is not using it on drugs and not depositing into a bank account then she will be doing well.

Many Asian girls still want to be with Asian guys. This may explain why they don't want to see customers of their nationality. For example, Korean girls may not want to service Korean guys to prevent anyone in the Korean community knowing about her work. That being the case, it wouldn't stop her going out with Korean guys.

[Rogeryou]

I did a CIP earlier today with a very early 20s I think she was a Viet struggled to get my cock in mish. Turned her over doggy style put some spit on my cock, she gasped when I pushed in all the way. All she could say was omg that is so big continuously Hahahha. What a Fucken turn on.
Absolutely punish her box, her pussy was dripping with cream and she had a huge smile on her face. My cock needs a 2 day rest it’s Fucken throbbing from smashing her cervix. We never agreed to any money so I gave her $100 and told her I could fuck her harder tomorrow night.

[Rogeryou]

Some of the girls on the site are WLs but you can pick those they communicate like a hooker with hourly rates and services.
I think most of the girls just need cash, most undervalue what they are offering with generous or no time limits that is where the value comes in.
Some have been doing it a while and don’t want to admit they are now working ladies and transitioning towards being a hooker.
Plenty of scammers but all the ones I met so far have jobs. I have found it to be pretty good. Although I have been kicked off the site for some weeks for being too forward in approach. I am working through my list of contacts

[yug]

Some of the girls on the site are WLs but you can pick those they communicate like a hooker with hourly rates and services.
I think most of the girls just need cash, most undervalue what they are offering with generous or no time limits that is where the value comes in.
Some have been doing it a while and don’t want to admit they are now working ladies and transitioning towards being a hooker.
Plenty of scammers but all the ones I met so far have jobs. I have found it to be pretty good. Although I have been kicked off the site for some weeks for being too forward in approach. I am working through my list of contacts

Kicked out of SA? how you manage to do that?
I guess the girls who you contacted would have reported you for you to be sidelined.

[Rogeryou]

Kicked out of SA? how you manage to do that?
I guess the girls who you contacted would have reported you for you to be sidelined.

I was asking straight out how much hahahahah anyway the site said I have a life ban and they could report me for solicitation so I told them to suck me left one

[heianth]

Had my first sugar meet up last night. Surfer girl from Bondi. Slim and great tits. Had drinks at the local pub and then back to mine. Fucked her twice and in the shower. She was quiet at first and then so loud the neighbours will have the shits with me today. Lots of hot chicks on that site. Lots of stuck up ones and scammers too.

Well done mate glad you had a good experience.

Do you mind sharing how you two arranged the meet and PPM amount? Since SA doesn't want you to discuss PPM in their messages.

[Johnisfun1969]

Well done mate glad you had a good experience.

Do you mind sharing how you two arranged the meet and PPM amount? Since SA doesn't want you to discuss PPM in their messages.

Yes after the warning on the threads I have been careful. But some girls don’t care as they have free account and can start again with a new user name. But I think as long as you are discreet and do not talk about sex in the thread you should be allright. Afterall the sugar babes are expected to discuss financials.

However BennyB always asks the girls to meet for drinks. He is able to get them to accept a lower amount as they have already spent time coming to meet you. I always ask them to move to kik or get their mobile number.

[Johnisfun1969]

Any chance you could let me know if her details ? Sound like a dream!

Hi mate if you feel generous please share the Korean girls profile name with us. I am having no luck with Asian girls. Would love to meet someone genuine. If she is Australian at least can have a good chat. Most I come across are overseas.

[gkpuntin]

Has anyone tried any of the doubles that advertise on SA? Any intel?

[BennyB]

Btw if someone wants to try then dugsrdaddy meet seems to be a much better deal. SA membership for 1 month is 99 USD , around 140 AUD but the other one is 50 something for 1 month and most of their talent are the same.

Smaller pool than SA and a lot of time wasters. Lower hit rate for sure.

[BennyB]

Being naive is one thing but what the f you talking about.
In what world asking a girl you have just met on the net whether or not she is a WL is appropriate!

The site is called Seeking Arrangement and not "We are a brothel on the net; everybody here is a hooker" site.

Unless people are too much into this sh*t and have jaded reality, the very first impression of any girl in the outside world should be "They are not a WL". That's the general rule of thumb.

That’s exactly right. But it’s a particular audience on this site, looking for particular experiences.

Seeking is a better option for guys looking for something beyond the WL / ML quick hit.

[BennyB]

Has anyone tried any of the doubles that advertise on SA? Any intel?

It’s an excellent way to lose a shitload of money quickly. I’ve never seen one of these come off. I would avoid if I was you.

[Funandfun]

Cheers mate.
How much you spent in total for this Frank?
Thanks

[gkpuntin]

It’s an excellent way to lose a shitload of money quickly. I’ve never seen one of these come off. I would avoid if I was you.

lol fair call Benny - cheers mate.

[BennyB]

lol fair call Benny - cheers mate.

I only see this work where you have a good thing going with a girl who is bi and she introduces a friend.

The girls who are on Seeking offering doubles are all talk and no action. I've read about so many scams this way. TNT has a good database of the scammers.

[gkpuntin]

I only see this work where you have a good thing going with a girl who is bi and she introduces a friend.

The girls who are on Seeking offering doubles are all talk and no action. I've read about so many scams this way. TNT has a good database of the scammers.

Yea it does seem too good to true but there is always that glimer of hope haha

Have you tried / had any luck on introducing friends of SB's into the mix?

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[Johnisfun1969]

I only see this work where you have a good thing going with a girl who is bi and she introduces a friend.

The girls who are on Seeking offering doubles are all talk and no action. I've read about so many scams this way. TNT has a good database of the scammers.

I have been chatting to a girl in Brisbane. When we moved to kik she tells me there are two of them. The want 500 each to come and spend 2-3 hours. I was very excited but after chatting to the one who had the SA account I kind of like this girl and would rather meet her one on one instead of double. I hav enever been with two but not sure now as I prefer intimacy rather than fuck fest.

I will give feedback if I meet them.

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[Shiba]

I’m not good at writing reviews but here I go. Had my first meet last Friday. I can say that’s it’s completely different compared to going to brothels. We meet up in the hotel room the afternoon I was quite nervous at this stage as I’ve never done this sort of things before. But at the same time I was excited at meeting this South American girl. Once in the room she also told me that she was nervous and only meet one other time for dinner and nothing else. Seems genuine but who bloody knows.

Anyway we started chatting about what she does for work and what are her hobbies. Told me she was studying to become a psychologist and working as a nanny at the same time She ask me what I do and if I have a partner/married which I replied yes to the latter. She even mentioned that we should organize to meet up early to get away from the misses. Lol. So she seems keen to meet this old man.

At this stage I was feeling hungry too so I ask her if she wanted to have lunch in the room which she replied sure if you want too. Damn.. I was thinking is this how all meet ups end up. It was so relaxing without the rush that you get in brothels.

After we had our lunch that’s when the play time started. I won’t go to too much details but damn… that body of hers is hot. Just think of those South American body curvy and a nice ass type.

We probably spend about 3.5 hrs together and not once she mentioned about money to me. She said that it’s up to me how much I want to give her and would never ask for more of gifts at all. So I paid her $700 that’s with me paying for her Uber ride as well,even thought she didn’t want to take it.
She mentioned that 2 weeks ago prior to our meet up btw.

All in all it was nice to see a lady that you can converse/click with. She was just down to earth/understanding about everything we talk about. Damn… have to be careful not to fall in love with her.

Thanks to Bennyb n Riff888 for guiding me along on this SA journey.

Btw I’m meeting up with her again this Friday this time will be for about 5-6 hrs, will update again how this plays out.

Bro Benny/Riff888 how much you reckon I should give her this time round.

Cheers guys hope it was too long to read.

[heianth]

Well done Shiba! Happy to see you had such a good time. She sounds like one of the good ones.

If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take from when you guys first messaged, to meeting in person?

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

[Johnisfun1969]

I’m not good at writing reviews but here I go. Had my first meet last Friday. I can say that’s it’s completely different compared to going to brothels. We meet up in the hotel room the afternoon I was quite nervous at this stage as I’ve never done this sort of things before. But at the same time I was excited at meeting this South American girl. Once in the room she also told me that she was nervous and only meet one other time for dinner and nothing else. Seems genuine but who bloody knows.

Anyway we started chatting about what she does for work and what are her hobbies. Told me she was studying to become a psychologist and working as a nanny at the same time She ask me what I do and if I have a partner/married which I replied yes to the latter. She even mentioned that we should organize to meet up early to get away from the misses. Lol. So she seems keen to meet this old man.

At this stage I was feeling hungry too so I ask her if she wanted to have lunch in the room which she replied sure if you want too. Damn.. I was thinking is this how all meet ups end up. It was so relaxing without the rush that you get in brothels.

After we had our lunch that’s when the play time started. I won’t go to too much details but damn… that body of hers is hot. Just think of those South American body curvy and a nice ass type.

We probably spend about 3.5 hrs together and not once she mentioned about money to me. She said that it’s up to me how much I want to give her and would never ask for more of gifts at all. So I paid her $700 that’s with me paying for her Uber ride as well,even thought she didn’t want to take it.
She mentioned that 2 weeks ago prior to our meet up btw.

All in all it was nice to see a lady that you can converse/click with. She was just down to earth/understanding about everything we talk about. Damn… have to be careful not to fall in love with her.

Thanks to Bennyb n Riff888 for guiding me along on this SA journey.

Btw I’m meeting up with her again this Friday this time will be for about 5-6 hrs, will update again how this plays out.

Bro Benny/Riff888 how much you reckon I should give her this time round.

Cheers guys hope it was too long to read.

Well done mate good to see you had a good experience. Just to let you know most girls ask around he $500-800 mark. Then when you meet them regularly you can come to a fair arrangement and most will accept something reasonable.

[Johnisfun1969]

Well done Shiba! Happy to see you had such a good time. She sounds like one of the good ones.

If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take from when you guys first messaged, to meeting in person?

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

Hi heianth dont be discouraged by the slow response. I ad the same thing. What I undertsand is lot of girls are sitting overseas and kind of not really into meeting. Specially the new profiles that pop up and the girls are 18-22. They look really hot but either are testing the waters or only enjoying the excitement of teasing men. Just be patient and also try to be discreet. Sometimes when I have mentioned hotel or something leading to sex some of them block you straight away. They are here for geting rewarded to get intimate woth older men but still dont want to be seen as escorts. Maybe try changing your filters or try girls older than 24-35. They may be more confident and willing to meet. There are plenty of girls who dont hide the fact they are in financial trouble and need help quickly.

Good luck .

[Johnisfun1969]

I have found doubles rarely interact the way we fantasise.

I've had a few where the girls double as a tag team. One is active at a time until the other one tags in. I even had one where the non-active girl would wait int he bathroom until her next 'turn'.

I've only had one experience where both girls were going at it at the same time. There were times when I was merely the observer and wondering where to fit. haha, such a happy thought.

My problem with the SA girls is that they are going to be working to a schedule and a plan with a time limit. My preference with SA is that girls do not have a time limit.

True they may be professionals or would have learnt that they are not going to get more money out of you if they stay longer. They are very strict with their timing. So are some other girls. I had acontact with one whos says she can only spend 2 hours no more. I thought this is back to brothels where the girl has a timer and goes off 10min before the hour finijshed for you to take a shower anb be out.

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[gkpuntin]

Well done Shiba! Happy to see you had such a good time. She sounds like one of the good ones.

If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take from when you guys first messaged, to meeting in person?

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

[heianth]

Hi heianth dont be discouraged by the slow response. I ad the same thing. What I undertsand is lot of girls are sitting overseas and kind of not really into meeting. Specially the new profiles that pop up and the girls are 18-22. They look really hot but either are testing the waters or only enjoying the excitement of teasing men. Just be patient and also try to be discreet. Sometimes when I have mentioned hotel or something leading to sex some of them block you straight away. They are here for geting rewarded to get intimate woth older men but still dont want to be seen as escorts. Maybe try changing your filters or try girls older than 24-35. They may be more confident and willing to meet. There are plenty of girls who dont hide the fact they are in financial trouble and need help quickly.

Good luck .

Appreciate the pep talk John. I've changed my profile to help set (more) expectations so-as not to waste time and I've learned from reading these posts to aim for mid-20s etc. My profile and all intro messages I've only proposed a meet-and-greet first, to see if we gel well and minimise the pressure. Glad to hear this is a hazing period but will keep at it till my subscription ends and then back to the ol regular life :D

[heianth]

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

Great question - I engage with ones where they have something interesting in their profile (About Me + Seeking) that I can work off. Age is a factor as well and the ones that pop up on the top of my list are early 20s so I may have to be really strict now and look for 24+ like John suggested.

[Shiba]

@Heianth Hi mate, with this particular girl it took 2 days until she actually wanted to meet. We took the chat off line and from there she wanted to see photos of me which I send. After looking at my photos she agreed to meet up at the hotel to my surprise.she did cancel on the day that we where suppose to meet due to that time of the month and she was so apologetic about it told me to meet up the following week, which we did last week.

Don’t be discouraged by the lack of engagement, like all the bros mentioned here, the girls usually pick and choose to see who they want to see or are busy with other SD. Just need to be patient if they don’t text back jus keep looking there’s plenty of women in there.

I’ve been in SA for 3 weeks and I only manage to see 1 for meet ups the rest jus bn texting with them. Mind you I’m more looking to the Asian women more except with the current one I’m seeing, she’s an exception due to us clicking.

As long as your upfront to them about yourself and don’t bullshit to them you should be good mate.

Currently I’m texting 3 other girls since yesterday 21-26 age bracket 2 replied back now jus waiting for them to get back to me.

[Shiba]

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

Good question, we’ll for me would be someone that I can click with when msging with them. Asking them to be transparent, honest, discreet and upfront 100% of the time they will be discreet. Ask what they are looking for if they do want to meet up. Eg short/long term arrangement etc. it might not work with everyone though. Just be yourself about it when you do happen to meet the girl, because these girls knows when your bullshitting from miles away.

I’m not the best to ask this type of questions though as I’m only new to this SA game. Bennyb n Riff888 can share more regarding this.

[Shiba]

Well done mate good to see you had a good experience. Just to let you know most girls ask around he $500-800 mark. Then when you meet them regularly you can come to a fair arrangement and most will accept something reasonable.

Thanks for the reply mate. Will gauge how she reacts when I give her $600 for the duration of 5 hrs of her time tomorrow.

[hornedbeast]

What did she wear to the hotel?

[apokalypse]

$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?

upfront about sex thing?

[Shiba]

What did she wear to the hotel?

Jeans and business shirt.

[Shiba]

$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?
upfront about sex thing?

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

[gkpuntin]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

Sounds like a great find mate - well done! Keen to hear how the next meet up goes.

[apokalypse]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

seems she's the girl where money isn't the factor or worth it but need to careful not fall in love..

[Johnisfun1969]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.

[hiduba]

Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.

That’s good info. Thanks for sharing :)

[BennyB]

Btw I’m meeting up with her again this Friday this time will be for about 5-6 hrs, will update again how this plays out.

Bro Benny/Riff888 how much you reckon I should give her this time round.

Cheers guys hope it was too long to read.

Sounds like an excellent first experience and you both enjoyed it. You need to reflect on how often you want to see her, if it is going to be a regular thing for you both and then what would be a good outcome for both of you. If you feel like it will be ongoing then I would be suggesting something like 3 meet-ups a month for a monthly $1,500 paid fortnightly (for example). This way she gets financial certainty, albeit at a price point that would be more manageable.

It's pleasing to hear that you enjoyed the non-sex part of it. There is something to be said for just enjoying the romance without the relationship.

[BennyB]

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.

I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.

Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.

[heianth]

A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.

I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.

Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.Thanks Benny. The weekend helped cause I could spend the day not looking at my phone but was definitely rapid firing. Changed my profile and looking at different direction at engagement so let's see how it goes.

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[Joe1956]

Just wondering what success 60+ Guys have had on this? Having the sugar is one thing, converting it is another

[cvnt]

She paid for hotel - included in the $600. I really don’t believe she’s pro but of course she has done before. Had a great conversation, came twice with lots of cuddling in between. Daty too - so good and sweet. All in all not bad imho

Wow this is surprising . Care to PM me her deets ? :P

[BennyB]

Just wondering what success 60+ Guys have had on this? Having the sugar is one thing, converting it is another

Joe I’ve seen guys in their 70’s do well at Sugarbabes. It all comes down to your approach.

[juscruisin58]

Just wondering what success 60+ Guys have had on this? Having the sugar is one thing, converting it is another

I'm not over 60, but getting there, I'm 56, Violet, who was my SB is 24, we've been together for 2 yrs and recently entered into a relationship, which I know is not everyone's aim, however a relationship suits us both, and we are more than happy.