Sugar dating

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[BennyB]

When I first joined a few years ago I was approached by one girl, without a pic, no real profile words. She said she was genuine. She only communicated via kik, no phone numbers exchanged. Met her for a wine after work one day, she was stunningly beautiful. Took her for a day to a hotel where we both did our online work and spent the most of the time having sex. She had a high profile job in Qld govt, a boyfriend that didn't appreciate her magnificent boobs plus a fantasy to be a prostitute for a day. Fuck that was a great day. Afterwards we were polite but her fantasy had been fulfilled and we never met again.

I tell this one as all of those SB profiles have a story as to what they are seeking. For me I have some profiling questions that I will ask them. If the answers seem genuine and we get along then I continue.

Scammers are just a part of any online market. Just get good at identifying them. No bitcoin/investment talk, no online only, no pay before first meet, no HK phone numbers.

This is a great story. If you spend enough time on these sites you find the occasional one off unicorn where you are fulfilling her fantasy.

It's a shame that she only wanted to fuck you that once. Perhaps she was getting her numbers up?

[GoldfishMan]

Nah

“I saw a girl on GC and we had a nice time”

“Some girl gave me the GF experience”

Same as Riff.

Who are the girls. How did you land them. What did they do, how long ect.

Otherwise it’s just bar talk.
You're asking for everything handed to you on a silver platter. The fact that you're actually asking for so much help tells me you lack the social skills and resourcefulness to be successful in this game. Don't think this is suitable for you bro.

[Andy]

Thanks everyone, especially Riff and Ben for introducing me to this scene.

I've only been on SA for a little bit over 1 month but was able to meet around 10 different ladies and we may have crossed paths. I have seen Sarah M (she's model material indeed) and VibrantBli (yes she does talk a lot, but in a nice way haha) just to name a few who have appeared here.

@Riff888, @BennyB and any other serious SGDD, I would be keen to exchange intel with you (or even better a group of punters) so we can help each others. I have tried pm you but apparently your inbox is full so I couldn't.

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[Johnisfun1969]

Thanks everyone, especially Riff and Ben for introducing me to this scene.

I've only been on SA for a little bit over 1 month but was able to meet around 10 different ladies and we may have crossed paths. I have seen Sarah M (she's model material indeed) and VibrantBli (yes she does talk a lot, but in a nice way haha) just to name a few who have appeared here.

@Riff888, @BennyB and any other serious SGDD, I would be keen to exchange intel with you (or even better a group of punters) so we can help each others. I have tried pm you but apparently your inbox is full so I couldn't.

Andy just tried to send you a private message see if you get it. I thought one require 50 posts before they allowed you to send and receive messages but I could be wrong. I am happy to share the info I have

[BennyB]

Go to the pub and shat them up for free.

Looks like we are not going to get a response from Vader so I'll explain why I don't go down to the bar and chat them up for free

1. I'm married. I don't have a good reason to go out and chat up girls in a bar, nor the flexibility for random hookups. I need the discretion that SA provides and the ability to plan ahead for sex.

2. Chatting up girls half your age in a bar is creepy. Not cool. The girls don't want to see you in their home environment with their friends. They are happy to talk about you with their friends, but don't want it in their face when they are trying to hook young studs.

3. Where is this world where 40+ men are hooking up with 20yo girls for free. Not even in Thailand does this happen

4. I'm comfortable in my social ability to chat to anyone. It's why I back myself in on getting the prices I am prepared to pay (no more than $400 ppm). But not everyone feels that way.

If you are a guy who wants to get more comfortable at dating hotter women, then once you have done the brothels and the privates, I would encourage you to try your hand at Sugarbabes. You may find that it genuinely helps you with your confidence and also helps you improve your game with women. I think that is one of the most underrated upsides about SA.

[konfuzion]

Nah mate. This is a punting forum. That’s the point - make it easy for each other.

I can give you a list of names but it means shit if you don’t know how to close with them.

How much did you spend on each of these chicks Riff and what did you get? How long ect?
Sb not punting more like dating game girl must like you in photo you need help on dating apps bro

[GoldfishMan]

Nah mate. This is a punting forum. That’s the point - make it easy for each other.

I can give you a list of names but it means shit if you don’t know how to close with them.

How much did you spend on each of these chicks Riff and what did you get? How long ect?
lol, dude. If I was riff, I wouldn’t lift a finger to help you because you’re being an outright cunt. I mean look at you. You’re like a beggar on the street asking for spare change. Have some self respect, be a man, grow some back bone, do your own leg work.
What did you expect, some guy goes on a forum says they did XYZ for a girl named ABC and got XXX from them, you think you can just rock up and do the same thing and get XXX?
This is not how a sex forum works. You need to learn what YMMV means. Not only does it mean your results might be different, it means you’re not them. You might fuck it up when they succeeded.

[Johnisfun1969]

lol, dude. If I was riff, I wouldn’t lift a finger to help you because you’re being an outright cunt. I mean look at you. You’re like a beggar on the street asking for spare change. Have some self respect, be a man, grow some back bone, do your own leg work.
What did you expect, some guy goes on a forum says they did XYZ for a girl named ABC and got XXX from them, you think you can just rock up and do the same thing and get XXX?
This is not how a sex forum works. You need to learn what YMMV means. Not only does it mean your results might be different, it means you’re not them. You might fuck it up when they succeeded.


Hi GoldfishMan, mate go easy on the dude. I know it can be daunting if you don’t understand how things work. It was same with me when I joined and sent heaps of messages but not many replies. Girls started chatting but would move away after a while. I had help from both Riff888 and BennyB to reinforce my approach was allright and some tips. Guys based on their experience have different level of skills and confidence level while speaking to girls. He only needs some info to get started. In a few weeks time he wil be giving us tips.

[BennyB]

Hang on; didn't you say you always have protected sex first then progress to BBFS after both have test results?

How long would this take from the first meet to the sexual health results?

Surly you would have some usernames that would do all this for $400.

Has anyone else in this forum done BB anal for $400?

Do you have any usernames of old arrangements?

Maybe $400 is the norm in Melbourne but most Sydney girls are asking $600.



1. Hang on; didn't you say you always have protected sex first then progress to BBFS after both have test results? How long would this take from the first meet to the sexual health results?

I don’t always wait for the test results. Usually but not always. It’s a risk reward equation. If she has recent rest results (within the last month) then it is a good chance that she is serious about her sexual health. I don’t use condoms and can usually persuade the SB I’m seeing during a pre-meet that we will be going BB. I test regularly and have only had one STI - from a sex worker of all things. So I am comfortable with my approach. You may have a different risk reward equation.


2. Surly you would have some usernames that would do all this for $400.

You mean you want me to share them with you? When you have been a complete cunt since I’ve joined here? Unlikely.

Anyone who wants to read my reviews (actual reviews not chucking out names and bragging about how you saw them) can go and read them. I’ve explained where you can go and see them for free. As long as you contribute your own reviews.

And I believe this forum has asked for us not to share SB reviews. So I don’t. I respect the forums rules. Do you?

3. Has anyone else in this forum done BB anal for $400?

You haven’t? Maybe it’s just your approach. I get it regularly. I also spend a lot of time getting a woman comfortable with me playing with her ass. It’s amazing how many young Caucasian women are into it.

4. Maybe $400 is the norm in Melbourne but most Sydney girls are asking $600.

No - the ask in Melbourne, Sydney, Gold Coast and Brisbane varies. And most start off thinking they can get 600, 700, 800. But I don’t pay more than $400 PPM these days. I used to pay more than that when I first started out a few years ago. But not any more. If they want that, they can get it somewhere else. I’m happy to be the guy they fuck for fun while they charge others more. I’m not looking for monogamy.

I can understand guys in their 60’s+ paying this much, or guys who are horribly out of shape. That’s ok. In some cases, it is justified.

The price you pay is basically the price the woman is prepared to accept to sleep with you. If you are paying more than 400, it says something.

[GoldfishMan]

Hi GoldfishMan, mate go easy on the dude. I know it can be daunting if you don’t understand how things work. It was same with me when I joined and sent heaps of messages but not many replies. Girls started chatting but would move away after a while. I had help from both Riff888 and BennyB to reinforce my approach was allright and some tips. Guys based on their experience have different level of skills and confidence level while speaking to girls. He only needs some info to get started. In a few weeks time he wil be giving us tips.
No mate, I know these types. Account only started less than a week ago, already talking like a boss demanding help, being disrespectful to all in the process.
These shits invariably only take and give nothing back to the community. Put them on ignore for your own good, I’ve been on the forum long enough to know a sponge when I see one.

[BennyB]

Sb not punting more like dating game girl must like you in photo you need help on dating apps bro

More gaslighting from you Konfused. I’ll say one thing for Frank - you may not like what he has to say, but he seems to talk straight.

Having just checked his record, he has put in two reviews this month. That’s more than I and most others on here have done.

And it’s more than you have put on the site for nearly 4 years.

How much longer are you going to lurk on here and throw comments from the cheap seats? Get over yourself mate.

[BennyB]

Search profiles in your area, less than 16km distance.

Seeking is like the Uber of the sex industry. All those under-utilised pussies can no be used to generate cash for the owner.

Thanks for sharing your perspective Hogan. Some good advice in your comments there.

Two questions for you on this

1. How comfortable are you punting close to home. Are you married with kids? I generally punt Sugarbabes interstate, or at least not on the same side of town.

2. Agree with your uber analogy. While it is currently seeking, I am interested in the next iteration of these platforms. Are you seeing any others that could draw the girls away and why?

[konfuzion]

More gaslighting from you Konfused. I’ll say one thing for Frank - you may not like what he has to say, but he seems to talk straight.

He has also put in two reviews this month. That’s more than I and most others on here have done. And it’s more than you have put on the site for nearly 4 years.

How much longer are you going to lurk on here and throw comments from the cheap seats? Get over yourself mate.
555 big shot mr 1 review frank your friend from tnt? Riff put picture of girls but nothing from you all talk and on forum 24 7 not very busy man

[BennyB]

555 big shot mr 1 review frank your friend from tnt? Riff put picture of girls but nothing from you all talk and on forum 24 7 not very busy man

You are missing the point.

YOU HAVE ZERO REVIEWS AFTER NEARLY FOUR YEARS!

Just put a review up instead of lurking and and being a stooge for the shops.

[BennyB]

I don't know you or whether you're intentionally inserted yourself into my affairs or it wasn't by pure accident.
But you and BB should really check if your Amygdala is functioning properly .

Actually I think Konfusion should review Doby. It makes sense that the dick without a review on here should bend over the prized cunt of the forum.

[BennyB]

You remind me of a software update. Whenever I see you I usually think “Not now.”

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[GoldfishMan]

Looks like fake account creation is the game of the month?
The poet troll and all his forum accounts, Zoo, now we got this BB/Frank/ + some other support account. Think I'll group all you sickos in the same bucket. Get a life, who the fuck cares how many brownie points you have here. You're all obviously mentally sick.

[BennyB]

Good on you for joining. A template does not need to work for 'every' girl. I choose words and an approach that works for the girls that will be open to me.

I've read on this forum about people sending many messages and getting few responses. You should expect that. There are millions of reasons why a girl may not respond. We just need responses from a few. Main thing is don't burn any bridges. A girl might be expecting SD A to fulfil his promises but he doesn't show and you happen to be online. For these girls you can be a good standby. It's not about the responses you don't get, work on the ones you do.

Someone asked about my 2nd SIM strategy. I use an old phone which has, as far as my family is concerned, my "gumtree" contact number. (it therefore receives weird messages). I use Whatsapp Business. On my phone I have Whatsapp with my 'real' number and contacts. I use WA Business, without access to Contacts and allows me to message SBs by number without saving them to Contacts. This method prevents me accidentally cross messaging. Also gives me access without needing the other SIM after I have verified the WA Business account.

My SB meets are usually away from my home suburb. I do have three preferred hotels which I know I can use in various areas of Brisbane. They accept cash and usually have a day use room available from 10am.

When I do travel interstate for business I now always have a SB staying over.

I like your comment about not burning bridges with anyone. Sometimes you chat to a girl on SA or you end up on kik/whatsapp/text but nothing transpires. No sense in getting your nose out of joint about it. They quite often come back weeks or months later.

If you have ever seen what these girls are dealing with, it's sometimes 50+ messages a day. If they don't get back to you immediately or leave you on read, that's ok - be patient.

Can I ask which Dayuse hotels in Brisbane you prefer? I am usually staying up there on business so would just use my own, but it pays to know if you have a meet on the day you have checked out :-)

[BennyB]

Someone asked about my 2nd SIM strategy. I use an old phone which has, as far as my family is concerned, my "gumtree" contact number. (it therefore receives weird messages). I use Whatsapp Business. On my phone I have Whatsapp with my 'real' number and contacts. I use WA Business, without access to Contacts and allows me to message SBs by number without saving them to Contacts. This method prevents me accidentally cross messaging. Also gives me access without needing the other SIM after I have verified the WA Business account.

And I love this - great intel and helpful to understand the context of your strategy. Thanks for sharing.

[dotcumdotinyou]

The only reason Riff has been a cunt to you since you joined this forum Benny is because YOU ARE A CUNT and he picked it early.

Your only purpose here is to push your site so that you can make commissions. Any question is answered by you with "."join pay the fee or the girls will think your a cheapskate and find out." More money for you.
Must piss you off that Riff is giving out the info for free and to anyone who asks. You're here 24/7 drumming up business, putting down people who disagree with you, having sleepless nights wondering how to respond to people like Vader who asks "why not just chat up a girl in a bar." Has to be bad for you profit margin doesn't it.

Then you're on an Asian punting site putting down Asian girls with comments like "I never punt Asian". And now you're calling konfusion a "stooge for the shops"...well guess what dickhead, the shops pay to advertise here so we can have a free forum. MAYBE ADMIN SHOULD LOOK INTO THIS AND PUT YOUR THREADS IN THE SHOP AND GIRL FORUM AND MAKE YOU FORK OUT A PERCENTAGE FOR ADVERTISING.

And I think Goldfishman is 100% correct, you are now creating extra accounts to ask inane questions for yourself so they're easier to answer. Just like you created a family for yourself to try and look credible.

[BennyB]

Do you ever feel embarrassed being such an unpleasant person?

Read my lips. You CANNOT talk to girls on Seeking for free. Everyone has to pay to talk to girls on Seeking.

And The Naked Truth sugar babe forum (you can google it) is free to join. Yes there is a payment option but you can join for free.

How many sugar babes have you pulled this month? If you have nothing to contribute to the subject then please go and complain somewhere else.

[BennyB]

Try reading this thread as well

Just another 100 or so free Sugarbabe observations from me.

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?105309-Sugarbabes-Sydney-Melbourne-and-Gold-Coast-markets

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[scottie2222]

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[BennyB]

For those trying to be discreet, what sort of photos are you using?

Hi Scottie

Thanks for bringing it back on topic.

If you want to be discreet:

Public photos - I cut mine off so you can see my jaw and my smile but not my full face. You could achieve the same with blur.

Private photos - I've altered between having private photos that I show to someone for a brief period while we are chatting on SA. Alternatively, I take them to a messaging service and swap photos there.

I would recommend not using photos that can be found on your social media platforms. It's easy to reverse image search.

Most normal women will understand your need for discretion.

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[BennyB]

I like the idea.

When I reverse search I search both the image and the mirror image.

Do you worry that the girls would do do the same?

(I'm assuming they are more tech savvy than me).

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[konfuzion]

Agree . This BB is twisted and a monster. He is cunning , deceitful , think's he is charismatic but in reality he is insane and he doesn't know it yet . That makes him the most unemotional , sadistic and most dangerous member of Sugar Babies.
All fake accounts bennyb and frank last active at same time at 5 in morning and talk same asking people for review 555

[BennyB]

All fake accounts bennyb and frank last active at same time at 5 in morning and talk same asking people for review 555

I’m glad I have started a trend. More people should be asking questions about you.

Have you put in a review yet Konfusion? The heat is on.

[BennyB]

If they really want to know me they can ask. I'm an imperfect individual at the best of times. I also think I apply a large amount of filtering to the girls I'm progressing. There is no reason to bother me. I do what I say, I pay what I say.

I did have one girl that wanted to add me on FB. I also maintain a complete fake FB profile without pics (or friends)

Sounds like you have a thoughtful approach to this. I aim to filter on SA, then filter on chat outside, then pre meet before deciding. By the time you get to the pre meet it should really be to just confirm what you are sensing on the chat?

[dodgybastard2]

Hmmm... I have no doubt that the sugar discussion is pretty interesting and useful. However, I can't help but feel that the real reason for BennyB's proliferation of postings is to promote the paid section of the other forum and his ebook.

Honestly, BennyB, if you were just posting about sugarbabes, then I'd be ok with that. However, you're also pushing the ebook and trying to drum up subscriptions to the other forum pretty hard. Maybe ease up a bit on the promotional stuff?

[BennyB]

I find it curious that so many people who don’t punt Sugarbabes and who contribute nothing to this discussion feel entitled to try to censor it. All discussion here is within forum rules, except for the “reviewing” of actual Sugarbabes, which another member is doing.

I also find it curious that the same opinionated members have so little regard for the trolls on here. Interesting set of priorities.

On an Internet forum there are hundreds, if not thousands of topics. If you don’t like the topic, you can always keep scrolling :)

[konfuzion]

I find it curious that so many people who don’t punt Sugarbabes and who contribute nothing to this discussion feel entitled to try to censor it. All discussion here is within forum rules, except for the “reviewing” of actual Sugarbabes, which another member is doing.

I also find it curious that the same opinionated members have so little regard for the trolls on here. Interesting set of priorities.

On an Internet forum there are hundreds, if not thousands of topics. If you don’t like the topic, you can always keep scrolling :)
555 you the troll why you say cant review sb? Can review any thing in this best forum in Australia you say good stuff for sb but dont say names trolls = 0 presure also 0 care %70 forum users no review

[BennyB]

Your commentary, if I can loosely call it that, is incomprehensible.


555 you the troll why you say cant review sb?

It has been stated, by a number of senior members on this forum that reviewing Sugarbabes would be of concern and an issue for the privacy of the girls, who are not sex workers. If you were following the discussion you would see that it has been advised that forum members DO NOT review the girls on here.

I've spoken to about 30 different members on PM who are all punting Sugarbabes. None of them are posting reviews because it is not permitted on the forum. Just try and digest that.

If you had not noticed, anyone can read the forum content as a guest or even from the outside of the forum. So putting Sugarbabe name in posts like Riff does exposes these girls to the general public and it also exposes the forum to some real problems - legal action, journalists, the girls themselves seeing what is written about them. Good luck defending that one. I hope those who publish the names of these girls have excellent lawyers.


Can review any thing in this best forum in Australia

If this is the best forum in Australia, why have you still not submitted a review since you joined in 2018...I mean it is the best forum right?

Maybe it is just the best forum for clowns like you to lurk and not contribute anything.


you say good stuff for sb but dont say names

See my answer above. I am starting to think that your medication needs to be changed.


trolls = 0 presure also 0 care %70 forum users no review

This is where you lose me completely. I have no idea what crap you just vomited above.

This will be our last exchange Konfusion until you submit a review to the forum. I think we all deserve that having listened to your bullshit for as long as we have.

[konfuzion]

Your commentary, if I can loosely call it that, is incomprehensible.



It has been stated, by a number of senior members on this forum that reviewing Sugarbabes would be of concern and an issue for the privacy of the girls, who are not sex workers. If you were following the discussion you would see that it has been advised that forum members DO NOT review the girls on here.

I've spoken to about 30 different members on PM who are all punting Sugarbabes. None of them are posting reviews because it is not permitted on the forum. Just try and digest that.

If you had not noticed, anyone can read the forum content as a guest or even from the outside of the forum. So putting Sugarbabe name in posts like Riff does exposes these girls to the general public and it also exposes the forum to some real problems - legal action, journalists, the girls themselves seeing what is written about them. Good luck defending that one. I hope those who publish the names of these girls have excellent lawyers.



If this is the best forum in Australia, why have you still not submitted a review since you joined in 2018...I mean it is the best forum right?

Maybe it is just the best forum for clowns like you to lurk and not contribute anything.



See my answer above. I am starting to think that your medication needs to be changed.



This is where you lose me completely. I have no idea what crap you just vomited above.

This will be our last exchange Konfusion until you submit a review to the forum. I think we all deserve that having listened to your bullshit for as long as we have.
I see you very busy man 555 no more reply for you troll get boring now please go have sex with sb why you write so much I work in cafe still have no time to write

[Johnisfun1969]

I see you very busy man 555 no more reply for you troll get boring now please go have sex with sb why you write so much I work in cafe still have no time to write

Gents without offending anyone its clear some don't like the discussion on Sugar Babes. Its not for everyone we get it. But I am new to this style of punting and me and some of the other guys are finding the posts from BennyB, Rifff888 and now hogansheros_breakout infrmative and good value. If you are not enjoying this then try another thread. Its become painful to read all the comments not related to Sugar Dating. Thanks.

[hiduba]

Gents without offending anyone its clear some don't like the discussion on Sugar Babes. Its not for everyone we get it. But I am new to this style of punting and me and some of the other guys are finding the posts from BennyB, Rifff888 and now hogansheros_breakout infrmative and good value. If you are not enjoying this then try another thread. Its become painful to read all the comments not related to Sugar Dating. Thanks.

Spot on. I love all the informative tips and suggestions and experiences shared by forum members. Can we all decide to agree to disagree and not attack each other’s posts / comments just because their thoughts / experiences differ from yours?

[BennyB]

Thank you. I appreciate some voices of reason on here.

Back on topic.

[Nthnrr]

Agreed. Keep on topic.

[Riff888]

Good to hear Riff888 you are having fun with the Taiwanese. You have been sharing good intel on these girls and it’s been helpful. From your earlier comments I am finding most girls are prepared to accept 500 mark. Some may go below but they may or may not see you.

Mate I think your message box may be full I tried to send a message but would not go.Thanks for letting me know, I've cleared my mailbox.

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[scottie2222]

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[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[kiddoh]

Sharing a bit of experience being in SB for more than a month...

My Profile setup in SA was based on inputs from the thread and some other forums as well. Thanks to Benny, Riff, & Rogyeryou..

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Lessons learnt based on good and bad punts.

- Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into.

- Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided.

- Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option. - There was a no show as well after initial confirmation, the reason was a bit dumb but was able to meet the next week. I wasted money on hotel booking felt a bit horrible. ( Try to book only on the day that too few hours before the event don't book too early)

- Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

- Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms. - I did have some backup Doms but without lube, the session was not eventful. Again SB didn't inform me of that during the chat... Point 1 will help.

- Check on arrangement timing as well some are real clock watchers & spend less time ( or communicate that they can be available only for an hour or so because of their commitment etc., after/during session commencement) - I failed miserably on this one. Hoping to do better next time on setting up the expectation.

- I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner.

- try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly.

A good note is that lot of Uni Students, are in their final year, moving back to their own countries etc., & wanted to make some money before moving out/settling in so it's always flooded.

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

Note: Few SBs are in for making money in the short term, so they are also working around the clock...

[Riff888]

Sharing a bit of experience being in SB for more than a month...

My Profile setup in SA was based on inputs from the thread and some other forums as well. Thanks to Benny, Riff, & Rogyeryou..

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Lessons learnt based on good and bad punts.

- Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into.

- Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided.

- Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option. - There was a no show as well after initial confirmation, the reason was a bit dumb but was able to meet the next week. I wasted money on hotel booking felt a bit horrible. ( Try to book only on the day that too few hours before the event don't book too early)

- Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

- Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms. - I did have some backup Doms but without lube, the session was not eventful. Again SB didn't inform me of that during the chat... Point 1 will help.

- Check on arrangement timing as well some are real clock watchers & spend less time ( or communicate that they can be available only for an hour or so because of their commitment etc., after/during session commencement) - I failed miserably on this one. Hoping to do better next time on setting up the expectation.

- I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner.

- try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly.

A good note is that lot of Uni Students, are in their final year, moving back to their own countries etc., & wanted to make some money before moving out/settling in so it's always flooded.

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

Note: Few SBs are in for making money in the short term, so they are also working around the clock...I hear you.

From talking to this really hot girl, too bad the sex was basic.

She had some good insights on SBs like, oh this girl's job is SA. Basically professional SBs, hopefully everyone gets regular tests.

I also found out my regular Taiwanese girl is supporting her son back home.

There are a lot of young mums out west and two girls live in the same block. It was causing issues between them so I blocked them both.

I'm starting to miss Leena, hopefully I'll see her soon [emoji23]

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[rooter]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

[BennyB]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

I think it's interesting to get a different perspective. There are guys for whom sugar dating is a slam dunk and guys who find it hard work. There's nothing unusual in that Rooter - it's just different.

What are your thoughts about what you don't like about it?

[Johnisfun1969]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

Mate it’s definitely different style of punting. The goal is still to get laid. But costs a lot more also. The girl expect a certain amount. Then the cost of dinner and drinks. This girl I met in Brisbane ordered 2 x cocktails at $20 each and two deserts after dinner. We complain about extras charged by Caucasian girls for DFK or bbbj. Hahah

I was having doubts over the weekend as I could not get a girl to meet me in the day. So I went to 42 Buffalo Road. Booked a Asian girl for 250 had two pops. Taken care of my blue balls but was missing that intimacy I had with the 2 x girls in Qld last week. I regretted the decision.

For some of us who enjoy the chase as well as flirting and then making it out with a decent looking girl. It works. But like punting there are abs ones where you don’t connect or have a cancellation. It’s sucks.

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[Johnisfun1969]

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

I had the same thing. This girl wanted to order 2 x cocktails as she was not sure which one to have. Then with dessert wanted to try two but did not even touch the second as she was full. But then wanted to gome home early as she was sleepy. I think she would be the proffessional know how to wiggle out. Thanks for sharing guys its normal and the girls try tricks.

[kiddoh]

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

Thanks for input! Will be prepared next time!

I do throw the box as well. Moreover I got comment on what I have to buy for next visits as SB like it flavoured and particular about some brands! Hmmmm

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[Johnisfun1969]

the idea of someone buying two cocktails is crap. if the girl doesn't respect money then I move her on. that's why she's fucking guys for money.

Yes mate but I am new to this and she was my third girl I met. We kept messaging each other before the meeting for week or so. On the day on the meet I am not sure if its true she had to take her cat to vet and she found she had cancer. So I went little easy and hgave in. But what pissed me off is after round one she says she is sleepy and wants to go home. I wil give her a second chance. Next time call her to the hotel and order take away. She is really tall and young.

[BennyB]

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?


In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)


Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into

I can't agree more. I always have a pre-meet. Even if it is just drinks at the bar before going upstairs. Although preferably I would have at least a longish evening over dinner and drinks before going to bed. I personally like the dating and seduction aspects of it - so I keep in vague on text about what is coming next - I like to let that unfold on the evening or in the pre-meet


Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided

Beyond the fact that I would like us to get intimate if we both click with each other, I don't push hard on this. Again, I like the journey of discovery and, If I can get them in the right head space, then all the good things follow. I want to open them up sexually and get them to do more than they have done in a long time, not the half arsed stuff they have been doing with their 20yo boyfriends and tinder dates.


Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option.

Again depends on what where and how. If punting in your own city yes. When I am interstate I am bringing them back to my corporate hotel and making a big deal of it for them. Dayuse is great because you can cancel up to an hour beforehand.


Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

Remember if you talk to them like escorts, that's probably what you will get in return. Some are escorts obviously, but you can weed those out.


Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms

Well that's because they are not WLs. And you are the experienced, thoughtful man they thought they would find on SA. Not the tinder date down the road?


I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner

You are spot on here. My time is just as valuable. If not more. I'll be considerate but I don't give people money for chat.


try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly

My thoughts are slightly different. I'm probably punting different girls. I like ones who are already working - usually early in their careers and want a bit of fun on the side. I prefer to take them to text or WhatsApp - that is what most normal non-punting / non-SW girls are using. I appreciate WeChat is more commonly used amongst Asian men and women.


Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

I'd experiment with some different approaches. I have probably had some of the kinkiest D/s, DDlg, powerplay since I started punting Sugarbabes. Genuine kink is as mental as physical. I find it really depends on where you take their minds.

(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

[kiddoh]

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?



Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)


(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

:) Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

[BennyB]

:) Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

Having good people to do the work helps and I enjoy the topic so I make the time on various forums.

Re returning to the city - having a normal routine should make a big difference. Have a think about how you can build in some time buffers so your wife / partner doesn’t mind if you are not home for dinner each evening.

[hogansheros_breakout]

I'll up this info as it is now out of date....

[BennyB]

Well I’ve taken the advice of some on this forum and started to hit up some Asian Sugarbabies. There are some intriguing combinations coming up in search and a range of demands from some girls.

The most interesting have been the Australian born girls of mixed ethnicity - sometimes dual Asian or Asian / Caucasian combinations.

I’ve found these the ones I’m most comfortable with as language is not as much of a barrier and they seem to get my sense of humour.

Reviews will go on a site where reviews are permitted but I’ll try to provide some insights here too.

One thing I can feed back is that the ones who are asking for weekly allowances and high numbers seems to have dependents offshore that they are shipping funds to.

The Australian born and educated ones are mainly hot uni students or working entry level jobs and the pricing is PPM and much much better.

[Riff888]

Well I’ve taken the advice of some on this forum and started to hit up some Asian Sugarbabies. There are some intriguing combinations coming up in search and a range of demands from some girls.

The most interesting have been the Australian born girls of mixed ethnicity - sometimes dual Asian or Asian / Caucasian combinations.

I’ve found these the ones I’m most comfortable with as language is not as much of a barrier and they seem to get my sense of humour.

Reviews will go on a site where reviews are permitted but I’ll try to provide some insights here too.

One thing I can feed back is that the ones who are asking for weekly allowances and high numbers seems to have dependents offshore that they are shipping funds to.

The Australian born and educated ones are mainly hot uni students or working entry level jobs and the pricing is PPM and much much better.Nothing's stopping you from putting reviews here mate.

Just putting a girl's username, age and background are not breaking any rules.

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[BennyB]

Nothing's stopping you from putting reviews here mate.

Just putting a girl's username, age and background are not breaking any rules.

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You should go back and read my post and the post of the senior members who explicitly counselled against it.

This is open forum. People who are not even members can read this including journalists, lawyers, cops. Even the girls themselves.

If you think that has no consequences then I hope you and Aus99 have excellent lawyers.

[Riff888]

You should go back and read my post and the post of the senior members who explicitly counselled against it.

This is open forum. People who are not even members can read this including journalists, lawyers, cops. Even the girls themselves.

If you think that has no consequences then I hope you and Aus99 have excellent lawyers.Fine, put it in the private section.

Girls have been doxxed many times on this site and no one on this forum has been liable.

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[hogansheros_breakout]

I'll up this info as it is now out of date....

[BennyB]

Fine, put it in the private section.

Girls have been doxxed many times on this site and no one on this forum has been liable.

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Good luck with the “no one ever…” defence.

Sugarbabies are not sex workers. But you just identified a number of them as such on a sex worker forum.

I won’t be taking legal advice from you and nor should Aus99.

[Riff888]

Good luck with the “no one ever…” defence.

Sugarbabies are not sex workers. But you just identified a number of them as such on a sex worker forum.

I won’t be taking legal advice from you and nor should Aus99.There was a girl recently doxxed on this forum. I know her well. She went to lawyers and the police.

She showed them everything on this forum as evidence.

The police and lawyers said, there's nothing they can do since no threats or nude photos with her face uploaded on this site. There's nothing they could do even though she knows who it was and he made public her phone number and address and posted a private picture.

You must have a law degree as well.

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[Riff888]

it's against 'his' rules of generating traffic and reviews on his 'hidden' forum. I'll DM you my personal experience on that hinted review forum.That's mate, yes it's just a useless site with too many rules and limited access to anything unless you pay subscription fees.

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[BennyB]

There was a girl recently doxxed on this forum. I know her well. She went to lawyers and the police.

She showed them everything on this forum as evidence.

The police and lawyers said, there's nothing they can do since no threats or nude photos with her face uploaded on this site. There's nothing they could do even though she knows who it was and he made public her phone number and address and posted a private picture.

You must have a law degree as well.

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For a guy who claims to be in a forensic field you must either be very junior or just not very good at what you do.

[BennyB]

That's mate, yes it's just a useless site with too many rules and limited access to anything unless you pay subscription fees.

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Lots of very happy Sugarbabe punters on there though. And lots of Sydney Sugarbabe reviews the last time I looked.

No fees to pay. The only way you pay is through making a review contribution. Some of the really high up intel requires a subscription - like the Sugarbabe bareback forum. Once I achieved access to that I paid a tiny amount for six months access (a fraction of what it would cost to find and secure a bareback Sugarbabe punt). But you don’t pay for access and you don’t pay to review.

No one - including shop owners who subsidize this site - cares about Sugarbabe reviews on here because it doesn’t add to the income stream.

Re the rules on TNT - well there’s only 3 or 4 rules I think. One of them is not to be an argumentative dickhead. So it probably wouldn’t suit you if you joined up there.

[BennyB]

Now who has an Australian born Asian girlfriend who can share some thoughts about cultural differences and how to understand what matters to them?

[Riff888]

Now who has an Australian born Asian girlfriend who can share some thoughts about cultural differences and how to understand what matters to them?So from being Caucasian SB only to an Asian SB expert in what, a week, 3 days? You're so super Benny [emoji1787]

Tell them the price son! It's $120 for 5 months access.

Secure a BBFS? These girls are not WLs like you said. They will not offer that to every man.

My first SA experience was BBFS and CIP with a 23 year old Italian girl whom I'm still seeing. I asked a guy called BigJoe or something like that on TNT about her and there was no intel on her at all on TNT.

Plus it's easy to change your username on SA. So you might write a review, the girl then changes her username. So you try to search for that username but it doesn't exist anymore.



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[BennyB]

Never said I was an Asian expert at all Riff. I said I was interested in expanding who I punt. For a forensic specialist you struggle with basic comprehension.

There's also no price - Your $120 for five months was a subscription offer for guys in the general forum who did not have any reviews of WLs and wanted to join. Some other member here corrected you about 50 posts back, but Captain Forensic seems to have forgotten it.

[dotcumdotinyou]

I thought you were in another state getting your brains fucked out of you Benny.

But no...your here 24/7 shilling as usual.

You should go on mastermind Benny, your subject can be "I know every fucking thing and anyone who disagrees is a dick"

You and your imaginary lifestyle are legends (in your own mind).

[BennyB]

I thought you were in another state getting your brains fucked out of you Benny.

But no...your here 24/7 shilling as usual.

You should go on mastermind Benny, your subject can be "I know every fucking thing and anyone who disagrees is a dick"

You and your imaginary lifestyle are legends (in your own mind).


Here he is. Are you Riff's second profile?

I love that you care so much about me. How many Sugarbabe punts have you had this week?

[dotcumdotinyou]

Same as you...FUCKIN NONE!

[BennyB]

Same as you...FUCKIN NONE!

I have a great anger management therapist for you.

[dotcumdotinyou]

And I know of a good psychiatrist who can help get rid of that imaginary family and life you think your having.

By the way, its been awhile now since you've tried to big note yourself with your one and only AR on this forum.

[BennyB]

A number of other members on here asked you to kindly piss off if you are not going to talk about Sugarbabes.

I've never tried to big note myself. I have said to Konfused that he's been on the site for 3 years and contributed not a single review in that time so he cannot complain about my one Niko review because I've at least contributed that + over 100 meaningful Sugarbabe posts in the past six weeks.

I won’t hold my breath for your first useful contribution about Sugarbabes.

[BennyB]

its been awhile now since you've tried to big note yourself with your one and only AR on this forum.

You have been on the Forum since September 2021.

And I can't find any of your reviews. Please point them out.

[BennyB]

I know kindergarten kids that can write more effectively.

Whenever I see your name come up I think “Really. That’s the sperm that won?”

[Pongie]

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/i-was-duped-by-a-sugar-daddy/news-story/c860362c103d11518706d39baa37c0e5

Salt daddy, never knew about this

[rooter]

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/i-was-duped-by-a-sugar-daddy/news-story/c860362c103d11518706d39baa37c0e5

Salt daddy, never knew about this

Dave had a red hot go at it. Good on him :)

[BennyB]

So Dotcumuphisnose Dave finally scored with a Sugarbabe? Well done mate.

I notice she did not mention the sex as being very good. Something to work on for next time.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Sorry to take so long to get back to you Benny boy but the kids were hungry so I had to make dinner for them, then we watched a couple of movies. Too busy yesterday as I took them out for lunch after they helped me clean the apartment and then I took them ice skating for the afternoon. After I dropped them back to their mums place I had to do some quotes and check some pricing before watching my favorite program (if I ever win multi millions in lotto I'm getting Joe Martin to build me a ute).
Then its been so busy here at work today this is the first chance I've had to sit down.

One day Benny boy when you stop shilling your site and your book you too might get a REAL life with a REAL family and a REAL job.

Ahh Benny boy, I see the constant sitting staring at the screen has ruined your eyes. It clearly states just under my user name that my join date was 26-02-2019 and my posts per day were 0.47 where as your posts per day are 6.37 after only joining 13-01-2022. Not to mention all the private messaging your doing.
When you go to specsavers mention that your on this website shilling 42/7, maybe they'll give you three pairs of glasses for the price of one instead of two.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Forgot to mention...who's the kindergarten kid here you or Doby. He may be a lot of things Benny boy but he's not childish enough to resort to name calling like you.

When your name comes up I think "that's the load she should've swallowed".

[Riff888]

I have a serious questions BennyB;

Say you meet an awesome SB and you get BB sex.

Would you write a review straight away?

My question is; why would you jeopardize your connection, arrangement, plus the safety of the girl, yourself and other men?

Would you review a girl you're currently having BB sex with knowing that other men will be having BB sex with her as well? Or would you write a review only when you end the arrangement?

I post usernames of girls I didn't click with or only saw once. Basically duds for me. I'm not going to reveal the girls I'm having an ongoing arrangement with and that's pretty normal human behaviour.

In the punting world, WLs who offer BBFS are hidden gems. No punter would let that information get out. Reports of WLs that offer BBFS are most often fake written by an angry client.

Since you always do BBFS, all your reviews would be in the restricted section right?



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[BennyB]

Sorry to take so long to get back to you Benny boy but the kids were hungry so I had to make dinner for them, then we watched a couple of movies. Too busy yesterday as I took them out for lunch after they helped me clean the apartment and then I took them ice skating for the afternoon. After I dropped them back to their mums place I had to do some quotes and check some pricing before watching my favorite program (if I ever win multi millions in lotto I'm getting Joe Martin to build me a ute).
Then its been so busy here at work today this is the first chance I've had to sit down.

One day Benny boy when you stop shilling your site and your book you too might get a REAL life with a REAL family and a REAL job.

Ahh Benny boy, I see the constant sitting staring at the screen has ruined your eyes. It clearly states just under my user name that my join date was 26-02-2019 and my posts per day were 0.47 where as your posts per day are 6.37 after only joining 13-01-2022. Not to mention all the private messaging your doing.
When you go to specsavers mention that your on this website shilling 42/7, maybe they'll give you three pairs of glasses for the price of one instead of two.

I accept your apology. However I have zero interest in your personal life. I only care how many reviews you have posted or useful comments you make on Sugarbabes. When will you post either?

[BennyB]

Forgot to mention...who's the kindergarten kid here you or Doby. He may be a lot of things Benny boy but he's not childish enough to resort to name calling like you.

When your name comes up I think "that's the load she should've swallowed".

You really should go back and read your spite. Please post something meaningful about Sugarbabes or kindly move on..

[BennyB]

I have a serious questions BennyB;

I doubt it. Most of the time you are looking for a gotcha moment. We could have played nicely on here Riff but you don’t want that?

I’ll answer for the benefit of others who might be genuinely interested.


Say you meet an awesome SB and you get BB sex. Would you write a review straight away?

Yes. I like to write them when they are fresh in my mind and I can still smell their scent on me. There’s something pleasurable in remembering the intimate details in the wee hours after you have had great sex and you are lying amongst the wet sheets and the carnage of the hotel room.

I also write them when they are fresh as the whole point of a forum is to pay it forward to each other. Write old / stale / dud intel on The Naked Truth Reviews and you won’t get any credit for it and your review won’t count towards your membership levels. So I think it pays to write them early and post them within a fortnight.


My question is; why would you jeopardize your connection, arrangement, plus the safety of the girl, yourself and other men?

Why is the connection jeopardized? It’s held in an inner sanctum. How is the girl’s safety jeopardized?


Would you review a girl you're currently having BB sex with knowing that other men will be having BB sex with her as well? Or would you write a review only when you end the arrangement?

Just because she has had BB sex with me, doesn’t mean she will want to BB others. Sometimes she will and others she won’t It’s her body and her choice what to do with it. YMMV as always.


I post usernames of girls I didn't click with or only saw once. Basically duds for me. I'm not going to reveal the girls I'm having an ongoing arrangement with and that's pretty normal human behaviour.

So what is the value of posting duds to your fellow members? Do you think so little of them that they deserve your trash?

The point of a forum is to share. If you don’t cultivate a culture where you share the really good stuff, and you openly state that you only throw your fellow members the duds, then the forum is pointless.


In the punting world, WLs who offer BBFS are hidden gems. No punter would let that information get out. Reports of WLs that offer BBFS are most often fake written by an angry client.

Thanks for the lesson. I know what hidden gems are. “No punter would let that information get out” ? Maybe it is not a thing here, but the large number of BB reviews on The Naked Truth, and follow up visits from others, would prove that you are wrong.


Since you always do BBFS, all your reviews would be in the restricted section right?

You seem deeply interested in where my reviews are on TNT…I won’t be sharing them with someone who only leaves his duds for other members.

[Johnisfun1969]

I doubt it. Most of the time you are looking for a gotcha moment. We could have played nicely on here Riff but you don’t want that?

I’ll answer for the benefit of others who might be genuinely interested.



Yes. I like to write them when they are fresh in my mind and I can still smell their scent on me. There’s something pleasurable in remembering the intimate details in the wee hours after you have had great sex and you are lying amongst the wet sheets and the carnage of the hotel room.

I also write them when they are fresh as the whole point of a forum is to pay it forward to each other. Write old / stale / dud intel on TNT and you won’t get any credit for it and your review won’t count towards your membership levels. So I think it pays to write them early and post them within a fortnight.



Why is the connection jeopardized? It’s held in an inner sanctum. How is the girl’s safety jeopardized?



Just because she has had BB sex with me, doesn’t mean she will want to BB others. Sometimes she will and others she won’t It’s her body and her choice what to do with it. YMMV as always.



So what is the value of posting duds to your fellow members? Do you think so little of them that they deserve your trash?

The point of a forum is to share. If you don’t cultivate a culture where you share the really good stuff, and you openly state that you only throw your fellow members the duds, then the forum is pointless.



Thanks for the lesson. I know what hidden gems are. “No punter would let that information get out” ? Maybe it is not a thing here, but the large number of BB reviews on the naked truth, and follow up visits from others, would prove that you are wrong.



You seem deeply interested in where my reviews are on TNT…why is that?

Guys BennyB and Riff888, I have enjoyed both your posts and your experiences on SB. These helped me and fit me started on the site. In the beginning it was taking bit longer to find the right girls. That’s when I sent private messages to both of you and you took the time to reply. Now I have been able to meet couple of girls and enjoying this experience. Thanks to both.

My two cents is let’s not carried away and waste time and effort questioning each other’s comments. We are all grown up and should be able to make our own mind and not blindly accept what we read in forums like this. I could compare this similar to the glowing reviews posted by some members. They write as if they had the best sex and the WL came few times similar to what happens in porn movies. But we all know the truth is something different and even if the WL are good and try hard they won’t be able to respond as passionately as a lover would.

So the ones I have seen and including the girl last night who was the tightest pussy I have experienced as far as I can remember were asking would you use protection or not which means these girls may agree to do BB. I don’t want to take a chance with a girl who may see 2-3 guys per week. So never even asked or contemplated BB. But it seems the younger ones who are non professionals may allow with little coaxing. It should not come as a surprise that BennyB may be gong for BB. Again being punters it’s one’s choice either to believe or not. I don’t believe he is pushing his book but let’s assume for a minute he is. How many of us have bought this book. We are happy to lay $500 to $1000 to these SB and maybe 300-400 to join the site. The $60 as I understand the cost of the ebook is it’s not going to make too much difference. For me the feedback from the other members on the experience has helped a lot but it always left with other questions. Perhaps the book would give even more information.

What I am saying is let’s share our experience rather than trying to question each other. This way we will get a more members to also contribute and make this thread interesting and active. There are enough trolls trying to wreck this anyhow.

Thanks again to you guys who have helped me and others for their contribution. Happy punting ohhhh sorry Sugar Dating.
My goodness I had not realised how easy it was to meet a young SB and have mind blowing sex. It can be addictive and a boost to our middle aged, bulging belly, releasing hairline and what ever else comes with age. But we are able to get a 23 year old to drop her panties 5 min after entering the room. How good is that. Let’s enjoy while we can and help genuine members who want to try this new style of punting.

[BennyB]

John you are a gentleman as always. And your comments about BB are pretty much spot on.

I don’t have a book or a website - I just have recommendations on where I find good stuff. Like my thread on comparing recent Sydney, Melbourne and GC experiences and pricing.

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?105309-Sugarbabes-Sydney-Melbourne-and-Gold-Coast-markets

I’m not sure about your 300-400 to join “the site” - I assume you mean Seeking?

I’m just pleased you are having great Sugarbabe experiences and my observations helped in some small way.

[Johnisfun1969]

John you are a gentleman as always. And your comments about BB are pretty much spot on.

I don’t have a book or a website - I just have recommendations on where I find good stuff. Like my thread on comparing recent Sydney, Melbourne and GC experiences and pricing.

I’m not sure about your 300-400 to join “the site” - I assume you mean Seeking?

I’m just pleased you are having great Sugarbabe experiences and my observations helped in some small way.


Hi BennyB,
Yes I meant about the Seeking site. Both of you guys have been helpful to me and others. Life is too short to waste on small things. Look what happened to Shane Warne. Let’s have fun and enjoy the forum while appreciating everyone’s contribution. We are all different some only like to follow this for entertainment and others active hardcore punters who go to 2-3 WL in a day.

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[BennyB]

thanks for getting this thread back on topic.

A Sb that I was meeting wrote "Will you use condom or .....". To this I replied "Yes, of course" but at the same time I knew it was negotiable. When we met at the hotel I put the box of 12 on the side table and told her about them. We had a nice dinner and soon after we are in bed. She says she doesn't really like condom, just don't come inside her pussy. Was a great night.

Girls and we should too have a big concern with pregnancy. Not all girls take the pill. If I bareback a girl I will not cum inside unless I know she takes contraceptive.

Happy days.

I like this strategy. Always make it her choice and if you are a gentleman and look after her, chances are she will repay you with her trust?

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[heianth]

Just like to add I too have appreciated the sharing of experiences from Benny and riff as well as other brothers in these threads.

Took me long enough to finally have completed my profile. Now the next step to get premium and message away.

Can I ask if you guys use your real names (eventually) or is it all alias' etc?

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[kiddoh]

I like this strategy. Always make it her choice and if you are a gentleman and look after her, chances are she will repay you with her trust?


Keep sharing the insights, good people...

Just that when we are in an understanding that we know something... there come more avenues to explore..

[Riff888]

So I don't have any new reports since I deactivated my SA account.

Having a few ongoing arrangements is like having partners. They keep texting while I'm with another one so it's getting tricky.

Two girls send me nude selfies and videos. Is this the same for other brothers out there?

One girl connected with me on IG, another on Facebook.

After seeing the Indo girl since late November, let's call her D. She kept on messaging me last night but I was in a 3 hour movie with the Taiwanese girl, let's call her J.

So J wanted a quicky after the movie but things are never quick with her. She's one of a few girls I can have straight intercourse with for ages. The last time we just straight f*&ked for 2 episodes of Pam and Tommy on Disney+. She's always wet and I'm never bored or lose focus. It's in different positions, pace and very sensual. That quickly ended up being an hour.

Back to D, I told her I fell asleep. So after a few months of seeing this extremely horny Indo girl. She tells me she wants me to give her forced orgasms. So I looked it up, it's a BDSM thing, plenty of information out there. I said yeah I don't mind trying that on you. It'll have to be on a weekend, we'll need plenty of time. So I ordered some gear online, she's got the toys. I'm not sure if I'll let her do that to me, I've never been into being tied up. I'll do more reading on the subject and give it a go. I've never met a freaky girl like D ever. She's never said no to any request and now she's asking me for forced orgasms like WTF.

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[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[blackpearl]

So I don't have any new reports since I deactivated my SA account.

Having a few ongoing arrangements is like having partners. They keep texting while I'm with another one so it's getting tricky.

Two girls send me nude selfies and videos. Is this the same for other brothers out there?

One girl connected with me on IG, another on Facebook.

After seeing the Indo girl since late November, let's call her D. She kept on messaging me last night but I was in a 3 hour movie with the Taiwanese girl, let's call her J.

So J wanted a quicky after the movie but things are never quick with her. She's one of a few girls I can have straight intercourse with for ages. The last time we just straight f*&ked for 2 episodes of Pam and Tommy on Disney+. She's always wet and I'm never bored or lose focus. It's in different positions, pace and very sensual. That quickly ended up being an hour.

Back to D, I told her I fell asleep. So after a few months of seeing this extremely horny Indo girl. She tells me she wants me to give her forced orgasms. So I looked it up, it's a BDSM thing, plenty of information out there. I said yeah I don't mind trying that on you. It'll have to be on a weekend, we'll need plenty of time. So I ordered some gear online, she's got the toys. I'm not sure if I'll let her do that to me, I've never been into being tied up. I'll do more reading on the subject and give it a go. I've never met a freaky girl like D ever. She's never said no to any request and now she's asking me for forced orgasms like WTF.

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Bro how much you are spending for this girl D and J ? If you dont mind sharing . Just to get an idea .

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[Riff888]

Bro how much you are spending for this girl D and J ? If you dont mind sharing . Just to get an idea .D started at $500 them the next time she said $200. The last session was free but she wants to move in, so she's pushing hard for that.

J stated at $600, then $400, the last session was $300. She loves going to restaurants and ordering big, there's so much food leftover for lunch and dinner the next day.

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[kiddoh]

D started at $500 them the next time she said $200. The last session was free but she wants to move in, so she's pushing hard for that.

J stated at $600, then $400, the last session was $300. She loves going to restaurants and ordering big, there's so much food leftover for lunch and dinner the next day.

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Lucky you! It’s really hard to find SBs like what you have found. Amazing! Keep rocking bro!

[Riff888]

Lucky you! It’s really hard to find SBs like what you have found. Amazing! Keep rocking bro!It'll be all over if the Indo girl moves in.

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[BennyB]

Just like to add I too have appreciated the sharing of experiences from Benny and riff as well as other brothers in these threads.

Took me long enough to finally have completed my profile. Now the next step to get premium and message away.

Can I ask if you guys use your real names (eventually) or is it all alias' etc?

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On Seeking I have a profile name. Then in the chat I tend to use my punting name. When I meet the girls I tell them my real name. Have been doing this for years without any issues.

If you filter well, select well, treat them well, then there are usually no issues when you both move on.

[heianth]

On Seeking I have a profile name. Then in the chat I tend to use my punting name. When I meet the girls I tell them my real name. Have been doing this for years without any issues.

If you filter well, select well, treat them well, then there are usually no issues when you both move on.

What's your filter and selection process like? For instance someone (proactively) requested to view your private photos first?

Interested in other brothers opinions too.

[Johnisfun1969]

What's your filter and selection process like? For instance someone (proactively) requested to view your private photos first?

Interested in other brothers opinions too.

Hi mate,
In the beginning when I did not have any meet ups I had a wider filter in terms of distance around 80km and same for age. I got lot of help from brother Rifff888 and Benny who have been contributing generously. Thanks to both for their advice and support.

I prefer slim girls so always kept this to slim and athletic and average. But girls just loosely describe themselves so my first one was a curvy girl.

As I am building contacts and seeing girls I have narrowed my search. I am chatting to more girls I can see. I find the young ones are unrealisable and quite a few are looking for online only. This means they can be anywhere in the world and even a guy with a dick asking to be paid for sexy pics and takes your money and block you.

I am finding if you are a decent person and use humour you can get many good repsonses. I like petite girls and tried some Asians but my success rate is worst. As far as girls asking to see private pics straight away could be professionals who don’t want to waste time. They have certain target and they don’t respond after looking at the pics. They are waste of time. Even same as the ones who contact you first with a hello.

The other experience is daily there are many new girls who open their account. Again most are exploring and waste of time. More than half either close their account or don’t return.

The last one is use the the chart to filter professionals who do this for living and would short change you with their time or negotiating a higher ppm. Then agree on the specifics of the private time. I had one who was ordered two cocktails the same time for $20 each and two deserts after the food, did not finish it also. But when it came to time in the bed got up to take shower after round 1 and said she was sleepy. Learnt the lesson and will be careful.

Have you met few girls now. How’s your experience.

[Markin]

How do you use airbnb for short term rental for punting? just contact a few owners and see if they rent for half price for a few hours or something? what story do you tell them?

I know dayuse is an option but there aren't many in one particular area I am searching in. Not too many airbnb's either tbh.

[Johnisfun1969]

How do you use airbnb for short term rental for punting? just contact a few owners and see if they rent for half price for a few hours or something? what story do you tell them?

I know dayuse is an option but there aren't many in one particular area I am searching in. Not too many airbnb's either tbh.

Same here, I tried looking for Airbnb but hey are more expensive than some of the hotel rooms. Has not helped unless you pay more and get a good location.

[heianth]

Have you met few girls now. How’s your experience.

I am still very early in my journey which is just messaging and requesting to view private photos (with little luck) :(

But your advice has been invaluable! Definitely a few caveats to consider.

Regarding dayuse - you guys ever tried to contact the hotel directly? Some hotels may not use dayuse (due to commission structure etc) but do offer the same type of service.

[Johnisfun1969]

I am still very early in my journey which is just messaging and requesting to view private photos (with little luck) :(

But your advice has been invaluable! Definitely a few caveats to consider.

Regarding dayuse - you guys ever tried to contact the hotel directly? Some hotels may not use dayuse (due to commission structure etc) but do offer the same type of service.

I did not have much luck with day use as I am towards the western Sydney/Parramatta. I have called few of them but none of them wanetd to be flexible or reduce their rates. I have booked normal hotel through Bookings and get 10-15% off. The day use hotels this side mostly takebooking till 3 or 4pm. Its the Friday night or weekend hotels that are more expensive.

I will also appreciate some recomendations.

So far I found QVB Hotel is in Day use and their rates are competitive. Oaks, APX apartment near Darling Harbour are reasonable and below $150.
Holiday Inn Potts Point have very flexible day use rates and go upto 11pm.

Then there is Quest as well as MGSM executive accomodation in Macquarie Park which is reasonable.

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[BennyB]

What's your filter and selection process like? For instance someone (proactively) requested to view your private photos first?

Interested in other brothers opinions too.

I don’t mind requests for my photos - as long as they have photos and their profile looks genuine. I would generally not provide them straight up, but see if they engage in chat. If they don’t then I don’t bother further.

[BennyB]

I am still very early in my journey which is just messaging and requesting to view private photos (with little luck) :(

But your advice has been invaluable! Definitely a few caveats to consider.

Regarding dayuse - you guys ever tried to contact the hotel directly? Some hotels may not use dayuse (due to commission structure etc) but do offer the same type of service.


Most hotels that are not in the CBD will be open to options. You need to be smart about how you ask. I don’t do a ring around, but will usually do a walk-in when I am in the area and I am in a suit and looking presentable. Then I’ll ask if they are open to providing access to a room when I am in the neighborhood and looking for somewhere to work in the afternoon. I’ve not found many who are not open to negotiating.

[StiFFFy]

So I don't have any new reports since I deactivated my SA account.

Having a few ongoing arrangements is like having partners. They keep texting while I'm with another one so it's getting tricky.

Two girls send me nude selfies and videos. Is this the same for other brothers out there?

One girl connected with me on IG, another on Facebook.

After seeing the Indo girl since late November, let's call her D. She kept on messaging me last night but I was in a 3 hour movie with the Taiwanese girl, let's call her J.

So J wanted a quicky after the movie but things are never quick with her. She's one of a few girls I can have straight intercourse with for ages. The last time we just straight f*&ked for 2 episodes of Pam and Tommy on Disney+. She's always wet and I'm never bored or lose focus. It's in different positions, pace and very sensual. That quickly ended up being an hour.

Back to D, I told her I fell asleep. So after a few months of seeing this extremely horny Indo girl. She tells me she wants me to give her forced orgasms. So I looked it up, it's a BDSM thing, plenty of information out there. I said yeah I don't mind trying that on you. It'll have to be on a weekend, we'll need plenty of time. So I ordered some gear online, she's got the toys. I'm not sure if I'll let her do that to me, I've never been into being tied up. I'll do more reading on the subject and give it a go. I've never met a freaky girl like D ever. She's never said no to any request and now she's asking me for forced orgasms like WTF.

Sent from my GM1910 using TapatalkRifff matey, you HAVE to try it!
As long as she's not forcing things up your rectal cavity (and you're not into that), light bdsm can be a huuuge turn on, for both parties. If you are, all the more fun from a male g spot finish.
Remember, always have a safe word in these situations that would mean stop. Now.
If it isn't your cuppa, start off slow with blindfolds. You'll be amazed how many notches touch, taste or hear go up.

[Riff888]

Rifff matey, you HAVE to try it!
As long as she's not forcing things up your rectal cavity (and you're not into that), light bdsm can be a huuuge turn on, for both parties. If you are, all the more fun from a male g spot finish.
Remember, always have a safe word in these situations that would mean stop. Now.
If it isn't your cuppa, start off slow with blindfolds. You'll be amazed how many notches touch, taste or hear go up.I'm willing to try most things.

I just don't get off using tools on a girl when there's nothing in it for me. I guess my reward will come later.

I've not had much experience with Indonesian girls but this one seems willing to do anything to please. Even watching and acting out cumshot porn and hentai. Is this common for Indonesian girls?

This girl gives Leena a run for her money.

She sends me shit like this all the time.78242

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[kiddoh]

I'm willing to try most things.

I just don't get off using tools on a girl when there's nothing in it for me. I guess my reward will come later.

I've not had much experience with Indonesian girls but this one seems willing to do anything to please. Even watching and acting out cumshot porn and hentai. Is this common for Indonesian girls?

This girl gives Leena a run for her money.

She sends me shit like this all the time.78242

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Nice! Glad it worked out.

I’m not in seeking anymore. Just managing with the contacts which I have got now.
It’s a different ball game.
Will be back in seeking after I’m bored with existing contacts. 😇

[dotcumdotinyou]

Go hard while its on offer Riff, as you well know once you start cohabitation everything stops.

[kiddoh]

Go hard while its on offer Riff, as you well know once you start cohabitation everything stops.


I agree. Cohabitation changes the status quo!

[clausedd]

Do anyone here have a sugar baby while having a gf / partner?

[Riff888]

Do anyone here have a sugar baby while having a gf / partner?Probably about 80% of SDs have partners.

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[clausedd]

Probably about 80% of SDs have partners.

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If its true, i'm so impress with the logistic if you do have arrangement in the same city and given how common a WFH is now.

And for those SD, are you all like a fit SD? Wonder what's the success rate is for someone on the chubbier side?

[heianth]

When there's a will there's a way lol.

If we been visiting brothels or privates already - it's just a little bit more planning than that.

[Blue007]

Any feedback on girls. I'm planning to see a couple this week. Let you know how it goes