View Full Version : Question Struggling to get/stay hard after seeing the same girl for a few times
Bbbj_seeker
15-06-2023, 06:17 PM
Just curious if anybody else go through the same even though the girl is great and service is excellent
ditchtheboss
15-06-2023, 06:27 PM
I have never had that issue but variety is the spice of life
punter-pie
15-06-2023, 06:28 PM
Watch less porn and wank less
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Lucyfur
15-06-2023, 06:41 PM
This is perfect advice for young adults. I was worried i was getting ED when a hot WL is sucking my tip but i can’t get hard. Kicked the porn and wanking now back to normal. Try one week OP and you’ll thank punter-pie later.
OLD SNAKE
15-06-2023, 10:07 PM
Agree give yourself a weeks rest from any sexual activity, the urge will build up and your explosion will be huge, also you might want to get the girl to dabble in a bit of prostate play while you are having sex, a reverse cowgirl gives her the perfect position for this where she can reach down in front of herself and grab your balls and rub your prostate from the outside
yummypinacolada
15-06-2023, 10:15 PM
I myself is addicted to porn and wanking, it really ruins sex for me. Abstinence from porn and jerking off is the answer indeed.
GoldfishMan
15-06-2023, 10:44 PM
Ever seen a well-fed python? It just lays there and doesn't do nothing. That's your dick after its had either too much wanking or too much sex. I went through a period of my life where I was getting sex from GF, agency girls, shop girls, you name it. All of them were hot and I was getting it pretty much every day. But it came to a point where I just couldn't get excited about any girl. When you can get something all the time, that thing becomes not so precious to you, doesn't get you excited anymore.
A good long period of abstinence should fix everything up for you.
Sibon
16-06-2023, 12:55 AM
Ever seen a well-fed python? It just lays there and doesn't do nothing. That's your dick after its had either too much wanking or too much sex. I went through a period of my life where I was getting sex from GF, agency girls, shop girls, you name it. All of them were hot and I was getting it pretty much every day. But it came to a point where I just couldn't get excited about any girl. When you can get something all the time, that thing becomes not so precious to you, doesn't get you excited anymore.
A good long period of abstinence should fix everything up for you.
"Less is more.
More is less.
Enjoy everything
in moderation like a snake.
Python eats too much."
- Miyagi Sensei
Ghost2hauntU
16-06-2023, 01:13 AM
Just curious if anybody else go through the same even though the girl is great and service is excellent
I’ve had this once with a former regular. But my excuse was I had a six pack of beer in me.
Her service was great, catbath followed by a deep BBBJ and swallow of precum.
The thing is, it was too much of a good thing at the start and I went soft.
She played with my cock for ages but it would have any of it.
Finally, she whispered on my ear, “you can fucka no condom but cum outside”.
When I heard her say that, I got super hard in what must have been a second or two, and stayed like that.
So it’s all psychological.
My current regular does very little. No catbath. No blowjob, not even covered.
Just flicks my cock once or twice and I stay rock hard for her the whole hour. (Ok I’m on 100mg of V, but still).
Double_Adapter
16-06-2023, 01:42 AM
"Less is more.
More is less.
Enjoy everything
in moderation like a snake.
Python eats too much."
- Miyagi Sensei
Your cock may be like a python but mine is a fucken anaconda. The anaconda is longer and thicker than the python.
footboy2012
16-06-2023, 10:11 AM
100% abstain from porn and it will work wonders
GoldfishMan
16-06-2023, 10:22 AM
Your cock may be like a python but mine is a fucken anaconda. The anaconda is longer and thicker than the python.
Mine is more like a spitting cobra.
Double_Adapter
16-06-2023, 11:36 AM
Mine is more like a spitting cobra.
A Miyagi Do disciple or an Indian snake charmer are the only two things that can tame a cobra.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5s8qmN6NKvY
GoldfishMan
16-06-2023, 01:17 PM
A Miyagi Do disciple or an Indian snake charmer are the only two things that can tame a cobra.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5s8qmN6NKvY
I don't know about you bro, but I reckon a snake charmer getting a bukakke from a spitting cobra would be one hell of a funny sight if it happened!
JohnJones
16-06-2023, 02:31 PM
Just curious if anybody else go through the same even though the girl is great and service is excellent
I normally get harder and harder each time I see a regular unless I've seen another girl the day before.
Tried a new girl one day before I saw my regular. That girl drained me from BBFS CIP twice in a row, I guess she was really new in this country and didn't know she could charge extra, lucky! So the next day I went to see my regular who only does protected sex, my dick drained from the day before and yearning for BBFS feeling was having a little hard time staying hard. But what I like about my regular is her movements - she made me super hard as soon as she slipped me in even with condom on.
That whole week I didn't want to have sex at all. The satisfaction I received from both girls are amazing that I wanted to regenerate my semen and nerve endings for the following week.
allstarbro
17-06-2023, 12:10 PM
struggling to get hard means time for changing a girl, struggling to stay hard means you need to opt for a blue pill perhaps.
Magictits8
17-06-2023, 01:04 PM
struggling to get hard means time for changing a girl, struggling to stay hard means you need to opt for a blue pill perhaps.
What about struggling to finish? Last two sessions I was able to stay hard but couldn't get over the line.
First one I kinda brushed it off and then decided to see my regular and for 60mins but still couldn't finish :cry:
Ghost2hauntU
17-06-2023, 02:59 PM
What about struggling to finish? Last two sessions I was able to stay hard but couldn't get over the line.
First one I kinda brushed it off and then decided to see my regular and for 60mins but still couldn't finish :cry:
I’ve had this happened to me once with a tall young and hot Singaporean ex model called Alice @271 Marrickville. Booked for 1 hr and we fucked immediately without her offering any catbath, bj. I found her physically attractive but the chemistry just wasn’t there. Anyway, made her cum super hard inside the first 30 min and then she lost interest and completely starfished. I tried to keep the mood up but it was going south, she even accused me of trying to stealth her and with that my cock went soft. Mind you I did have a bottle of champagne in me which prob didn’t help.
Some 10 min later of jerking off, I managed to pull myself together and get hard and put it in with her squeezing my shaft to ensure the dom is on. Fucked a bit more but she kept closing her legs not allowing me in and I went soft again. Time was up and I didn’t jizz.
She asked if I want to extend and I just ignored her and got dressed and walked out.
If your regular is good, and I’m sure she is otherwise you wouldn’t be seeking her, then you should have no problem to blast her in cum. I find a lot of it is also just psychological. For example, couple of months ago I was fucking a WL I haven’t seen in few years and it started of well, catbath, BBBJ then covered sex before she began talking about what she was up to. And I went soft. She saw it and tried to massage me back to size but the psych damage was done and so she just whispered in my ear “you can fuck me no condom but don’t cum inside”, and J was up rock hard in an instant just like that.
It’s just the fucking conscious mind imho that can fuck things up.
Take that idiot out of the equation and you should have no problems.
SmithChips
17-06-2023, 10:50 PM
I’ve had this happened to me once with a tall young and hot Singaporean ex model called Alice @271 Marrickville. Booked for 1 hr and we fucked immediately without her offering any catbath, bj. I found her physically attractive but the chemistry just wasn’t there. Anyway, made her cum super hard inside the first 30 min and then she lost interest and completely starfished. I tried to keep the mood up but it was going south, she even accused me of trying to stealth her and with that my cock went soft. Mind you I did have a bottle of champagne in me which prob didn’t help.
Some 10 min later of jerking off, I managed to pull myself together and get hard and put it in with her squeezing my shaft to ensure the dom is on. Fucked a bit more but she kept closing her legs not allowing me in and I went soft again. Time was up and I didn’t jizz.
She asked if I want to extend and I just ignored her and got dressed and walked out.
If your regular is good, and I’m sure she is otherwise you wouldn’t be seeking her, then you should have no problem to blast her in cum. I find a lot of it is also just psychological. For example, couple of months ago I was fucking a WL I haven’t seen in few years and it started of well, catbath, BBBJ then covered sex before she began talking about what she was up to. And I went soft. She saw it and tried to massage me back to size but the psych damage was done and so she just whispered in my ear “you can fuck me no condom but don’t cum inside”, and J was up rock hard in an instant just like that.
It’s just the fucking conscious mind imho that can fuck things up.
Take that idiot out of the equation and you should have no problems.
Did you f her with no condom after that? That must have been a huge turn on.
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