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Ghost2hauntU
17-08-2023, 10:37 PM
For those of you who bareback, what tricks do you use to last longer?
I focus a lot on my breath work but nevertheless find I have to often pull out and stay out and count to 10 before I put it back in. I’m use 100mg of Viagra but prefer generic Sildanefil Citrate that I found works even better as maintaining hardness and fullness and harder to cum on.
Another thing I do a lot is I refuse the WL’s BBBJ at the start of the session cos it only makes me more sensitive.
Only those who bareback - what do you do to last longer?
GoldfishMan
17-08-2023, 11:03 PM
For those of you who bareback, what tricks do you use to last longer?
I focus a lot on my breath work but nevertheless find I have to often pull out and stay out and count to 10 before I put it back in. I’m use 100mg of Viagra but prefer generic Sildanefil Citrate that I found works even better as maintaining hardness and fullness and harder to cum on.
Another thing I do a lot is I refuse the WL’s BBBJ at the start of the session cos it only makes me more sensitive.
Only those who bareback - what do you do to last longer?
Deep and steady breathing.
I also find that my staying power varies with my physical condition. Might be related to how horny I am, I dunno. Sometimes that "muscle" feels stronger, sometimes it feels weaker. I would try to determine where my limit is, go slow initially and test for it. Once I know where my limit is, it's easier to pace myself to keep going.
I also try to think of some unsexy stuff like work, lol...
TheOtherI
17-08-2023, 11:13 PM
For those of you who bareback, what tricks do you use to last longer?
I focus a lot on my breath work but nevertheless find I have to often pull out and stay out and count to 10 before I put it back in. I’m use 100mg of Viagra but prefer generic Sildanefil Citrate that I found works even better as maintaining hardness and fullness and harder to cum on.
Another thing I do a lot is I refuse the WL’s BBBJ at the start of the session cos it only makes me more sensitive.
Only those who bareback - what do you do to last longer?
Not with WL but just in general, start slow (use the counting method if you need to) and about 5 minutes in you’ll start to feel desensitised and you can pick up the pace and go to town.
I think of it like how they touch a crocodile’s mouth with a stick to desensitise it to touch so when they stick their arm in they they don’t bite it off. haha
Good luck
JJBlows
17-08-2023, 11:26 PM
Danny D's advice is pretty good and I use it too, if the position your hitting it in is too good, change or adjust your position that will reduce the feeling or pull out all together to catch yourself whilst doing some foreplay on her till you loose that sensitive feeling. Also if she is getting off and you can't stop for her sake, trying counting 1 - 1000, 2 - 2000 and concentrate on that.
Hidden Python
17-08-2023, 11:30 PM
The secret to lasting longer is to do your breathing and stretching exercises before you start, like a pre warm up, that way you are already relaxed and ready to perform
When you are anxious you tend to be more sensitive and blow your load a lot quicker,
bummer
18-08-2023, 12:24 AM
The secret to lasting longer is to do your breathing and stretching exercises before you start, like a pre warm up, that way you are already relaxed and ready to perform
When you are anxious you tend to be more sensitive and blow your load a lot quicker,
All true.
I have one particular lady who I will bareback all the time. NONE of our actual coitus nowadays are less than 15 minutes, occasionally over 20. she relaxes me and as great muscle control. If she wants she can get me to cum in 30 secs, but that would be very vey rare. Most girls can get guys to cum really quick, if they only realise it..
GoldfishMan
18-08-2023, 12:46 AM
The secret to lasting longer is to do your breathing and stretching exercises before you start, like a pre warm up, that way you are already relaxed and ready to perform
When you are anxious you tend to be more sensitive and blow your load a lot quicker,
Now I'm really convinced you're a PE teacher
Ghost2hauntU
18-08-2023, 12:53 AM
Danny D's advice is pretty good and I use it too, if the position your hitting it in is too good, change or adjust your position that will reduce the feeling or pull out all together to catch yourself whilst doing some foreplay on her till you loose that sensitive feeling. Also if she is getting off and you can't stop for her sake, trying counting 1 - 1000, 2 - 2000 and concentrate on that.
Awesome tips from all of you. Danny D is one of my idols right next to Rocco Siffredi. Legends that I look up to.
harmsup_jai
18-08-2023, 01:13 AM
I think of ugly chicks or men .
Hidden Python
18-08-2023, 01:24 AM
Now I'm really convinced you're a PE teacher
Not quite, but after having a heart stem inserted after a blockage, I take my diet and exercise very seriously, plus I am 51 and need to do my warm up stretches just to get out of bed in the morning.
BigPedro666
18-08-2023, 06:49 AM
Count sheep lots of them
Kiryu0
18-08-2023, 09:36 AM
I have bad discipline and usually can't stop myself enjoying the session. So I usually just go with the flow and come if I need to rather than stress about it.
Usually I compensate for it by going round 2.
But I do appreciate all your tips here guys! Will try out some of the methods mentioned here.
Niisato
18-08-2023, 11:40 AM
My advice is avoid pussy-slides before any bareback. They get me from 0 to 98% within 2 minutes.
JSteel96
18-08-2023, 12:09 PM
After years of humping I naturally take things slow, start with a nice natural slow long BJ then suck her tits for a while do some doggy & horsie then eat her out at which time I blow around 30 to 45 mins every time I've just learned to hold back as I don't wanna blow in 2 mins or 10 mins and miss out on all the extra fun.
to quote Homer, " think un-sexy thoughts, think un-sexy thoughts, think un-sexy thoughts "
Footballpunter
18-08-2023, 04:38 PM
Think about baseball, that usually helps
Sibon
18-08-2023, 04:56 PM
For those of you who bareback, what tricks do you use to last longer?
I focus a lot on my breath work but nevertheless find I have to often pull out and stay out and count to 10 before I put it back in. I’m use 100mg of Viagra but prefer generic Sildanefil Citrate that I found works even better as maintaining hardness and fullness and harder to cum on.
Another thing I do a lot is I refuse the WL’s BBBJ at the start of the session cos it only makes me more sensitive.
Only those who bareback - what do you do to last longer?
When I bare back I think of the catching Syphilis.
The fear makes me last longer.
I think the thought causes a bit of instant shrinkage and dumbness which contribute to lasting a few more minutes.
Double_Adapter
18-08-2023, 04:59 PM
The techniques and gimmicks suggested eg breathing, delay gels, blue/yellow pills, Korean ginseng, lots of foreplay, thinking abstract, choking the snake's head, sharpening the knife (aka Master Mantak), changing positions, going slow, counting sheep, avoiding pussy slides etc are all valid tips.
Ultimately it all comes down to practice.....and lots of practice. Houdini wouldn't have been able to pull off those underwater stunts without first mastering the art of holding his breath, and equally a punter cannot be a master of his craft unless he learns to sustain his erection and hold back his sperm. Two foundational pillars of punting is; Practice and Rotation.
And btw, a shout out to the bareback riders chapter.
Kiryu0
18-08-2023, 04:59 PM
That doesn't sound much fun though if the fear hits you through out the whole session right? How do you go back to enjoying it?
Or do you just give up?
kpopcity
18-08-2023, 05:43 PM
Masturbate and cum a couple of hours before hand.
Exercise also helps i find.
And the rest is just practice
Raybo
18-08-2023, 07:13 PM
I am happy with fucking for 10 or 15 minutes in an hour session. Any longer would be kind of boring for me. I like all the other stuff because it also feels pretty damn good and I reckon you get more out of the WL or WL's you are with.
Last thing I want to do is think of something gross or off-putting when you are in the moment.
xboyx
18-08-2023, 07:51 PM
Punting more, aging also helps
Kiryu0
18-08-2023, 08:19 PM
Masturbate and cum a couple of hours before hand.
Exercise also helps i find.
And the rest is just practice
I can agree with this. But feels like a waste of your first load whether you come inside or outside. A big load on the girl is just that beautiful sometimes.
Ghost2hauntU
19-08-2023, 12:15 AM
I can agree with this. But feels like a waste of your first load whether you come inside or outside. A big load on the girl is just that beautiful sometimes.
It’s an amazing feeling as we all know fucking that pussy holding back a big load. But that’s what makes it so challenging, one thrust too many or when that pussy feels just tighter or warmer around your cock and …pop goes the weasel!
In my 20’s when I lived near Fyshwick in the ACT, there was an instance I busted 5 loads in succession before seeing a WL late at night. It certainly helped me in that I didn’t cum early, except at the end of the 1 hr when I did cum, it was just a few drops and she wasn’t impressed. I learned quickly to save those loads for the ladies and and work on my breathing, speed and pulling out to last longer. Mind you, all the WLs I had back then were all covered. There was no such thing as bareback in the ACT brothels back then lol.
dt333
19-08-2023, 12:42 AM
Think of Susan Boyle.
JJBlows
19-08-2023, 01:25 AM
Think of Susan Boyle.
Tried that once but the girl i was with was a glass slipper for me and I still came
Ghost2hauntU
19-08-2023, 01:39 AM
Think of Susan Boyle.
Yeah or Gina Rhinehart
bistro
19-08-2023, 08:13 AM
I think fitness play a part in this bedroom stamina. Not sure which activity gets me there though.
Used to did a lot of deadlift and squat.
Even when its not either back day or leg day, i would still do lightweight just to keep muscle soreness there...
When its payday i would visit two to three brothel, enjoy 45 minutes each. Each time i bang the girl until the alarm bell rang.
Nowadays, i dont exercise anymore, my belly probably the size of watermelon, i cum too fast lolz....
When ur 50, sex is no longer main thing in our mind....
l337dude
19-08-2023, 09:41 AM
cumming too soon doesn't have much to do with your physical health actually, it has to do with sensitivity (aging, bad masturbation habit can reduce sensitivity etc) and control of your pelvic floor muscle, also your level of horniness, all that exercise will just jack up your test and make you even hornier. Only 2 natural methods I can think of to help you last longer guaranteed:
1. kegal (to delay and control ejaculation you need strong control of your PE muscle)
2. death grip before your session (you can choose to edge if you want to save the load but the idea is to reduce sensitivity a bit), I personally don't really recommend this method as prolonged death grip jerk off is a no no.
priapus1966
19-08-2023, 10:46 AM
Get older. And a bit older still if the message is too short.
Sharphorse
19-08-2023, 06:25 PM
One time I came inside and decided to keep going but it felt weird. We agreed that she would go to the bathroom and let the cum out then we would keep going 🤣 So if you’re prepared to cum multiple times you’ll go longer the second time. Otherwise breathing exercises. The ultimate is to last and then finally blow a big load, inside or out
Av8rpablo
22-08-2023, 05:49 AM
Don’t know where to post this question but have any of you had bbfs luck with the Vietnamese girls working at the popular shops near the cbd? No need for specific names (or feel free to pm) just wondering if it’s worth asking them without expecting a flat no. Thx!
Kiryu0
22-08-2023, 11:31 AM
Don’t know where to post this question but have any of you had bbfs luck with the Vietnamese girls working at the popular shops near the cbd? No need for specific names (or feel free to pm) just wondering if it’s worth asking them without expecting a flat no. Thx!
You can cross V Soda and V Hana off the list to see. I tried and it was a flat no lol.
JJBlows
22-08-2023, 08:27 PM
Don’t know where to post this question but have any of you had bbfs luck with the Vietnamese girls working at the popular shops near the cbd? No need for specific names (or feel free to pm) just wondering if it’s worth asking them without expecting a flat no. Thx!
You would have better luck making a girl a regular and be decent to her, maybe if she enjoys your company then it's still a 50/50 to her saying yes but don't get your hopes up
Or you are bbfs a Viet girl already and you want to sus out if she's done it with other punters as well instead of only you??
didaswiwaw
22-08-2023, 11:04 PM
You would have better luck making a girl a regular and be decent to her, maybe if she enjoys your company then it's still a 50/50 to her saying yes but don't get your hopes up
Or you are bbfs a Viet girl already and you want to sus out if she's done it with other punters as well instead of only you??
There's no WL who do exclusive BBFS with 1 customer. Some are selective for sure, but definitely never the only one.
Definitley breathing exercises and simple math. Distracts your brain just enough
I’ve heard some people think of an ugly or annoying person in their life, but that may make you lose your erection
john1232009
23-08-2023, 02:33 PM
I don't do bareback but I will definitely be using some of these tips!
bung72
23-08-2023, 06:27 PM
Masturbate and cum a couple of hours before hand.
Exercise also helps i find.
And the rest is just practice
The pre-cumming could work well, most of my most epic fucks have been 'shot #2', could be risky though under the pressure of a punt.... I've thought about experimenting with this approach one time....
Ghost2hauntU
24-08-2023, 02:04 AM
There's no WL who do exclusive BBFS with 1 customer. Some are selective for sure, but definitely never the only one.
Lol lol. That’d be my first and last.
PleadInsanity
24-08-2023, 01:15 PM
Tried out this Edge delay gel from chemist warehouse. Seem to work so far for the two RNT session that recently had. Actually for me it work too good:cry: One session at TR massage. The girl could not make me cum after the flip over. I tired both her hands out. I guess at least the girl wish I didn’t opt for CBJ. I’m yet to convince it’s the gel or psychology effect. It has a tingling sensation on the penis, feel like it doing something. Not sure what it will taste like for the girl doing BBBJ. Of course YMMV.
GoldfishMan
24-08-2023, 04:52 PM
Nah, those gels are a really bad idea. Why would you deliberately deny yourself the pleasure of fucking just for the sake of being able to fuck longer? That's what you'd call a pyrrhic victory.
Second, it's also extremely bad for any sort of BB action. BBBJ, girl will get a numb mouth, throat, who knows what other allergic reaction she could get. Same goes for BBFS. The only safe method of using this crap is in a Dom. Complete BS invention this.
https://tantricacademy.com/ejaculation-control-training/
I've done the free training. It takes lots of practice and a few weeks before you see the benefits. It's worked well for me.
Ben Mar
24-08-2023, 11:02 PM
https://tantricacademy.com/ejaculation-control-training/
I've done the free training. It takes lots of practice and a few weeks before you see the benefits. It's worked well for me.
Can watch the Mantak Chia videos on London Real. Just have to register as a free member.
ditchtheboss
25-08-2023, 10:03 AM
The best strategy to last longer during sex is to put a fucking condom on. And here it goes again
Sibon
25-08-2023, 10:17 AM
For those of you who bareback, what tricks do you use to last longer?
I focus a lot on my breath work but nevertheless find I have to often pull out and stay out and count to 10 before I put it back in. I’m use 100mg of Viagra but prefer generic Sildanefil Citrate that I found works even better as maintaining hardness and fullness and harder to cum on.
Another thing I do a lot is I refuse the WL’s BBBJ at the start of the session cos it only makes me more sensitive.
Only those who bareback - what do you do to last longer?
If you want to be a contributor of global spread of Syphilis you're welcomed to it.
For me No Condom No Sex. :)
ditchtheboss
25-08-2023, 10:29 AM
If you want to be a contributor of global spread of Syphilis you're welcomed to it.
For me No Condom No Sex. :)
Couldn’t agree more. The closest I get to it is pussy slides but who can resist them. I do get worried about their juices flowing on the head of my cock but so far I haven’t had any issues. Many years of punting and never caught anything. Fingers crossed. No dom no fun
Double_Adapter
25-08-2023, 11:04 AM
Nah, those gels are a really bad idea. Why would you deliberately deny yourself the pleasure of fucking just for the sake of being able to fuck longer? That's what you'd call a pyrrhic victory.
I guess the same type of victory applies to a punter who barebacks and then gets an STD.
Pyrrhic barebacking for lack of a better term...
Kiryu0
25-08-2023, 03:08 PM
If you want to be a contributor of global spread of Syphilis you're welcomed to it.
For me No Condom No Sex. :)
We're not going to live much longer anyways. Might as well enjoy it while life is short :)
Ghost2hauntU
25-08-2023, 10:55 PM
We're not going to live much longer anyways. Might as well enjoy it while life is short :)
Fuck yeah brah! Keep partying on.
frisson
25-08-2023, 11:06 PM
If you want to be a contributor of global spread of Syphilis you're welcome to it
Agree.
But just syphilis ? What about the A-Z of infection. Also the Chlamydia which often causes no symptoms in men but can cause infertility in the women in your life that you spread the disease to
hendryguy
26-08-2023, 08:57 AM
You can try natural ingredients : garlic + raw honey (just swallow not chew/mince ) every morning empty stomach.
It will enhance men performance in bed or body immunity. You can google more about this recipe on internet.
Take 2 months to feel the result. so be patient...every individual may have different result.
ColesBag
26-08-2023, 03:55 PM
You guys heard of male kegel exercises? You should try it, it's a thing.
Also work on your core strength in general as that definitely helps as well.
Vincent888
05-11-2023, 08:20 AM
Try counting to a number like 400. Then repeat. Sometimes it’s the number 20 over and over again. Depends on sex position and speed.
frisson
05-11-2023, 09:41 AM
When I bare back I think of the catching Syphilis.
The fear makes me last longer.
I think the thought causes a bit of instant shrinkage and dumbness which contribute to lasting a few more minutes.
What stops me from practicing unsafe sex is also the thought of sharing bodily fluids with an unwise WLs and all of the other men she has had sex with in the last 5-10 days. Where's my protection from HIV and genital warts ??
jedibear
05-11-2023, 11:24 AM
Try counting to a number like 400. Then repeat. Sometimes it’s the number 20 over and over again. Depends on sex position and speed.Oh come on...are u really enjoying the fuck if u do that? Just dom up and last longer too...
I havent BB'd in so long, I actually wonder how many strokes I can get if I had an actual gf to BB with [emoji1787]
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Ghost2hauntU
05-11-2023, 11:33 AM
Oh come on...are u really enjoying the fuck if u do that? Just dom up and last longer too...
I havent BB'd in so long, I actually wonder how many strokes I can get if I had an actual gf to BB with [emoji1787]
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My last was in July. When she rode me in cow I was cool. But once I had her on the side the sight of my cock going in and out of her juicy pussy had a devastating effect. I had to slow down and eventually do one thrust at a time pulling out completely while breathing really fast. It was so fucken good that it was torturous. Eventually I was saved by the bell and released all over her torso.
JohnJones
05-11-2023, 11:43 AM
Many advice on lasting longer actually defeats the purpose of sex. You want to feel the juices and vaginal walls enveloping your penis, bringing out the bliss that condom sex lacks.
It's like dying - normally a person dying from a heart attack doesn't know what to do but panic, and ends up collapsing while slowly losing their breaths. I know a Lama who predicted his own heart attack and slowed down the symptoms so that he could die a natural instead of shocking death.
Normally when we are horny, our balls gets warm and firms up. We feel as if it's about to turn blue, hence the term "blue balls" whenever we can't blow a load when aroused. This feeling makes people start to think using their balls rather than the big brain.
There is a type of yoga that I learned that utilises this feeling and through practice the yogi can shift this feeling around the body. If I want the "blue balls" feeling to subside and feel blissful at the same time I will shift it to the tip of the penis. When doing bareback sex, focusing the blissful feeling at the tip of the penis actually stops me from cumming prematurely - in this yoga they call it "closing the gate". You can feel every blissful sensation and control when you want to cum.
At the same time I use the same yoga practice to feel blissful whenever I feel the "blue balls" feeling arises and I'm at a situation where I'm uncomfortable with jerking off on the spot or I can't punt. Shift the feeling towards the tip of the penis and leave it there, the blissful feeling will stay there until it finally passes.
This yoga is a secret yoga not available to all because it can cause premature death or serious illness if not performed properly. My teacher didn't charge me a single cent at all when he taught me but he and other teachers have warned that serious consequences can happen if taught to unqualified students, as preliminary practices are required to practice such yoga.
cocktopus
05-11-2023, 01:34 PM
My last was in July. When she rode me in cow I was cool. But once I had her on the side the sight of my cock going in and out of her juicy pussy had a devastating effect. I had to slow down and eventually do one thrust at a time pulling out completely while breathing really fast. It was so fucken good that it was torturous. Eventually I was saved by the bell and released all over her torso.
Man I'm the opposite. Whenever the girl is on top and I'm not in control of the pace I blow so fast. Lol. When I'm on top or have them in doggy I can mix it up if I feel like I'm gonna cum and keep going. Down side is that this is sometimes too effective and then I struggle to blow at all. Having said that doggy is the go to when trying to bust out that stubborn nut.
jedibear
05-11-2023, 04:32 PM
Man I'm the opposite. Whenever the girl is on top and I'm not in control of the pace I blow so fast. Lol. When I'm on top or have them in doggy I can mix it up if I feel like I'm gonna cum and keep going. Down side is that this is sometimes too effective and then I struggle to blow at all. Having said that doggy is the go to when trying to bust out that stubborn nut.Really? I always find I blow better with mish...esp if I find the WG attractive. I like being able to see their face when I fuck them...
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