Helping inexperienced guys to talk to girls

[xboyx]

ok so growing up, I was never able to hold a conversation with girls. I would usually talk to girls like doing an interview Yes/No, which is pathetic.
But I know many guys are on the same boat cuz I was one.

It took me 36 years till I was able to manage to talk to girls :shout:
It helped improve my confidence. It helped build a good rapport with girls (many girls), made them laugh, had fun and in return, had many great punts.

Well, they didn't know that I often say the same things, ask the same questions to most girls. It's the same lines, the same questions that I recycle them all the time.

So let's throw in some lines here to help inexperienced guys. Here are some of my lines.
The key is to keep it lightheaded, jokes about it. Or be judgmental about her but jokes about it. Or ask questions that make her think, avoid simple Yes/No questions.
These are simple questions, geared toward asian girls whose english is more limited (and because I'm asian so we asian get asian jokes)

1
Me: What's your real name? Japanese name?
She: It's secret.
Me: Let me guess. Sakura?
She: No
Me: "Nazuki? ... (this is where she would laugh out loud) Nobita? Yamaha? Toyota?
Why do Japanese all sound with ahhh?"
We both laughed

2
Me: You're student?
She: Yea
Me: So are you a good student or a lazy one?
She: Bad one
Me: uhhh, have you ever cheated in exams?.. (show her how she can cheats in exams), I did it before. You should try it
(by this time, she would have a good laugh with you)

3
Me: Can you cook?
She: Yes
Me: (Look at her with your eyes rolling, judging) What, you can cook? You don't look like you can cook. I'd kill myself if you can (then laugh)
She would have a laugh on this. Then follow up with asking what can she cook

4
Me: Do you have brothers or sisters?
She: Yes brother
Me: so what do you guys talk about?
She: .blah blah blah
Me: Have you ever talked to him about sex? Maybe he needs some help fucking his gf
She would laugh on this one, then you can crack a joke on this such as "How would you know? Maybe he can't get hard, maybe he comes early, you gotta show him how it's done"

5
Me: what was you first crush? the very first one (this will make her think hard)
She: (think hard) it was in high school
Me: are you into handsome boys or rich men?
She: blah blah blah
Me: if you have a choice of a handsome boy that you love, but he's poor, and a rich man, but sex is crap, who would you pick?
She: (often she picks the rich one) blah blah blah
Then I'd go on judging her on her choice, this debate can go on for a long time and it's an interesting subject for woman


You guys can chip in your tips and lines here please. I'll use learn your lines too.

[PussyAddict]

Point 5 a good one. Must try myself

I'll often start with quoting their country and saying it's my favourite, I always wanted to visit. I then tell em I booked because of good reviews of them. Then ask if they miss their family. From there I'll start talking about the sex they like the sex I like. I throw in things also during this with can play your music if you like and can we do with light on. My aim in whenever I talk is to direct questions back at me not seek information on them since it's all bs for safety reasons. The best covos I've had are with Eurasion Brandy (fresh back) about sex .Can't wait to see her. Ang T Nikki 666. She always talk deep and honest to me and I feel can trust her with knowledge about financial situation, work and views on life etc.

[Footballpunter]

Is this more like "help inexperience guys talk to a WL?"

[Meng]

Is this more like "help inexperience guys talk to a WL?"

I was going to say the same thing lol. Imagine asking a normal girl whether she gives her brother sex advice to fuck his GF lol. You'd get a slap on the face.

[rooter]

I like to ask deeper questions mainly on astrophysics.
It gets the ball rolling and creates a positive intellectual environment for fucking each others brains out.
"What do you think of the string theory of the universe?"
"Do you think extra-terrestrial life exists?"
"What do you think dark matter consists of?"
"And what about dark energy?"
"Do you think there are parallel universes?"
"What's your take on black holes?"
The WLs appreciate being valued for their minds and not just their bodies and being intellectually stimulated. Their pussies get really wet when tackling these deeper questions.

[thefeared]

Some of these you really need some charisma to get moving. Without charisma, the brother/sister one is a lead brick.

[Hidden Python]

Most guys on this forums conversations with women go a little like this.
W/L: how long would you like to stay
Punter: 1 hour
W/L: which service would you like
Punter:diamond
W/L: that’s $250
Punter:Ok
Than we all knows what goes on in between and at the end
W/L: wow you so big you lasted a long time, come back next week i give you good service again.
Punter: thank you and says his good byes

[asiafever]

I like to ask deeper questions mainly on astrophysics.
It gets the ball rolling and creates a positive intellectual environment for fucking each others brains out.
"What do you think of the string theory of the universe?"
"Do you think extra-terrestrial life exists?"
"What do you think dark matter consists of?"
"And what about dark energy?"
"Do you think there are parallel universes?"
"What's your take on black holes?"
The WLs appreciate being valued for their minds and not just their bodies and being intellectually stimulated. Their pussies get really wet when tackling these deeper questions.

I know you're joking but I once had a ml straddling me, naked, rubbing my chest and asking my views on Adler vs Freud.

[xboyx]

I like to ask deeper questions mainly on astrophysics.
It gets the ball rolling and creates a positive intellectual environment for fucking each others brains out.
"What do you think of the string theory of the universe?"
"Do you think extra-terrestrial life exists?"
"What do you think dark matter consists of?"
"And what about dark energy?"
"Do you think there are parallel universes?"
"What's your take on black holes?"
The WLs appreciate being valued for their minds and not just their bodies and being intellectually stimulated. Their pussies get really wet when tackling these deeper questions.

hahah you sure this works on WL/ML?

their english is limited, and most of them are not nerds

[xboyx]

Some of these you really need some charisma to get moving. Without charisma, the brother/sister one is a lead brick.

I've never had issues with this joke with the girls. If you make it fun and not serious, you'll have a laugh about it

[Ghost2hauntU]

Here, get it in you:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XwXB2MNAk7c&pp=ygUaRG8gdG91IGZ1Y2sgb24gZmlyc3QgZGF0ZXM%3D

[crazykyle1984]

Sometimes a simple “hello” just doesn’t feel like enough when you’re trying to get the attention of someone special. While pick-up lines are certainly cheesy, getting the girl to crack even the tiniest of smiles may just be enough to break the ice. Keep in mind that pick-up lines are meant to be taken lightly, so the cornier the better.

1. Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears!
2. Are you sure you’re not tired? You’ve been running through my mind all day.
3. I’m not a hoarder, but I really want to keep you forever.
4. I should charge you rent for spending so much time in my mind.
5. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

I think Charisma and the way you give off first impressions is vital here. not anyone really can pull them off. hth

[JJBlows]

Woman love to talk full stop. Actually listen to what she is talking about and don't be afraid to ask questions about what she is talking about whether it be hobbys etc as she will pick on up the specific question being asked and realise that you are actually listening and have taken a interest and usually it makes conversing with them easier as they sort of carry the conversation.

One thing I kind of learnt is if you have different interests, then don't be afraid to talk about yours if you think it isn't her thing because like I mentioned above, if she asks questions then she is listening to you and is willing to ask questions about your hobbies etc, basically she is interested in you to stay and to listen to you. You can't all have the same interests and if you feel like she is bored, try something else and if not, cut it short and leave, no point hanging around anymore

[danaussieguy]

Woman love to talk full stop. Actually listen to what she is talking about and don't be afraid to ask questions about what she is talking about whether it be hobbys etc as she will pick on up the specific question being asked and realise that you are actually listening and have taken a interest and usually it makes conversing with them easier as they sort of carry the conversation.

One thing I kind of learnt is if you have different interests, then don't be afraid to talk about yours if you think it isn't her thing because like I mentioned above, if she asks questions then she is listening to you and is willing to ask questions about your hobbies etc, basically she is interested in you to stay and to listen to you. You can't all have the same interests and if you feel like she is bored, try something else and if not, cut it short and leave, no point hanging around anymore

This is a good suggestion, really! I have this on my thoughts too

[Refedust]

I've never had issues with this joke with the girls. If you make it fun and not serious, you'll have a laugh about it

The key is confident and able to speak out what the girl likes

[danaussieguy]

1. Confidence: Be confident but not overly cocky.
2. Start Small: Begin with simple topics.
3. Listen: Pay attention and ask open-ended questions.
4. Eye Contact: Maintain appropriate eye contact.
5. Body Language: Use open and relaxed body language.
6. Compliments: Offer sincere compliments.
7. Common Interests: Find shared hobbies.
8. Sense of Humor: Use humor when appropriate.
9. Respect Boundaries: Respect personal boundaries.
10. Practice: The more you practice, the better you get.
11. Authenticity: Be yourself; authenticity is attractive.

[earl9122]

here's a humorous take!

Helping inexperienced guys talk to girls is like giving a penguin swimming lessons in a hot tub – it's all about breaking the ice, staying cool, and not getting too flustered when things start to steam up! 😄

[pornonporn]

Try not watching porn for 2 weeks and you will be more confident

[old_blood]

Those are good lines but I think it's best not to try to remember a script, it will make you nervous.

Just talk to girls like they are normal people, take an interest in them and ask about themselves because everyone likes to talk about themselves. If you feel the right vibe, neg them a little bit by making fun of them. If things don't work out as well as you expected, don't be too harsh on yourself because not everyone is compatible with everyone.

[ColesBag]

Sometimes a simple “hello” just doesn’t feel like enough when you’re trying to get the attention of someone special. While pick-up lines are certainly cheesy, getting the girl to crack even the tiniest of smiles may just be enough to break the ice. Keep in mind that pick-up lines are meant to be taken lightly, so the cornier the better.

1. Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears!
2. Are you sure you’re not tired? You’ve been running through my mind all day.
3. I’m not a hoarder, but I really want to keep you forever.
4. I should charge you rent for spending so much time in my mind.
5. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

I think Charisma and the way you give off first impressions is vital here. not anyone really can pull them off. hth

I sincerely hope you googled that shit.

[F0x]

Seriously, if you are confident in what you say, you can literally say practically anything to a Woman.

Provided you'll never see her again, just say whatever.

Literally. Try it. Go up to a woman and say " hey girl. I saw you and thought you were very attractive. Why don't you take me out to dinner, wine and dine me, and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky at the end of the night.

No promises though".

Say that.

[xboyx]

Seriously, if you are confident in what you say, you can literally say practically anything to a Woman.

Provided you'll never see her again, just say whatever.

Literally. Try it. Go up to a woman and say " hey girl. I saw you and thought you were very attractive. Why don't you take me out to dinner, wine and dine me, and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky at the end of the night.

No promises though".

Say that.

have you tried this yourself? does this work?

[imyouraussieguy]

Seriously, if you are confident in what you say, you can literally say practically anything to a Woman.

Provided you'll never see her again, just say whatever.

Literally. Try it. Go up to a woman and say " hey girl. I saw you and thought you were very attractive. Why don't you take me out to dinner, wine and dine me, and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky at the end of the night.

No promises though".

Say that.

No harm in trying and there is nothing to lose either . You may get a 'No' but you could also get an unexpected 'Yes'. Be as bold and daring as you can - Women actually appreciate confidence, especially when it comes to taking chances in life. But always remember that whatever the outcome of your approach is, stay humble and respect her decision either way - It will only make you more attractive. Good luck! :)

[GoldfishMan]

have you tried this yourself? does this work?

I don't get it. So what if it worked for him and the girl he used it on? He's different from you. Even the girl you're going to approach is different from the girl he approached.

Not a single thing in the 2 equations are the same, why would you expect the same results?

[Double_Adapter]

This instructional might help sone of the inexperienced guys.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CyBU58Joyba/

[expert]

ok so growing up, I was never able to hold a conversation with girls. I would usually talk to girls like doing an interview Yes/No, which is pathetic.
But I know many guys are on the same boat cuz I was one.

It took me 36 years till I was able to manage to talk to girls :shout:
It helped improve my confidence. It helped build a good rapport with girls (many girls), made them laugh, had fun and in return, had many great punts.

Well, they didn't know that I often say the same things, ask the same questions to most girls. It's the same lines, the same questions that I recycle them all the time.

So let's throw in some lines here to help inexperienced guys. Here are some of my lines.
The key is to keep it lightheaded, jokes about it. Or be judgmental about her but jokes about it. Or ask questions that make her think, avoid simple Yes/No questions.
These are simple questions, geared toward asian girls whose english is more limited (and because I'm asian so we asian get asian jokes)

1
Me: What's your real name? Japanese name?
She: It's secret.
Me: Let me guess. Sakura?
She: No
Me: "Nazuki? ... (this is where she would laugh out loud) Nobita? Yamaha? Toyota?
Why do Japanese all sound with ahhh?"
We both laughed

2
Me: You're student?
She: Yea
Me: So are you a good student or a lazy one?
She: Bad one
Me: uhhh, have you ever cheated in exams?.. (show her how she can cheats in exams), I did it before. You should try it
(by this time, she would have a good laugh with you)

3
Me: Can you cook?
She: Yes
Me: (Look at her with your eyes rolling, judging) What, you can cook? You don't look like you can cook. I'd kill myself if you can (then laugh)
She would have a laugh on this. Then follow up with asking what can she cook

4
Me: Do you have brothers or sisters?
She: Yes brother
Me: so what do you guys talk about?
She: .blah blah blah
Me: Have you ever talked to him about sex? Maybe he needs some help fucking his gf
She would laugh on this one, then you can crack a joke on this such as "How would you know? Maybe he can't get hard, maybe he comes early, you gotta show him how it's done"

5
Me: what was you first crush? the very first one (this will make her think hard)
She: (think hard) it was in high school
Me: are you into handsome boys or rich men?
She: blah blah blah
Me: if you have a choice of a handsome boy that you love, but he's poor, and a rich man, but sex is crap, who would you pick?
She: (often she picks the rich one) blah blah blah
Then I'd go on judging her on her choice, this debate can go on for a long time and it's an interesting subject for woman


You guys can chip in your tips and lines here please. I'll use learn your lines too.


I like to ask deeper questions mainly on astrophysics.
It gets the ball rolling and creates a positive intellectual environment for fucking each others brains out.
"What do you think of the string theory of the universe?"
"Do you think extra-terrestrial life exists?"
"What do you think dark matter consists of?"
"And what about dark energy?"
"Do you think there are parallel universes?"
"What's your take on black holes?"
The WLs appreciate being valued for their minds and not just their bodies and being intellectually stimulated. Their pussies get really wet when tackling these deeper questions.

I agree. You’d be surprised on how intellectual some WLs/MLs are and they are just either too lazy to find an office job or this job just really pays a lot.

[F0x]

No harm in trying and there is nothing to lose either . You may get a 'No' but you could also get an unexpected 'Yes'. Be as bold and daring as you can - Women actually appreciate confidence, especially when it comes to taking chances in life. But always remember that whatever the outcome of your approach is, stay humble and respect her decision either way - It will only make you more attractive. Good luck! :)

This is exactly it.

Looking at that Instagram thing double adaptor sent, I mean, yeah 'Sundeep' dried up every pussy in a 5 mile radius by being as boring as fucking batshit as soon as he opened his mouth.

Now, technically speaking, the words don't matter. But the delivery does. 'Another' Sundeep could say exactly what he said in a different way and get a different reaction.

One could also say what I proposed and sound like a 70 year old librarian saying it and it wont work.

Say it confidently with each part conveying a certain tone and as said you might not always get a yes, it you'll at least leave an impression as opposed to being boring bro number 73739.

"Hey girl, I saw you and thought you were very attractive" the tone to convey is that you are confident in what you like and you like what you see. NOT a tone of omg I'm so thirsty for anything and you make my pee pee hard.

"Why don't you take me out for dinner, and wine and dine me and who know you might get lucky. No promises though"
Reverse the frame and be the prize confidently. YOU are the one that she needs to put on a pedestal not her. Then, the last part adds a 'hard to get' factor which make girls cream their pants.

Why do they all want 0.0001% guys? Because they are hard to get.

There you go @xboyx full explanation of what's happening on those lines

[huskywesley51]

Less expectations less humiliations (you can never have it all)
Be the best version of yourself and not being a prick

[GoldfishMan]

This thread is so confusing. Is it about talking to girls in a punting situation or is it about just talking to girls in general? Huge difference between the two, you know...

[Double_Adapter]

This thread is so confusing. Is it about talking to girls in a punting situation or is it about just talking to girls in general? Huge difference between the two, you know...

And to add to that the differences between
- women from different countries/cultures will respond differently
- women who grew up as an only child vs those with several brothers vs those with sisters only.
- highly educated vs lowly educated women

[GoldfishMan]

And to add to that the differences between
- women from different countries/cultures will respond differently
- women who grew up as an only child vs those with several brothers vs those with sisters only.
- highly educated vs lowly educated women

Yeah, that's the detailed stuff there, but even on a surface level talking to a paid WG vs trying to pull a girl in normal social settings is heaven and earth. Hope people here don't start thinking that what "worked" on WGs would also work on girls outside. Gotta remember that a WG is motivated to go along with you, normal girls wouldn't be.

Try using one of those lines on a waitress or hairdresser, lol!