Why would a ML only offer extras next time?

[Prometheus_haha]

Paid for an hour to see a ML yesterday, and she only gave me a massage. Near the end she said "extras next time".

Why would a ML only offer extras next time? Is it to get me to return as a customer? Or was it just a polite way to decline to do extras with me?

[Peter69]

A legit shop or???

[Prometheus_haha]

A legit shop or???

Definitely not legit shop

[GoldfishMan]

It could be both, to get you to return AND decline extras... Again!

This "next time" move never works for me, because I usually lose interest in the girl before "next time" comes around. Maybe years of paying to fuck has conditioned me into only remembering girls I could fuck, lol...

[BigPedro666]

Not uncommon. Makes you on the road to being a regular. Just roll the dice.

[asnabc]

How about this one, I had received FS on the first time. Next time I saw her a week later, she refused FS and told me she will give it next time.

[F0x]

Paid for an hour to see a ML yesterday, and she only gave me a massage. Near the end she said "extras next time".

Why would a ML only offer extras next time? Is it to get me to return as a customer? Or was it just a polite way to decline to do extras with me?

Might have been on her period.
Might have not wanted to touch you/not like your type/look etc
Might have tried to see if you would come back to her after being blueballed
Might have been shy
Might have made her 'quota' of money for the day
etc
etc
etc

You are dealing with a Female. There are an almost brain melting amount of possibilities of which only the smallest fraction percentage makes any kind of logical sense.

Try another girl at the shop would be my recommendation

[11Bravo]

Might have been on her period.
Might have not wanted to touch you/not like your type/look etc
Might have tried to see if you would come back to her after being blueballed
Might have been shy
Might have made her 'quota' of money for the day
etc
etc
etc

You are dealing with a Female. There are an almost brain melting amount of possibilities of which only the smallest fraction percentage makes any kind of logical sense.

Try another girl at the shop would be my recommendation

Well said.
Was this a booking or a lineup? How was her attitude in the room (yes, I understand sans extras, but civilian wise)? Myself, if I found her interesting I'd try again, just so I'd know. If not, try another. I wouldn't discount the potential of her saving her energy for regulars... or having her own regular...

[GoldfishMan]

How about this one, I had received FS on the first time. Next time I saw her a week later, she refused FS and told me she will give it next time.

This is an odd one. You've been demoted from dinner to lunch dates, as George Costanza would put it. Maybe you didn't pay enough tip the first time around, bro?

[11Bravo]

This is an odd one. You've been demoted from dinner to lunch dates, as George Costanza would put it. Maybe you didn't pay enough tip the first time around, bro?
Or perhaps that ole monthly visitation...

[c1teh9]

How about this one, I had received FS on the first time. Next time I saw her a week later, she refused FS and told me she will give it next time.

Tell her there will be no next time. Unless it was that time of the month which makes more sense.

[GoldfishMan]

Or perhaps that ole monthly visitation...

Don't think so, bro. I've been declined due to this reason a number of times and they always make it abundantly clear as to why. If they wanted you to keep cumming back for more of the good stuff, they wouldn't let you go away not knowing the reason.

[11Bravo]

Don't think so, bro. I've been declined due to this reason a number of times and they always make it abundantly clear as to why. If they wanted you to keep cumming back for more of the good stuff, they wouldn't let you go away not knowing the reason.

Point taken.

Why I like making/confirming booking with her via WeChat. She'll let me know of any performance limitations so I can decide go/no-go.

[asnabc]

This is an odd one. You've been demoted from dinner to lunch dates, as George Costanza would put it. Maybe you didn't pay enough tip the first time around, bro?

It is an odd one and I was totally put off from seeing her again since she didn't give a reason for the FS rejection.

Anyway, I saw her after 6 months since she was the only one available and she remembers who I was and gave me a great service. I didn't ask for FS this time but near the end she whispers in my ears softly, "next time I let you cum inside". I was so buffed what she meant and replied back "cum inside????". She stumbled and after short pause said "oh, with a condom". Its been a few months, maybe I should visit again and see what she meant by that offer.... LOL

The joys of punting with a ML.

[Prometheus_haha]

Might have been on her period.
Might have not wanted to touch you/not like your type/look etc
Might have tried to see if you would come back to her after being blueballed
Might have been shy
Might have made her 'quota' of money for the day
etc
etc
etc

You are dealing with a Female. There are an almost brain melting amount of possibilities of which only the smallest fraction percentage makes any kind of logical sense.

Try another girl at the shop would be my recommendation

Very true bro!


Well said.
Was this a booking or a lineup? How was her attitude in the room (yes, I understand sans extras, but civilian wise)? Myself, if I found her interesting I'd try again, just so I'd know. If not, try another. I wouldn't discount the potential of her saving her energy for regulars... or having her own regular...

Her attitude was fine, we got along well and had good conversation and laughs. Which made me more perplexed as to why she didn't offer me extras there and then.

[Dukeduker222]

How about this one, I had received FS on the first time. Next time I saw her a week later, she refused FS and told me she will give it next time.

Probably on her period bro.

As far as the 'next time' move. Classic way to get you back, also to get you to come back sooner. You're thinking about how bad you wanted your dick sucked, and viola she's on the roster Wednesday. Book her and get that blowie.

[11Bravo]

Anyway, I saw her after 6 months since she was the only one available and she remembers who I was and gave me a great service. I didn't ask for FS this time but near the end she whispers in my ears softly, "next time I let you cum inside". I was so buffed what she meant and replied back "cum inside????". She stumbled and after short pause said "oh, with a condom". Its been a few months, maybe I should visit again and see what she meant by that offer.... LOL

Pretty clear to me...

Another potential for the denial: maybe a yeast infection. While all will understand "blood come", some punters might concentrate on the "infection" part, not hearing the "yeast". And with an infection, she might be a bit shy of telling you the precise reason...


Her attitude was fine, we got along well and had good conversation and laughs. Which made me more perplexed as to why she didn't offer me extras there and then.In that case, if it was me, I'd definitely make a return visit. What's to lose? A massage fee... You didn't mention her nationality, but I'd try a "boken heart, boken heart" approach, especially if Thai.

[Double_Adapter]

It is an odd one and I was totally put off from seeing her again since she didn't give a reason for the FS rejection.

Anyway, I saw her after 6 months since she was the only one available and she remembers who I was and gave me a great service. I didn't ask for FS this time but near the end she whispers in my ears softly, "next time I let you cum inside". I was so buffed what she meant and replied back "cum inside????". She stumbled and after short pause said "oh, with a condom". Its been a few months, maybe I should visit again and see what she meant by that offer.... LOL

The joys of punting with a ML.

If she's a regular keep a tab on her cycles, it comes handy when booking and taking things further

[11Bravo]

If she's a regular keep a tab on her cycles, it comes handy when booking and taking things further

Or get her WeChat/Line contact... Also works wonders in finding her if she changes shops... no more plaintive cries of Does anyone know where Ms Reg is?. And it's great confirmation that she wants to keep doing business with you... My experience anyway.

[rooter]

Generally speaking, next time is a polite way of saying no.

[trampslikeus55]

Generally speaking, next time is a polite way of saying no.
I think I would have to agree. 👍

[Prometheus_haha]

I should add that I didn't ask her for extras. She just said during the massage "extras next time".

[GoldfishMan]

I should add that I didn't ask her for extras. She just said during the massage "extras next time".

This reminds me of Thai ML Anita from Summerville. Saw her 1 time and that was more than enough. She put on this fake act of being a horny girl which immediately turned me off, then at the end said "extras next time" without me even asking for anything. Fark, I was struggling to even cum from the NHJ, what next time?

That was so bad, put me off seeing Thais for a good period of time.

[schloong]

Generally speaking, next time is a polite way of saying no.

Spot on again rooter!

[asnabc]

I should add that I didn't ask her for extras. She just said during the massage "extras next time".

We all get the hint that "extra's next time" means a no this time but this is what stumps me as well. Why does the ML say next time when you didn't even ask for more? Or if you did get extra's, next time could also mean, more than part 2 such as FS.

[Double_Adapter]

We all get the hint that "extra's next time" means a no this time but this is what stumps me as well. Why does the ML say next time when you didn't even ask for more? Or if you did get extra's, next time could also mean, more than part 2 such as FS.

So you're saying there's two possible scenarios here

Next time = no thanks, your not my type, and you're grotesque

Next time = I'm horny, I'm into you, I wanna fuck you but I'm on the rags

[asnabc]

So you're saying there's two possible scenarios here

Next time = no thanks, your not my type, and you're grotesque

Next time = I'm horny, I'm into you, I wanna fuck you but I'm on the rags

Hopefully its next time because she is on the rags. From my gut feeling, that is the case because I generally get good service from ML's :)

[Spanky69]

Generally speaking, next time is a polite way of saying no.

I agree, I’ve had two WLs who advertised anal for extra $ but never complied. So I gave up asking.

[11Bravo]

Hopefully its next time because she is on the rags. From my gut feeling, that is the case because I generally get good service from ML's :)
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So what's wrong with taking the back streets?
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Hey now, you're an all star
Get your game on, go play

Like I've said many times, no matter what, at least now you will KNOW.

[woods23]

This reminds me of Thai ML Anita from Summerville. Saw her 1 time and that was more than enough. She put on this fake act of being a horny girl which immediately turned me off, then at the end said "extras next time" without me even asking for anything. Fark, I was struggling to even cum from the NHJ, what next time?

That was so bad, put me off seeing Thais for a good period of time.

Hahaha. Maybe it doesn't work for you.. but it worked for many guys ..some guys love this kind of shit . For me personally it doesn't work for me too. Lucky she never did to me, I probably get turn off too. Haha

As for next time..no such thing anymore( do it now or she don't) . Before covid probably yes. Not now...girl need money nd they are hungry for guy to take up extras. Some probably won't let you the door without some kind of extras services.

Here a story- there was this Thai girl she was pretty hot, I saw her about 3 times only got daty , FIv..no fs.
So after a long break I went back to her....after a great part 1 she just said " Today we do sex ok!!) She left me No option so I have to say yes.

[kayofa]

Defo becoz U ugly. If U hot stuff she would've thrown her pussy straight onto your dick