"WL's request to decline visits"

[Zigman]

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
A few days ago, she asked me if I had ever come to the shop and then left without meeting her. Recently, I found it a bit challenging to make an appointment by phone, so I visited the shop when I had some time. However, when I saw that she seemed busy, I simply decided to leave. I explained the situation to her. She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable.


She went on to say that every customer who visits has a purpose, but she didn’t think she could fulfill any purpose I might have. She also said it didn’t sit well with her to see me wasting my time and money and suggested that it would be better if I stopped coming to the shop.


She also told me that although she knows I’m a good person, it would be best if we stopped seeing each other. When I asked her why she thought that, she said it was because of the way I looked at her.


Maybe that’s how my feelings were, but honestly, I’m not even sure what my own feelings are. I’ve never expressed anything outwardly through my actions. I’m not sure if I should stop visiting as she wishes, or if I should continue visiting as I feel, since I haven’t asked anything of her.


Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go there if she’s uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel frustrated. After thinking it over, I told her that I would visit once more to share my thoughts with her, though I haven’t decided yet.


What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

[keebab]

If you keep visiting you'll make it awkward and her uncomfortable. Its not to say you've done anything wrong. She's just changed her mind.

I would recommend finding another shop and getting under a new WL to empty your balls ASAP. You'll feel better.

[hornedbeast]

You will be banned if you return. Don't.

[cplurt2]

It never works well when you hand control over to these girls. Walk away cause getting one more session in even if ass to mouth happens will seal you in as either a simp or a creepy stalker dude. And as Mae West said. It's better to get over somebody by getting under someone else .

[cumquat]

Your money, your ego, your disappointment

Clearly not hers

I think she’s told you pretty clearly don’t come back

[nosytt]

She's playing hard to get, bring her flowers and explain your feelings.

[Asiandaddy]

She's playing hard to get, bring her flowers and explain your feelings.

Don't forget the box of chocolates

[sloaneranger]

Respect her wishes mate. It's very clear from the tone of your post that your're emotionally invested. It wont have been easy for her to pluck up the courage to say that to you so she must feel strongly about it, especially given its her job and by doing so she is turning down the money.

Do the right thing and leave her be.

[Niceguy11]

Don't forget the box of chocolates

And a card saying sorry. That will always work.

Seriously though, walk away. Its her loss. She sounds like a entitled WL that has major issues mentally.

[bungbang]

plenty of fish in the ocean, you will find better ones, don't waste your time and money on this one, just move on

[zakthekat]

100% you're both misinterpreting each other and continuing will just make it messy. Take her hint that she doesn't want to see you any more and move on. Most of these girls have partners and attachments in the shop just makes everything weird.

[Spectra]

She’s thought about it, now you are too so I’d stick to her request. She’s the service provider and in charge of who she sees. Just drop the woman and move on. Think of it as a brush off at a club, she’s rejected you and you have to respect her wishes.

There are so many out there it’s ridiculous and unfortunately for them there’s always a better one just around the corner.

[bummer]

Actually, partially respect her request.

Obviously for whatever reason she does not want to see you. DO NOT QUESTION THAT !!

Just choose another WL and screw her WITHOUT mentioning the 1st WL.
Alternatively, Rub some salt into her wound by saying to the new WL what a great fuck she is compared to the 1st wl. :)

[mn69]

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
A few days ago, she asked me if I had ever come to the shop and then left without meeting her. Recently, I found it a bit challenging to make an appointment by phone, so I visited the shop when I had some time. However, when I saw that she seemed busy, I simply decided to leave. I explained the situation to her. She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable.


She went on to say that every customer who visits has a purpose, but she didn’t think she could fulfill any purpose I might have. She also said it didn’t sit well with her to see me wasting my time and money and suggested that it would be better if I stopped coming to the shop.


She also told me that although she knows I’m a good person, it would be best if we stopped seeing each other. When I asked her why she thought that, she said it was because of the way I looked at her.


Maybe that’s how my feelings were, but honestly, I’m not even sure what my own feelings are. I’ve never expressed anything outwardly through my actions. I’m not sure if I should stop visiting as she wishes, or if I should continue visiting as I feel, since I haven’t asked anything of her.


Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go there if she’s uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel frustrated. After thinking it over, I told her that I would visit once more to share my thoughts with her, though I haven’t decided yet.


What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

Most girls love a regular customer as its guaranteed easy income for them and you're a known quantity. If she does not want to see you, you must've done something that she is willing to lose income over it.

Sounds like you're becoming the emotionally attached creepy guy.

Come on bro, don't you have other women in your personal life that you socialise with.

[tezzaman18]

I would respect her wishes. Her service standards will invariably drop if she feels uncomfortable seeing you. But that shouldn't stop you from seeing other WLs in the shop. It's not her call. It maybe a wake-up call to her if she sees with other girls in the shop , she is not special as she thinks she is.

[11Bravo]

Learn to Read the Room

The providers are VERY astute, they have to be for their own physical safety. She has obviously read you (even though you claim you don't know yourself) and decided to do YOU a favor by asking you not to return. So why would you ever consider returning? To win her over? To change her mind? She's obviously more to you than just a provider, and you are just a puppy dog client to her.

For me, this lady isn't entitled but rather CLASS. If she wasn't, she would have milked you dry, and I'm not talking about your sack but your wallet. Little hints that if only you'd do more... Rather, she's accepted the loss of income from a nice safe guy out of respect for you. So return her respect by respecting her choice.

And for Christ's sake, show some class yourself. Just walk away from her AND the shop. Don't visit the shop to pull another WL from there in a FUTILE attempt to spite her. She doesn't care. And believe me, the girls talk, share intel, and bad mouthing her to another from the same shop will just make you look even more childish. Worst case, the one you pull might not have so much class.

Take my advice, stop punting and go get a REAL GF. Go have these feelings, these heartbreaks, these breakups in the real world. Having them in the punting world is just a waste of your time and emotions. When you punt, enjoy the lady, she's a person too. But remember, it's transactional, and she's WORKING.

You DON'T need to have the last word as the last words have already been spoken. A great friend once told me, "Taking the high road will always make YOU feel better in the long run." Wise words.

[Roydemeo]

“I’m not sure if I should stop visiting as she wishes“

Don’t be a weird cunt. Nothing good to come from doing this.

[Folcis]

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable.
[/B]

It might be a misunderstanding on her part and you might feel like the victim here, but in the long run it's just going to be a lot better for your self respect to move on. Maybe she had a stalker in the past or some other negative interaction with a punter, but she's acting on her feelings and you won't change them by trying to circumvent her wishes.

[Atilla]

These girls can come across lots of creepy guys and also guys who are over attached. That means that sometimes they don’t recognise a guy who falls within what he sees as the sweet spot and simply likes her and wants to see her on that basis. An understandable misunderstanding. And yep, she may be overthinking it but Im told that some women might do that sometimes and as others have said she is in a vulnerable position. You can’t do anything about it unfortunately. I can understand the frustration, but you need to move on and get her out of your head.

[F0x]

Wow Zig, you got off really lightly post wise.






I was expecting (and still expecting) "hyaw hyaw, bro-uh, tell me who she is and I'll Thanos snap her pussy out of existence for you with my cock then see how much you still like her hyah hyaw"

I mean it's another 'fallen for WL' thread, but this one kind of hits different because of how the WL has reacted.

It's not just all about the punter.

I agree with 11B, this WL has a lot of class. Even the way you mentioned 'every punter comes here with a purpose' and didn't want you wasting time or money on her.

You don't need to say anything about your feelings to her, Women know exactly how you feel by your actions, they are heavily tuned to that as I have mentioned multiple times in posts I've written. Truth be told, most people with an emotional sensitivity of more than a doorknob usually can tell how people feel about them without words.

If you really want to see her one more time to talk, make sure it's a talk about how you'll respect that she's given you a very forthright chance to back off and thank her for the time and memories (if you want to get that mushy up to you) and that you won't see her again. You can mention you might see other girls in the shop. Then walk away.

Don't book a session for it unless you are forced to, ask if you can very quickly talk to her privately. Whole thing shouldn't take more than a few minutes of your time.

I don't frequent FS shops much if at all, but I'd recommend going to No5 and seeing either T Anna or K Dana (if they are still there) they both were good punts for me.

However, what's even more recommended is not trying to find a partner in a Sex establishment.

It's not as bad odds as gambling, but it's the same ballpark.
Everytime you go and punt, remember that as much fun as you had with her, she's about to do that for a dude right after you (and one before you), who might even be getting far more than you because she is actually far more into that guy.

I sure as hell know I've on both ends of the spectrum reading reviews here. (Read my Bella @ SBM review compared to others lol)

So do like your namesake, and zig and zag from girl to girl. Enjoy them all.

Happy punting.
- F0x

[Themassageking]

Respect her wishes. But i would keep going to the shop and bang some of the other WL.

[Zoobender]

I think you have creeped her out. You might be giving her stalker vibes. Usually these girls like regulars. Easy money and they know what to expect. But sometimes the regulars become a bit to 'regular' I woundn't go back. She definitely has the ick and you won't be able to get back to equilibrium. This is the punting equivalent of being friendzoned. Just move on.

[GoldfishMan]

I'd say don't see her again, but I have a feeling that you probably will try to.

[Mybadwilly22]

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

[Candy1234]

Didn’t even know this was even a thing! Yeh I would just find another, fuck it and move to the next.

[mn69]

I seen a previous WL before like everyday as she was only here for short time. And she loved it. But this never happened to me, where she tells you to stop coming lol

I guess it depends how handsome the guy is as well. OP must've done something that gave her the "ick".

But remember, a guy is only creepy if the girl doesn't find him attractive.

[1inchguy]

Don't see her anymore. See someone else at the shop.
Unless what she's saying is the truth, you have ulterior motive. By seeing someone else shows she's just a thing and you're looking for satisfaction.
I do it all the time when a regular ask me do I see someone else at the shop. I tell her the truth, when she's not available i see someone else.

[harry444]

This is classic stalking. And as in most cases the stalker can't see that.

[Candy1234]

Shop and girl’s name? Thanks 😉

[crhaayn]

Move on.

Disregarding how you may actually feel, she thinks you're falling for her, and she's not down for that.

[rubit moore]

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

Haha this is the best post on this thread. Even had me visualising Eminem in battle mode laying this down for the crowd. :cool2:

https://tenor.com/view/eminem-cicirinella-che-teneva-gif-24132633

[secret0]

Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go there if she’s uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel frustrated. After thinking it over, I told her that I would visit once more to share my thoughts with her, though I haven’t decided yet.

What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

She's told you in no uncertain terms you make her uncomfortable and she doesn't want you to try and see her or visit the shop ever again.

What would I do? Respect her wishes and never try to see her again or visit the shop.

Don't try to come up with reasons or excuses otherwise. Don't be that fucking guy.

[rubit moore]

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
A few days ago, she asked me if I had ever come to the shop and then left without meeting her. Recently, I found it a bit challenging to make an appointment by phone, so I visited the shop when I had some time. However, when I saw that she seemed busy, I simply decided to leave. I explained the situation to her. She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable..................................


What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.


Oh btw OP, do this woman a favour and leave her alone. Your actions in that paragraph above were pre-emptive and not the actions of a real man. Take the hint you've been given and stay away.

[holi_day]

Always trust women's intuition.

If she sense something uncomfortable, intimidating or even dangerous, she's probably right.

[1inchguy]

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

Obviously not if shes feeling uncomfortable.
Maybe ghe guy has a resting stalker face who knows. But if she doesn't want to see him anymore. Best to move on and pay someone else.
Plenty of pussy around.

[Celery]

I am writing this after much thought because I think the WL you are talking about is me. You said you would visit me one more time to let me know your decision, but I don't want to see you anymore. I will tell you because you do not seem to understand. The service I provide to my clients includes my smiling face. However, I can no longer provide you with my smiling face. You never took your eyes off me for even a 1second while you were with me.You may ask why that is a problem, but the look in your eyes when you look at me is a problem for me. I have a strong feeling that you are not meeting me to enjoy your time with me, but that you expect something else from me. All my actions started to become awkward in front of you, and that is why I do not want to see you anymore.
But I know you are a really nice person (naive person), so I suggested that maybe you stop visiting the shop. You said that this experience was your first. If that is true, you may have a bad experience somewhere else, so I suggested it. I also don't think I will be a good memory for you, but this is the best I can do for you. I hope you will enjoy a healthy and happy life, and I hope you will accept my request. I also hope that you will accept my other wish that I do not want to see you posting about me on this forum anymore.

Holy moly, wtf is this thread? Are OP and this poster real, or just a troll? In the case that this is all true, OP I think the girl is just testing your resolve and seeing how far you're willing to go to prove your love to her. If I were you, I'd step it up a notch and perhaps organise something with the mamasan before your next visit to make it extra special. I've dealt with these types of girls before and I know that persistence pays off. Go get it champ!

[Axeman123]

Id be to embarrassed to see her again. Restore your manhood n see another in the shop.

[mn69]

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

Nah he doesn't. if he did, she would be asking him to keep coming back. Or even give it to him for free outside the shop.

OP is probably middle aged, fat and bald or balding. Probably Chinese or Caucasian. But most likely Chinese.

[yellow_sub]

If you keep visiting you'll make it awkward and her uncomfortable. Its not to say you've done anything wrong. She's just changed her mind.

I would recommend finding another shop and getting under a new WL to empty your balls ASAP. You'll feel better.

This is actually the best tactic, nothing better to move you on by emptying your balls.

[PKING2]

Shop and girl’s name? Thanks 😉
U can deduct it easily, go to his page and see what the only girl and shop he interacts with

[Kiki kong]

Honestly we've been seeing a lot of new threads with a lot of the felllas here getting the feels for MLs and WLs..
It's like the floodgates are fucking open... Who let the simps out.. oooo oooo oooo...

Honestly OP stop thinking about it. Go to an ATM pull out some dollars, and empty your nut sacks.

[ColesBag]

The post didn't need to be in bold & large font.

[mn69]

U can deduct it easily, go to his page and see what the only girl and shop he interacts with

Damn. You smart bro

She's a K girl called "T" at Tarens Point.

From his posts, I was right. I think OP is likely a nerdy Chinese guy from James Ruse. Straight A's in school but never had a GF. And doesn't have any game with women.

Thats why he got attached to this WL/ML so easily and started behaving creepy

[ColesBag]

This is classic stalking. And as in most cases the stalker can't see that.

Absolutely this. Someone should send this thread to the shop and get the cops involved. Creepy shit like this escalates.

[Spectra]

Anyone been to the cafe out the front at Taren Point? I was there two days ago, lovely ladies and the tucker is top notch. I’m a repeat customer. Their ham salad sandwiches are the best. Next time you guys visit 64 try the cafe out the front. You’ll thank me for it.

[Double_Adapter]

What the fuck bro! You're a fully grown ass man coming to a sex forum seeking advice from thirsty horny old bald fat farangs.

Anyway there's 3 versions to every story; in your case there's your version of events, there's the chick's version, and then there's the truth which typically lies somewhere in between; but in you case the truth is swinging towards the chicks favour.

So let me unpack some possible scenarios and options for you:
- If the chick has ghosted you, there's still hope in salvaging this fucked up situation
- If the chick has friend zoned you, there's still hope that you can win her over
- If the chick has told you to get fucked, you still have a chance so just hang in there bro
- If the chick catches you cheating and fucking around with other women, there's a glimmer of hope that she'll forgive you and take you back

BUT.... and this is a big fucken BUTT, if the chick has put you in the ICK zone, then you are completely fucked and have lost all hope, and there's no amount of money, convincing, expensive gifts, romantic dinners, flowers, chocolates, tips, lingerie, or romantic getaways that will make her change her mind.

Getting ick'ed by a chick is the worst fucken thing a bloke can ever experience - it's even more worse than being kicked in the balls with steel capped boots. Just ask the Indian bros that frequent this site; when an Asian chick says 'No Indians' that's her way of saying Ick

For what it's worth - you've been ick'ed bro.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6AbVaR0JyM

[GoldfishMan]

I am writing this after much thought because I think the WL you are talking about is me. You said you would visit me one more time to let me know your decision, but I don't want to see you anymore. I will tell you because you do not seem to understand. The service I provide to my clients includes my smiling face. However, I can no longer provide you with my smiling face. You never took your eyes off me for even a 1second while you were with me.You may ask why that is a problem, but the look in your eyes when you look at me is a problem for me. I have a strong feeling that you are not meeting me to enjoy your time with me, but that you expect something else from me. All my actions started to become awkward in front of you, and that is why I do not want to see you anymore.
But I know you are a really nice person (naive person), so I suggested that maybe you stop visiting the shop. You said that this experience was your first. If that is true, you may have a bad experience somewhere else, so I suggested it. I also don't think I will be a good memory for you, but this is the best I can do for you. I hope you will enjoy a healthy and happy life, and I hope you will accept my request. I also hope that you will accept my other wish that I do not want to see you posting about me on this forum anymore.

Can't tell if this is a trolling exercise or not due to all the recent attempts, but it is better to err on the side of caution in something like this.

@Choi, if you're real, my advise to you is to leave your current shop and seek employment elsewhere. Use different photos and maybe even alter your physical descriptions at the new shop (height, cup size, etc) a little bit. You also do not have state your nationality in the new work place if you do not want to.

Good luck!

[F0x]

Can't tell if this is a trolling exercise or not due to all the recent attempts, but it is better to err on the side of caution in something like this.

@Choi, if you're real, my advise to you is to leave your current shop and seek employment elsewhere. Use different photos and maybe even alter your physical descriptions at the new shop (height, cup size, etc) a little bit. You also do not have state your nationality in the new work place if you do not want to.

Good luck!

Hmmmm.

I mean, the posters language skills are pretty good.

Yes I do understand that working in a brothel doesn't equal a lack of education or ability to write, but I get the feeling (only a feeling) this might be another multi account forum shenanigans with the OP zigs replying to himself with another account to heighten the drama.

Seems to be a rather common charade around here.

Anyway. Can you believe we are almost at another Xmas!

How great it is to be alive and looking forward to 2025!

- F0x

[GoldfishMan]

Hmmmm.

I mean, the posters language skills are pretty good.

Yes I do understand that working in a brothel doesn't equal a lack of education or ability to write, but I get the feeling (only a feeling) this might be another multi account forum shenanigans with the OP zigs replying to himself with another account to heighten the drama.

Seems to be a rather common charade around here.

Anyway. Can you believe we are almost at another Xmas!

How great it is to be alive and looking forward to 2025!

- F0x
Yes I felt the same way as well but the posting history of OP makes me feel otherwise, very strongly in fact. Like I said, all shits and giggles if it's fake but if it's real, I wouldn't want to see another nasty incident happen to a WL if I can help it.

Happy Xmas to you and family, Fox!

[Celery]

Yeah so I'm bored tonight and just snooped through OP's profile. The girl in question here is Korean Girl T at the Taren Point brothel. Judging by OP's posts, I can imagine how creepy and disturbing the interaction would have been for the girl. We should all do OP a favour and book the girl. It might help him to get over her...

[1inchguy]

Hmmmm.

I mean, the posters language skills are pretty good.

Yes I do understand that working in a brothel doesn't equal a lack of education or ability to write, but I get the feeling (only a feeling) this might be another multi account forum shenanigans with the OP zigs replying to himself with another account to heighten the drama.

Seems to be a rather common charade around here.

Anyway. Can you believe we are almost at another Xmas!

How great it is to be alive and looking forward to 2025!

- F0x

whats the probability of a WL responding to a forum like this not long after OP posted. Its either someone else created an account to troll OP
or in general just a troll post.

[RodgHerMoore]

Can't believe what a dumb fk OP is. You're going to see a WL who tells you clearly not to see her again... Then you have to come to a forum to even ASK??? Did you get dropped that many times as a baby???

As soon as you start wondering what to do when a sex worker tells you to not see them again ... That says it all!!! Your mind is sick! You can't even tell that you've fallen for a girl who is jerking/sucking/fking off other guys for a living???

If you don't give a shit about her you wouldn't give it a second thought and do like a normal man and just go to another shop and get serviced by someone else. FFS just find any good AR on this site and go with her. It isn't hard.

She was obviously your favourite because you got too emotionally attached.

You want to find love with a sex worker? Are you fked in the head??

Pay. Fk. Leave.

After being ignorant/untrue/lying to yourself you then come to a sex forum for advice? What kind of imbecile are you?

As for Choi, how realistic is it that a WL actually comes on this forum with that level of English. Most are in the shops because their English is poor. Likely some troll or twister/bear origin guy again.

No sympathy here for such an idiot

[personaa]

100 percent move on bro

but not sure why he should avoid going to the shop again, Why not seeing a different girl there?

[mn69]

100 percent move on bro

but not sure why he should avoid going to the shop again, Why not seeing a different girl there?

Yeh this is true. Its not her call. I'm sure the shop/business would love his repeat business even if he is seeing another girl.

Business people dont care about whether a girl likes a customer or not. Its all about the money and cashflow.

[rfection]

Now alot of guys gonna go and see her
Great advertisement lol

[Spectra]

Hmmmm.

I mean, the posters language skills are pretty good.

Yes I do understand that working in a brothel doesn't equal a lack of education or ability to write, but I get the feeling (only a feeling) this might be another multi account forum shenanigans with the OP zigs replying to himself with another account to heighten the drama.

Seems to be a rather common charade around here.

Anyway. Can you believe we are almost at another Xmas!

How great it is to be alive and looking forward to 2025!

- F0x

Anything is possible given the use of AI and various chat apps, quite possibly another worker wrote her reply? If the Choi post is real she may have confided with a colleague and she wrote the post which wouldn’t be out of the norm or perhaps even the manager wrote it? Who knows, but as far as the OP getting a foot back the door it is well and truly closed.

As the saying goes, “move on”.

[RodgHerMoore]

Geez. I clicked on his profile history and yes this loser was asking her for her number, wechat and likely having conversations about personal like and feelings. He wrote he was obsessing over whether to see her at all. After finally mustering the courage he gets infatuated and wants to see her more.

He likely creeped her out with whatever he said and constant requests for phone number.

WL or not any girl not into him would say the same thing.

Worth reading the thread to see how he creeped her out.

Well done brother pking2.

Brother 11Bravo can weigh in as he's been interacting with OP in his story tale of infatuation.

I still think Choi is not the actual WL. English level is too good and WL's hardly cum on this site. May be the shop at best.

[andrewv]

Respect her wishes. Don’t go there again.
Stop trying to play mental gymnastics and work out the why and who. Time to find another shop and another girl. You need to have the honour to know it’s not good to keep going. Finito.

[Candy1234]

Ok sold! Taren Point K girl T on the list! This dude is good at marketing.

[PKING2]

Now plenty bros will curious what this choi looks like.
Lets fucking go!!!!!

[GoldfishMan]

Yes, very tempted myself. Especially like the part about the long thighs. I mean, that's exactly my type!

[PKING2]

Yes, very tempted myself. Especially like the part about the long thighs. I mean, that's exactly my type!

Mate if you go and said she good. I will go straight away as I know you never betrayed my expectations hahahha

[GoldfishMan]

Mate if you go and said she good. I will go straight away as I know you never betrayed my expectations hahahha

Fark bro, except the problem is I'm in farking Canberra here, lolll!

[Candy1234]

She’s on today according to the website but man this place is so run down, even Granville 7 looks nicer. Hahah very tempting indeed.

[rubit moore]

Anyone been to the cafe out the front at Taren Point? I was there two days ago, lovely ladies and the tucker is top notch. I’m a repeat customer. Their ham salad sandwiches are the best. Next time you guys visit 64 try the cafe out the front. You’ll thank me for it.

Once I've had my ham salad sandwich I head over to TP64 to get my lips around a large beef taco.

[Double_Adapter]

Ok sold! Taren Point K girl T on the list! This dude is good at marketing.

That's not fucken marketing bro!

Marketing 101 for Punters

1. Direct Marketing: Shop says “Our shop have many new girls, they give you good time. Come now they waiting for you.”
2. Advertising: bloke writes up a post about a chick from a particular shop that has rejected him and told him to fuck off and not see her again, this creates controversy, interest, curiosity, and intrigue amongst the quorum of punters - that's indirect advertising.
3. Telemarketing: You visit a shop and exchange wechat details, the very next day you get an unsolicited text message : “Hi, we have nice girls working today. When you come over, they wait for you"
4. Public Relations: punter puts up a negative review about his experiences in a shop and the lack of services provided by the chick. Shop owner apologises for the bad experience and offers him a discount for his next visit.
5. Brand Recognition: You visit a sex forum and every cunt harps on about the quality of chicks and the level of service at a particular shop or shops. That's brand recognition
6. Customer Feedback: You visit the local RnT that has posted photos of 20yr old hot young chicks at $250/hr. You rock up and the lineup consists of two old Chinese boilers to choose from, they say "helllo darling, which one you like" you respond “Not interested,” and walk away.
7. Supply and Demand: It's 2019 and the punting scene is rocking and going to new levels, Coronavirus hits, the industry is shut, punters bunker down, chicks go AWOL and the rest is history.
8. Competition: You see shops advertising new FOB super hot young chicks at discounted rates, a bottom tier RnT jumps in and says, “We have many new girls, very cheap rates, raw dog and anal is free”
9. Market Restrictions: You visit a shop, have an amazing time with a WL, you become a regular but start catching the feels for this chick. As things start to heat up and sex being being taken to the next level the wife messages you "when will you be home honey, the kids are waiting for you and don't forget the milk". That's restriction for entering new markets.
10. Faulty Product: You visit the local shop and you receive an amazing product and service, a few days later you discover you caught an STD.

[Spectra]

Once I've had my ham salad sandwich I head over to TP64 to get my lips around a large beef taco.

The place is aptly called “Snatch Cafe” and you cannot miss it as it’s right out the front of TP64.

(Snatch being slang for vagina)

[Celery]

I created an account just to write one comment, and since I achieved my goal, I requested the administrator to delete my account, but it seems to be taking a while. I will say what I want to say before my account is deleted. As for my English skills, I use the translation app, l think quite well. And I would like to express my gratitude to those who are worried about me. Fortunately, the shop listens to most of my requests and ask and discusses them, so I think my safety will be okay. And I am not a naive woman, so I think I can protect myself inside the shop, even if it is outside the shop. I don't want that, but if some bad happens to me, I can, before some happens, quietly disappear. Once again, thank you to those who are worried. Lastly, if you guys think this is an advertisement, there is nothing I can do, but I prefer to work I can until keep the my physical strength and good rest, and currently, even if there are no new customers, my work is pretty good, so my opinion is don't have to doubt that either. From the shop's perspective, new customers are welcome, however If someone wants to see me simply because of this post, I'd like to politely decline. If just curious about me, I'd be happy to welcome you, but I'm not sure I can live up to your expectations. If you guys come to the shop and find another girl, then you are truly welcome. And although it is difficult, I have something to say to the people in this forum. When I found out that my story was being circulated without my consent, I was shocked and angry. If a writer has the freedom to write, I wish that he or she thinks about the subject of the story once again and writes it. I just want to put my thoughts out there in a positive way, and I don't want to create division. Now I know this forum, It may not be easy, but if my account is deleted, I will try not to come back to this forum. So please forget about me and enjoy your life.

Hi Choi. I hope you've had a nice day. Are you a party girl by any chance? If so, I would be interested...

[rooter]

Yeah bro, what everyone else has said.
She has made it very clear to you that she doesn't want to see you.
Accept that and move on. Don't take it personally. It's just punting.
If you like the shop you can go back and see different girls but avoid this girl.
If you think going back there is going to create issues for you then find another shop.
Sydney is a big city, plenty of shops, plenty of girls.

[11Bravo]

but not sure why he should avoid going to the shop again, Why not seeing a different girl there?
2 words: Clean Break

2 more words: Cold Turkey

Some more words: Respect for Choi. If LSP (love sick puppy) shows up again for another lady, does Choi know, or will she be wondering, even if he takes another girl, LSP won't pop-in to the break room just to say hi. Does LSP himself know that visiting the same shop to see another girl is REALLY the reason for the visit, or is there that subconscious thought "maybe I'll see her again, maybe I can say hello..." And, in the same shop, INVALID comparisons: "Oh, Miss Alternate is nice, but she isn't Choi. And how will LSP feel if he just happens to see Choi disappearing into a room with another customer? Just remove all lingering memories.

Myself, I'm a VISITOR to SYD, NOT born and raised there, and if I can find PLENTY of alternate shops, anyone else can too. Personally, I'm gutted by the sudden demise of May's Beauty, had some good times there, a number on the weekly roster on my to-do list, but I'll have NO problem with replacements. It's Sydney for Christ's sake.

Zigman: Forget all the cynics here; if they haven't had a similar experience with a girl, working or not, they've missed something in life.

Here's my SEROUS advice. Yes, it is a kick in the gut. Sit down at your desk, HANDWRITE a letter, no computer, handwritten, describing ALL your feelings, keep adding, hour by hour, day by day. Then, DON'T SEND IT, put it in an envelope and put the envelope in the back of a drawer. If needed, get the letter out and add to it. Back in the envelope, back in the drawer.

YEARS later, you'll discover it again, giving you a big smile at how young and naive you were. This too shall pass.

[Orehcac]

Now alot of guys gonna go and see her
Great advertisement lol

I’m one of them 🤣🤣
Don’t mind spending a bit of coin just to see what the fuss is about.

[thunder545454]

This clown losing his mind over a dirty hooker....

Don't give up buddy go see a few more you will quickly find one who will, lie extort and cheat you out of life savings or a visa....

This guys destined for tragedy, never been told not to come back by a girl before, if I did I would laugh my ass off and just ask to see the line up and choose someone else.

[1inchguy]

I created an account just to write one comment, and since I achieved my goal, I requested the administrator to delete my account, but it seems to be taking a while. I will say what I want to say before my account is deleted. As for my English skills, I use the translation app, l think quite well. And I would like to express my gratitude to those who are worried about me. Fortunately, the shop listens to most of my requests and ask and discusses them, so I think my safety will be okay. And I am not a naive woman, so I think I can protect myself inside the shop, even if it is outside the shop. I don't want that, but if some bad happens to me, I can, before some happens, quietly disappear. Once again, thank you to those who are worried. Lastly, if you guys think this is an advertisement, there is nothing I can do, but I prefer to work I can until keep the my physical strength and good rest, and currently, even if there are no new customers, my work is pretty good, so my opinion is don't have to doubt that either. From the shop's perspective, new customers are welcome, however If someone wants to see me simply because of this post, I'd like to politely decline. If just curious about me, I'd be happy to welcome you, but I'm not sure I can live up to your expectations. If you guys come to the shop and find another girl, then you are truly welcome. And although it is difficult, I have something to say to the people in this forum. When I found out that my story was being circulated without my consent, I was shocked and angry. If a writer has the freedom to write, I wish that he or she thinks about the subject of the story once again and writes it. I just want to put my thoughts out there in a positive way, and I don't want to create division. Now I know this forum, It may not be easy, but if my account is deleted, I will try not to come back to this forum. So please forget about me and enjoy your life.

Is there any differences of abandoning account/not using it anymore. Why the need to delete the account?

Also.if the account is deleted wouldn't the post get deleted too or would that remain?

Anyway TL:DR i stopped at "delete the account part"

[GoldfishMan]

Is there any differences of abandoning account/not using it anymore. Why the need to delete the account?

Also.if the account is deleted wouldn't the post get deleted too or would that remain?

Anyway TL:DR i stopped at "delete the account part"

AFAIK, all posts by the user will be deleted if their account is deleted.

[RodgHerMoore]

Choi not helping by posting further.

Most WLs don't know this site. Goes to show he must have even shown her the AR's and discussion thread...how else eould she know?

No wonder she was creeped out reading what he wrote. He no doubt showed her.

Yeah, if i was near TP i might join the conga line too!!

[11Bravo]

This clown losing his mind over a dirty hooker....

Don't give up buddy go see a few more you will quickly find one who will, lie extort and cheat you out of life savings or a visa....

Wow, great attitude. Yes, I agree they are great actresses, putting on a performance. And yes, they hate the job. But that doesn't make them less... I've met some great people, really nice, or maybe they're just reflecting my attitude. And if you're thinking I'm some naive newbie, I've been around a long time, I couldn't write my first AR because sites like these didn't exist yet. And in my opinion, Choi is a nice person, not one to extract life savings or a visa. But then, maybe you and I see a different demographic.

[thunder545454]

Wow, great attitude. Yes, I agree they are great actresses, putting on a performance. And yes, they hate the job. But that doesn't make them less... I've met some great people, really nice, or maybe they're just reflecting my attitude. And if you're thinking I'm some naive newbie, I've been around a long time, I couldn't write my first AR because sites like these didn't exist yet. And in my opinion, Choi is a nice person, not one to extract life savings or a visa. But then, maybe you and I see a different demographic.

Not all of them are scumbags, just 95% of them, I have met 5% who leave the industry quickly because they have a soul, this girl wasn't being a nice person, she just told the very very creepy weird guy who made this thread to go away because he was creeping her out really badly.

Thats not some kindness, thats a self protection instinct.

I've also been around a while been on this site 12 years, what I have learnt through multiple relationships is they all lie, they all cheat, they all steal if they haven't yet they are just still in process of doing it hang on its coming, the poster is better to start seeing them for only what they are money hungry whores.

Go there fuck them do whatever you want with them, if they don't agree or don't like you then, onto the next one there is unending amount of fresh younger asian pussy to be had.

If anyone wants a girlfriend you should be looking for a girl who has had maximum 3 dicks in her lifetime, girls I have met told me they have done 50 guys in a week..... they are human toilet bowels at this point guys need to stop trying to date them it's disgusting.

[11Bravo]

Not all of them are scumbags, just 95% of them, I have met 5% who leave the industry quickly because they have a soul, this girl wasn't being a nice person, she just told the very very creepy weird guy who made this thread to go away because he was creeping her out really badly.

Thats not some kindness, thats a self protection instinct.

I've also been around a while been on this site 12 years, what I have learnt through multiple relationships is they all lie, they all cheat, they all steal if they haven't yet they are just still in process of doing it hang on its coming, the poster is better to start seeing them for only what they are money hungry whores.

Go there fuck them do whatever you want with them, if they don't agree or don't like you then, onto the next one there is unending amount of fresh younger asian pussy to be had.

If anyone wants a girlfriend you should be looking for a girl who has had maximum 3 dicks in her lifetime, girls I have met told me they have done 50 guys in a week..... they are human toilet bowels at this point guys need to stop trying to date them it's disgusting.Interesting. My ratio is about the opposite, 95/5, straight/scumbag, and I've known a number who have a well developed shell by being in the industry a long time yet are still nice people (well, they are very good mirrors). MY experience: you treat them as an orifice, they'll be an orifice. You treat them as a person, they'll be a person. Give them respect, that respect will be returned. YMMV

[Double_Adapter]

I've also been around a while been on this site 12 years, what I have learnt through multiple relationships is they all lie, they all cheat, they all steal if they haven't yet they are just still in process of doing it hang on its coming, the poster is better to start seeing them for only what they are money hungry whores.


I'd go as far as saying not just SW but all women, and for that matter all men - ergo humans cannot be trusted period. There used to be a thing called morals, ethics and values but that compass got fucked up eons ago when a heated argument started between two cavemen fighting over a Neanderthal chick. And that's why laws, rules, regulations and gatekeepers exist ie to keep the animals in check.

If you ever hear a chick say 'all men cheat, lie, and steal' you say;
I cheat death every day just to steal your heart away and lie beside you for the rest of our days.
If she ain't dripping wet and wanting to be raw dogged, then you probably didn't say it with enough conviction.

[lenny888]

Nothing good comes from overcoming your stay many fishes in the sea

[Spectra]

YMMV anywhere, it’s human nature.

[Zoobender]

Stay stealthy San Diego

[Curious12]

This clown losing his mind over a dirty hooker....

Don't give up buddy go see a few more you will quickly find one who will, lie extort and cheat you out of life savings or a visa....

This guys destined for tragedy, never been told not to come back by a girl before, if I did I would laugh my ass off and just ask to see the line up and choose someone else.

Its easy to catch feelings with regulars but then after you do the math where on average they would do 30hrs a week =30 guys times 52 weeks=1560 guys. Thats litterally means she did it with a whole school in just a year. They must have a heart of steel because I dont know how this wont put off anyone wanting a relationship with them.

[blackpearl]

I don't want to, but I keep writing. There's a strange fascination. I informed the shop about this post and the customer, and I think I can receive protection from the shop.
The way I got to know his first post is that I heard about it from another customer. So I asked him to delete his first post, but it didn't go as he or I wanted.
And as I've already written in other posts, my work is going pretty well, so if there are people who want to help me or just come here because they're curious about my posts, I want to only accept thankfully their hearts. The reason I'm deleting my account is because I'm not the type to leave something behind, and if my account still exists, I think I'll continue to visit this forum like I did today. As a WL, this forum is not a pleasant place for me, so I think I should stop visiting. (By the way, will the account ever be deleted? It's taking too long.)
I really hope this is the last post, and since I'm a legal resident, don't have to worry about my visa, and I don't want to be a scammer who takes someone's money. I think it would be much simpler and more convenient to live a life of providing services for money than a fraudster.

I hope you guys all have a fun end of the year and always stay healthy and happy.

If he happens to read this,
'You didn't do anything wrong to me. It's just that each other has a different mind. so I hope you'll just let it go. For your own sake, I hope you don't take it to heart. Stay healthy.'


Bro,If you happen to read this:

Leave her alone. Her job is to provide service for money. No emotional attachments. ML and WL are not GF /wife material. Most of them are money hungry and mentally damaged. Even if you offer them a decent life still they will run after more/quick money. The good ones always quit when they have enough. So just pay, f**k and leave. You are giving her too much attention. I am sure there are many girls in ginza and N5 prettier than her. Just f**k them and move on. Dont get emotionally attached.

[blackpearl]

Ok sold! Taren Point K girl T on the list! This dude is good at marketing.

Bro ,Which shop TP64 ?

[sarahnguyen]

honey, trust me i been in her shoes. when client start looking at u differently its unsettling. we pros but emotions complicate things.

respect her boundaries darling. if she say stop, stop. dont make her uncomfortable its not worth it. u might think ur harmless but ur gaze ur words can pressure her.

reflect on ur feelings yeah but prioritize her comfort. this industry already blur lines dont cross them.

remember we not girlfriends or partners we service providers. keep it pro, respectful.

if u truly care walk away. let her breathe easy

[Double_Adapter]

honey, trust me i been in her shoes. when client start looking at u differently its unsettling. we pros but emotions complicate things.

respect her boundaries darling. if she say stop, stop. dont make her uncomfortable its not worth it. u might think ur harmless but ur gaze ur words can pressure her.

reflect on ur feelings yeah but prioritize her comfort. this industry already blur lines dont cross them.

remember we not girlfriends or partners we service providers. keep it pro, respectful.

if u truly care walk away. let her breathe easy

Well said Sarez!
Btw: I noticed your command of English has improved dramatically in just 2 posts. That's fucken insane. What's your trick, do you use a magic stik?

[The giver]

Based on your post history, it seems like you're a certified simp. Maybe you creeped her out a little, best to just move on and stop falling in love with WLs. You're wasting money on people who put on an act to fulfil a fantasy. Unless you're a very attractive man, the likelyhood of you being her boyfriend is close to zero, you're just a wallet. And based on her reply, at least she seems nice enough to shut you down, instead of taking advantage of your wallet.

[sarahnguyen]

Well said Sarez!
Btw: I noticed your command of English has improved dramatically in just 2 posts. That's fucken insane. What's your trick, do you use a magic stik?

haha my friend helped me

[GoldfishMan]

Well said Sarez!
Btw: I noticed your command of English has improved dramatically in just 2 posts. That's fucken insane. What's your trick, do you use a magic stik?

Oooohhh, but "she" used U instead of you everywhere. I mean like, *everywhere" in that post. Surely that must count for something??

Plus, doesn't know how to add an "are" in "we not girlfriends", but somehow knows how to use "ur".... Ooopss!!

*Cringe*

[11Bravo]

Well said Sarez!
Btw: I noticed your command of English has improved dramatically in just 2 posts. That's fucken insane. What's your trick, do you use a magic stik?

Well, regardless of source, provider, punter, or troll, still valid advice.

[Mybadwilly22]

Response to the OP

Bruh, let me tell you, this thread is more embarrassing than your mum walking in on you mid-wank as a teenager. You’ve got your metaphorical pants down, and now everyone’s staring. The difference? Back then, you could shout, “Mum, knock next time!” Now, this is on the internet forever. There’s no door to slam shut here.

But real talk, mate—how did it even get this far? I’ll tell you how: boundaries. Healthy ones. Like, this WL is trying to run a business, and you’re out here acting like you’re auditioning for The Notebook 2: The Punting Diaries. You’ve got to know when to call it a day. Instead, you’ve got her saying things like “you never took your eyes off me for even 1 second.” I mean, what were you doing, staring her down like she owed you money?

Let me spell it out for you: if this WL’s response is legit, she’s already got you pegged as a stalker. Not a sexy one like in rom-coms, but the kind that makes people triple-check their locks. That’s not a vibe, mate—it’s a red flag. My advice? See a therapist. Not the type with “massage” on their sign. One that can help you unpack why you’re confusing transactional services with your search for true love.

Bounce, my guy. Get out of here before you lose whatever dignity you’ve got left. Plenty of fish in the sea, and some of them will even smile at you without feeling like they’re under a laser pointer.

Response to Choi

Choi, let me just say, your response had more class than the Opera House on a Friday night. You handled this with so much grace, I half-expected a standing ovation at the end. If there’s a handbook on how to deal with awkward clients, your reply should be Chapter One. “How to Gently Tell a Puntersaurus to Jog On.”

That said, I’ve got one question that’s been rattling around in my head like loose change in a washing machine: How the hell did your customer know this thread was about you? I’m not Sherlock, but the OP didn’t leave any massive clues lying around. Here’s my theory:
1. Repeat Visits: The OP was a regular. That’s like leaving your DNA all over the crime scene. Regular punters know the vibe, and yours stood out.
2. Unique Interaction: Apparently, he stared at you like you were the last chicken schnitty at the pub buffet. That’s memorable.
3. Shop Gossip: Maybe someone at the shop tipped you off. “Oi, Choi, check out this thread. Is this the guy who stares at you like he’s trying to read your mind?”
4. Punter Detective Work: Someone out there probably pieced this together from their own experiences. The internet is full of amateur sleuths with too much free time.

Anyway, great job setting boundaries. You’ve got more patience than a Sydney commuter stuck on Parramatta Road at 5 p.m.

Response to the Forum

Alright, punters, gather ‘round. This thread, “WL’s Request to Decline Visits,” is like a cautionary tale wrapped in an episode of Married at First Sight. Here’s what we can all learn before someone else ends up as the next episode:

1. Respect the WL’s Boundaries

When a WL says “Don’t come back,” that’s your cue to exit stage left. Don’t be the guy still hanging around hoping for an encore. This isn’t a rock concert. Respect her wishes and jog on.

2. Avoid Emotional Attachments

This ain’t The Bachelor. It’s transactional. You pay, you smile, you leave. Start catching feelings, and you’re heading for a trainwreck. Trust me, WLs aren’t looking for the next Mr. Right—they’re looking to pay their rent.

3. Understand Power Dynamics

WLs see things you don’t. That intense gaze you think is soulful connection? She’s reading it as “I need a new lock on my front door.” You’re not Ryan Gosling. She’s not swooning.

4. Learn to Take Rejection Gracefully

Rejection happens. Don’t act like you’ve been banished from paradise. “Why doesn’t she like me?” Because she doesn’t. Move on, mate. There’s no sequel to this story.

5. Reflect on Your Intentions

Are you here for stress relief, or are you filling a hole the size of the Harbour Bridge in your soul? Figure it out before you make things weird for everyone.


Investigations for the Forum Sleuths

Now, for the online detectives out there, here are two little freebies for you to chew on:

Language Investigation

Choi’s reply wasn’t written in English first. It was like a fine bottle of soju—imported.
1. Translation Artifacts: Phrases like “each other has a different mind” scream Google Translate.
2. Korean Source (80% Match): The tone, indirectness, and politeness point to Korean. Mandarin (50%) is another contender, but it’s less likely—it’s usually more direct.

OP vs. Choi: Same Person?

Are they the same person? Nah, probably not. Here’s why:
1. Tone: OP is emotional and scattered. Choi is calm and professional.
2. Writing Style: OP writes fluently, like an Aussie-born punter. Choi’s got translation quirks, like “I hope you accept my request.”
3. Chance They’re the Same: Slim to none—80-90% they’re different people.

Final Thoughts

This thread is a car crash we can all learn from. Respect boundaries, keep it professional, and for the love of all things sacred, don’t stare at someone like they’re the last Macca’s nugget. Let’s do better, punters. And for the sleuths, enjoy those freebies.

[The giver]

Could've been worse. He could've uploaded a response video on Youtube like that Linq guy.

[11Bravo]

3. Understand Power Dynamics

WLs see things you don’t. That intense gaze you think is soulful connection? She’s reading it as “I need a new lock on my front door.” You’re not Ryan Gosling. She’s not swooning.

Once again, excellent insight coated with humor, great read. The "need a new lock on my front door" had me LOL. And so true, in talking with WG's, they really can have a different perspective on things.

Offshore bar FL'er, brand new arrival. A girl I knew (biblical sense) touted me to Miss New, saying I was safe. I wanted LT, she only ST. She was interesting enough, I agreed. Took her home, enjoyed, she still wanted to leave, so put her in a taxi and sent her on her way.

She became a regular. 6 months later, she confessed: I'd been her very first customer. She had just arrived in an (unfriendly) country that very day, and only knew her apartment by its color IN DAYLIGHT. Now, at night, sodium streetlights, colors changed, she couldn't recognize the building. She had spent over an hour, wandering around trying to figure out which building was hers, terrified of anything and everything, hiding between parked cars when anyone passed by. Finally another PRC appeared who she could ask for directions.

Her comment to me: "I was so stupid. I was absolutely terrified, but I could have spent the night with you, relaxing (how romantic) AND earning more money" (how pragmatic).

[mn69]

Response to the OP

3. Understand Power Dynamics

WLs see things you don’t. That intense gaze you think is soulful connection? She’s reading it as “I need a new lock on my front door.” You’re not Ryan Gosling. She’s not swooning.


Thats right. As I always say to you bro's, unless you're handsome AF like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, the "intense gaze" is just creepy & will give her the ick

The OP is obviously not handsome by the sounds of things

[94wreckers]

Can we please not scare away good ML/WL's !! They are hard to come by. We have entire threads dedicated to who we miss in the industry. So many leave !!

Some of them may leave because of other jobs, meeting new sugar daddies or going back to their home countries. My experience, most times... The girl got creeped out or couldnt deal with the punters !!


Yes it is transactional no doubt, we pay the money, they provide the service. Can we also pay the money and give some respect with it. It can be a pleasurable experience for both parties this way.
Just because you are paying for dinner, does not give you the right to disrespect the waiter is another way of looking at it.

Just my 2 cents. Never mind me LOL

[Mybadwilly22]

Final Response: Zigman, Kamala, and Apu Walk Into a Punt…

Alright, lads, let’s shut this circus down before it turns into a Bollywood trilogy. Zigman, mate, you almost had me sold. I was this close to buying the whole “I’m not Indian, I’m just misunderstood” shtick. But then the boys in the forum started connecting the dots, and I can’t lie—they’ve made a bloody compelling case. Now, here I am, a swing voter, and facts are like my personal sausage sizzle—I need the whole snag before I make a decision.

You see, it did cross my mind why you kept jumping to defend Indians on this thread. But I brushed it off like, “Nah, maybe he’s just passionate about the diversity of smells at the massage table.” Turns out, I was wrong. Thank you, forum sleuths, for opening my eyes faster than a WL turning on the lights when your time’s up.

Kamala and Zigman: A Match Made in Identity Limbo

Now let’s get to it—why you, Zigman, are the Kamala Harris of this forum. Here’s the tea: Kamala’s got a whole masala pot of Indian roots—mum’s Indian, dad’s rumored to be linked to it—but does she lean into it? Nah, she’s out here playing up the African-American identity like it’s her winning lotto ticket. It’s all “fried chicken and collard greens” at campaign stops, but you know there’s a tandoori oven in her family kitchen screaming, “Don’t forget me!”

And you, Zigman, are playing the same game. You’re dodging your roots harder than Kamala dodging tough questions about the southern border. She’s supposed to be the “border tsar,” but that border’s letting people in like it’s happy hour. And you? You’re out here trying to break through the WL’s closed gates like an illegal crossing, hoping she’ll stamp your passport with a smile. Mate, she’s building walls faster than Trump with a bucket of bricks and a vendetta.

Apu Called, He Wants His Drama Back

You know who you remind me of, Zigman? Apu from The Simpsons. That man’s got undeniable Indian energy—accent, mannerisms, the whole curry kit and caboodle—but he’s still out here pretending he’s just your friendly neighborhood convenience store guy. That’s you, Zigman. The forum’s been staring at your “I’m not Indian” act, and now we’re all like, “C’mon, mate, at least own the smell of the naan you’ve been sniffing.”

Zigman’s Psychological Curry

Mate, let me sprinkle a little psychologist seasoning on this. Here’s your profile:
1. Boundary Issues:
Kamala’s got border chaos; you’ve got WL chaos. She’s waving people through while you’re waving yourself back into a WL’s life where you’ve been blacklisted. Newsflash: they both said no.
2. Identity Acrobatics:
Kamala’s juggling heritage for votes. You’re juggling this “I’m not Indian” narrative for sympathy. It’s like watching someone try to butter naan with chopsticks—it doesn’t work, mate.
3. Obsession with Validation:
Kamala’s got Oprah clapping for her on stage, and you’re here hoping Choi will give you the green light to visit again. Spoiler: both are wishful thinking.

Choi, Be the Border Guard We Need

Choi, we need you to settle this, love. Is Zigman Indian, or is he just doing the “Apu Special”? Help us out here. The forum’s divided like a naan bread at a family dinner, and I can’t rest until I know the truth.

And while we’re at it, Choi, please confirm—did Zigman really stare at you like the last biryani at the buffet? Because if he did, that’s Exhibit A for why the WL put up her No Entry sign.

My Swing Vote: Kamala vs. Zigman

Now, I wasn’t going to bring politics into this, but let’s be real—this thread has me voting for anyone except Kamala. Zigman, you’ve got me questioning everything, and I’m not just talking about the WL. You’re the only bloke who can make me look at U.S. politics and think, “Yeah, maybe Apu should run for office instead.”

Promise to the Forum

And to my fellow punters—this is it. My final comment. I’m out. Done. Finished. But not because I want to be, oh no. This thread’s like a dodgy massage joint—overpriced, unsatisfying, but somehow you can’t stop coming back. I’m not proud of it, but I’m a junkie for this drama.

Zigman, thank you for the entertainment. Choi, you’re the hero we need. And to the rest of the forum—let’s let this thread die in peace. Good day, fellas.

[1inchguy]

Thats right. As I always say to you bro's, unless you're handsone AF like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, the "intense gaze" is just creepy & will give her the ick

The OP is obviously not handsome by the sounds of things

For some reason this reminds me of the Anakin skywalker gaze at padme. The creepy smile that made her uncomfortable.

But how did it lead to this point? Was she cleaning up and he just stand there watching?

[PKING2]

@choi
U need to msg au99moderator
I believe that the contact number

[Candy1234]

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

[Mybadwilly22]

Choi, Be the Border Guard We Need

Choi, we need you to settle this, love. Is Zigman Indian, or is he just doing the “Apu Special”? Help us out here. The forum’s divided like a naan bread at a family dinner, and I can’t rest until I know the truth.


And while we’re at it, Choi, please confirm—did Zigman really stare at you like the last biryani at the buffet? Because if he did, that’s Exhibit A for why the WL put up her No Entry sign.


I'm really sorry, but even with the translation, it's hard for me to understand what you wrote with my English level. But if you were asking me if he was Indian, he is not. I heard he was born in a country close to Korea.


최님, 안녕하세요! 먼저 포럼에 계속 참여해 주시고, 명확한 답변과 설명을 공유해 주셔서 정말 감사드립니다. 많은 도움이 되었어요! 최님께서 한국 분이시다 보니, 제가 쓴 글이 어려울 수도 있을 것 같아 자세한 번역과 함께 몇 가지 설명을 덧붙였습니다. 이 글은 약간의 유머와 풍자로 쓰였는데, 읽으면서 재미있게 이해하셨으면 좋겠습니다. 다음은 제가 포럼에 남긴 글의 전체 내용과 관련 설명입니다:

Zigman, Kamala, 그리고 아푸(Apu)가 한 펀트(punt)에 들어가다

자, 이제 이 이야기를 끝냅시다! 이 스레드가 계속되면 볼리우드 삼부작으로 변할지도 몰라요. Zigman 씨, 솔직히 말해서 거의 당신 말에 넘어갈 뻔했어요. “나는 인도인이 아니고 그냥 오해받은 것”이라는 핑계가 꽤 설득력 있어 보였거든요. 그런데 이 포럼의 명탐정들이 하나둘 단서를 맞추고 있는 걸 보니… 이제 저도 중간투표자(swing voter)처럼 애매한 입장에 놓이게 되었네요. 모든 정보를 들어야 결정을 내릴 수 있을 것 같아요.

정치와 Kamala Harris 비교
Kamala Harris에 대해 잠깐 설명드릴게요. Kamala Harris는 미국의 정치인으로, 어머니는 인도인이고 아버지는 흑인 혈통입니다. 그러나 그녀는 인도적 뿌리를 거의 언급하지 않고, 아프리카계 미국인 정체성을 주로 부각시키며 정치 활동을 하죠. 마치 집에서는 탄두리 치킨을 먹고, 캠페인에서는 프라이드 치킨과 콜라드 그린(미국 남부 음식)을 들고 다니는 것처럼요.

Zigman 씨, 당신도 비슷한 게임을 하고 있는 것 같아요. Kamala가 자신의 뿌리를 회피하듯이, 당신도 정체성을 회피하려는 것처럼 보입니다. 하지만 여기 있는 모두가 그 ‘커리 향기’를 멀리서도 맡을 수 있어요!

아푸(Apu)와의 비교
아푸는 미국 애니메이션 *심슨 가족(The Simpsons)*에 나오는 유명 캐릭터로, 두꺼운 인도 억양과 전형적인 인도 행동으로 잘 알려져 있어요. Zigman 씨가 자신의 정체성을 회피하려는 모습을 보니, 저는 아푸가 떠올랐습니다. 그래서 우리는 농담으로 이 행동을 “아푸 스페셜”이라고 부르고 있습니다.

비리야니(biryani) 비유
비리야니는 인도에서 매우 인기 있는 향신료 밥 요리입니다. 뷔페에서 마지막으로 남은 비리야니는 사람들이 가장 탐내는 음식으로 볼 수 있어요. Zigman 씨가 당신을 그렇게 강렬하고 절실하게 바라봤다고 하던데요. 만약 사실이라면, 당신이 “출입 금지” 사인을 내건 이유가 명확해질 것 같아요!

Zigman 씨를 위한 심리 분석
1. 경계 문제: Kamala는 국경 문제로 혼란을 겪고 있고, Zigman 씨는 당신과의 경계에서 혼란을 겪고 있습니다.
2. 정체성 곡예: Kamala는 자신의 유산을 선거를 위해 이용합니다. Zigman 씨는 자신의 “나는 인도인이 아니다” 이야기를 동정을 얻기 위해 조작하려는 것처럼 보입니다.
3. 확인 욕구: Kamala는 Oprah의 박수를 받고 싶어 하고, Zigman 씨는 최님께 다시 초대받고 싶어 하죠. 둘 다 쉽지 않아 보입니다!

최님, 우리가 필요해요!
최님, 이 스레드의 진실을 밝혀 주실 유일한 분은 바로 당신입니다! Zigman 씨가 인도인인지, 아니면 그저 “아푸 스페셜”을 시도 중인지 알려주세요.

또한, Zigman 씨가 정말로 당신을 뷔페의 마지막 비리야니처럼 바라보았는지 확인해 주세요. 그것이 사실이라면, 그 행동이 많은 걸 설명해 줄 것 같아요!

마무리
마지막으로, 저는 이 스레드에서 떠납니다. 하지만 솔직히 말해서, 이 스레드는 어딘가 비싸고 만족스럽지 않은 마사지샵처럼 느껴지네요. 그래도 계속 오고 싶게 만드는 묘한 매력이 있습니다.

Zigman 씨, 흥미로운 이야기를 제공해 주셔서 감사합니다. 그리고 최님, 당신은 이 포럼의 영웅이에요. 모든 분들께—이제 이 스레드를 평화롭게 묻어둡시다. 좋은 하루 되세요!