Regular taking advantage of me

[Sinkie]

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

[bung72]

I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

'ya think!!

.....piss this chick off....

She is giving you the full-on wife-experience now.....

[walkaboutbilly]

Find yourself a new provider, someone got way too comfortable with taking your money

[Folcis]

Some girls are grateful for regulars, and some take them for granted.

A bit of give and take is one thing, but if they start taking you for granted, you have to move on.

[MindTheGap]

She’s not your friend
She’s not your girlfriend
She’s not your wife

Vote with your feet - start seeing some others at the same shop or the one next door / across the road.

The best way to get what you want is for her to realise you can get it from someone else.

[11Bravo]

Do I REALLY need to drag out the ole' Yul's "Move On" clip again...

https://youtu.be/1Ar5OdHtQrA?t=68


Some girls are grateful for regulars, and some take them for granted.

A bit of give and take is one thing, but if they start taking you for granted, you have to move on.
Well said. Loyalty and consideration cut both ways.


She’s not your friend
She’s not your girlfriend
She’s not your wife

Vote with your feet - start seeing some others at the same shop or the one next door / across the road.

The best way to get what you want is for her to realise you can get it from someone else.


'ya think!!

.....piss this chick off....

She is giving you the full-on wife-experience now.....
Why bother, taking the time to piss her off? Just Ride On to new, greener pastures, not worth the time and effort to linger...

At some point, IF she texts you, then it's up to you if you return. Holding grudges just not worth it, IME.

[bung72]

Why bother, taking the time to piss her off?

I guess I was using the term 'to piss off' someone, to mean, get rid of them.
I'd start booking other girls at the same shop.

[11Bravo]

I guess I was using the term 'to piss off' someone, to mean, get rid of them.
I'd start booking other girls at the same shop.

Misunderstood; thanks for the correction.

Still, I wouldn't necessarily book from the same shop (unless there was someone I REALLY wanted to see). There are so many shops, why limit yourself? And I wouldn't want to be caught up in interoffice politics, especially if a small shop. Like I said, just not worth it. It's just BUSINESS.

[MindTheGap]

Do I REALLY need to drag out the ole' Yul's "Move On" clip again...

https://youtu.be/1Ar5OdHtQrA?t=68


Well said. Loyalty and consideration cut both ways.




Why bother, taking the time to piss her off? Just Ride On to new, greener pastures, not worth the time and effort to linger...

At some point, IF she texts you, then it's up to you if you return. Holding grudges just not worth it, IME.

Because it works. I’ve used the tactic and ended up getting more than before.

You forget it’s all about the money for them

[11Bravo]

Because it works. I’ve used the tactic and ended up getting more than before.

You forget it’s all about the money for themWorked for you, great.

Myself, I NEVER forget it's just BUSINESS. All depends on how much YOUR cash flow is worth to HER. I just don't play games, MY life is too short. No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see. What, you're not showing up, she's thinking, "Oh, he must have joined a monastery" or staying home with a broken heart? I've had some come back (her office, my bar), others not. It's just BUSINESS. Personally, when I lose a regular, I take the opportunity to scout for the next one. And she will be found... well, so far, anyway.

[MindTheGap]

Well there may be others in the same shop

It might be that the shop is the most convenient for your lifestyle and personal circumstances. When I lived 40kms outside of a major city that was an issue for me as options were limited

[MindTheGap]

Worked for you, great.

Myself, I NEVER forget it's just BUSINESS. All depends on how much YOUR cash flow is worth to HER. I just don't play games, MY life is too short. No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see. What, you're not showing up, she's thinking, "Oh, he must have joined a monastery" or staying home with a broken heart? I've had some come back (her office, my bar), others not. It's just BUSINESS. Personally, when I lose a regular, I take the opportunity to scout for the next one. And she will be found... well, so far, anyway.

Never underestimate burning jealousy in a woman. 100x if she is an Asian woman

[11Bravo]

Well there may be others in the same shopAs I said:

No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see.



It might be that the shop is the most convenient for your lifestyle and personal circumstances. When I lived 40kms outside of a major city that was an issue for me as options were limitedAnd why I always live, or stay, in the big city. Used to drive 70 minutes (120 kph) each way to work just so I could avail myself of the big city opportunities (though on foggy days, would often question that decision as my hands GRIPPED the steering wheel :question:, especially in an environment where many believed in "fate")


Never underestimate burning jealousy in a woman. 100x if she is an Asian womanEver heard "Feed the ducks?"...

All I'm saying is, if it works for you, fine. But when one door closes...

You become less important to a regular, a regular becomes less important to you. 2 sides, same coin.
Cheers.

[thefatness]

Don’t see her anymore. In fact, you should make it known to her that you’re seeing others. Even better if it’s at the same shop. For the ultimate effect ask for a lineup, and from that lineup pick someone else. Make sure she’s in the lineup.

[JJBlows]

Don’t see her anymore. In fact, you should make it known to her that you’re seeing others. Even better if it’s at the same shop. For the ultimate effect ask for a lineup, and from that lineup pick someone else. Make sure she’s in the lineup.

Too much effort bro for that. He should just see another girl and if she happens to see him there the he should just say hello and move on. A girl like that he shouldn't waste any energy on.

I'm curious to know which girl this is

[gedinsyd]

One of my regulars stopped offering one or two things she used to offer too...but it was her choice for health reasons and she stopped doing those things for everyone, to the best of my knowledge. So I simply respected that choice. I understand it could be a dealbreaker for some.
As for the overtime for the previous punter, do you still get your full session time regardless?
Regarding her being okay to meet, I guess she is happy to get the money regardless of whether you can put a finger in her lol.
It could also be that she simply doesn't like you that much and hopes you get the hint...not nice I know but it happens.

[Kiki kong]

OP
You have clear simp‐tom's that you are being taken advantage of.
You do have my simp-athy that she just sees you as a weekly pay check.

Let us know who's your regular is and will do you a solid and bang that pussy outa revenge for you. No need to get your hands dirty for this. We got you bro.

[booty_duty]

Lol... I reckon if you keep seeing her, she'll end up putting a gimp mask on you and tie you to the corner.

Just ditch the bitch and move on.

[justincase]

OP
You have clear simp‐tom's that you are being taken advantage of.
You do have my simp-athy that she just sees you as a weekly pay check.

Let us know who's your regular is and will do you a solid and bang that pussy outa revenge for you. No need to get your hands dirty for this. We got you bro.

Well you explained that simply enough. If you bang her too hard she may become bow legged so just give her a simple bang,

[andrewv]

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

She does not respect you AND she will not improve.
Simply stop this business (yes, it’s business) arrangement and use your money to buy at another shop, you have hundreds of options.

[justincase]

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.
But
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session.

Every room has a clock so while she’s in the bathroom having a shower just wind the hands back twenty minutes or so and you’ll be ahead of yourself but don’t be too greedy and go too far back or the previous punter may come into the room looking for more action.

[justincase]

She does not respect you AND she will not improve.
Simply stop this business (yes, it’s business) arrangement and use your money to buy at another shop, you have hundreds of options.

Simply put, I like it! Have you ever thought about giving advice on a forum? I’d keep the advice simple though and not advise a punter he has hundreds of options. You may find it a simple task but others not so simple.

[chemistry84]

Why do you guys treat some of these girls like your girl-friends. They're WL, if they don't provide the services agreed then move on. If anything they should treat regulars better instead, which isn't the case here.

[RickyPunting]

It's a WL and u keep seeing the same one? That's the fkn headline! FFS get variety not the feels.

[forgotmyumbrella]

Regulars should be looked after but instead she treats them like crap because she knows they'll keep coming, and throws all her attention at random customers who won't see her again. Now isn't that stupid? Can't expect much logic from these chicks anyway

[forgotmyumbrella]

Don’t see her anymore. In fact, you should make it known to her that you’re seeing others. Even better if it’s at the same shop. For the ultimate effect ask for a lineup, and from that lineup pick someone else. Make sure she’s in the lineup.

If you're keen on playing the revenge game, there are way nastier things you could do to make her lose business or even her job. And it'd be pretty easy to do, not that I'm saying you should...

[fixatedperson]

I went through this with an ML. I wouldn't say she took me for granted but the service changed, not necessarily for the worse.

The first time I railed her with my finger in her ass, licked her asshole etc. She later told me she doesn't like assplay and would prefer I stop which I did.

But the familiarity meant the service was different in other ways which I liked. It's all about what you're after.

[Double_Adapter]

OP
You have clear simp‐tom's that you are being taken advantage of.
You do have my simp-athy that she just sees you as a weekly pay check.

Let us know who's your regular is and will do you a solid and bang that pussy outa revenge for you. No need to get your hands dirty for this. We got you bro.

Couldn't have said it better myself - here's the summarised version for the op

1. The constant no's? a SIMP-tom she’s got zero respect for him
2. Her chronic lateness? a SIMP-le sign that his time is worth jack shit to her.
3. Letting rough blokes smash her, then serving him the scraps? SIMP-ly insulting
4. Rocking up with pussy pain but still pocketing his cash? Flat out disrespect. He dropped his boundaries, and now she's SIMP-ly taking advantage and seeing how far she can milk the bloke.

[forgotmyumbrella]

I went through this with an ML. I wouldn't say she took me for granted but the service changed, not necessarily for the worse.

The first time I railed her with my finger in her ass, licked her asshole etc. She later told me she doesn't like assplay and would prefer I stop which I did.

But the familiarity meant the service was different in other ways which I liked. It's all about what you're after.

yeah while you pull back because you're "respecting" her, other punters are definitely going to town fingering her ass furiously. If anything, now that you're a regular, she should allow you to double finger her ass, not stopping you.

[fixatedperson]

yeah while you pull back because you're "respecting" her, other punters are definitely going to town fingering her ass furiously. If anything, now that you're a regular, she should allow you to double finger her ass, not stopping you.

When I want assplay I go to an WL who does anal. There's no need to force a girl to do things she doesn't like when there's other girls who will do it.

[woods23]

Maybe the girl don't like him anymore.
But seems he still persisting her ..why not take him for granted, easy money. If he move on, I don't think she's care . Clearly this is not a regular look after theirs Value regulars.

I got a regular ml for yrs, then she increased her prices, I thought that too much $$$ . So I had moved on. I don't think she will missed me one bit. We some time over flattered ourselves. I guess she has putting up with me for while finally decided to increase...once the bond is broken , it's good bye.

[1inchguy]

Not to that extreme but I have stop seeing regular cause before she used to give me hard massages which is why I see her.
Knees the back, back cracking. Love getting stretched out and calf pains like im seeing physio.
Full service was nothing to boost about. Basically star fish but I like thr massage that's why I come back.
Eventually her massage wasnt hard anymore. She end up talking more.
I reduced our session and rarely see each other. Sometimes she messages me with tempting pictures to get me back in

[11Bravo]

Maybe the girl don't like him anymore.
But seems he still persisting her ..why not take him for granted, easy money. If he move on, I don't think she's care . Clearly this is not a regular look after theirs Value regulars.

I got a regular ml for yrs, then she increased her prices, I thought that too much $$$ . So I had moved on. I don't think she will missed me one bit. We some time over flattered ourselves. I guess she has putting up with me for while finally decided to increase...once the bond is broken , it's good bye.
Exactly.

She moves up-market, you just become a gap-filler, if that. No problem, both move on, it's just business.

Her shine is eclipsed by another, you stop booking. No problem, you don't need to wear a bulletproof vest when you're out 'n about. It's just business.

I had one regular for a number of months, LT every Saturday night. I knew she was new when we met, why she needed a mentor for the negotiations. I was her first customer in country (she told me 6 months later). Then, one week, when I SMS'd to confirm the assignation, she was busy. OK. Same the next week. 3rd week, I simply asked if I was wasting my time. "Yes, sorry; good business". She could do better consistently. No problem, just business. So I became a gap-filler: afternoon delight, ST. Worked for her, worked for me; just business.

PS: When I was relocating back home, I messaged her, asking for one last time, LT. No problem, she agreed, inserting me (pun intended) into her schedule for that night at my LT rate. We had a blast. Still, just business, with respect.

It's just business.

[Sinkie]

It's just business but when she couldn't even do her business then what's in it for me right?

[Sinkie]

Thanks for the input everyone. I've decided to move on from her and I'll find someone else who will value my time and money.

[Sinkie]

For anyone PM'd me asking about her, it's an ML in the city area, not a WL

A few people PM'd me and said they faced the same thing lol. Glad we can share our experience here.

[11Bravo]

It's just business but when she couldn't even do her business then what's in it for me right?

Consider a restaurant you patronize. You have a reservation, get a window table, week after week. Then, the table becomes not-a-window table. Then, you get a "You'll have to wait for a table..." and you see other people arrive after you get tables. And when you do get a table, it's in the alcove by the kitchen. And your order takes a long time, arrives cold. It's just that your business is not all that important to the restaurant's income. What do you do?

She COULD do her business, just not with you. What's in it for you? Knowing it's time to hit the bricks. Time to dine elsewhere.

[schloong]

Sums it up just nicely mate - thanks...

[pmmeyourknee_]

Not all of them like regulars. They see 10 men everyday, 50+ men weekly. You're not special bros. Unless they don't have many customers, Losing you costs them nothing. Always remember that. Move on!

https://i.postimg.cc/TY0jsKFg/Screenshot-2025-05-20-at-9-22-14-pm.png

[pmmeyourknee_]

For anyone PM'd me asking about her, it's an ML in the city area, not a WL

A few people PM'd me and said they faced the same thing lol. Glad we can share our experience here.

It's really fucking sad out there! So many lonely simps being taken advantage by these ladies. They're laughing at you, trust me I know.

[Incognito]

It's really fucking sad out there! So many lonely simps being taken advantage by these ladies. They're laughing at you, trust me I know.

Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

[pmmeyourknee_]

Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

Absolutely 100% true I can confirm. Imagine giving them sweets after cumming inside their mouth :shout:

[Studd]

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off
A smart WL /ML would pretend to be your friend so she can get away with anything.
End up using you . Can't do this can't do that it's ok you still pay without the service . Because they make believe you are friends. Alot of punters will fall for this.

[F0x]

For anyone PM'd me asking about her, it's an ML in the city area, not a WL

A few people PM'd me and said they faced the same thing lol. Glad we can share our experience here.

Oh so others have also experienced this decline in service with the same girl lol.

Is it a well known shop?

So many choices.

I too have recently just started to switch up my punting to different shops and seeing whats out there.

Sometimes one forgets how much goddamn choice we have.

I mean, there shops EVERYWHERE.

Good luck.

[Hedonisticfun]

It's a WL and u keep seeing the same one? That's the fkn headline! FFS get variety not the feels.

Oh contraire Rick , if you're onto (or into haha) a good thing stick to it . Better to have a good connection and excellent service. Nothing worse than trying new WLs /MLs and being sadly disappointed let alone visiting unhygienic and shabby dumps .Yeah occasionally might find a good one but after a long arduous disappointing search.

[justincase]

Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

Some guys spend a small fortune on their girlfriends and they’re not even “solid”. What’s the difference? If you’re getting out of it what you want then the spend is justified. Sometimes I think of it as charity and is there anything wrong with being charitable or generous? They can’t all have a great day at work so why not help them out?

[Double_Adapter]

Some guys spend a small fortune on their girlfriends and they’re not even “solid”. What’s the difference? If you’re getting out of it what you want then the spend is justified. Sometimes I think of it as charity and is there anything wrong with being charitable or generous? They can’t all have a great day at work so why not help them out?

Charitable....an interesting choice of word to drop in a joint like this. Ain't nothing wrong with being generous, but the real question is whether you are giving out of kindness, or cause you’re angling for something in return?

Selective Charitable: Only generous with certain chicks hoping your wallet buys you a bit more than the standard service

Opportunistic Charitable: generous when you smell an opening.....a tip here, a gift there, hoping it lands you an extra round, some GFE, a CIM surprise, her real phone number, boyfriend status etc.

Altruistic Charitable: Generous across the board, no strings attached MILFs, GILFs, old Asian boilers, chicks with dodgy hygiene, overweight, the lot and you don’t expect a thing in return. Now that’s the purest form of punter charity right there.