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mylovelypenis
30-03-2026, 11:03 AM
question for those married men out there, are there any hookup sites that actually get you some action?

Rodman
30-03-2026, 01:31 PM
question for those married men out there, are there any hookup sites that actually get you some action?
Isn’t that what tinder is all about ?

RogerWood
30-03-2026, 01:49 PM
Or seeking.com of u want a sugar baby type arrangement. I never met up with any but its possible. Think they expect payment, but varying qualities on there so u might find a cheap one or free one if u tick her box.

Smithlimited0101
30-03-2026, 01:51 PM
question for those married men out there, are there any hookup sites that actually get you some action?

Red Hot Pie I can vouch for, however itÂ’s very hard work as you are competing with guys who are single and have face photos visible, and are generally 30-40, so if you are older even if good looking, you wonÂ’t be a prime target.

So, while I found I had some success (say one every 2-3 months over a 3 year period), I had to accept standards which were below what I would normally go for, with a couple of exceptions which were pretty good. Quite a few were open to anal as well which was a bonus. Many of the females don’t want married guys, and even the married women are generally in open relationships and so don’t want a “cheater”.

In summary, there is action there but you have to work hard for it. By that I mean send plenty of messages and it becomes a game of numbers.

I also had a little bit of success with couples, but again many of the guys are bi (IÂ’m not) so itÂ’s a much smaller pool if you also are straight. In the end I just didnÂ’t really like being there with another guy who in most cases want to participate with their wife with you.

Smithlimited0101
30-03-2026, 01:51 PM
Ps you also have to pay to use the site and access chat and photos

fluffstatic
30-03-2026, 06:22 PM
Tinder. Although my FWB doesn't know I'm married.

MasterPaizuri
30-03-2026, 06:24 PM
I fucked a few from Ashley Madison about 10 years ago

Same with adultmatchmaker

Probably fucked like 7 women all up across both sites. Struck absolute gold with Ashley Madison before I fucked it up like a dumb 20-something does

Tinder would be fun but can't afford to get caught

jasonaulife
30-03-2026, 06:27 PM
tinder works sometimes but pretty hit or miss in aus tbh
a lot of apps are full of bots or time-wasters
most guys here end up having better luck with independents/direct listings if you know where to look

Double_Adapter
30-03-2026, 06:27 PM
AUS99 is a hookup site of sorts.

AUSSIEHOTGUY
31-03-2026, 12:53 AM
AUS99 is a hookup site of sorts.

Banged a few civies off POF and Oasis Active years ago but was a lot of hoops to jump tru before any action.

More recently pulled a few roots off Wechat People Nearby including one filthy rich Chinese auntie in a 7mil apartment at 1 Barrangaroo.

Wechat is actually not that hard to score. Its who you score that's the hard part lol.

jenlai29
31-03-2026, 06:37 AM
Banged a few civies off POF and Oasis Active years ago but was a lot of hoops to jump tru before any action.

More recently pulled a few roots off Wechat People Nearby including one filthy rich Chinese auntie in a 7mil apartment at 1 Barrangaroo.

Wechat is actually not that hard to score. Its who you score that's the hard part lol.

How do you start off conversation on Wechat People Nearby? I’ve only found out about that app and it seems intimidating as I am not a Chinese speaking.

Staggerlee71
31-03-2026, 08:30 AM
Just use the translate function on WeChat.

freaky_Vik
31-03-2026, 06:15 PM
yea but its more like how do you do a first message and get a convo going? i have a bunch or people near by and within traveling distance too but i have no idea how to do an opener.

Double_Adapter
31-03-2026, 11:37 PM
yea but its more like how do you do a first message and get a convo going? i have a bunch or people near by and within traveling distance too but i have no idea how to do an opener.

WTF bro? You need to spend some real quality time in a nightclub, casino, or pub scene. Find someone rough around the edges like a MAFS scrubber, walk up to her and start a chat - play it like you’ve known her forever, like she’s your long-lost sister. You might have to shout her a drink or two. If you play your cards right you'll be banging her outside in the car park (just watch out for any cctv cameras).

personaa
01-04-2026, 12:03 AM
Here is the place : https://www.orienthotel.com.au/

AUSSIEHOTGUY
01-04-2026, 12:43 AM
yea but its more like how do you do a first message and get a convo going? i have a bunch or people near by and within traveling distance too but i have no idea how to do an opener.

Dude. You just gotta get yourself on there and have a really good photo. Be fucken confident! You already know Asian women dig us Aussie men cos our cocks are a lot bigger and thicker than those pindick asians that barely get it up 3 or 4 inches max past the pubic hair line. So you're already there.

I start by saying hi or hello. Most don't even speak English so don't worry about what you say. They'll respond to you in Chinese and then just click translate.

I don't fuck around and waste time with chit chat. Straight away I ask her do you wanna meet for drinks. Bang.