Top 8 Signs You’re Catching Feelings for a WL/ML. And Losing the Plot.

[Double_Adapter]

Top 8 Signs You’re Catching Feelings for a WL/ML. And Losing the Plot.

1. You're seeing her on a weekly basis over multiple sessions. What started as a random punt has turned into a repetitive, addictive routine.
2. You fantasise about her when rubbing one out. She's living rent free in your head now.
3. You tip her like a millionaire even though you're broke as fuck. That's not generosity, it's straight up delusional simp like behaviour.
4. Gifts? Only her. You've lost perspective. You're buying expensive gifts for someone you’re already paying to see - that's conpletely fucked!
5. You’re love bombing her daily and weekly like a needy, clingy, and desperate ex who just got dumped. Tip: reason why some working chicks change phone numbers.
6. You’re tracking her movements and whereabouts, her socials, shifts, rosters, who she’s been with, who's reviewed her, you drive past the shop and call up regularly - that's not showing interest it's creeping into stalker territory.
7. You’re trawling and lurking on sex forums to see who's reviewed her and what services or extras you didn't get. You create an ALT burner account and drop questions about the chick, you DM other blokes for extra intel which leads to No8.
8. You become possessive and controlling, you get jealous and envious of other punters getting the extras you're not. You start getting into heated arguments with other blokes over a sex worker, you get banned from a sex forum....and you hit emotional rock bottom.

[secret0]

I know this is a bit tongue-in-cheek, especially towards someone recently banned, but legit good points you're making and some punters (including some here) really need to get their heads on straight (or straight up be jailed).

Just yesterday when I was at a shop, I was at reception giving feedback and a WL came up at the end of her shift and was telling them she wanted to ban a customer because he was at number 5 on your list (and probably even 6) - he was sending her 20-30 messages a day, and wouldn't stop asking to see her outside the shop. I'm guessing she's had some experience, because she was more annoyed and angry than scared of the situation, and kept it pretty professional. Reception took care of it, and she left, but not before smiling and waving at me and saying goodbye. Pretty admirable actually, that she was able to maintain her composure in that kind of situation, but I wouldn't be surprised if there are WLs out there who ended up getting stalkers and creeps following them and get scared enough they have had to change phone numbers (or shops or even where they stayed).

"6. You’re tracking her movements and whereabouts, her socials, shifts, rosters, who she’s been with, who's reviewed her, you drive past the shop and call up regularly - that's not showing interest it's creeping into stalker territory." - that's not creeping into it; that's fully being a stalker. And wouldn't be surprised if there are some who go further and stalk the girls home when they leave the shop or try to go to places they see in the girl's socials to 'accidentally' run into them there.

Seriously, if you're reading this and you fall into, I'd say, numbers 3 to 8, leave the girls alone and get some fucking help.

[Elbortomorton]

We have all been there , but you gotta remember this is a job for them.

And yeah u have a great time for what 30 or 60 mins but need to wake up and realise its all sexual what u are feeling.

U don’t know the actual person, all u know is the sexual service she is providing

[Curious12]

In reality if you werent paying, all these girls will be acting like this to you uncs. I wouldnt be surprised if they are crying after they get home feeling dirty and filthy.
www.instagram.com/reel/DWrpLlgk79i/

The comments on this one also made me laugh because that relates to all these punters having sex with girls with a 10 year age gap. She also took all his money after and left him after.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVSlNhCACLB/?l=1

[ColesBag]

I reckon the assorted multi makers or Mr. WhoWantsToBeAmillionposts would be all over in living out the aforementioned retarded character flaws.

[Sinkie]

Wow yikes I thought I used to be a simp but it’s nothing compared to these. How did you come up with this mate? I hope it’s not your own experience?

[IDOTHAT]

guys AUSSIEHOTGUY has been banned. This is terrible news. I miss him already.

[Shitsyeah]

guys AUSSIEHOTGUY has been banned. This is terrible news. I miss him already.

I wouldn't worry. He will be reincarnated before too long. LOL

[Double_Adapter]

Wow yikes I thought I used to be a simp but it’s nothing compared to these. How did you come up with this mate? I hope it’s not your own experience?

If you spend enough time here reading posts, going through ARs, and receiving random DMs you start to notice the same patterns repeating over and over. It becomes even clearer when you speak directly with WLs and MLs; once they trust you some will openly share text messages and gifts they’ve received from customers which reinforces the same picture.

I've had WLs give away gifts they didn't like/want (sometimes it's not the gift but the giver they don't like) eg chocolates, home made cooking from customers, wine, footy shirts, or clothing that didn't fit or that they didn't like. The last chick gave a me a shawl she received from an Indian bloke, took a whiff and it stank like shit (no fucken wonder she didn't want it). That firsthand exposure only confirms what was already obvious.

[justincase]

I reckon the assorted multi makers or Mr. WhoWantsToBeAmillionposts would be all over in living out the aforementioned retarded character flaws.

Is it a character floor when you date multiple women at once? Or possibly punt multiple women at once?

If given the opportunity wouldn’t any man do just that? If at a certain time in your life you’ve decided that you’ve ticked all of societies expected boxes then why not do what you have the ability to do?

Life is a transaction. You currently transact $3:20 a litre for fuel. You transact $5:90 for a coffee. So if you have the spare change to transact $ for the pleasure of being with a woman or multiple women what’s retarded about that?

[HiredGoon]

Is it a character floor when you date multiple women at once? Or possibly punt multiple women at once?

If given the opportunity wouldn’t any man do just that? If at a certain time in your life you’ve decided that you’ve ticked all of societies expected boxes then why not do what you have the ability to do?

Life is a transaction. You currently transact $3:20 a litre for fuel. You transact $5:90 for a coffee. So if you have the spare change to transact $ for the pleasure of being with a woman or multiple women what’s retarded about that?

Nothing wrong with it. People are exactly the same as commodities. If you're a prick.

[11Bravo]

Nothing wrong with it. People are exactly the same as commodities. If you're a prick.
Some days it's just worth signing in and catching up on the reading, especially as LOL isn't so easy these days. Thanks.

[justincase]

Nothing wrong with it. People are exactly the same as commodities. If you're a prick.

Aren’t punters just a cash carrying commodity? The SW’s select you. If they don’t want to see you then what are they?


Some days it's just worth signing in and catching up on the reading, especially as LOL isn't so easy these days. Thanks.

Look, one day I’ll put BOTG at Somerville and we may cross paths. I’ll keep a lookout for a farang LOL whilst having his hand held as he crosses the road. Shouldn’t be too hard to miss.

[Double_Adapter]

Aren’t punters just a cash carrying commodity? The SW's select you. If they don’t want to see you then what are they?


When you frame it that way, sure punters are just mobile ATMs. Some ATMs spit out clean $50s and crispy $100s, no fuss, no drama. Others glitch, stall or have hard withdrawal limits.

Ultimately it's the SWs who decide which ATM they withdraw money from. They're scanning for ATMs that won't jam, won't decline mid-transaction, aren't out of service and waste their time.

[holi_day]

Not sure if it's just me. When I am obsessed with a WL, I would keen to know her real name and identity.

I once offered money if the WL show me her ID. It wasn't big money and she declined. Almost instantly I realized this is something wrong with me and it's a dangerous signal. I refrained from seeing her and forced myself see other WLs. Soon my obsession was cured.

[11Bravo]

Look, one day I’ll put BOTG at Somerville and we may cross paths. I’ll keep a lookout for a farang LOL whilst having his hand held as he crosses the road. Shouldn’t be too hard to miss.
Only if you're lucky and I'm not.

[Double_Adapter]

Not sure if it's just me. When I am obsessed with a WL, I would keen to know her real name and identity.

I once offered money if the WL show me her ID. It wasn't big money and she declined. Almost instantly I realized this is something wrong with me and it's a dangerous signal. I refrained from seeing her and forced myself see other WLs. Soon my obsession was cured.

Sensible move bro.

There's a few reasons why SWs might hesitate in giving out personal information:

she's previously been stalked and harassed by a few creepy cunts, and so you can't blame her for protecting herself
she thinks you might be working or connected to immigration services dept
she doesn't know what you'll do with the information...so trust isn't there yet.
info could be used for doxxing, which could lead to intimidation, blackmail, bullying etc
early requests for info c/w cash payment can signal a cunt might later push limits and boundaries
info divulged could indirectly affect and impact her family, partner, or her working in other shops

Note: a lot of chicks working in shops don't even know each other's real name, age or phone number.
They refer to themselves by their shop alias and communicate via apps.

[johncitizen]

A good list, thanks.
Punters also need to stop being so possessive and asking every woman they see if they can be their girlfriend/go out for dinner/go on a date etc. Or trying to find out every store that she works at. You know who you are.
It’s a business transaction, that’s all. Don’t be so desperate fellas.

[ColesBag]

Is it a character floor when you date multiple women at once? Or possibly punt multiple women at once?

If given the opportunity wouldn’t any man do just that? If at a certain time in your life you’ve decided that you’ve ticked all of societies expected boxes then why not do what you have the ability to do?

Life is a transaction. You currently transact $3:20 a litre for fuel. You transact $5:90 for a coffee. So if you have the spare change to transact $ for the pleasure of being with a woman or multiple women what’s retarded about that?

Vinnie, the multiple women thing is just fine brother, being an antagonistic window licker about it isn't. The first line of your post I agree with, the rest is some of spectrum dwelling dribble. But hey, you're showing progress all things considered.

[11Bravo]

A good list, thanks.
Punters also need to stop being so possessive and asking every woman they see if they can be their girlfriend/go out for dinner/go on a date etc. Or trying to find out every store that she works at. You know who you are.
It’s a business transaction, that’s all. Don’t be so desperate fellas.

Agreed. I think it's ironic that a number of punters here warn about "don't give her your contact; use a bogus name; don't let her know where you live; keep all YOUR info hidden", yet many seem to not consider that "she" might feel the same way. As usual: 2 sides, same coin. It's like two ships passing each other on their way to their respective ports (Mark Twain).

And if you're thinking, "Well, I'm NOT like that..." Yes, you are.

[HiredGoon]

Is it a character floor when you date multiple women at once? Or possibly punt multiple women at once?

If given the opportunity wouldn’t any man do just that? If at a certain time in your life you’ve decided that you’ve ticked all of societies expected boxes then why not do what you have the ability to do?

Life is a transaction. You currently transact $3:20 a litre for fuel. You transact $5:90 for a coffee. So if you have the spare change to transact $ for the pleasure of being with a woman or multiple women what’s retarded about that?

Character Floor is a cool band name.

[priapus1966]

It's obviously not the best part of punting, but the capacity to enjoy the moment, the providers skills/company, but then leave without any emotional angst at all is pretty essential.

[Double_Adapter]

Is it a character floor when you date multiple women at once? Or possibly punt multiple women at once?

If given the opportunity wouldn’t any man do just that? If at a certain time in your life you’ve decided that you’ve ticked all of societies expected boxes then why not do what you have the ability to do?

Life is a transaction. You currently transact $3:20 a litre for fuel. You transact $5:90 for a coffee. So if you have the spare change to transact $ for the pleasure of being with a woman or multiple women what’s retarded about that?


Vinnie, the multiple women thing is just fine brother, being an antagonistic window licker about it isn't. The first line of your post I agree with, the rest is some of spectrum dwelling dribble. But hey, you're showing progress all things considered.

While I don't doubt blokes can have multiple chicks in their clip; be it on rotation or simultaneously, there's a clear line between flexing about your conquests vs just chasing attention. At a certain point it stops feeling like an accomplishment and starts looking like insecurity and a need for validation.

Push it too far and you're in Attention Whore territory.

Note: attention whoring isn’t limited to just chicks, men do it too.