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Candyman1969
20-04-2026, 04:20 PM
I am interested to know the percentage of us punters on here who would be ok if their partner was a massage lady who offered the full menu?

Just answer Yes or No if you would be happy knowing she would service between 5 and 10 strangers or regulars each day.

My answer would be NO as knowing what she would do all day would play with my head.

JJBeck
20-04-2026, 05:47 PM
Definitely a NO

Holdan427
20-04-2026, 05:59 PM
No

I tried with 2 different gf;s

nobodynose
20-04-2026, 06:02 PM
No longer relevant

BrisbaneSwede
20-04-2026, 06:29 PM
Holy. Fuck. No.

Fungus the Bogeyman
20-04-2026, 06:58 PM
Maybe she could be my sugar momma as she funds my extravagant lifestyle.
Other guys are taking my need to service adequately, so she must really love me if she wants to look after me.
Or want a visa. Struggling to see the downside here

Clicks12
20-04-2026, 07:05 PM
Nope... Need to weigh up the type of person this industry attracts, could potentially be very manipulative and opportunistic, the risks involved with this type of work (std's). Longevity such as wanting children or likely hood of someone you know finding out about the arrangement.

If your both on the same page with it, it's probably not a problem, like both partners being in the industry.

QuietRelief
20-04-2026, 11:06 PM
it depends....

is this wife one of the high performing 8-10s that currently work in the shops?
are we sharing the spoils of the cash
going to help me get a business in her country for a happy retirement.

everyone has their price and willing to compromise on some aspects of a marriage.

weaknet
21-04-2026, 11:40 AM
No matter what you think beforehand, the answer will be no, finally.

After the girl being your GF/Wife, your entire perception and attitude toward this lady, the way you see, understand, and feel about this lady will change completely.

Puntersclub
21-04-2026, 02:56 PM
It depends, I wouldn’t sign if she was FS but I have seen a regular for long time and enjoy her company, she doesn’t kiss but does do CBJ and a proper massage. Know that this is her hard boundary and she saves that for relationships only. I could probably be on board with that. But would rather have a SB with the illusion that you are the only one lol.

JJBeck
21-04-2026, 03:06 PM
I have seen how green plastic money can break through the hardest barriers.
When uni fees or rent or some family members needs money, then hard barriers turn to water fill temporary barriers

drunk-as-a-punk
21-04-2026, 03:12 PM
I have seen how green plastic money can break through the hardest barriers.
When uni fees or rent or some family members needs money, then hard barriers turn to water fill temporary barriers

i guess if she was paying for my ML habits id be ok with it lol

nobodynose
21-04-2026, 04:00 PM
So to answer this question, in the last few days found out two ml I see every now and again have now or had a bf while seeing them, one quit apparently and another well she hasn't admitted it but iykuk so their are people that are not bothered.

JohnRoscoe
22-04-2026, 07:12 AM
I don't think I could be in a relationship with a massage lady. Especially after reading the reviews on this site :grimace: and know how some of the guys treat the girls. I would be worried about the meetings and just how many times my girl would have sex and if anyone accidents happen. Condom coming off or splitting. Don't get me wrong I visit ML every week and obviously I know some I visit have boyfriends or husbands. I pay my money I treat the ML with respect and only visit early mornings as I not really interested in having sex in the evening as she probably have 5 or more men. So if I was dating a ML and when she would finish work I would get her tired and damn that pussy would be stretched by all you horny men who would smash her pussy or mouth!!

So my answer would be NO.

Sanuk555
22-04-2026, 09:37 AM
No. The Emotional Rollercoaster would be too great.
But, what's interesting, about this Topic is that
Many MLs tell you a Customer can't become a BF.
Yet, I hear about situations where they do.
The ML wants someone from outside, but eventually resigns to the Fact, that the Best way to meet someone is through the Punters.
Maybe certain Punters are the only ones who are Mentally equipped to handle the Challenge. ??

JJBeck
22-04-2026, 11:07 AM
Majority comments is no, so wonder who the bf are?
They may not even be on a site like this to avoid ready what their girls do with us

Any ml that worked for more than 6 months in Brisbane will find it hard to not being recognised in the street so any life after will have to be in a different city or country depends on how long she worked. Plenty of interstate punters know the popular ml of Brisbane

half
22-04-2026, 03:43 PM
I was propositioned once from a private to be her sponsor for permanent residency. Her pitch was she could make enough money hoeing out to support me so I didn't need to work, suck my dick every day, and have a baby if I wanted.

I didn't pursue it but can see why a lonely guy would. I just I hope i don't get to the point in life where I regret not taking the offer, even knowing a lot of it was probably BS.

Steve03
22-04-2026, 05:03 PM
I will if she quits her job for good

JJBeck
22-04-2026, 05:35 PM
Steve03 how will you handle it if you walk in a shopping centre with her and notice a guy looking at her. His eyes will tell you that he fucked her before. I will feel unease being seen anywhere with her knowing that some random guy may have fucked her. Yes the same can be said about any girl but ml took money and suck and fuck thousands so for me that is the redline

Sanuk555
22-04-2026, 06:29 PM
Thousands?? Haha
She be like Gene Simmons. ��

The only way to really know, is for single Punters to do the Experiment and report back,

Just1punter
22-04-2026, 07:13 PM
This is an interesting thread.

As someone that has had sexual relationships with a few popular and non poplular girls outside of the shops, never serious and never with any girls that do FS(as far as I know)

These girls pretty down to earth and could possibly have proper relationship away from this game, as long as they are ready to walk away from it, not likely they would walk until they are too old for it.

As for punters, these girls would never be looking for an actual relationship with you, they would only want something from you(PR, citizenship).

90-95% of punters are married or attached, for the majority, even contemplating the thought of the question clearly show that you need to look in the mirror.

Messo
22-04-2026, 08:07 PM
Steve03 how will you handle it if you walk in a shopping centre with her and notice a guy looking at her. His eyes will tell you that he fucked her before. I will feel unease being seen anywhere with her knowing that some random guy may have fucked her. Yes the same can be said about any girl but ml took money and suck and fuck thousands so for me that is the redlineSome of girls that you have had serious relationships with possibly had more sexual encounters then you when you met them. At the end of the day you have paid for it being with them, we all have, some just make a living from it.

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JJBeck
22-04-2026, 08:30 PM
She works 44 weeks a year, say 3 days a week, been around for 4 years and see 5 customers per shift = 2,640 cum shots

Messo
22-04-2026, 08:32 PM
She works 44 weeks a year, say 3 days a week, been around for 4 years and see 5 customers per shift = 2,640 cum shotsThat is true, but I was thinking more of the money side, but I didn't word it right.

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Steve03
22-04-2026, 08:36 PM
Given that I know her past life was that of a ML and accepted it, I don’t think it would bother me.

firsttimepunter
22-04-2026, 08:49 PM
a hard no. Given the info on the forum,you would be naive to believe girls at shops have hard boundaries.

pained744
22-04-2026, 09:29 PM
Yes and I have twice before. But they weren’t servicing numbers that high. Not high end but priced right for the experience and to keep dead shits away. They both had regulars who knew of me, carefully selected new cone off punters and took the occasional big spender. One worked regularly in Sydney for her old employer when they had held parties. Both tested themselves regularly and were honest about what they did without sharing client details. To be honest I got off on it a bit.

rojerramjet
23-04-2026, 02:14 PM
I was propositioned once from a private to be her sponsor for permanent residency. Her pitch was she could make enough money hoeing out to support me so I didn't need to work, suck my dick every day, and have a baby if I wanted.

I didn't pursue it but can see why a lonely guy would. I just I hope i don't get to the point in life where I regret not taking the offer, even knowing a lot of it was probably BS.
There is one out there now offering dollars plus anything to stick a ring on it share the dollars . New life for some problems for others

Csgxtc
23-04-2026, 02:40 PM
She works 44 weeks a year, say 3 days a week, been around for 4 years and see 5 customers per shift = 2,640 cum shots

At $200 a pop, that’s over $130,000 tax free per year, working 3 days per week and getting 8 weeks annual leave. Not a bad gig if you it is something you’re willing to do…

rojerramjet
23-04-2026, 03:20 PM
The good ones do 6 days plus external work and avg 400 plus a pop i know multiples on plus 300K tax free

funinqld
23-04-2026, 04:21 PM
If they were willing to support me and give me a weekly wage plus a house and then let me fuck who ever i wanted.....yeh i would. lmao

I sound like a bit of a gold digging whore don't I

nobodynose
23-04-2026, 04:38 PM
No longer relevant

Forgotmypassword
23-04-2026, 08:44 PM
I bet young, hot, and smart chicks will laugh at these posts while imagining what their regulars look and smell like. Especially the brown pharmacist, she’ll probably think you guys are living in delusion.

However, i am on the same page that i have some anger towards the popular girls who are not paying tax properly lol. They probably have pussy boyfriend who is doing money laundering.

And even i checked the popular ML from 4S chains she is doing traveling to Thailand and Vietnam with sponsoring from clients or her cash selling her pussy with FS lol.

Rusty Russ
23-04-2026, 11:10 PM
Here is a funny one for you I went for a punt at thaitara @springwood was led in to the room by the old lady, 5 minutes pass and the ml comes in and starts my massage some general chat during the session and she asked what I did for a job so I told her she says she has a neighbour in that field of work then at the halfway point she leans is and gives me her menu which had all options at std rates I said I would take the fs option then she starts to give the old fella a bit of attention then asks me to flip as I do she recognises me as her neighbour and leaves the room after about 5 minutes she returns and we didn’t proceed as I know her husband she walked me to the door begging me not to tell him! I wont say anything to him because I think he is an ass anyway and probably getting what he deserves

rockylee
24-04-2026, 08:06 AM
I wouldnt have any problem living with an ml or two :slobber:, i have two spare bedrooms so i could accomodate that. if i married i would require a prenup agreement :miao:

ethan69
24-04-2026, 03:16 PM
I have had some personal experience with this.

Wife of three years who was always down for it suddenly becomes too tired more often than not. I get suspicious when I notice she has a nice clean shaven pussy all the time and not just on date nights. I do some digging and sure enough find an online profile that is 100% her. We are not together anymore. Funny thing is if she had told me beforehand I think we could have made it work !

Zed86
24-04-2026, 03:23 PM
I have known plenty of fellas that are with hookers. Some are old blokes that are past it, others are same age as the girl. In most cases I knew the girls first through friends of friends, and never knew they were on the game until much later. Its not as if it was a conversation topic at parties but I just assume the bloke knows. Maybe its not much different to all the wives of punters, they know he does it, just turn a blind eye to it

And its usually the case that they are former bar girls from SEA and thats how their aussie partner met them. Its the same old story, they wanna send money home, the husband dont like it, so she makes her own money doing what she did before.

Its a stereotype but thats how it usually ends up.

thunder545454
25-04-2026, 02:30 AM
I was at a shop tonight, finished with the girl I was seeing, walk out to reception there is another girl sitting there, she asks me how was it do you need anything all set to go yep, she opens the door there is a guy standing there with a dog, I thought strange, then she comes out with me.

Walks over to the guy with the dog takes his hand and they stand strolling along right infront of me a happy couple, I couldnt believe it, he is literally picking up his girl from the shop and it wasn't a handjob shop it was a fucking every hole shop with some doing bbfs there it's not the place you would ever want to imagine your girl being.

For all he knows I came out with her I could have been destroying her snatch 2minutes ago, punting it into her with my dick down her throat not the other girl, and they are just hand in hand walking along like nothing is going on.

Fucking weird do weird dudes, just picking up their girls right from the front door fresh from an entire day of eating dick.

debaucheryMLlover
25-04-2026, 03:02 AM
I was at a shop tonight, finished with the girl I was seeing, walk out to reception there is another girl sitting there, she asks me how was it do you need anything all set to go yep, she opens the door there is a guy standing there with a dog, I thought strange, then she comes out with me.

Walks over to the guy with the dog takes his hand and they stand strolling along right infront of me a happy couple, I couldnt believe it, he is literally picking up his girl from the shop and it wasn't a handjob shop it was a fucking every hole shop with some doing bbfs there it's not the place you would ever want to imagine your girl being.

For all he knows I came out with her I could have been destroying her snatch 2minutes ago, punting it into her with my dick down her throat not the other girl, and they are just hand in hand walking along like nothing is going on.

Fucking weird do weird dudes, just picking up their girls right from the front door fresh from an entire day of eating dick.

What shop? So I can go to and book the same girl lol

weaknet
25-04-2026, 11:53 AM
Here is a funny one for you I went for a punt at thaitara @springwood was led in to the room by the old lady, 5 minutes pass and the ml comes in and starts my massage some general chat during the session and she asked what I did for a job so I told her she says she has a neighbour in that field of work then at the halfway point she leans is and gives me her menu which had all options at std rates I said I would take the fs option then she starts to give the old fella a bit of attention then asks me to flip as I do she recognises me as her neighbour and leaves the room after about 5 minutes she returns and we didn’t proceed as I know her husband she walked me to the door begging me not to tell him! I wont say anything to him because I think he is an ass anyway and probably getting what he deserves

haha, is it a real story? Then you shared a secret. If you wanna leverage it, please refer to Japanese AV, there is a series called something like "The arrogant, beautiful wife of the neighbor becomes my sex slave as I caught her working in a escort massage shop"

Rrayjin
26-04-2026, 11:03 AM
Yes

I had a famous Chinese escort as my gf for a few months and it was just fine.

The way I see it, it's just work.

RLC
26-04-2026, 01:29 PM
Yes

I had a famous Chinese escort as my gf for a few months and it was just fine.

The way I see it, it's just work.

If you both are upfront and honest about the terms of engagement and know exactly where the other stands that’s ok. However, most of my interactions with the ML/WL is built on dishonesty both towards you and whomever else. One for me, she was honest it was a sham marriage and did only the bare minimum to get around the visa thing but she lied about a whole lot of other things like not offering fs when her drawer was full of condoms and she was reviewed here as offering fs. While I was happy to accept the benefits for a while eventually the cost/benefit meant I just walked.