Barebacking/BBFS

[levarfarmer]

I'm curious what everyone's appeal to bare backing is?

Is it the appeal that someone is risking it all with you? And hence the emotional/exclusive feeling (especially with a sex worker whom is more reserved?)

Is it the feeling downstairs? And if so what is most important to you? The sensations of texture, the wetness?

Anyone tried it before? And how to go back to Doms after you have a BB session with a worker?

[it ain't me]

I'm curious what everyone's appeal to bare backing is?

Is it the appeal that someone is risking it all with you? And hence the emotional/exclusive feeling (especially with a sex worker whom is more reserved?)

Is it the feeling downstairs? And if so what is most important to you? The sensations of texture, the wetness?

Anyone tried it before? And how to go back to Doms after you have a BB session with a worker?
It's quite common, you could say a natural progression with a reg. Try getting a dinner date or bbfs and c which one u get first.

[harry444]

The appeal is the natural animal instinct to procreate. Which produces pleasure and satisfaction from a job well done. Which, of course, can not happen with a condom.

[Milokerrigan]

Would you rather touch a woman with your bare hands or with gloves on.

[Bento]

It's quite common, you could say a natural progression with a reg. Try getting a dinner date or bbfs and c which one u get first.

Very interesting, natural progression, how quickly does the progression generally happen? And do people partake regularly?

Is this something every punter tries at least once? How many people are able to resist the urge and halt the action and ask for the dom?

Also, a completely different question, how come f/s with a Dom on feels so good at a massage place, almost indistinguishable to raw at home with the missus. But when i put the dom on at home, I feel almost nothing and struggle to cum?

[edireva]

I've tried it before with one of the Japanese escorts in CBD. It was someone I saw twice before and had good chemistry. Didn't have anything to do with trust in thinking she was clean or anything like that, they always offer it with their extras on first visit. It was a desire for it to feel as "real" as it could be.

Haven't done it since, because with the money spent it's basically spending a whole extra punt on one girl just to not use a condom. I can't speak for all men but the risk of STD and the extra cost is enough to stop me. I didn't get anything from that one time I did it so thankfully no regrets.

Also, yeah condoms may be different or thinner but it's a completely different environment, different girl, different personality, there's curiosity and mystery with a stranger. Just everything is novel and different. Maybe even the "taboo" behind what you're doing is a turn on.

[toga]

Also, a completely different question, how come f/s with a Dom on feels so good at a massage place, almost indistinguishable to raw at home with the missus. But when i put the dom on at home, I feel almost nothing and struggle to cum?

I agree. I feel no difference fucking your wife raw at your home either. Lol.


You left yourself wide open for that one.

[Bingle37]

One of the best moments in my punting life happened when we start dom on and ML pulls it off herself a few minute later ! We end up CIP . It’s happened three times . Life is good in moments like these .

[blake_ly]

do not recommend given how rampant fs is avail atm; speaking from personal experience years ago when FS wasn't as readily avail and a treatment of ceftriaxone.

[thunder545454]

It's one of those things, you say you won't do it if offered, but find yourself immediately agreeing when it is offered, immediately regret it after vowing to never do it again, but find yourself booking the same girl again soon after know full well it's going to happen again.

Why because we are stupid and it feels really really good to dump a hot load into a 23 year old tight little japanese girl.

It's definitely a risk and you will eventually get stung with something, if you do it often, if married or have a serious girlfriend it's not the play, because once you get stung you won't find notice it will well after you have already given it to her, then your fucked.

[FredWard63]

I can understand the attraction to bbfs. But you all need to know that there is an increasing risk of infection in Brisbane. Recent trend data shows that when corrected for location and testing frequency, incidence of some STIs is on the increase in Brisbane. This is particularly the case for Gonorrhea and Chlamydia. Syphilis is also starting to leak into the general Brisbane population and frequency is on an upward trend. So, if you do partake and don't get tested regularly, then you are an idiot. What's more, you are part of the problem. The reason is that most infections show no symptoms at all. So if you are doing bbfs then you can be a source of infection for the next ML not to mention partners. So get tested.

[newbiejones]

Yes get tested. No doctor visit needed. Can complete the below and go to QML or similar to supply a sample.

https://www.qld.gov.au/health/staying-healthy/sexual-health/chlamydia-test

[FredWard63]

Yes get tested. No doctor visit needed. Can complete the below and go to QML or similar to supply a sample.

https://www.qld.gov.au/health/staying-healthy/sexual-health/chlamydia-test

And it's free, anonymous and no medicare card needed. There are also multiple threads that give further, more comprehensive, testing information.

[it ain't me]

Yes,it's a tricky situation but the fact of the matter is it's not going to go away. Girls willingly do it with reg customers because they can make as much in an hr session doing that as they can doing 2 or 3 standard sessions. Prob no need to do massage, 30 min of action and then a nice rest and chat with your bestie customer and if your lucky a bj in the shower just to show how much she loves you. I can think of 8 shops off the top of my head where i have been offered. Prices ranged from $200 to 1k but that was for overnight.

[SGBAnnerley]

I think it is because it obviously feels good, it's more "sensual" also tbh.

Some men don't care about the risks, I suspect it's because of advanced medical services/technology in places like Brisbane, or a perception of that. The fact is that most STD s can be treated fairly easily here. It is more problematic for men who have a long term GF or a wife though, you are risking more in that case.

There is risk in all sort of activities. Plenty of people still picking up in bars/clubs etc, doing ONS without protection, with strangers, or people they really don't know well. I don't see how that is any different.

[Bento]

It's one of those things, you say you won't do it if offered, but find yourself immediately agreeing when it is offered, immediately regret it after vowing to never do it again, but find yourself booking the same girl again soon after know full well it's going to happen again.

Why because we are stupid and it feels really really good to dump a hot load into a 23 year old tight little japanese girl.

It's definitely a risk and you will eventually get stung with something, if you do it often, if married or have a serious girlfriend it's not the play, because once you get stung you won't find notice it will well after you have already given it to her, then your fucked.

How do you know they are 23 or not lol, I can barely judge early 20s vs early 30s, especially if they have make up

[Sleeeper]

As an asian, we can slightly guess how old they are. Depends on your background.

[Shagspear]

People don’t understand, there is such thing as HIV/AIDS; it is not something that strong doses of antibiotics can fix….. every time you do BBFS you are playing Russian roulette with HIV.

[thunder545454]

How do you know they are 23 or not lol, I can barely judge early 20s vs early 30s, especially if they have make up

Well she said 19, I added a few years by my own estimation, mutton dressed up as lamb you can tell by their skin on their neck its a give away.

Other things obviously their vag tightness is a strong indicator of youth as are tits are they young and perky or not so perky, if they are young usually don't have money or need for fake tits yet, sporting a pair of nice fake tits is an indicator of age, so perky undoctored tits good sign, unless you see their passport though it's all guess work, but when all the boxes tick you know their young or not.

[Mr.Cust4rd]

I agree. I feel no difference fucking your wife raw at your home either. Lol.


You left yourself wide open for that one.

His missus did too!

[Shiney15]

BBFs afterwards I hear voice in head are you effin crazy at end of day shoot in sock and stay safe is my motto unfortunately I have slipped up a few times but heyho

[Dr Grafton Everest]

IMO, amd experience, vag tightness isn't a strong indicator of youth...

[carloss]

People don’t understand, there is such thing as HIV/AIDS; it is not something that strong doses of antibiotics can fix….. every time you do BBFS you are playing Russian roulette with HIV.

Yep, while rates in Australia are quite low, they're obviously much higher in SWs. Thailand is by far the worst country people should be worried about - over 1% of the population has it.

Dom up idiots.

[it ain't me]

IMO, amd experience, vag tightness isn't a strong indicator of youth...
Indeed.... Some of my best have been a 40yr Thai, great brown body, sweet waxed pussy with great grip.
Another 50 yr old Thai with kids and surprisingly tight with slim body. Both from allegedly "legit shops" . A Thai and your money..Honey.

[Undtoni]

No one is worried about getting them pregnant?

[JJBeck]

Probably best not to use your real name and real phone when booking

[thunder545454]

No one is worried about getting them pregnant?

Depends, with japanese girls no, because to japanese girls bareback is normal they don't use condoms over there, they just want to make money, so being able to charge you an extra $50 or $100 whatever they want it's just part of their service they seem happy to do it, so they obviously take birth control or they would get pregnant every month.

Situations where its happened for me were where feelings started to creep in after a while, I had a girl lay her leg up onto of mine while chatting, my cock was touching her pussy she start using her legs to pull back and forth bumping it into her pussy, I started rubbing the head over her lips and before I knew it we were fucking bare, there was no conversation or anything it just happened, in that instance yeh I came on her chest and asked her if she was on contraception she said no, so just depends on the situation.

[debaucheryMLlover]

Depends, with japanese girls no, because to japanese girls bareback is normal they don't use condoms over there, they just want to make money, so being able to charge you an extra $50 or $100 whatever they want it's just part of their service they seem happy to do it, so they obviously take birth control or they would get pregnant every month.

Situations where its happened for me were where feelings started to creep in after a while, I had a girl lay her leg up onto of mine while chatting, my cock was touching her pussy she start using her legs to pull back and forth bumping it into her pussy, I started rubbing the head over her lips and before I knew it we were fucking bare, there was no conversation or anything it just happened, in that instance yeh I came on her chest and asked her if she was on contraception she said no, so just depends on the situation.

hey bro which shop and girl?

[Lothario1]

Depends, with japanese girls no, because to japanese girls bareback is normal they don't use condoms over there, they just want to make money, so being able to charge you an extra $50 or $100 whatever they want it's just part of their service they seem happy to do it, so they obviously take birth control or they would get pregnant every month.

Situations where its happened for me were where feelings started to creep in after a while, I had a girl lay her leg up onto of mine while chatting, my cock was touching her pussy she start using her legs to pull back and forth bumping it into her pussy, I started rubbing the head over her lips and before I knew it we were fucking bare, there was no conversation or anything it just happened, in that instance yeh I came on her chest and asked her if she was on contraception she said no, so just depends on the situation.I remember reading your post where a well-known Japanese ML at a well-known shop suddenly forced herself upon you bareback and made threats, and you were worried about STIs for weeks until cleared.That was a rollicking post!

[AussieBill]

Been a few times I ALMOST thought with the other head and went through with it... Always dommed but I feel someday I will falter... Haha. It's why I'm looking into the ultra thin Japanese condoms now. Keen to try them out.

[thunder545454]

I remember reading your post where a well-known Japanese ML at a well-known shop suddenly forced herself upon you bareback and made threats, and you were worried about STIs for weeks until cleared.That was a rollicking post!

Yeh that was a different situation I was an unwilling participant there, after that I got quite a few messages from guys who had experienced the same or worse with her.

[Lothario1]

Yeh that was a different situation I was an unwilling participant there, after that I got quite a few messages from guys who had experienced the same or worse with her.Yet when I saw her a couple of months ago wanting some rough treatment, she told me we have to have more sessions first, to build trust. Yeah whatever. Still had a fun time being milked while on all fours, and she did a good job of it, but I was disappointed at the lack of kink. From memory she wanted a bit too much money for that.

[thunder545454]

Yet when I saw her a couple of months ago wanting some rough treatment, she told me we have to have more sessions first, to build trust. Yeah whatever. Still had a fun time being milked while on all fours, and she did a good job of it, but I was disappointed at the lack of kink. From memory she wanted a bit too much money for that.

I think it was the fact I didn't find her overly attractive and just wanted a handjob that sent her off the deep end, I had no idea she was like that knew nothing about her going in, so that seems to set her off and talking to other guys later it seemed to be a similar thing anyone looking for standard service gets violated, I think she gets off on abusing men.

Definitely has more than a few screws loose that one.

[Lothario1]

... anyone looking for standard service gets violated, I think she gets off on abusing men.
Good advice thanks. Next time I'll only ask for a HJ. Then I'll get roughed-up for no extra cost. :)

[5700]

The 0.001 doms are the go. So close to bareback, and if youÂ’ve had a couple of drinks you canÂ’t even tell you were wearing one.

Which raises the question, does anyone go in after getting lightly buzzed? I havenÂ’t but might consider it?

[Steve03]

Good advice thanks. Next time I'll only ask for a HJ. Then I'll get roughed-up for no extra cost. :)

lol, love your sense of humour

[AussieBill]

@5700 Looking to get these condoms myself actually just working out sizing. And I havnt but I'm planning on doing it someday! Just don't want to get TOO buzzed ahha.

[Itsnotimportant]

My weekly regular just randomly had bareback sex with me today, she did not ask, just the normal BBBJ before hoping on top without the dom. - I really think she just wanted to get herself more pleasure? The feelling of sex without the Dom, is certainly nothing new to me - I was was married for 16 years and have two children.

What she did worried the heck out of me however, here i am fucking her, thinking about the potential for pregancy and STD's. i did my best to ensure she enjoyed herself, before pulling out and asking for a HJ finish.

[RonanJazzHands]

My weekly regular just randomly had bareback sex with me today, she did not ask, just the normal BBBJ before hoping on top without the dom. - I really think she just wanted to get herself more pleasure? The feelling of sex without the Dom, is certainly nothing new to me - I was was married for 16 years and have two children.

What she did worried the heck out of me however, here i am fucking her, thinking about the potential for pregancy and STD's. i did my best to ensure she enjoyed herself, before pulling out and asking for a HJ finish.

I understand that in the heat of the moment you go with the flow and your brain stops working (lol)- it’s happened to me. I had an Aussie chick do the sneaky while body sliding. Suffice to say the next 2 months were hell waiting on tests (I suffer anxiety easily). I dont think you need to worry about pregnancy side of things, but yeah - STI/STD is a big deal. Def get yourself checked, and maybe hold off on BB anything until your results.

[it ain't me]

Yeah, not for the faint-hearted. So many girls doing it with their reg customers, even first time customers for some.

[harry444]

Something I've always wondered about. If sex with a sex worker results in a pregnancy, is the man up for child support for the next 18 years. Or is it her fault for failing to take expected precautions, considering the nature of her job.

[Tavs]

Something I've always wondered about. If sex with a sex worker results in a pregnancy, is the man up for child support for the next 18 years. Or is it her fault for failing to take expected precautions, considering the nature of her job.

There have been cases interstate where it was ruled the client was up for 18 years of extra payments to the lady

[thunder545454]

My weekly regular just randomly had bareback sex with me today, she did not ask, just the normal BBBJ before hoping on top without the dom. - I really think she just wanted to get herself more pleasure? The feelling of sex without the Dom, is certainly nothing new to me - I was was married for 16 years and have two children.

What she did worried the heck out of me however, here i am fucking her, thinking about the potential for pregancy and STD's. i did my best to ensure she enjoyed herself, before pulling out and asking for a HJ finish.

Yeh thats exactly how it happens, or they rub youre cock over their pussy until you cum all over snatch, then they keep rubbing it around making a mess, it happens quick and us men aren't in state of mind by time it's happening to stop it, they know it and take advantage of that.

I would be less concerned about STD those you can deal with, the main issue is pregnancy you can ask if she is on contraception, but then would I believe them..... who the fuck knows, these girls are often not mentally stable kinda people.

The fact it's with a regular shows she to some degree likes you or like the look of you, she is trying to do something they only do things that benefit them, ive bare backed a ML I pulled out, after she told me she wasn't on contraception, even though I pulled out you never know there can always be leakage on mens side especially when youre extra excited, I asked her to confirm when her period came to me which she did was a long 2 weeks waiting.

I asked her joking what she would have done if she got pregnant, she excitedly said keep it ofcourse I would love to have a cute mixed baby, I wouldn't risk it again unless you can confirm 1000% she has some kinda implant contraception, the fact she did it with no prior discussion is a big red flag.

[toga]

If guys are so concerned about getting a SW pregnant, just get a vasectomy.

[RonanJazzHands]

The fact that some here are more concerned about getting a SW/ML pregnant than contracting/ passing STI/STD is a little concerning.
For arguments sake, even if you did get one pregnant, then what? Will they try hunt down every client for a paternity test or are you feeling guilty and want to help raise a child that in the slimmest of chances could be yours?

[thunder545454]

The fact that some here are more concerned about getting a SW/ML pregnant than contracting/ passing STI/STD is a little concerning.
For arguments sake, even if you did get one pregnant, then what? Will they try hunt down every client for a paternity test or are you feeling guilty and want to help raise a child that in the slimmest of chances could be yours?

Have gotten STD before had to eat one pill and it cleared up immediately, if you are barebacking these girls you will get STD's it's not a question of if, but when you do, so getting an STD is a given, the pregnancy is the avoidable consequence.

18 years of being connected to a prostitute and 18 years of child support is definitely a much bigger concern to me.

[Itsnotimportant]

The fact that some here are more concerned about getting a SW/ML pregnant than contracting/ passing STI/STD is a little concerning.
For arguments sake, even if you did get one pregnant, then what? Will they try hunt down every client for a paternity test or are you feeling guilty and want to help raise a child that in the slimmest of chances could be yours?

I think Std/Sti was my biggest worry, this girl has worked the same two days every week, for a few months, clearly she could not do this if she let everything run as nature intended.

Preganacy is something i have dealt with, however an STI/D would be totally new to me.

[Igni]

Yeh feels better for sure but definitely not worth the risk. Did it a quite a few times with a regular I used to see. Gorgeous Thai girl at a popular Northside shop years ago. Never caught anything but when she got pregnant that same year was not a good time. Thankfully some other punter was responsible. Gave me a good scare and haven’t been tempted again..

[thunderdome]

I think Std/Sti was my biggest worry, this girl has worked the same two days every week, for a few months, clearly she could not do this if she let everything run as nature intended.

Preganacy is something i have dealt with, however an STI/D would be totally new to me.

Was the pregnancy with a ML? Would be interesting to hear how that went and how U dealt with it.

[Itsnotimportant]

Yeh thats exactly how it happens, or they rub youre cock over their pussy until you cum all over snatch, then they keep rubbing it around making a mess, it happens quick and us men aren't in state of mind by time it's happening to stop it, they know it and take advantage of that.

I would be less concerned about STD those you can deal with, the main issue is pregnancy you can ask if she is on contraception, but then would I believe them..... who the fuck knows, these girls are often not mentally stable kinda people.

The fact it's with a regular shows she to some degree likes you or like the look of you, she is trying to do something they only do things that benefit them, ive bare backed a ML I pulled out, after she told me she wasn't on contraception, even though I pulled out you never know there can always be leakage on mens side especially when youre extra excited, I asked her to confirm when her period came to me which she did was a long 2 weeks waiting.

I asked her joking what she would have done if she got pregnant, she excitedly said keep it ofcourse I would love to have a cute mixed baby, I wouldn't risk it again unless you can confirm 1000% she has some kinda implant contraception, the fact she did it with no prior discussion is a big red flag.

I am sure these girls are just as, if not more aware of the potential consequences of BBFS than us. The short term consequences alone could cost them many thousands of dollars in lost earnings if something happens.

Its hard to imagine one of them ever doing BBFS for a standard fee, if they don't like their client personally or sexually.

I already have two mixed race children (Half Korean) , the kids are indeed cute, but i certainly dont want a 3rd one.

[Itsnotimportant]

Was the pregnancy with a ML? Would be interesting to hear how that went and how U dealt with it.

Nope, ligit marriage, I supose its all about the chances given the circumstances i was in, the chaces of getting and STI/D would be far greater than getting her pregnant.

[thunder545454]

I am sure these girls are just as, if not more aware of the potential consequences of BBFS than us. The short term consequences alone could cost them many thousands of dollars in lost earnings if something happens.

Its hard to imagine one of them ever doing BBFS for a standard fee, if they don't like their client personally or sexually.

I already have two mixed race children (Half Korean) , the kids are indeed cute, but i certainly dont want a 3rd one.

The japanese girl I was doing bbfs with for quite a while, I took comfort in that she charged extra for it, was just a business deal to her, she was young and hot no desire for kids, it was just about money, she did seem way more into bbfs sex though, maybe it was just the money excited her, but after we started bare she was way more friendly and excitied to see me a few times she lay there legs spread using her fingers to play around with my cum afterwards.

The scary ones are the 30 year old ones who start fucking you raw with no warning, those are the ones you don't wanna slip one past the goalie with.