Do ML have your number?

[H3da]

Do you normall give your number out to ML? I gave it one ML who I see pretty regularly but haven't went for few weeks and keeps texting me. Does this happen to you and what do you normally say?

[birch]

I think you need to be sure of each other's expectations before you hand your number to anyone in this industry. Particularly if you have a significant other or your work environment makes your punting a challenge.

If those expectations aren't being honoured then you're well within reason to call it out and ask her to change.

I suspect your situation is more a misunderstanding than anything else. You shared your number, she expects you to reply, with no other info, seems perfectly reasonable to me. It means you were a good customer, at least.

[nixon604]

Yes I have given a private WL my number and she messages me each week to see if I want to see her, I reply each time with a yes or no and it's all good

I would say that if she's messaging you it must mean that she likes you visiting her or maybe she just money hungry lol 😃

[Miyamoto]

No, not my number but wechat account

[garfield]

Most of my regular ML has my number. Mostly bookings but sometimes about anything in life.

[aussiegaigin]

A few MLs have my number, but it is one I keep exclusively for my business and extra-curricular/marital activities. I have an app on the phone which keeps private calls "private".

Mainly just for bookings, but I do see a couple socially occasionally.

[Nejums]

Fortunately for me, I have never been a "regular" to any ML/WL, so have never had the opportunity to do so. Having said that, I'm now a kind of a regular to a particular girl and its tempting. Potentially trouble, but tempting. Though she has seen pics of my kids...

[ChulSoo]

Mainly stick to WeChat (escort agencies, massage parlours and Chinese MLs & WLs) and Kakaotalk accounts (with korean WLs).
Only a few WLs has my number. But then again, I mostly just allow up to the WeChat and Kakaotalk connections only. I find it is better that way for me only.

[Travelmate]

use LINE application

[opimrs]

Just need to take sensible precautions. A separate phone is ideal, place text alert on silent, and suppress display of message when phone is locked

[cisco]

Phone = Business :)

[rooter]

I never see WLs outside of the shop. It's my cast iron rule - no exceptions.
Every now and then a WL will give me her number and I will politely accept it and then never return her messages or calls and so nothing ever happens.
But there is one girl that I have stayed in touch with for nearly 3 years now - she is an ex Ginza girl ... actually she is a Ginza legend.
She is such a sexy girl and beautiful person inside and out.
I saw her 2 or 3 times at Ginza and we really connected. But that was it; I never saw her outside the shop.
She bought a bottle of whisky for me as a present but I never got around to picking it up.
Every 3 or 4 months she sends me an SMS saying she still has my present and wants to give it to me and to come around to her house (her actual house - not shop) and I can just pick it up and leave, or stay over, and we can drink it together, have some dinner, chill out or whatever ...
Not sure if she just wants to be friends or if she is up for some sex too.
But what's absolutely clear is its not as a customer. She says I understand her true personality so she can't put on the "WL act" for me.
We exchange a few messages but I never commit to catching up, then we lose touch for another 3 or 4 months.
Around 2 and a half years have passed now and I still haven't taken her up on the offer.
Maybe one day it will happen ... or one day maybe she will just give up on me .... and then I'll probably regret it ... fuck! ... she is gorgeous!

[Raphael]

I never see WLs outside of the shop. It's my cast iron rule - no exceptions.
Every now and then a WL will give me her number and I will politely accept it and then never return her messages or calls and so nothing ever happens.
But there is one girl that I have stayed in touch with for nearly 3 years now - she is an ex Ginza girl ... actually she is a Ginza legend.
She is such a sexy girl and beautiful person inside and out.
I saw her 2 or 3 times at Ginza and we really connected. But that was it; I never saw her outside the shop.
She bought a bottle of whisky for me as a present but I never got around to picking it up.
Every 3 or 4 months she sends me an SMS saying she still has my present and wants to give it to me and to come around to her house (her actual house - not shop) and I can just pick it up and leave, or stay over, and we can drink it together, have some dinner, chill out or whatever ...
Not sure if she just wants to be friends or if she is up for some sex too.
But what's absolutely clear is its not as a customer. She says I understand her true personality so she can't put on the "WL act" for me.
We exchange a few messages but I never commit to catching up, then we lose touch for another 3 or 4 months.
Around 2 and a half years have passed now and I still haven't taken her up on the offer.
Maybe one day it will happen ... or one day maybe she will just give up on me .... and then I'll probably regret it ... fuck! ... she is gorgeous!

Ahh Rooter, I'm sure she likes you for a few good reasons and one main bad reason. But it's good to know that your suit of iron armour will never be penetrated (heh!) by this ex-Ginza legend. (Let's hope it isn't who I think it is. Which, to be frank, I miss her a lot).

[the_boss_king]

yeah i do, often use kaka talk to talk to them, but i often leave my notifications setting for it off LOL

[aussiegaigin]

Just need to take sensible precautions. A separate phone is ideal, place text alert on silent, and suppress display of message when phone is locked

I have an Android app called Vault. Keeps private contacts and messages inside a separate PIN locked folder, with just an icon notification on the home screen.

I tell the girls the phone is often unattended, so not to ring in the first instance.

I tried a dual SIM phone a while ago, but it was too easy to forget to switch the cards over, and I sent a few MSGs from the wrong number.

[opimrs]

I have an Android app called Vault. Keeps private contacts and messages inside a separate PIN locked folder, with just an icon notification on the home screen.

I tell the girls the phone is often unattended, so not to ring in the first instance.

I tried a dual SIM phone a while ago, but it was too easy to forget to switch the cards over, and I sent a few MSGs from the wrong number.

Excellent tip. I'm on iPhone , have just checked the Apple App Store, looks like there's no Vault there 😒

[aussiegaigin]

Excellent tip. I'm on iPhone , have just checked the Apple App Store, looks like there's no Vault there 
There are a few similar apps on offer, but I'm not sure if they offer the same features.

I got an Aldi SIM card, which gives me 12 months credit for $30, more than enough for the odd SMS or call

[the_boss_king]

a lot of mls use kakaotalk and wechat, you can also use apps like these to find more ml or wl

[aussiegaigin]

a lot of mls use kakaotalk and wechat, you can also use apps like these to find more ml or wl

Fine if you can read Chinese. Us poor Aussies get left out in the cold.

If we do manage to decipher the advert, we usually don't get a response anyway

[sukeong]

a lot of mls use kakaotalk and wechat, you can also use apps like these to find more ml or wl

Hi bro How do u find more at these apps? I'm not familiar with Kakao as mostly use wechat and don't know many Korean girls, but even at wechat you need the ml to give u her number or ID. Most of the ones found at nearby function are wechats of shops not the ml.

[sukeong]

use LINE application

That's mostly for Japanese wl?