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New2Punting
24-05-2016, 07:24 AM
I'm very concern about wife not liking or giving oral to me (had not happenen in last 8yrs of marriage). She sometimes like me giving her oral tho. I'm Chinese and she is Japanese. Is there any other brother here having similar issue at home? Looking for thoughts on this situation.

asiafever
24-05-2016, 07:50 AM
Had 3 japanese girlfriends, two of them never gave oral and the other was very rarely. When I asked why the answer was always the same "I don't like it" or "Your size is too big and hurts my jaw" which I translated to mean rhey didn't like it but didn't want to say that.

Pussyhands
24-05-2016, 08:24 AM
Maybe ur snake is Mandingo sized :)

rooter
24-05-2016, 09:04 AM
If anything Japanese girls have an obsession with giving oral sex and love receiving it too.
And not just WLs, but even non WL Japanese girls I have met.
Even brand new young Japanese girls on their first day give a good blowjob.
I have asked a few first time J girls why they are so good at it, and they all give the same answer.
Basically Japanese guys insist on a good blowjob from their girlfriends and if a Japanese girl can't give a good blowjob she will get dumped.
So they either learn or they learn.

Raybo
24-05-2016, 09:16 AM
I think that is pretty common in a long marriage or relationship. Certainly is the case with me. Guess that is a reason why I punt.

A44
24-05-2016, 11:10 AM
I think that is pretty common in a long marriage or relationship. Certainly is the case with me. Guess that is a reason why I punt.

Spot on in my case too.
My wife thinks that Oral Sex means talking about it. Ha Ha.

wilisno
24-05-2016, 12:58 PM
Two people in love means they'll do anything to make the other party happy, if they do something in the beginning then stop doing it after a while, that's a clear sign of the cooling off of their love and passion ! ;) ;) ;)

rooter
24-05-2016, 01:16 PM
Many years ago, in Western societies anyway, one of the main reasons married men visited prostitutes was to get oral sex.
Oral sex used to be considered something dirty and not something a decent lady, wife or mother would perform, so men went to prostitutes to get it.
These days oral sex is very normal - teenage girls dish it out like giving a kiss on the cheek, girls read articles every week in women's magazines every day on how best to do it, as well as seeing it in porn all the time.
But I guess there are still lot's of married women with old fashioned attitudes ...

wilisno
24-05-2016, 01:29 PM
Many years ago, in Western societies anyway, one of the main reasons married men visited prostitutes was to get oral sex.
Oral sex used to be considered something dirty and not something a decent lady, wife or mother would perform, so men went to prostitutes to get it.
These days oral sex is very normal - teenage girls dish it out like giving a kiss on the cheek, girls read articles every week in women's magazines every day on how best to do it, as well as seeing it in porn all the time.
But I guess there are still lot's of married women with old fashioned attitudes ...
It's alright if they never try, but if they've been doing it then stop, that's a clear warning sign ...

asiafever
24-05-2016, 01:37 PM
I think in my case all three were 'good girls' who figured it was something dirty. I mean I had to introduce them to A LOT of things. One had never achieved orgasm before, not surprising as she was quite young and most Japanese guys I knew were quite selfish lovers. One had never had shower or bath play, that was a fun introduction, especially when we tried it in the outdoor spa at Noosa (it was a private spa attached to the room). The third had only ever had sex with her previous long term BF and they only ever did it in pitch black and missionary. Once she was unchained she was an animal but still wouldn't go down, wouldn't wank either. Didn't worry me greatly. She was an absolute demon and kept me well and truly satisfied.

rooter
24-05-2016, 01:42 PM
Many years ago, in Western societies anyway, one of the main reasons married men visited prostitutes was to get oral sex.
Oral sex used to be considered something dirty and not something a decent lady, wife or mother would perform, so men went to prostitutes to get it.
These days oral sex is very normal - teenage girls dish it out like giving a kiss on the cheek, girls read articles every week in women's magazines every day on how best to do it, as well as seeing it in porn all the time.
But I guess there are still lot's of married women with old fashioned attitudes ...

And of course there was a time when "real men didn't lick pussy".
Remember Uncle Junior in the Sopranos.
He lost all respect when the guys found out he licked pussy.

BBBJ
24-05-2016, 01:53 PM
Brother you would send channel seven into a ratings frenzy if there was an 'Eight Year Switch'. Damn! How have you lasted 8 years?

NaughtyBoy13
24-05-2016, 02:10 PM
I'm very concern about wife not liking or giving oral to me (had not happenen in last 8yrs of marriage). She sometimes like me giving her oral tho. I'm Chinese and she is Japanese. Is there any other brother here having similar issue at home? Looking for thoughts on this situation.

Look, I knew a Japanese WL before. Her service included BBBJ, but when we got together she didn't want to give me BBBJ. I don't mind anyway ! I remember she gave me BBBJ twice only :) and she doesn't like DATY either. Not many Asian girls want to give BBBJ to their BF or husband, so don't worry about it. As long as she loves you and look after you !

AHLUNGOR
24-05-2016, 02:15 PM
Look, I knew a Japanese WL before. Her service included BBBJ, but when we got together she didn't want to give me BBBJ. I don't mind anyway ! I remember she gave me BBBJ twice only :) and she doesn't like DATY either. Not many Asian girls want to give BBBJ to their BF or husband, so don't worry about it. As long as she loves you and look after you !



Love thy man, love thy COCK !!

wilisno
24-05-2016, 02:18 PM
Love thy man, love thy COCK !!
Is he gay ? He has to love his own cock ? ;) ;) ;)

Sam88
24-05-2016, 05:46 PM
lol interesting, before I even had my first sex, the girls I were with were always giving BBBJ :cool2:

bigbob
24-05-2016, 06:33 PM
Look, I knew a Japanese WL before. Her service included BBBJ, but when we got together she didn't want to give me BBBJ. I don't mind anyway ! I remember she gave me BBBJ twice only :) and she doesn't like DATY either. Not many Asian girls want to give BBBJ to their BF or husband, so don't worry about it. As long as she loves you and look after you !

some white dont give BJ at all some do some dont

kezza
24-05-2016, 06:40 PM
It's in the marriage vows but most blokes don't hear it..."I promise to love, honour and obey...and no longer give blowjobs"...

garfield
24-05-2016, 06:57 PM
If anything Japanese girls have an obsession with giving oral sex and love receiving it too.
And not just WLs, but even non WL Japanese girls I have met.
Even brand new young Japanese girls on their first day give a good blowjob.
I have asked a few first time J girls why they are so good at it, and they all give the same answer.
Basically Japanese guys insist on a good blowjob from their girlfriends and if a Japanese girl can't give a good blowjob she will get dumped.
So they either learn or they learn.

This is so true. It is ingrained into their culture.

sukeong
24-05-2016, 07:33 PM
Any actual Japanese here? Seems like it's always non Japanese here talking about the j girls or guys or their Sex culture. Really like people from that country to actually confirm what had been said. Kinda interested to know.

wilisno
24-05-2016, 07:35 PM
Any actual Japanese here? Seems like it's always non Japanese here talking about the j girls or guys or their Sex culture. Really like people from that country to actually confirm what had been said. Kinda interested to know.
Good question ! ;) ;) ;)

corvus
24-05-2016, 07:47 PM
Don't forget gents, keeping downstairs trimmer and groomed will dramatically increase ones chance of a blowie !! Perfume also works! Girls love it when it smells good down there!

NaughtyBoy13
25-05-2016, 01:35 AM
Any actual Japanese here? Seems like it's always non Japanese here talking about the j girls or guys or their Sex culture. Really like people from that country to actually confirm what had been said. Kinda interested to know.

Well, you might not understand what we are trying to tell you ! We experienced the thing, thats why we comment like that. Dont need to ask them that question !

asiafever
25-05-2016, 08:08 AM
Well I used to live there. Not the same as being from there granted but yeah I'm coming from a point of view of living 90mins outside Tokyo in a quiet area and dating local girls, not picking up Roppongi girls or going to see wl.
The best bj I got in Japan was from a Korean Air flight attendant named Momo, in a nightclub/jazz bar in Aoyama.

AHLUNGOR
25-05-2016, 10:14 AM
Nothing beat the teenage oral pleasure initiation at the back seat of my car !! I was probably a bit dirty and smelly at the time but she licked and sucked it like her favourite lollypop anyway - too bad she actually had a steady boyfriend at the time so wouldn't let me pass the second base - and she was also my original Spanish teacher too !!

michaele
25-05-2016, 10:28 AM
hi guys i have had a new Thai girlfriend for three months and she will not give me oral sex i have asked and asked she says she doesnt like it and it hurts her jaw. she doesn't mind if i daty to her or lick her arse.
what can i do?

AHLUNGOR
25-05-2016, 10:58 AM
hi guys i have had a new Thai girlfriend for three months and she will not give me oral sex i have asked and asked she says she doesnt like it and it hurts her jaw. she doesn't mind if i daty to her or lick her arse.
what can i do?

Simple question, have you fucked her yet, if you have, was it good enough to have sex only and no BJ ? Only you know the answer ! If BJ is that important as part of your sex life and you are not getting it from her , then move on! May be when you split , and she wants to keep you, she will come around and suck your cock then !!

Good luck

NaughtyBoy13
25-05-2016, 12:36 PM
hi guys i have had a new Thai girlfriend for three months and she will not give me oral sex i have asked and asked she says she doesnt like it and it hurts her jaw. she doesn't mind if i daty to her or lick her arse.
what can i do?

I dont give a fck about BBBJ. As long as she gives me DATY :) Because I love DATY ! DATY gives me higher satisfaction sex.

michaele
25-05-2016, 12:36 PM
thanks AHLUNGOR i have fucked her non stop for the last three months in between periods she is a lousy fuck i will take your advice and move on............

Michaele

Sam88
25-05-2016, 01:30 PM
May be when you split , and she wants to keep you, she will come around and suck your cock then !!

Hahaha, happened with one of my ex girls, during our break up sex, she finally did BBBJ with CIM!!!! Made me thought you know what, maybe I should stay lol

AHLUNGOR
25-05-2016, 02:56 PM
Hahaha, happened with one of my ex girls, during our break up sex, she finally did BBBJ with CIM!!!! Made me thought you know what, maybe I should stay lol


Yeap, finally getting your BBBJ and CIM that you always wanted - that is what break up sex is all about man !

You should then pull her up, gave her a DFK, share your own cum in the process and reconciled and live happily ever after...............haha :slobber::slobber::slobber:

Sam88
25-05-2016, 06:06 PM
the sharing of your own cum....ughhh. has anyone done that before? I've only done light kisses before after she's spit them out. One WL tried to pass it on to me once after CIM and I dodged lol , she was on top and it dropped near my mouth :confused2:

CunningLinguist
25-05-2016, 10:46 PM
hi guys i have had a new Thai girlfriend for three months and she will not give me oral sex i have asked and asked she says she doesnt like it and it hurts her jaw. she doesn't mind if i daty to her or lick her arse.
what can i do?

If you work out a way to get BBBJ from her PM me please ...

cuteguy
26-05-2016, 12:04 AM
hi guys i have had a new Thai girlfriend for three months and she will not give me oral sex i have asked and asked she says she doesnt like it and it hurts her jaw. she doesn't mind if i daty to her or lick her arse.
what can i do?

Are you sure you're her only boyfriend? I was told by a close Thai (female) friend that Thai girls can have up to three boyfriends at one time. I'm not sure how they can manage this but maybe you're not number one on her boyfriend list and this is why she doesn't give you oral sex.

NaughtyBoy13
26-05-2016, 01:05 AM
Are you sure you're her only boyfriend? I was told by a close Thai (female) friend that Thai girls can have up to three boyfriends at one time. I'm not sure how they can manage this but maybe you're not number one on her boyfriend list and this is why she doesn't give you oral sex.

Hahaha exciting info :)

woodcock
26-05-2016, 11:37 AM
I once dated a jap girl and she loves giving me bbbj not gona lie... I was receving it 2-3 times a week

michaele
26-05-2016, 12:15 PM
Are you sure you're her only boyfriend? I was told by a close Thai (female) friend that Thai girls can have up to three boyfriends at one time. I'm not sure how they can manage this but maybe you're not number one on her boyfriend list and this is why she doesn't give you oral sex.

hi cuteguy

i flew her in and i have just flown her back she will give me a blow job or she will not be coming back again

Michaele

the_boss_king
26-05-2016, 12:17 PM
i have a similar issue, but its the other way around lol

cuteguy
26-05-2016, 01:48 PM
hi cuteguy

i flew her in and i have just flown her back she will give me a blow job or she will not be coming back again

Michaele

That's the way. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach but we can't forget a good BJ too!