Self-control

[wetwipes1]

Long story short, I went through a break up early during the year. During the relationship, sex was there, it wasn't as frequent as I would've liked (maybe once every few weeks) but that was fine with me - she was Christian, had low sex drive and we had plenty of intimate time aside from sex. To be honest, I'm still not completely over her yet and not ready to get in another relationship. Anyway, I still only ejaculate maybe once every 3 or so weeks these days, but now that I am single, I get so horny and sexually frustrated. Sometimes I can't even sleep because I'm horny as shit. But at the same time, I don't want to give in, go the easy route and jack off or go for a punt so frequently. All you single people out there - any tips for how to maintain self-control when your hormones are telling you otherwise?

[cloud]

Wow you only ejaculate once every 3 weeks? That takes some self control. How long do you last when you eventually go for a punt?

[wetwipes1]

Wow you only ejaculate once every 3 weeks? That takes some self control. How long do you last when you eventually go for a punt?
Much harder now than before - I really enjoyed the time we were together and respected her low drive so it was ok back then. Nowadays, I really struggle to hold it in.

How long do I last during a punt? Not long at all - if she's very attractive, usually not long enough to get inside her, embarrasingly.

[harrycd]

If you are trying to not jack off Google nofap, there is no trick though it's just willpower.

[shootermcgavin]

If you're trying to do a no fap month, it'll be too hard to do alone. See if there are any bro's interested in running the month with you, bit of a support network if you will. I used to post heavily on Bodybuilding.com and we'd regularly organise no fap months. Heaps easier when there's a bunch of you trying it and you can check into a forum for support if you're feeling weak.

Of course, this could probably be the wrong forum to do it. And Ive already fapped this morning so I'm out.

[Soccerfan]

I can fap twice in one day easily, sometimes 3 times. I have no issue with this except that when I see an ML I am less sensitive and usually have to take over myself. This is fine by me as I still enjoy the intimacy of the ML and sometimes I find one who really knows what she is doing and that's a bonus!!

I couldn't stop even if I wanted to.

[corvus]

Sometimes too busy with work or tired to be horney. So I recommend keeping yourself preoccupied with something else.

[AHLUNGOR]

Long story short, I went through a break up early during the year. During the relationship, sex was there, it wasn't as frequent as I would've liked (maybe once every few weeks) but that was fine with me - she was Christian, had low sex drive and we had plenty of intimate time aside from sex. To be honest, I'm still not completely over her yet and not ready to get in another relationship. Anyway, I still only ejaculate maybe once every 3 or so weeks these days, but now that I am single, I get so horny and sexually frustrated. Sometimes I can't even sleep because I'm horny as shit. But at the same time, I don't want to give in, go the easy route and jack off or go for a punt so frequently. All you single people out there - any tips for how to maintain self-control when your hormones are telling you otherwise?

If you are single and gets horny regularly , don't see any reason why you should hold back in this stone age of Internet porns !

If you can't sleep at night , got horny and a hard on and there ain't a female partner sleeping next to you to relief , just turn on you PC or even just the smart phone and watch something, before you know it, you'll s much happier man and bet you can sleep better !

Just my two cents

Cheers

[sukeong]

All you single people out there - any tips for how to maintain self-control when your hormones are telling you otherwise?

To avoid spanking the monkey that often, it Helps if you are very busy with work or hobby or something. Less time to think about wimmin and horny shit when your mind is perpetual occupied on other stuff.

To avoid punting so often, it helps if you are a poor sod such that budget is always a concern. Helps also if you are very lazy person, so you usually can't be bothered to go out in your spare time

[Punterman]

To avoid spanking the monkey that often, it Helps if you are very busy with work or hobby or something. Less time to think about wimmin and horny shit when your mind is perpetual occupied on other stuff.

To avoid punting so often, it helps if you are a poor sod such that budget is always a concern. Helps also if you are very lazy person, so you usually can't be bothered to go out in your spare time

Ha Ha Ha. So if you are rich and have lots of time on your hands you punt too much. So true.

[solowang]

I think keeping busy is the key. I wish I had more free time so I can diy.

Otherwise be strong bro

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[otokosg]

the rainy season also helps.

[Raybo]

A mate used to call wanking by the phrase 'pants up, shift delete!'

Do you guys have your favorite porn scenes to wank to or always look for something new?

[wetwipes1]

Fapping and willpower is not the issue – I haven’t fapped for more than a year and don’t intend to. The real issue is how to stop sex from penetrating my mind when I least want it to. It’s been a huge distraction for me lately. I have no trouble keeping myself busy – I work in the banking industry so very long hours and have hobbies outside of punting. But what I’ve noticed recently is even at work I’m thinking of sex sometimes...I’m bloody posting this at work right now! I’ve always been a very driven and motivated guy but the sexual frustration is really getting to me lately. Increasing the frequency of punting will solve the frustration but I don’t want to do that (personal choice). I want to somehow channel my sexual energy into other pursuits.

[Punterman]

A mate used to call wanking by the phrase 'pants up, shift delete!'

Do you guys have your favorite porn scenes to wank to or always look for something new?

Asian Teens Exploited, especially the ones where some lucky bloke is fucking about 5 teenagers on his own. I want that fucking job......now.

[Punterman]

Fapping and willpower is not the issue – I haven’t fapped for more than a year and don’t intend to. The real issue is how to stop sex from penetrating my mind when I least want it to. It’s been a huge distraction for me lately. I have no trouble keeping myself busy – I work in the banking industry so very long hours and have hobbies outside of punting. But what I’ve noticed recently is even at work I’m thinking of sex sometimes...I’m bloody posting this at work right now! I’ve always been a very driven and motivated guy but the sexual frustration is really getting to me lately. Increasing the frequency of punting will solve the frustration but I don’t want to do that (personal choice). I want to somehow channel my sexual energy into other pursuits.

Punting more often won't cure it I can assure you. It makes it worse as you want it more often.

[wetwipes1]

Punting more often won't cure it I can assure you. It makes it worse as you want it more often.
Even if it did, I wouldn't want to go down that path, at least not at this stage of my life. Maybe in my 50's I might try to be the next Punterman. Definitely not now.

[Punterman]

Even if it did, I wouldn't want to go down that path, at least not at this stage of my life. Maybe in my 50's I might try to be the next Punterman. Definitely not now.

Reasons for waiting ?

[wetwipes1]

Reasons for waiting ?
I'm in my mid-20s, with things to do, goals to achieve, people to meet. I like to fuck but I don't want fucking to take over my life.

[Mr Bastard]

At least Jack off mate FFS, it releases good JUJU in your brain, helps you sleep, and all sorts of good stuff, like keeping Prostate Cancer at bay......or so they say!

And if it aint good for you? Which could be true because most things in life that are not good for you feel so fucking GOOD...........

But you run your own race my friend.........

Good Luck With Everything

[Punterman]

I'm in my mid-20s, with things to do, goals to achieve, people to meet. I like to fuck but I don't want fucking to take over my life.


Good on you. In my 20's I travelled the world, met lots of great people, partied hard, drank too much, messed around. Do all those things whilst you can as one day you will be tied down with a mortgage, steady job, wife, kids etc.

I lived in the UK until I was 30 and there is no real punting scene over there. Once I got to Sydney and the city is flooded with it, that is when the fun started. Now I am in my 50's I have the disposal income to punt and that is what I enjoy doing. You can't take it with you.

I also feel that my punting career is closer to the start than the beginning so I need to make the most of it and fuck as many girls as possible as one day I will be too old or my pension won't support it....then I will wank more as I will have no choice.

[wetwipes1]

I also feel that my punting career is closer to the start than the beginning so I need to make the most of it and fuck as many girls as possible as one day I will be too old or my pension won't support it....then I will wank more as I will have no choice.
Ever considered becoming a male escort? No joke. Earn money while you punt. The industry is still in the early stages and only starting to grow. You've got the credentials. Potential business opportunity?

[Punterman]

I'm in my mid-20s, with things to do, goals to achieve, people to meet. I like to fuck but I don't want fucking to take over my life.

Wettie, for a man who doesn't want punting to take over his life, you sure are on this forum a lot. Only saying.

[Mr Bastard]

I'm in my mid-20s, with things to do, goals to achieve, people to meet. I like to fuck but I don't want fucking to take over my life.

Id book into therapy real soon son! Here you are on a sex forum for those whom SEX IS THEIR LIFE and you dont want it to own you?

All the best with stuff?

[wetwipes1]

Wettie, for a man who doesn't want punting to take over his life, you sure are on this forum a lot. Only saying.
Yes, as I've said in my opening post and other posts in this thread, I've got a problem, it's becoming worst and I'm aware of it. Seeking guidance here. It hasn't always been like this.

[Punterman]

Ever considered becoming a male escort? No joke. Earn money while you punt. The industry is still in the early stages and only starting to grow. You've got the credentials. Potential business opportunity?

Ha ha funniest thing I have ever read. I could never do it. The poor girls we see have to fuck all sorts, fat, thin, stinky, hot, crooked teeth, bad breath, shitty arse, wankers, scumbags, filthy blokes, nice guys ....the whole spectrum. I would never be able to get a stiffy if I was on the other side and the girls booking me were a such a motley crew.

I often wonder what it would be like for male escorts for women. Women have holes and men fuck them. Male escorts must have to get stiffies to give a woman a good time and that in reality would be tough.

I have just had a good idea for a new thread. Any male escorts on the forum who want to share their experiences ?

[Punterman]

Yes, as I've said in my opening post and other posts in this thread, I've got a problem, it's becoming worst and I'm aware of it. Seeking guidance here. It hasn't always been like this.

Best guidance. Get off the forum and do other things with your time.

[wetwipes1]

Best guidance. Get off the forum and do other things with your time.
Yeah I've been contemplating that. Will probably do this. Shame it's only been a few weeks here, I've enjoyed every bit of it. But it is getting a bit excessive now. Things have got to change.

[Mr Bastard]

Baby steps wet wipes.......

[wetwipes1]

Baby steps wet wipes.......
Yep, I'll get there. Alright, I'm off tonight, the earliest I've ever logged off the forum. See you tomorrow (hopefully not).

[Alan86]

Once every 3 weeks? Holy hell!

What have you got against masturbation? Is it for religious reasons?

Otherwise, the only thing you can do is either
a) Go out to a bar and try your luck
b) preoccupy your mind at that time with a non-sexual activity

Also, avoid sexually exciting images etc during the day (like 'this is what rnt is about ' thread lol)

[happyA]

Keeping busy seems to work, you spend less time and have less energy
Then have to make time for having fun, and its special

[nosferatu523]

Why not just take the easy route though?

If you're blowing all your money punting or not able to get any work done because you're jacking off ten times a day, then yes you'll need some self control.

But if it's causing you more problems not doing it, then why not?

[dandydanny]

Once every 3 weeks? I would say you have super self-control, even once every 3 days will be a big challenge for me!

[ABHKP]

when i went through a breakup i spent every spare minute of time at the gym

at night i was too exhausted to even think about anything but sleep; let alone fapping