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Does anyone else have this problem ?
On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.
The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.
I think you justed need to ask yourself if you are happy with your regulars. If your answer is yes then you do not have a problem, you are creating a problem. If the answer is no, then you really don't have regulars, just girls you see. And again, you don't have a problem. Just a punting habit 😎Quote:
Originally Posted by River
This is a question for u to decide, if your mind saying something u like to haven't try then i go for the new girl, it is the saying if you haven't tried you will never know, Fear of the Unknown
If u prefer a old time favorite then u know it will be same as usually conversation etc etc but there could be some rewards at the end FOC.
A males mind is full of surprises and curiosity thinking what will happen tomorrow. U could tell yourself you haven't fulfill my ultimate desires and hold a jar full of regrets if u haven't explore the WWW of punting.
This is my thought
Go and conquer the WWW of man desire and enjoy the moment
This is my never ending struggle.
Sometimes its wanting the new shiny, other times I want something I know what I am going to get.
I guess it all comes to personal preference, mix it up. I'd never say stick to the regulars but try what excites you, and if you have a dud you have the regular to fall back on to get the taste out of your mouth.
Its all a numbers game, lady luck will be with you some days, and others will laugh as a 90yo Grannie wanders out. I'm hoping its not that latter.
If your happy with the service from your 5 regulars why change? You may not like the service from another girl as much. Stick to regulars.
I too have 5 regulars... On my right hand, lol!Quote:
Originally Posted by River
But seriously, I hear you bro. Sometimes I regret not trying someone new, sometimes I try someone new and regret not sticking to one of my regulars.
What can you do? Lol...
Mix and match. 1 month: 3x1 or 2x2. Just rotate 1 regular out each month for someone new, then a different regular the next month.Quote:
Originally Posted by River
I used to stick to my regular, and then she stopped working and i tried different girls and shops... And then realized how i missed a lot of different girls... Different style, nationality, etc. The key is doing your research and stick to reputable shops. If the girl really good, i usually come back after a while, but not more than 3 times so far...
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I generally find that I will change, even if not simply to find what else is out and around.
I do have a few regulars but will also explore options as sometimes I find myself getting a little bored or not getting the same level of 'experience' the longer I see the same ML.
Sometimes the exploration will turn up something worth repeating, other times I ask myself why did I not go to my regular but that is also part of the fun and you may well find a new regular
Early signs of the FOMO disease. Increase your rotation count from 5 to 6-7Quote:
Originally Posted by River
I have old favs I want to see, and new girls I want to try. The problem is not enough time and money.
I like this postQuote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Do others also find it gets boring with the same lady if they have no imagination and just go through the same old, same old routine
But this approach sounds like a good idea
I will usually try new girls, although I am usually very picky
When you have a regular it is because they either have a set routine that you enjoy coming back for or you just enjoy her body type more than anyone else. I tried mix n match before during the $150/hr days but it starts to get really boring because you'll start liking certain body types than others and you'd wish to keep seeing that one regular.
Those who need variety are usually those who haven't tried them all yet and are curious. I had a Chinese friend who will only go for Chinese or Korean WLs, he wouldn't even go near a Japanese WL. Really strange but maybe it reminds him more of the girls he's used to, plus speaking the same language and having similar cultures is a preference most guys go to when seeing WLs.
Checked out now
I will stick with my regular thanks. We get along really well & seem to enjoy each other's company. Certainly makes a big difference to this litle black duck...
When a regular suddenly stopped working you wonder if you should wait for her or give up.
Long time ago I had a really good regular who suddenly disappeared from roster and reappeared one year later. She did mention travelling around the world before disappearing first time. Didn't mind it as I wasn't attached to her but when she reappear and totally remembers me and what moves I liked after that whole year disappearing, I wonder if she was waiting for me to pop the serious question... Didn't get the chance as she disappeared again and never returned.
Then I had another regular from last year. Gave me BBFS for free since our first session, told me she's going to the US for a month before coming back, saw her again as she came back then suddenly disappeared again. I also wondered if she was waiting for me to pop a serious question.
This year met a really nice girl, we became FWBs and had really great sex each time. Thinking of previous experiences I thought maybe I should pop the question early. She rejected but insisted on maintaining FWB relationship. Now she's disappeared for months without any indication of returning. I'm thinking of giving up looking for her and hopefully she reappears months or a year later.
At the moment not really sure which girl to choose from when punting. Tried a few 2 months ago, every single one of them suggesting that I should see them regularly for some reason. Feels heavy to comply with their suggestions as the sex isn't as great as with my last FWB and I don't really want to recycle experiences of girls going out of their norm showing me good times then suddenly disappearing.
Oh, so you don't want her to have her own life, independent of you. Gee, here I though Australia did away with kings... No empathy here.Quote:
Originally Posted by begov94
My question to you is quite simple (though the answer wont be....)Quote:
Originally Posted by River
WHY DO YOU PUNT ?
Answer in a few simple sentences and lets move along from there ...
Sounds more like somebody's happy I didn't go out looking for another regular. Because according to the last 2 months of interaction, even seeing another WL once warranted a big argument.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Kings? Sounds like someone isn't informed about the sad state of modern day monarchy. Some monarchs are made not just born you know. They have to serve their people unlike politicians who can sit on pedestals for 4 years regardless of whether they fulfill promises or not.
And what happens if I say she can be independent all she wants? Then suddenly she does a 360° and start guilt tripping me for not caring about her. For not being constantly worried about her wellbeing?
If you want to have some free time before getting serious, just say so. If I was like every other men you see at work I wouldn't even have this conversation here for the past 2 months.
P/S: saw you checking out the Regular MLs for 2023 thread. Jealous I was asking about other girls?