Reggie,
I honestly don’t know why I keep breaking it off with her but she keeps taking me back. Obviously she has an ulterior motive and we all know that.
Enjoy your day off.
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Another lunch another lady.
That’s what happens when the current ML didn’t reply to my messages and left me hanging for 18 hours. She missed the boat, well the waterfront restaurant…Busy place even in the rain. Took a few pics to send to the ML to rub it in. Yes I’m a cunt and if she’d have provided hers she wouldn’t be on the receiving end of another lesson.
I haven’t even responded to her txt. She knows I’ve read it but now I have another woman who will put up she can wait and wait and wait. Then she’ll get the pics…
Like I’ve said previously I had a WL on the go. Today it eventuated. Bit of a surprise as I wasn’t expecting anything till next weekend but she responded and I invited.
I won’t bother with a thread on the WL as I respect her too much and there isn’t any game playing. It’s straight down the line, like I had hoped this ML would be.
She’s almost cooked her goose. Now let’s see how crazy she gets when I leave her hanging out to dry.
Perhaps I’ll reply tomorrow morning just before she starts work. Give her something to think about while she’s looking after a punter.
Well she still wants me. The 24 hour burn worked. Now I have a ML and the new WL. Anything is possible if you try.
The tells are: Join date, self-aggrandizing posts. But I look on the bright side: his posts keep him off the streets... I really do feel sorry for any provider, gf, even the fictional ones, who have to deal with his ilk. Some play the game, others just ride the pine.
Sad news, boys, sad news. :cry: So pull up a chair, sit down, take a couple of deep breaths, and have that box of tissues at hand.
I have been personally (dm) told (why me, Lord, why me? :grimace:), that SpankMe and the ML are history. :startle: His spin is he broke up with her but it's kind of hard to tell, you know how rambling he is :confused2:. MY experience, when she gives you an OTT price, it's a sure sign she doesn't want to do business with you, but that's just my take. Guess it could go either way depending on your view (and your ego) :question:. But silver lining, he will let this thread die, :smile:and let's look on the bright side, one lucky ML, at least I'm thinking. But SpankMe has informed me that he's now FOCUSED on making a go with the WL, so let's spare a thought for her (and perhaps WE'll be spared that "Dating a WL" thread :vomit:). One can only hope.
And, true to form, he did take one last jab at me, "You’ve got too much humanity." Guess that's a jab to his ilk, but I take it as a complement, that khun jai dee that's so nice to hear... I NEVER get tired of hearing that... :smile:
Bravo, allow this thread to just die plsssssss.
Always look on the bright side of life. That is from jiddu krishnamurti
Imagine all the people living life in peace. You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one dum pommel. Should have come to aussie. Lose your mind in india , fuck Japanese , get shot in the great big city of lights. Not me just a walkabout fella. Aboriginal
My sweet lord..
Two dots , for 15 characters..
Hare Krishna. Om shanti shanti shanti
Yet another username to get the post counts up vinnie?
I reported it for spamming this obnoxious garbage. Please send another
All products of the same troubled mind. Spanky has been pretty much the only person responding to the garbage coming out of that out and out troll.
I noticed he always seems to go into this "beergut-mode" when people start ignoring his latest "successfully unbanned" creation.
Makes you wonder if it's the same bloke posting on that other forum about purposely sharing HIV at a northshore brothel. That one must he loving the attention.
Goldfinger. Your PM inbox is full. Why even keep sent or received messages? Why do you always criticise what I post? Aren’t I allowed to put forth a view, an experience? The facts are correct.
I met a ML, we dated, it’s over.
It’s like these women are deemed as sacred ink and I’m not allowed to dip my pen into their well of sexual pleasure without paying. I did pay her one way or another, it’s just that the shop never got a cut. Maybe the most antagonistic posters on this thread are shop owners and they don’t like free sex or they think they own the worker? Who knows.
So I’ll post here my response one last time.
It Over.
I’ve liquidated everything, her number, her messages, all her pics and videos. It’s like she never existed.
How else can i start with the new one and avoid all temptation? Like Adam, Eve and the apple. This ML was forbidden fruit. Most of you guys wouldn’t have taken her on. It was only I, the great, the Big Daddy Spanky that had the balls to take her on, never get anywhere and publicly state that here for all yee to read!
I tried and failed myself and you my fellow punters!
Oh I tried, only my close friends offsite know how much I tried. One even said I rang him seven times in one day about her… enough? I wanted it so much to continue. Just the relationship. But a part of me refused to be fucked over and taken for a ride day after goddam day. There was no stopping her lust for material possessions. I had to drawn the line or I’d be very soon thrown away and discarded onto the harsh reality heap of shafted simp losers. So I broke it off. By doing that it made me a winner in my own small mind. By doing that it gave me the courage to continue on life’s journey once again seeking refuge on the bosom of another sex worker.
Now laugh at me or even with me while I wipe the ML from the backside of my life like a sheep’s dag!
I’m surprised I haven't been accused of faking the moon landing too?
Oh and I’m Not Coxswain.
Thx
Perhaps I was in this instance.
I had already read her six months ago and yet continued thinking my future with her was my destiny. Why I don’t know but it was a Deja vu like experience. It was as if I had to go through this with her because I had felt it was meant to be. Like a moth to the flame I succumbed. I got a singe but not a full burn. Lucky.
Effectively four times I broke it off in the last week.
Enough was enough but my weakness for her kept bringing me back. You try and break off with a beautiful woman who reinforces herself in your mind by sending pics of her body daily.
I think I did well. I haven’t mentioned her name to my friends today which is a good thing.
Now I just have to stop posting about her here.
SpankMe, I'm so disappointed. Have you already forgotten your exact quote, "Anyway she’s gone as of today and the thread is over as far as I’m concerned." Seems it's not, you just can't get over the fact that she said "no" to you. WHAT?, Bravo, what heresy is this?
/SIDEBAR
Lesson for Newbees: If she gives you an OTT price, it's her polite way of saying "No" (without saying "no"), she's NOT interested in your company, but... she would make an exception if you met her OTT price. I'm always grateful as she's saving us BOTH from wasting time; just say "No Thank you" and walk away. It's NOT a breakup, it's just merely a polite "no", giving those with fragile egos a way out rather than the more direct "NO".
/END SIDEBAR
So, SpankMe, when she asked for, to quote you again, "She wanted a Cartier bracelet she picked out for $8000, a $3000 matching ring, a wedding for 50 people, a European holiday, a condo and to make sure I married her before I died.", she's not greedy, not, quote again, "Part Ferengi, part Gold digging Goblin and part Siren", (and I will readily admit I did have to Google "Ferengi"), that's just HER price* for HER company for YOU. And given your actions (see below), I think she's a very SMART ML, and that was a generous offer. And if this lasted 6 months, she must have the patience of a Saint.
You really should learn how to read the room. It was a FINANCIAL relationship, NOT emotional, at least for one party (the one who was never named...)
But I will say, this does make me laugh, and when I see it again, it does make me smile. Yes, you really taught her, that "burn" really worked... Just shows that sometime a "free" lunch really isn't worth it...
Wow, her sin of not responding "quickly"... (why I like messaging, it's just a "pending" until the person takes the time to respond, not disturbing them when they're busy with something (or somebody) else). And sending her photos of her "mistake"? By definition, LITERALLY, sophomoric.
*And I figure THAT action probably upped her quote by several thousand dollars
Looks like he striked on another forum thinking he's Andy Lau. Another user caught him out using ChatGPT Chinese version writing an article claiming he's dating a Ginza girl and has all her personal info. Even trying to sell his "skills" of how to ask a WL for her private details as if it's as hard as GETTING A PROPER JOB INSTEAD OF BEING STUCK AT HOME WRITING BS.
News flash: COVID-19 is no longer a threat, stop fantasizing about splurging a gazillion dollars and get a job at Macca's or something.
What’s this got to do with my thread? Let’s see, nothing. Cut back on something you’re taking or go get your eyes tested.
Andy Lau. Never heard of him but then again I don’t watch media of any sort. So I googled him up. He’s good looking though. We have a few similarities coincidentally.
I’ll do some research on him when I can be bothered. Thx.
Look 11Bravo, the relationship never got to home base and I had other options like I have always done my entire life. The sex was neither here nor there as far as I was concerned and there was always a concern that she wouldn’t be enough sexually anyway. I had mentioned that to her also as I was just stating a fact.
I was prepared to spend whatever financially if I thought she was genuine. She’s a nice girl with a nice nature and I wish her all the best. Maybe the age gap and maybe her maturity were contributing factors. Maybe my OTT attitude was also a problem.
They’re no need to dissect the breakup as the full story will never get out.
I hope she finds her dreams.
Who is the more foolish, the punter or the ML who still wants him?
I’m thinking her want to stay here will never be fulfilled as she doesn’t comprehend what is required. It’s all about the marriage she thinks. If things were that easy she’d have done that already with someone else before I met her.
You can’t just marry a guy and get instant citizenship, correct? Her push for marriage is absurd. I’ve never met anyone ask so hard.
I’ve already seen that as a red flag and there won’t be a chequered flag. I think she’s dreaming. Everyone is entitled to dream though.
Burping........