Dating a ML

[11Bravo]

Perhaps I was in this instance.

I had already read her six months ago and yet continued thinking my future with her was my destiny. Why I don’t know but it was a Deja vu like experience. It was as if I had to go through this with her because I had felt it was meant to be. Like a moth to the flame I succumbed. I got a singe but not a full burn. Lucky.

Effectively four times I broke it off in the last week.

Enough was enough but my weakness for her kept bringing me back. You try and break off with a beautiful woman who reinforces herself in your mind by sending pics of her body daily.

I think I did well. I haven’t mentioned her name to my friends today which is a good thing.

Now I just have to stop posting about her here.

SpankMe, I'm so disappointed. Have you already forgotten your exact quote, "Anyway she’s gone as of today and the thread is over as far as I’m concerned." Seems it's not, you just can't get over the fact that she said "no" to you. WHAT?, Bravo, what heresy is this?

/SIDEBAR
Lesson for Newbees: If she gives you an OTT price, it's her polite way of saying "No" (without saying "no"), she's NOT interested in your company, but... she would make an exception if you met her OTT price. I'm always grateful as she's saving us BOTH from wasting time; just say "No Thank you" and walk away. It's NOT a breakup, it's just merely a polite "no", giving those with fragile egos a way out rather than the more direct "NO".
/END SIDEBAR

So, SpankMe, when she asked for, to quote you again, "She wanted a Cartier bracelet she picked out for $8000, a $3000 matching ring, a wedding for 50 people, a European holiday, a condo and to make sure I married her before I died.", she's not greedy, not, quote again, "Part Ferengi, part Gold digging Goblin and part Siren", (and I will readily admit I did have to Google "Ferengi"), that's just HER price* for HER company for YOU. And given your actions (see below), I think she's a very SMART ML, and that was a generous offer. And if this lasted 6 months, she must have the patience of a Saint.

You really should learn how to read the room. It was a FINANCIAL relationship, NOT emotional, at least for one party (the one who was never named...)

Another lunch another lady.
That’s what happens when the current ML didn’t reply to my messages and left me hanging for 18 hours. She missed the boat, well the waterfront restaurant…Busy place even in the rain. Took a few pics to send to the ML to rub it in. Yes I’m a cunt and if she’d have provided hers she wouldn’t be on the receiving end of another lesson.

Well she still wants me. The 24 hour burn worked. Now I have a ML and the new WL. Anything is possible if you try.

But I will say, this does make me laugh, and when I see it again, it does make me smile. Yes, you really taught her, that "burn" really worked... Just shows that sometime a "free" lunch really isn't worth it...

Wow, her sin of not responding "quickly"... (why I like messaging, it's just a "pending" until the person takes the time to respond, not disturbing them when they're busy with something (or somebody) else). And sending her photos of her "mistake"? By definition, LITERALLY, sophomoric.

*And I figure THAT action probably upped her quote by several thousand dollars