ML borrowed few K and disappeared /blocked me

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Originally Posted by Urbumcrack

Normalising a scam doesn't make it any less of a scam.
Same lines, timing and outcome every time.
Spare me your bullshit, this isn’t normal, it’s calculated and you just showing you are the biggest cockhead.

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100000000000% agreed

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

By the same token, a bloke with a Ferrari doesn’t rent it he bloody owns it. And as ChadTC would say, only a low-value man rents a Ferrari. If you’ve gotta pay just to play, you’re not the one in the driver’s seat

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Isn’t that the definition of punting, “pay to play”?

If the punter doesn’t pay then there’s no play so who is driving? The punter of course.

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Originally Posted by Legend2000

This wasn’t post-nut regret - she strung guys along for years and pretended she was interest to milk money and gifts every time she felt like it while at the same time posting an innocent and lavish life online. That’s not a hookup, that’s a pattern. Still running it now.

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How long of a string does it have to be until you realize it's a leash?

Seems to me the easiest way is to just say no, then see how much the behavior changes...

A scammer is a scammer. Now where it crosses the line to criminal... meets the legal definition, if you can prove it, great. Like they say, if you're playing cards with pros, sitting at the table, you can't recognize the mark... then you're the mark. I DO have empathy for the victims... sad. Lessons learned; education can be expensive.

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Originally Posted by Paison

Mate, you just explaining the bulk lot of the women in this industry.
If you have socials or contacts for enough of them you'd quickly realise lol - this whole post you guys been going on about is nothing out of the ordinary.

If its not thirst traps on insta or facebook that prompts simps to reach out, then its DMs or sms lol.

Do convo's like this sound familiar - i bet they do lol -

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Have never received any messages like that.

Messages I get are:
Happy Songkran, Happy New Year, Happy Christmas (hey, they're all heathens).
Translation: are you BOTG; if you are, come see me.

Same with the occasional "How are you?"
Translation: You still alive? If not, might as well remove you from the contacts. Otherwise, come see me.

Those twerkin' videos, the exercise hula-hoop videos? That's a MASS mailing; still, I do appreciate.

Just like my dentist, insurance agent, advisor: advertising for BUSINESS. (You know you're old when they're from funeral services, hearing aid companies, aged-care companies, etc. My funeral plans? Green recycle bin, thank you.)

I send the same to a few. Translation: so I'm not cold calling when I'm BOTG.

Full disclosure, I do seem to get a lot of "Good morning" 's, but that's just on the day of my booking. Concern... of short term memory loss? But I certainly understand. If I'm not there to fill the slot (hey, TIME slot, what were you thinking), then, like an airplane seat, it's a business loss if unfilled and the time has passed.

My dentist keeps txting me every three months.

At least I’m wanted by someone…

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Originally Posted by justincase

My dentist keeps txting me every three months.

At least I’m wanted by someone…

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Nice one; every time I read, get a laugh, but then, I am so jovial.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Nice one; every time I read, get a laugh, but then, I am so jovial.

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It’s not because you’re so easily pleased? A helping hand across the busy street, someone buying you lunch etc I’m surprised a well travelled guy like you isn’t married off to a nice Asian lady and living happily ever after. You project that type even on an anonymous forum.

If there are two ends to a stick and you’re the better end why isn’t it so?

One of the big problems I see with this whole scenario is the issue regarding how the two individuals met. This isn’t a usual romance scam where u have met someone through a dating app, or out somewhere and then they have taken your money in some false loan arrangement.
The Op and all the others who appear to have suffered the same fate all met the ML in a scenario where they were paying money for a sexual service. This was her job and they were all engaging her for this service and a financial payment had to be made to cover this service.
At what point, even when they were seeing her outside of shops, did they believe that they were no longer contracting the services of a professional sex worker that payment would no longer be required.
Wasn’t she just providing the ‘Girl Friend Experience’ a service that is listed routinely by shops and girls as a service that is provided.
Do not escorts attend dinner/events and even oversees holidays with clients, all of which requires payment.
Could she not turn around with a log of all times she spent with everyone and claim that she believed she was still providing a professional service in the guise of providing a GF service, a service that requires financial payment.
I’m just wondering in this scenario, when the whole initial basis of the meets was a pay to play scenario, when did people believe that the circumstances had changed??

Why wouldn’t the ML in question just be able to hand everyone an invoice/receipt for services rendered as an Escort?

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Originally Posted by Cracker38

One of the big problems I see with this whole scenario is the issue regarding how the two individuals met. This isn’t a usual romance scam where u have met someone through a dating app, or out somewhere and then they have taken your money in some false loan arrangement.
The Op and all the others who appear to have suffered the same fate all met the ML in a scenario where they were paying money for a sexual service. This was her job and they were all engaging her for this service and a financial payment had to be made to cover this service.
At what point, even when they were seeing her outside of shops, did they believe that they were no longer contracting the services of a professional sex worker that payment would no longer be required.
Wasn’t she just providing the ‘Girl Friend Experience’ a service that is listed routinely by shops and girls as a service that is provided.
Do not escorts attend dinner/events and even oversees holidays with clients, all of which requires payment.
Could she not turn around with a log of all times she spent with everyone and claim that she believed she was still providing a professional service in the guise of providing a GF service, a service that requires financial payment.
I’m just wondering in this scenario, when the whole initial basis of the meets was a pay to play scenario, when did people believe that the circumstances had changed??

Why wouldn’t the ML in question just be able to hand everyone an invoice/receipt for services rendered as an Escort?

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Great point! I think this legal action stuff is going to blow up in OP's face. Leave it be and let karma run its course. And most importantly, never "loan" money to a whore!

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Great point! I think this legal action stuff is going to blow up in OP's face. Leave it be and let karma run its course. And most importantly, never "loan" money to a whore!

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Not to mention the fact that sexual services in (probably) unlicensed shops are illegal so OP may be incriminating himself and others by reporting this. The shops where they occurred may also get investigated, even this forum…

Getting out the popcorn for this one.

Truth is, 99% of blokes start punting because they are chasing a happy ending. Over time, that happy ending morphs into a semi or full blown addiction and the chase for a happy ending turns into a chase for a fairy tale ending (pretty woman style). Eventually, the punter falls for the sex worker, she plays him like a violin and milks him for every dollar he's got. The penny drops, when he realises she’s giving 10 other cunts equal and better services (including raw dog); all while stringing a stable full of thirsty, clingy and needy simps and cashing in on their emotional naivety. And at this point of the story the fairy tale ending curdles into a bitter and twisted ending. This type of shit has been going on since the fucken dawn of time and will continue until the very last horny cunt walks the earth.

In summary - Men love idealistically and women love opportunistically.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Truth is, 99% of blokes start punting because they are chasing a happy ending. Over time, that happy ending morphs into a semi or full blown addiction and the chase for a happy ending turns into a chase for a fairy tale ending (pretty woman style). Eventually, the punter falls for the sex worker, she plays him like a violin and milks him for every dollar he's got. The penny drops, when he realises she’s giving 10 other cunts equal and better services (including raw dog); all while stringing a stable full of thirsty, clingy and needy simps and cashing in on their emotional naivety. And at this point of the story the fairy tale ending curdles into a bitter and twisted ending. This type of shit has been going on since the fucken dawn of time and will continue until the very last horny cunt walks the earth.

In summary - Men love idealistically and women love opportunistically.

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Exactly. Well put. It also describes the exact business model of Only Fans etc. except without the physical contact. At least massage simps get pussy lol.

Yeah that mentality and being a simp also leads to the weirdos becoming stalkers. Gotta take emotions out of it when paying for play

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Originally Posted by Cracker38

One of the big problems I see with this whole scenario is the issue regarding how the two individuals met. This isn’t a usual romance scam where u have met someone through a dating app, or out somewhere and then they have taken your money in some false loan arrangement.
The Op and all the others who appear to have suffered the same fate all met the ML in a scenario where they were paying money for a sexual service. This was her job and they were all engaging her for this service and a financial payment had to be made to cover this service.
At what point, even when they were seeing her outside of shops, did they believe that they were no longer contracting the services of a professional sex worker that payment would no longer be required.
Wasn’t she just providing the ‘Girl Friend Experience’ a service that is listed routinely by shops and girls as a service that is provided.
Do not escorts attend dinner/events and even oversees holidays with clients, all of which requires payment.
Could she not turn around with a log of all times she spent with everyone and claim that she believed she was still providing a professional service in the guise of providing a GF service, a service that requires financial payment.
I’m just wondering in this scenario, when the whole initial basis of the meets was a pay to play scenario, when did people believe that the circumstances had changed??

Why wouldn’t the ML in question just be able to hand everyone an invoice/receipt for services rendered as an Escort?

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Ha, you’ve basically written her warner bros movie script: ‘She didn’t con anyone, it was all just one big, romantic booking.’
Too bad for her the court deals in evidence, not fan fiction. But hey, if she’s lucky, maybe the judge will also buy into the ‘girlfriend experience’ - right before handing down the bill for fraud.

By your logic, my bookkeeper could empty my bank account and just call it part of my tax return service. That’s not how business works - that’s how a scam works

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

when he realises she’s giving 10 other cunts equal and better services (including raw dog);

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Plant this in your head every time you start thinking youre special: these chicks are surrounded by men. If she loses you, she'll meet another 10 the next day, probably 40-50 by the end of the week. You're just speck of dust to her. You're replaceable she's not. This power imbalance is even worse than Tinder.

Think about it. Would you go to a lion's den to fight a lion? good luck

I’ve said it many times before and sound like a fucken real estate agent rotation, rotation, rotation. For emotional and mental survival, a punter needs a fucken potpourri of side chicks.

This Disney bullshit about the magic of having a regular? Yeah it's fucken real, and sure she might toss in those extras and perks you won’t get from a random punt, but it comes with hidden risks and a price tag aka emotional attachment. And that cost skyrockets if the bloke’s a simp, is emotionally soft, naive, hasn't had many relationships in the past, loves playing white knight, and likes to offer his shoulder for chicks to cry on (basically an emotional tampon).

And when all is said and done, she'll milk him dry, wrap him up, and toss him out like a used condom.

I’d bet my left testicke that every poor bastard who’s been taken for a ride by a WL/ML was with his so called "special" regular.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

I’d bet my left testicke that every poor bastard who’s been taken for a ride by a WL/ML was with his so called "special" regular.

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Ha! I was told the words “special customer” two weeks ago by a ML. Maybe someone needs to write them a better script?

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Originally Posted by forgotmyumbrella

You're replaceable she's not. This power imbalance is even worse than Tinder.

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You really think so? Dudes here are always talking about how these girls have a shelf life and as long as he has money there’s always another girl.

The power imbalance is definitely the other way.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Truth is, 99% of blokes start punting because they are chasing a happy ending. Over time, that happy ending morphs into a semi or full blown addiction and the chase for a happy ending turns into a chase for a fairy tale ending (pretty woman style). Eventually, the punter falls for the sex worker, she plays him like a violin and milks him for every dollar he's got. The penny drops, when he realises sheÂ’s giving 10 other cunts equal and better services (including raw dog); all while stringing a stable full of thirsty, clingy and needy simps and cashing in on their emotional naivety. And at this point of the story the fairy tale ending curdles into a bitter and twisted ending. This type of shit has been going on since the fucken dawn of time and will continue until the very last horny cunt walks the earth.

In summary - Men love idealistically and women love opportunistically.

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Yep, completely agreed.
A quick forum search of this MLs name and previous reviews- seems she was into full gfe experience with deep kissing, intimate hugging, pussy sliding while pretending to hold out on the full shebang.
This is how many MLs con punters into thinking they special. Reserving sex for selected punters to make them feel like they are the "one" - when in reality, you are just one of 10 lol.
Just having 10 simps thinking they are special on a rotation can keep a ML pretty busy with bookings plus any other money and gifts they can leech along the way.

Guys, just stop crying about being played - move on and just stop simping

ML; Yoo special for me. Yoo mayk me feel good not onry in poosy but also in hart. I feel lyke yoo different to udda mens. Yoo sensitive one and me likey dat. I finking of yoo sometimes on day off.

Punter; Ok so where do I transfer the 20K to again?

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Originally Posted by forgotmyumbrella

Plant this in your head every time you start thinking youre special: these chicks are surrounded by men. If she loses you, she'll meet another 10 the next day, probably 40-50 by the end of the week. You're just speck of dust to her. You're replaceable she's not. This power imbalance is even worse than Tinder.

Think about it. Would you go to a lion's den to fight a lion? good luck

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That's why punters also need to keep a rotation and dont get fixated on 1.

Funny thing is, these women will ALWAYs reach out to you again - they can't help themselves, and I can almost guarantee it will be the same for this ML - so theres no need to even chase her for the money. She'll be back, she cant help herself lol - just get paid back in pussy when she is back lol - its like having a prepaid tab at the bar 😂

There is one I was fucking regularly years ago that I took out a few times and I lent her 2k (which I was happy to lose to keep the sex going), she then suddenly disappeared - i just assumed she got a boyfriend or husband. Then out of nowhere messages me years later asking how I was - like nothing happened lol.

I checked her insta and she recently got a BBL and posting motivational shit - obviously ran out of $$$ so laying traps for unsuspecting sinps lol - its just covert whoring

I honestly dont understand how some men cant instantly see through this shit lol