New Guy Experience + Seeking Advice

Bloody hell. Gene Hackman did not see the light until he was 95.
Well done for topping yourself Gene. You were a great actor but you ceased to be of any relevance or worth many years ago.
You should have topped yourself 20 years ago.
And taking your wife and dog with you is pretty bad form too.
His missus Betsy Arakawa was a pretty hot granny, She woulda been a hottie when she was younger.
Anyway 65 is a good age to die. After that you are just sucking up precious oxygen, producing carbon and adding to global warming.
And the dog, well he/she was probably 90 in human years.

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Originally Posted by PsyPsy

I did get a fleshlight, but my experiences have been a bit mixed. Obviously I’m supposed to be training to get rid of DGS, but in the end i’m either edging for way too long or i’m using the flesh light in a way that mimics my causes of DGS.

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I see what you mean bro. Try to wedge the fleshlight in a pillow, sofa or similar, so you're actually using your whole body to pump it. That way the speed and intensity will be lower than with your hand holding the FL.

Seems pretty comical to someone who can't relate, but DGS is no joke. People advocating to get an IRL partner, but without the sexual confidence first (actually being able to cum via penetration and not just go through the motions), you'll just be on the back foot. Young girls have plenty of sexually experienced and functional dudes lining up to fuck them. Punting, fleshlight, etc, it's a means to an end. Whatever you need to get your confidence and XP up, I say go all in.

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Originally Posted by PsyPsy

In particular i do think i plan too much, if i wake up horny it might just be best to book from whoever’s available.

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That sounds like a good idea if you have the free time. I'd probably have a shortlist of GFE type WLs beforehand if you're big into DFK.

If you can combine Fleshlight and a VR unit like Occulus or whatever then fucken hell you would never get off your bed/couch - its Incel Heaven welcome to the future/present

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Originally Posted by ironmonk

Seems pretty comical to someone who can't relate, but DGS is no joke. People advocating to get an IRL partner, but without the sexual confidence first (actually being able to cum via penetration and not just go through the motions), you'll just be on the back foot. Young girls have plenty of sexually experienced and functional dudes lining up to fuck them. Punting, fleshlight, etc, it's a means to an end. Whatever you need to get your confidence and XP up, I say go all in.

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I don't take it as a joke. But to set the mood, let me ask a question. Do you care if your flashlight prefers silicon or oil based lube? If your ML/WG prefers tea or coffee? Will you bother to ask? Now, with a GF, you should ask AND care. That's the difference with a GF; she's a person, and finding out the answers to those little questions is all part of the fun. (Not even a GF, just dating).

Back in my day, when with a GF, you weren't on a clock as to time left to finish. By definition, it was LT (OK, disregarding if she was still living at home and her parents were out, but I wouldn't recommend dating HS girls). And if OP is still living at home, well, use hers (roommates understand), and, worse case, as the old cliche goes, "get a room". And unlike a flashlight, or a paid transaction, it's someone you have a connection with, which adds a WHOLE other dimension. Likewise, she has a connection to you, she's there because she wants to be, not because it's her JOB. I wouldn't be worrying about "other dudes"; she's there, with you, by choice. You don't have anything to "prove". That's the advantage of GF's, of dating: discovery, including all the foibles. She just might see certain problems as a challenge; most likely, same as you ("Sorry, it takes me a long time to orgasm." "No problem, some more DATY...?" (Just ask her what style SHE prefers... no practice necessary)).

Bottom line: it's 2 people, 1 on 1, together to have some fun, getting to know each other. Clock is NOT running... THAT'S how you build real confidence.

I'm going to be straight up here, if you're in your 20s get off this forum. I kinda regret discovering this place because it has enabled me to go more. Like I won't go but then will lurk and read here for a bit and start going. Honestly I think until you're in your 40s etc live your life and try to punt as least as possible. Not saying don't do it at all but don't make it a hobby like many people who frequent this forum do.

Wow, OP sure has an incredibly good memory. I can't even remember the details of a punt I had a couple of months ago let alone one from 2021!

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Originally Posted by legitl

I'm going to be straight up here, if you're in your 20s get off this forum. I kinda regret discovering this place because it has enabled me to go more. Like I won't go but then will lurk and read here for a bit and start going. Honestly I think until you're in your 40s etc live your life and try to punt as least as possible. Not saying don't do it at all but don't make it a hobby like many people who frequent this forum do.

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Dating for the new gen 20 years olds just suck now. Better off just punting