What exactly is "Open Minded" for ML?

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Open minded is a just a fucken marketing gimmick.....and some blokes still queue up to buy that sales-pitch!

Reality check: if you roll in looking like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth she'll be extremely open minded - even if you're old, bald, and fat, but with good table manners and a thick wallet, over time a chick will become open minded. Anything between those two extremes is a roll of the dice.

Open minded just means subject to a visual inspection, personal connection, and available funds.

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Agree 100% looks and money talks!

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Open minded is a just a fucken marketing gimmick.....and some blokes still queue up to buy that sales-pitch!

Reality check: if you roll in looking like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth she'll be extremely open minded - even if you're old, bald, and fat, but with good table manners and a thick wallet, over time a chick will become open minded. Anything between those two extremes is a roll of the dice.

Open minded just means subject to a visual inspection, personal connection, and available funds.

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Good point. Emphasis on the "personal connection" part. Have you ever been in a situation, anywhere not just in punting, where the very first time you ever meet a girl, she just behaves like she's known you for a long time?

It always takes me by surprise. I could be ogling a girl for a while, gathering courage to talk to her, then when I finally do it, she just takes the lead from the get go. The rest is like a whirlwind and before I know it I'm in a relationship!

The same goes with MLs. I'd book a girl for the first time sight unseen thinking it would just be a run off the mill HJ sesh. Not very often, and only with K an C girls, they just really give me the vibe that they're "at ease" with me as soon as they come into the room. No formal greetings or whatever, they just come in talking about how they're having a bad day, etc. I'm again like a deer caught in the headlights but these first meetings usually lead to long-term regulars. None of them had any "open minded" on them either from my vague memory.

Girls can sometimes be so hard to figure out!

So many opinions on what "open-minded" means.....

In my view, "open-minded" means:

1. You will have to spend more money than shown on the price list, and
2. The girl will do a good sales job on you to see how much $$$ she can get out of you in the room for how little she could get away with.

I've been around this who thing for too many years. There is simply NO other definition of open-minded.

Painful reminder: The shops and girls objective is business. To get the maximum dollars for the least effort, without losing your business. The girl is not in love with you and thinking "oh, I love him so much, I want to do all I can to make him happy and satisfied."

Your objective is to get maximum bang for your buck for the least dollar amount.

The two objectives are in conflict.