Anyone recently quited punting ?

Thanks a lot , I am really grateful for the geniune suggestion and efforts. I have thought through and will be keeping myself away from the forum and such contents, keep busy with friends circle and other productive stuff. Will be limiting myself to massage once a month, deep tissue massage along with cupping in my regular legit massage place with health rebate, where my regular does bit of like lingam and amazing balls play near the end of session and release on the end on flip, with my absolute no physical involvement with massues like grabbing, touching or anything. If you are for good massage, and lot of bold play around your balls, shaft and oils up ass real good, then ask for Sasha in serenity in parramatta. If you just want the decent massage then also she is the absolute recommendation and if you are also looking for bit of play , tease and release then she will make you fucking moan and scream for real, but the best part is you can't do that as someone or even better when lady is getting a massage next to your curtain, that is bit of thrill I am loving, and then she milks your boy like a cow. I am not sure about other ladies there as I have never got massage from anyone else there, also I am not sure pricing and if these bold play is subjective to client, as I never requested or hinted for any these, she did bold play by herself. When she did it in second visit , I was suprised, thrilled and happy so tipped her pineapple she seemed happy and been tipping her same on following visit. Please respectful to Sasha as she is nice lady and amazing massues.

I will just stick to this plan, I think once a month with good massage and release is pretty reasonable to lowkey maintain the urge of punt , and can go for a long run.

Thanks for the help, I owe you all beers.

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Originally Posted by urmumsurdad

Hey mate, hope you’re alright. I feel ya.

I’ve quit entirely recently after going at it for the past 2.5 years I’d say or thereabouts. I’m a young fella, pair that with stuff I use, I’ve got an insane libido and full of energy.

That being said, reason I quit is because it’s time to really get serious with my life and honestly, I’m done indulging in such degeneracy.

Had a good reflection of myself and what I wanted out of life. As a result, didn’t gradually reduce my punting frequency, just stopped cold turkey.

The thought of punting does go through my mind every now and then, and the urge does appear but thank god for that deep reflection because it’s honestly stuck with me and has been the catalyst for my change and the thing that keeps me in check.

I’ll admit, it was fun. It was a good stress reliever and a form of escapism.

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Thanks a lot , deep reflection do help when thoughts of mindlessly going for punt comes up

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I'm in the top tax bracket and single. So it's no brainer for me.

If you think about building a family, or even a possibility of it, also please avoid. This shit is pure degeneracy.

Also 2-3x a week is excessive, please have self control. Once a week at most

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This site is full of mentally ill guys. I'd say at least 90% of them are fucked up mentally, and maybe even upwards of 95%. It's not so much just the degeneracy, which can be quite bad, but it's just how mentally fucked up these guys are. I reckon if you saw many irl, you'd think they were absolute fucking losers of society. That wouldn't be so bad in itself if they didn't talk like they were top shit.

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Originally Posted by qtron

This site is full of mentally ill guys. I'd say at least 90% of them are fucked up mentally, and maybe even upwards of 95%. It's not so much just the degeneracy, which can be quite bad, but it's just how mentally fucked up these guys are. I reckon if you saw many irl, you'd think they were absolute fucking losers of society. That wouldn't be so bad in itself if they didn't talk like they were top shit.

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The pot calling the kettle black

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Originally Posted by massageangel

Sex Addiction / Compulsive Behaviour Check

Control
1. I’ve tried to cut down or stop… and
failed
2. I tell myself “last time” but repeat it
3. I go further than I planned (time,
money, intensity)

Preoccupation
4. I think about sex / porn / escorts a lot
during the day
5. It distracts me from work or important tasks
6. I plan opportunities around it

Escalation
7. I need more frequency or intensity
than before
8. Things that used to satisfy me don’t
anymore
9. I’ve drifted into stuff I didn’t originally
intend to do

Emotional use
10. I use it when stressed, bored, lonely,
or low
11. It gives temporary relief, then drops off
12. I feel pulled to it when I’m not feeling
good

Consequences
13. It has affected my work, focus, or
energy
14. It has affected relationships or trust
15. I’ve spent more money than I should
on it

Risk / secrecy
16. I hide it (phones, apps, lies, double
life)
17. I’ve taken risks I normally wouldn’t
18. I’d be uncomfortable if people knew
the full extent

Aftermath
19. I feel guilt, shame, or regret afterward
20. I still go back to it anyway
21. I feel restless or off when I try to stop

• 0–5 YES → Normal / high libido territory
• 6–10 YES → Grey zone (watch it)
• 11–15 YES → Problem pattern forming
• 16+ YES → Likely compulsive / addictive
pattern

Try this

Stop completely for 30 days
• Easy → you’re in control
• Difficult but doable → habit
• Can’t do it / keep relapsing → compulsion

And them if you recognise you are in the shit and prepared to make change

Call a counsellor

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Why "Call a counsellor"? Just drop a post as this joint has all sorts of counsellors, subject matter experts, health specialists, and accomplished sexologists....and the best bit, I don't cost you a fucken cent.

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Originally Posted by qtron

This site is full of mentally ill guys. I'd say at least 90% of them are fucked up mentally, and maybe even upwards of 95%. It's not so much just the degeneracy, which can be quite bad, but it's just how mentally fucked up these guys are. I reckon if you saw many irl, you'd think they were absolute fucking losers of society. That wouldn't be so bad in itself if they didn't talk like they were top shit.

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I think most of us are just pretty average blokes with different views on things. Same as how society is generally. Difference is that here we can say what we are truly thinking, so it can seem pretty messed up at times. Can’t do that out in the real world.

I reckon if you visit any other blokes-only internet forum, you’d see the same amount of bs. Maybe even more in some forums.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Why "Call a counsellor"? Just drop a post as this joint has all sorts of counsellors, subject matter experts, health specialists, and accomplished sexologists....and the best bit, I don't cost you a fucken cent.

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lol, just read my threads and you’ll be alright.

Hey mate,

From my experience I’d recommend getting off this forum first and foremost. Reading posts and reviews and seeing the daily line up has lured me in the past when I’ve previously wanted to stop.

I’d also recommend writing up some goals in your normal daily life to keep yourself busy. Simple things like gym targets, exercise targets, getting x amount of fresh air etc.

Slowly build up, quitting cold turkey isn’t easy but first step might be as simple as going once a fortnight and instead of 2-3 times per week. Just don’t give up and punish yourself if you slip up. Everyone does. If you do want to quit then best of luck to you

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Originally Posted by qtron

This site is full of mentally ill guys. I'd say at least 90% of them are fucked up mentally, and maybe even upwards of 95%. It's not so much just the degeneracy, which can be quite bad, but it's just how mentally fucked up these guys are. I reckon if you saw many irl, you'd think they were absolute fucking losers of society. That wouldn't be so bad in itself if they didn't talk like they were top shit.

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Not sure about the stats or the mental illness aspect, but it's clear a lot appear live vicariously through this site, invariably on here, commenting widely, advocating, having the time and inclination to dig up and ressurect 10yr old threads etc.
It's a choice some make I guess.

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Originally Posted by rubicon

Not sure about the stats or the mental illness aspect, but it's clear a lot appear live vicariously through this site, invariably on here, commenting widely, advocating, having the time and inclination to dig up and ressurect 10yr old threads etc.
It's a choice some make I guess.

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Half the blokes here have archeology backgrounds

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Originally Posted by Travel420

Hey mate,

From my experience I’d recommend getting off this forum first and foremost. Reading posts and reviews and seeing the daily line up has lured me in the past when I’ve previously wanted to stop.

I’d also recommend writing up some goals in your normal daily life to keep yourself busy. Simple things like gym targets, exercise targets, getting x amount of fresh air etc.

Slowly build up, quitting cold turkey isn’t easy but first step might be as simple as going once a fortnight and instead of 2-3 times per week. Just don’t give up and punish yourself if you slip up. Everyone does. If you do want to quit then best of luck to you

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Wise words Travel420. Another suggestion for giving up is letting one of the young lovely Japanese fifo girls wring an extra $100 out of you and come home with a dose of the clap. Works wonders.

I haven't done punting for ages. Trying to save money.. 😭😅

1. Jerk off as soon as the desire creeps in. Your desire will be gone immediately.
2. Go traveling for a month minimum, away from Sydney.
3. Stop visiting this forum and the Roster page.
4. Get a girlfriend

Ranked by difficulties and effectiveness

1 is very easy anyone can do it.

From 2 to 3 punts a week. I'm down to 1 or 2 a month. I saw a WL regularly for a few years and had lost interest in her.

I still see a young WL once or twice a month. Every visit is a memorable one. She is expensive. Sometimes I add tips on top of her high fees. That's how good she is.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

1. Jerk off as soon as the desire creeps in. Your desire will be gone immediately.
2. Go traveling for a month minimum, away from Sydney.
3. Stop visiting this forum and the Roster page.
4. Get a girlfriend

Ranked by difficulties and effectiveness

1 is very easy anyone can do it.

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Is 1 the most effective and 4 the least effective or the other way around?

I’ve lost the thrill in punting these days once I see a girl 3 times I lose interest in them and I feel like there’s nothing more to chase in the punting scene.

Also it’s hela expensive can’t have a decent punt under $150-200 for a basic massage and HJ everytime I spend that on a punt I say to myself I could’ve put that towards the house.

I’ve quit caffeine recently and all my impulsive urges are gone to do these things.

Also actually seeing fellow punters in waiting areas that are like 60 made the experience feel gross.

I wouldn’t say Il completely stop in the future but Il keep it for a special occasion if I don’t feel like pursuing a normal woman outside.

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Originally Posted by qtron

This site is full of mentally ill guys. I'd say at least 90% of them are fucked up mentally, and maybe even upwards of 95%. It's not so much just the degeneracy, which can be quite bad, but it's just how mentally fucked up these guys are. I reckon if you saw many irl, you'd think they were absolute fucking losers of society. That wouldn't be so bad in itself if they didn't talk like they were top shit.

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I'm amused when people come onto a punting site to talk shit about punting.

What the matter schnookums, upset that we like to fuck or something?

You go and have yourself an angry wank and cry when you come because you're so ashamed of it all.

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Originally Posted by johncitizen

I think most of us are just pretty average blokes with different views on things. Same as how society is generally. Difference is that here we can say what we are truly thinking, so it can seem pretty messed up at times. Can’t do that out in the real world.

I reckon if you visit any other blokes-only internet forum, you’d see the same amount of bs. Maybe even more in some forums.

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The guys on here are definitely not "average blokes". There's not enough of a cross section of society in these forums for that. This is a punting forum, by nature, it will be infested with regular guys who just like to punt. One could argue frequent punters are mostly losers, which I would tend to agree with. The guys on here range from fairly normal to absolutely batshit insane. Most lie somewhere in between probably. Just look at the shit that gets posted.

Well, @88bangbang, if seeing old men in "waiting areas that are like 60" make you feel gross, I wonder why a much younger man like you need to pay for sex. ☹️
After all, you are a younger and handsome man, and beautiful women should be throwing themselves at you, offering sex for free.
Leave brothels and massage shops for us older men who can't pull the girls for free.

Give us a break, will you. ��

P.S. when you get to 60 years of age sooner or later, will you stop punting because you make other men "feel gross"???

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Originally Posted by 88bangbang

I’ve quit caffeine recently and all my impulsive urges are gone to do these things.

Also actually seeing fellow punters in waiting areas that are like 60 made the experience feel gross.

I wouldn’t say Il completely stop in the future but Il keep it for a special occasion if I don’t feel like pursuing a normal woman outside.

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