Am i dating a WL

I think some sort of experiment is being conducted here:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...35#post2823735

Thanks for the replies, including the critical ones

after speaking to her about it, she denies it all but her explanations don't add up so i've walked away.

the 2 phones she explained as 1 for family and the other for friends here, only the friends here one only receives SMS messages, who uses SMS any more for their friends, its always whatsapp, insta, FB messenger, line, wechat

the condoms she explained that in the past guys haven't had them and she had pregnancy scare so when meeting a new guy she brings one in case he doesn't.

the not been able to meet was she was working, although i know the place she works and have been there one of the nights and she wasn't there.

Either way, shes gone from my life, feel like I've dodged a bullet on her.

An old regular WL whom
I haven’t seen for a few months now called me yesterday. I couldn’t pick up so we played phone tag for a while. She ended up messaging me saying that she pocket dialled me. I think she is in love with me, I am getting married with a WL folks 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Originally Posted by ditchtheboss

An old regular WL whom
I haven’t seen for a few months now called me yesterday. I couldn’t pick up so we played phone tag for a while. She ended up messaging me saying that she pocket dialled me. I think she is in love with me, I am getting married with a WL folks ��������

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I make wedding cake . Do you need such a service? :)

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Originally Posted by Sibon

I make wedding cake . Do you need such a service? :)

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That will be great. I just thought than when a punter marries a WL, the party should be an orgy

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Originally Posted by bigdaddyd

I meet this girl out at a club about 6 weeks ago, hit it off and seen her each week since.

been a punter i know some red flags with WL which has me suspicious she might be one.

she has 2 phones, 1 is always receiving messages from numbers that aren't saved, more so in the afternoon until early in the morning. can't be her "work" as she's a waitress at a restaurant
she is never available at night on thursday - sunday, always busy
she always has her hair, nails and make-up done, im always calling her and she's at the salon, like weekly
always has mutliple condoms with her in her bag

anyone seen her at a shop or as a private escort?

im not far in this yet but if she is or was im out, i have no interest in dating a WL

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Nothing wrong spending time with a WL. keeping safe boundaries and knowing what roles you play is the key. befriending and spending time for me is ok. on the other side of the coin, if it's love, I wouldn't close any windows but will prefer to just stay away from love.

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Originally Posted by huskywesley51

Nothing wrong spending time with a WL. keeping safe boundaries and knowing what roles you play is the key. befriending and spending time for me is ok. on the other side of the coin, if it's love, I wouldn't close any windows but will prefer to just stay away from love.

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How do you tell the difference between love and lust? The OP I wonder if hes banging her for free? If so why give up a good thing? No need to get serious just fuck her and be friends at the same time.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

How do you tell the difference between love and lust? The OP I wonder if hes banging her for free? If so why give up a good thing? No need to get serious just fuck her and be friends at the same time.

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If he can "walk away" so easily, how good do you think that thing could be?

All the signs were so obvious that surely this post in the first place was pulling our legs

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Originally Posted by bigdaddyd

Thanks for the replies, including the critical ones

after speaking to her about it, she denies it all but her explanations don't add up so i've walked away.

the 2 phones she explained as 1 for family and the other for friends here, only the friends here one only receives SMS messages, who uses SMS any more for their friends, its always whatsapp, insta, FB messenger, line, wechat

the condoms she explained that in the past guys haven't had them and she had pregnancy scare so when meeting a new guy she brings one in case he doesn't.

the not been able to meet was she was working, although i know the place she works and have been there one of the nights and she wasn't there.

Either way, shes gone from my life, feel like I've dodged a bullet on her.

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And you could've done all that without posting a thing

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Originally Posted by bigdaddyd

I meet this girl out at a club about 6 weeks ago, hit it off and seen her each week since.

been a punter i know some red flags with WL which has me suspicious she might be one.

she has 2 phones, 1 is always receiving messages from numbers that aren't saved, more so in the afternoon until early in the morning. can't be her "work" as she's a waitress at a restaurant
she is never available at night on thursday - sunday, always busy
she always has her hair, nails and make-up done, im always calling her and she's at the salon, like weekly
always has mutliple condoms with her in her bag

anyone seen her at a shop or as a private escort?

im not far in this yet but if she is or was im out, i have no interest in dating a WL

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yes she is an escort but all good have fun and enjoy it as long as this lasts.
i suppose you know that you cannot be in real relationship with an active ml /wl so enjoy it and be ready this to end at any time, these girls have at least 2 to 3 men that seeing the same time and another 3 on hold ... you know what I mean.

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Originally Posted by NC3

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yes she is an escort but all good have fun and enjoy it as long as this lasts.
i suppose you know that you cannot be in real relationship with an active ml /wl so enjoy it and be ready this to end at any time, these girls have at least 2 to 3 men that seeing the same time and another 3 on hold ... you know what I mean.

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.....the dreaded cock carousel

Love/Lust is a fucken drug and it's addictive and most lads will struggle with going cold turkey. An STD is somewhat of a short term fix but it takes testicular fortitude and a backbone for a bloke to be able to say fuck off, and simply walk away without looking/turning back....it can be liberating when you do it right and a solid rotation (ie safety net) does make it easier.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

.....the dreaded cock carousel

Love/Lust is a fucken drug and it's addictive and most lads will struggle with going cold turkey. An STD is somewhat of a short term fix but it takes testicular fortitude and a backbone for a bloke to be able to say fuck off, and simply walk away without looking/turning back....it can be liberating when you do it right and a solid rotation (ie safety net) does make it easier.

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‘Testicular fortitude’ :miao: brilliant! I can just picture the late, great Ollie Reed saying something like that!

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Originally Posted by ditchtheboss

An old regular WL whom
I haven’t seen for a few months now called me yesterday. I couldn’t pick up so we played phone tag for a while. She ended up messaging me saying that she pocket dialled me. I think she is in love with me, I am getting married with a WL folks 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I just got one of those via Wechat. Hadn't seen her since COVID. A sign that business is slow and she's pinging previous customers

Yes I see her every Thursday!

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

.....the dreaded cock carousel

Love/Lust is a fucken drug and it's addictive and most lads will struggle with going cold turkey. An STD is somewhat of a short term fix but it takes testicular fortitude and a backbone for a bloke to be able to say fuck off, and simply walk away without looking/turning back....it can be liberating when you do it right and a solid rotation (ie safety net) does make it easier.

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'''most lads will struggle with going cold turkey''' ... No Double_Adapter, the opposite, most of the men are manage these girls very easily because they know that these ladies have at least 2 to 3 men that seeing the same time and another 3 on hold. Only a desperate man / a man with low self esteem can be trapped from an active ml / wl. These girls just want fun / free holidays or sponsor or rarely to be just real friends. So enjoy to the max the 'adventure', but be ready, this, to end anytime.
Any man with common sense cannot [ no way ] be trapped by an active ml / wl ... it is so simple.

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Originally Posted by NC3

'These girls just want fun / free holidays or sponsor or rarely to be just real friends.

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If you know what you’re getting into then so be it.

The punter and the WL both get what they want.

Everyone is happy.

That’s all that matters.

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Originally Posted by NC3

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'''most lads will struggle with going cold turkey''' ... No Double_Adapter, the opposite, most of the men are manage these girls very easily because they know that these ladies have at least 2 to 3 men that seeing the same time and another 3 on hold. Only a desperate man / a man with low self esteem can be trapped from an active ml / wl. These girls just want fun / free holidays or sponsor or rarely to be just real friends. So enjoy to the max the 'adventure', but be ready, this, to end anytime.
Any man with common sense cannot [ no way ] be trapped by an active ml / wl ... it is so simple.

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I bet some men do get trapped by a WL and end up the WL moves in with them even maybe some cases married the WL? Its very easy for a man thinking with his cock and not his head to lose himself with WL who is in a way seducing him. It should be cut and dry simple man pays women performs they do the business then wait till the next hook up. But I think many guys are weak in the knees around some of these WLs especially if shes giving hot blow jobs and bareback sex on a weekly basis. Its easier when the guy is married the WL can't trap him. Glad I have a missus my regular can't trap me.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

I bet some men do get trapped by a WL and end up the WL moves in with them even maybe some cases married the WL? It’s very easy for a man thinking with his cock and not his head to lose himself with WL who is in a way seducing him. It should be cut and dry simple man pays women performs they do the business then wait till the next hook up. But I think many guys are weak in the knees around some of these WLs especially if shes giving hot blow jobs and bareback sex on a weekly basis. It’s easier when the guy is married the WL can't trap him. Glad I have a missus my regular can't trap me.

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Previously I was infatuated with a hot Thai WL. She wanted me to put her up in an apartment in Burwood, which I could have easily done.

I did one better, I got my mate to take her in.

Still had my fun and so did he.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Previously I was infatuated with a hot Thai WL. She wanted me to put her up in an apartment in Burwood, which I could have easily done.

I did one better, I got my mate to take her in.

Still had my fun and so did he.

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perfect, you know, definitely you don't live in an illusion world.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Previously I was infatuated with a hot Thai WL. She wanted me to put her up in an apartment in Burwood, which I could have easily done.

I did one better, I got my mate to take her in.

Still had my fun and so did he.

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Those hot Thai and Asian WLs are the best ones to play with, my Chinese one she often jokes I should buy her an apartment in China. I won't lol. Yesterday she said if I wasn't hitched she would be moving in with me :)

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Originally Posted by NC3

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perfect, you know, definitely you don't live in an illusion world.

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It probably started him off in the business… whether that was a good thing?

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

Those hot Thai and Asian WLs are the best ones to play with, my Chinese one she often jokes I should buy her an apartment in China. I won't lol. Yesterday she said if I wasn't hitched she would be moving in with me :)

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Some of them are already committed methinks.

Besides what happens if you lose interest?

Would the arrangement end amicably?

So far I haven't lost interest in years of seeing mine on the side but I am sure other guys lose interest in their regulars. If you lived with one regular WL and lost interest that's just not going to end well. I imagine she would still be seeing other guys whilst living with a client guy and probably any break up she would be suing for what ever $$$ she could get from the guy? I think these days just living in a relationship for 6 months the girl is entitled to 50% of the guys assets and money. I'm not sure how many guys lived with an ML they liked and how it ended up for them. Infatuation lust or love is a bitch if you can't get a WL your seeing off your mind. Not that easy for the guy to walk away. True some regular MLs may already be in a relationship who knows. And who knows how much the WLs partner knows. Mines bought over several of her Asian married friends for me to play. Apparently their hubbies haven't a clue.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

I bet some men do get trapped by a WL and end up the WL moves in with them even maybe some cases married the WL? Its very easy for a man thinking with his cock and not his head to lose himself with WL who is in a way seducing him. It should be cut and dry simple man pays women performs they do the business then wait till the next hook up. But I think many guys are weak in the knees around some of these WLs especially if shes giving hot blow jobs and bareback sex on a weekly basis. Its easier when the guy is married the WL can't trap him. Glad I have a missus my regular can't trap me.

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... '''end up the WL moves in with them even maybe some cases married the WL?''' - JSteel, any man who move or married an active ml /wl [ unless they do 'business', the girl offers money and he is 'helping' her for the visa ] he does this because ... has mental issues or he is desperate or has low self esteem or simply his penis control his life ... and that is very sad.
Any man with common sense can manage these ladies so easily.