Quote Originally Posted by bigdaddyd View Post
I meet this girl out at a club about 6 weeks ago, hit it off and seen her each week since.

been a punter i know some red flags with WL which has me suspicious she might be one.

she has 2 phones, 1 is always receiving messages from numbers that aren't saved, more so in the afternoon until early in the morning. can't be her "work" as she's a waitress at a restaurant
she is never available at night on thursday - sunday, always busy
she always has her hair, nails and make-up done, im always calling her and she's at the salon, like weekly
always has mutliple condoms with her in her bag

anyone seen her at a shop or as a private escort?

im not far in this yet but if she is or was im out, i have no interest in dating a WL
Nothing wrong spending time with a WL. keeping safe boundaries and knowing what roles you play is the key. befriending and spending time for me is ok. on the other side of the coin, if it's love, I wouldn't close any windows but will prefer to just stay away from love.