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How OP fares will depend only on his mental strength, IMO. It's not about the girls, it's about us.
Everyone is saying don't do this, don't do that, but does he have the mental fortitude to do it? Is he the type to easily go head over heels for a girl, or he's a stone cold SOB?
Good luck to the OP from me.
Bro, here’s the deal: you’re out here thinking you’re falling for this girl, but lemme break it down like this – you’re not in love. You’re in emotional confusion, because this situation’s all kinds of messy, like when you’re on a smooth ride, but the GPS sends you through the worst possible neighborhood.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212
Let’s keep it real: she’s got a boyfriend, you’re sneaking around, and now you’re feeling some type of way because of the “nat sex” (which, by the way, always gets dudes caught up – it’s that mind trick, man). But here’s the kicker – you’re in a transactional setup, and she’s playing two roles: one for her boyfriend, and one for you. Now, that sounds like a business deal to me. If you’re paying for service, don’t expect to catch feelings. It’s like buying a cheeseburger and proposing to the cook.
In the immortal words of my man, Meng, “Even if she leaves her BF for you, how long until you’re the next dude hiding texts?” It’s like swapping places, but this time you’re the sucker in the cycle. And don’t even start with “she’s Japanese so she’s honest” – bro, honesty ain’t got a nationality, it’s got actions. And these actions? All kinds of red flags.
You’ve got a therapist? Nah, man, you’ve got someone getting paid to make people feel good. You’re the customer, so don’t confuse that good feeling with love.
Here’s the advice: you need to detach. Take a deep breath and realize, you’re not her savior, and this ain’t a rom-com. The best thing you can do for your own sanity is to hit the brakes, pull a “Forrest Gump” and run, because if you don’t, you’ll end up more messed up than when you started. She’s gonna keep living her life, and you’ll be sitting there all twisted up.
Pull back somewhat and see what her reaction is…
May become apparent she quickly moves on to the next sucker… or it emerged that she also strangely is developing feelings for you, or at least genuinely likes spending time… she may not even want you to date her, just a release from her life that she may not be happy with?
Good luck
Old white man issues right there
It's quite normal for Japanese WLs to provide BBFS in Japan, it's a norm in their culture so I don't think her letting you go in naturally should be taken as a sign that she has feelings for you
How so? Genuinely curious about this as I assume when it.comes to being ruthless, thai women would take first place due the need for money and also the culture and normalcy of sex tourism.Quote:
Originally Posted by Meng
I'd assumed jap girls are more submissive to men due to the culture and also not coming from a poorer country like other girls do.
It's the law of opposites Blowsie.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows
'The stronger the light, the darker the shadows'.
The more sweet demure etc they seem, there's a raging suppressed demon under there deadset. Or the opposite, the louder and more intimidating a guy tries to sound the more likely he is a wailing coward.
The quiet controlled ones in the face of violence are the ones who will fuck you sideways and bend you into a pretzel.
Normalcy of sex tourism doesn't automatically mean they become money hungry etc. it's just another 'job'. But just like anything, if they can make more money off you why not? That's not money 'hungry' it's just taking advantage of naivety. If you are willing to pay 1000 for something worth 100, that's not their fault necessarily.
I have yet to meet a money hungry Thai, except maybe Jolie from chill massage but I cant recall of the top of my head if she was Thai.
Anyway, as usual these type of posts attract way more replies than it should 😂
@FOx I have to agree with brother @JJBlows
Thai women take first place when it comes to ruthlessness and being money hungry.
There have been many old bald fat Farangs who lost their entire life savings, hundreds of thousands of dollars to Thai women. Some even delete(kill) themselves over this
And these Thai women have no regret or remorse about it. They just find the next Farang to scam. There have been many documented stories of Farangs being set up to be killed by their Thai Wives/GF's to inherit their money or get their life insurance money.
Its like their entire culture & religion revolves around money
Japanese girls from my experience at least have morals & ethics over this. Thai women will kill you for money.
Remind me not to hang around the Thai girls you know!Quote:
Originally Posted by mn69
😂😂😂
I do think this is a big case of Baader-Meinhof syndrome.
Look it up.
Trust me happens all the time. You then start seeing everything they do as something money hungry or ruthless, because thats all your looking for.
It's like when you have a Wife or missus who only ever sees what you DIDNT do. They don't give a shit that you fixed that door, built the storage shed, lugged a fucking 30kg bag of rice in for her, or made sure the smoke alarm batteries were changed.
Nah she'll have a colossal whinge over the fact you out your single coffee mug next to the sink without washing it.
I feel for the OP it’s the power of the pussy and he has succumb to it !
We all been there
I have no problems with a hottie taking all my money, I can’t take it with me. Knowing what we know though, if one is getting into this game, you might as well play the game and anticipate her moves. Sure you will loose some money just play the game ahead of her, fuck a hottie for an extended period of time and move on before she kills you or takes all of your money.Quote:
Originally Posted by mn69
Actually just as I type this I get tired of thinking how much trouble it would be to stay ahead and play the game. Far better to just pay fuck and leave
Old mate needs to start barebacking/CIP more girls so he has the variety and multiple options open to him instead of getting whipped over that one girl and realise they are all the same in the end.Quote:
Originally Posted by Elbortomorton
I can understand from doing it in rubbers and then have that one girl who makes you feel special plays with your head but when you have a few girls who are selective and let you CIP, then it's easier to get back into the habit of proper punting instead of being delusional. Some girls are naturally good hearted but others are just fucked
So I’ve dated a few and in my opinion yes they’re all in it for the money. On my first date with one she asked “where all my money was”? She then suggested it was “in a trust” and I agreed. Pretty forthright don’t you think?
jeezus, Fox are we married to the same woman ???Quote:
Originally Posted by F0x
Hahaha, you just described mine too!Quote:
Originally Posted by snot77
Love is a big word. Enjoy the intimacy and fantasy of love but be aware at some point, it will end.
I remember doing 3 loads of washing while the ex was out with the kids one sunday, hanging it all up on the line and those stupid trestles she bought while vacuuming and mopping in between loads. When she got home she looked around and the first words that came out of her mouth were "You didn't separate the whites and the colours did you!?!?!?"
And this is why men punt 😂
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Situation pretty fucked up
Fyi guys:
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).
Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.
Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.
One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .
Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.
I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. 🥹🥹
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Originally Posted by snot77
Its uncanny isn't it lolQuote:
Originally Posted by DireStraits
Fyi guys:Quote:
Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).
Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.
Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.
One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .
Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.
I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. 🥹🥹
This ain't just the Thai girls I know. Its all of them.Quote:
Originally Posted by F0x
I read it up. Its interesting, but no way bro, this ain't Baader-Meinhof Syndrome 555
There's truth to it & its a fact. I pretty much lived in Thailand. You can't make this shit up LOL Every Thai girl is all about money. Doesn't matter if theyre a "normal" girl or a bargirl/ML/WL
Its embedded in their culture. Theyre all about "showing face" & "saving face". And the biggest way to "show face" for a Thai is to have money & to show it to everyone
So basically how a Thai girl thinks, is "What can this Farang do for me & my family?"
Look, I haven't been to Thailand for anything more than a tourist visit, so you do have more experience than me I'll give you that, but I do still think it's a case of BM.Quote:
Originally Posted by mn69
It's very easy to interpret behaviour or actions any way you want, and this is especially true in heightened emotional states. I.e that Hyena laugh your missus has sounds like the bells of the heavens if you are in the honeymoon phase.
You don't care that your best mate completely fucked up your living room while on the piss because you love him as a mate.
In this example:
Thai girl comes over and she is friendly chatty and warm
Oh shit she is trying to get in good with so she can take my money.
Thai girl comes over and is shy, introvert bit withdrawn etc
Oh shit she's all quiet and stuff must be plotting to take my money
Thai girl is dressed in normal clothes
Oh shit she isn't dressed in high fashion, she probably wants someone with money to get her good clothes etc
Thai girl is dressed like she's at a Billionaires yacht
Oh shit, she dressed to the nines. Must be a gold digger needing a sugar daddy.
See how easy it is to just keep on seeing things in a certain way?
I have a new regular ML actually who is Thai, and she shared some stories about her bar girl days etc. When it came time to tip, I gave her standard. She thanked me for coming and have me a hug on the way out etc.
Next time I went to see her, no change in her attitude or demeanour just because I didn't give her more. She was due to be on holidays, so I ended up tipping her more so she had a bit for holidays. She was over the moon, and asked me immediately if I wanted round 2 then and there. I wasn't up for it due to time but thats been my experience with Thai girls.
Honestly not really had a Thai girl be money hungry to me, so as I said, I don't want to meet the ones your seeing!
It’s almost as if you’re saying they’re all very superficial :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by mn69