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You hit the nail right on the head here mate. Especially the bit about being friends with the girl. You can't fuck her when you are just friends but she goes to work and fucks 7 dudes each day. Will drive you insane.Quote:
Originally Posted by otokosg
Lots of good advice from the Bros and sounds like you had a great time with the ML and great memories from that. Hope that wasn’t the cause of the breakdown with your marriage or a factor that escalated it. Best way to cut your feelings is to move on. If you fall in love with another ML, keep it in the shop. Better that way. It is hard but better for you emotionally and financially.
Enjoy your punts that you have lined up. But I don’t think it is a good idea to vent to the ML. Just enjoy your time and forget the bad memories.
WTF man. But Surely she knows you are already married, if you are doing this to your wife, the ML will be thinking, he could go behind my back when we are together too. And now that she met a non punter BF, she feels safer with him. At least she knows less chance of him punting behind her back.
Sorry man, usually I'm sympathetic when the girls flake out on guys all of a sudden like that other poster that was seeing the Jap ML. But punting and pursuing a MLrelationship behind your wife is no go zone. I'm all on the side of the ML in this case. You should just forget about this and go back to your wife or at least give her a settlement.
No it wasnt, marriage is already going downhill before i met her, but i havent gone into a seperation as i know it cost money.. meeting her is like a confirmation on my issue there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nekman
I'll try to not vent out but needed maybe gfe service to take my minds out of her. Thanks bro.
Yes she knows, she actually tried to talk me out of it, telling me to keep trying fix things up at home. I have tried, long before i met her, its up to the point where nothing can fix it anymore. Meeting her is a kick for me to go through it and i'm in the process of it now.Quote:
Originally Posted by sukeong
SPOT ON!Quote:
Originally Posted by otokosg
The ML sure was dating a few guys at once and the OP was just one of those. She got free meals, some fun, some financial help and now she found a guy who she likes more than the OP so she distant herself from the OP.
Many punters in this forum are 40+ years old with lifetime of experience, they're all telling you it's a no go so move on.
takasitau, you should move on, keep it as fond memories. Love doesn't last forever and you will soon find another girl.
Top advice. All you see is advice here to let her go and move on. Have never done it and never will. Punters need variety the ML needs more guys like you
it will never work out due to the circumstances you both met.
A women will not stay in a normal relationship with someone knows her past life as a sex worker, never.
I have fallen in love years ago with a girl that we met at hotel sauna club back in China. I was so madly in love with her. Although I clearly knew that it won't work out, It took myself 5~6 months to recover after I separated from her.
Not all sex workers are bad. There are many girls that I met in brothels, massage polars etc. I can tell could be a perfect partner for me if we met in normal life. But because they knew I went to brother and I knew they work there, it will not work out as a normal relationship.
I have seen a Japanese girl for many times. She worked at one of the most famous shop. After we met 13 times, we started dating outside. But we have been keeping the boundary very clear. We never have sex outside. She never asked for any financial gifts. She insisted to pay some of the bills so that she didn't owe me anything. We just spent some time. She was alone in Australia. I wanted some dating fun outside of sex. We got what we needed. If I wanted sex, I went back to the shop to meet her. That's been our happy relationship until she went back to Tokyo. I am sure if I travel to Tokyo, she wouldn't mind go out for a dinner or something with me.
Although you may say you don't mind what she did before, but she does, definitely. You can't fix that. So just keep the good memory and move on.
DW bro she will always cherish those dick pic conversation for the rest of her life ....
could be the other way round .... maybe she think she is the obstacle between you and your wife's relationship and thats why shes distancing from you ... could be a test lol ... if you really love her keep seeing her and this time give her a bigger donation ... she'll be crawling back in no time :)
I do know somebody who has married an ex WL. He is Aussie, she is Chinese.
They are happy together and have been together for a number of years so that is the first "happy ending" I have heard of, so it is possible. She has not worked for several years.
I know one where it worked too. But many do not. It’s not so much about looking back to the past. People can often put the past behind them. But people who are used to pretending feelings for money can be dangerous because they are simply dishonest, or even if they are not, dangerous because their feelings are unclear, and because they may suddenly change course when they think they see a better opportunity in a world where they are desperate for money through financial stress or simply desire. many are wonderful girls. Just not easy to work out and work with towards a happy life together.
I often wonder if you ended up married to a WL what your sex life would be like. She would have seen and experienced so many sexual highs in her life, would a monthly mish session with her husband cut it ?
Most likely inhibited.
Are you talking about yourself here?Quote:
Originally Posted by Brothelcreeper
If it is all over with your wife and you are definitely leaving any chance of an intro?Quote:
Originally Posted by takasitau
I suppose it is going to take me few months at least to recover too.. thanks for your wordsQuote:
Originally Posted by holi_day