Nah don’t sweat it dude . We all can be awkward with our expression.. or just type like an ass smells . besides a suppository would taste sweeterQuote:
Originally Posted by 4647
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Nah don’t sweat it dude . We all can be awkward with our expression.. or just type like an ass smells . besides a suppository would taste sweeterQuote:
Originally Posted by 4647
Of course there are cases where a WL shares details of her private for less than honest purposes. Talk of finances is definitely a red flag!
But it is worth keeping in mind that most of the time WLs share personal details with punters simply because the punter is there, and punters are the only people they talk too all day or all week.
A lot of WLs work long shifts and many days of the week and don't have much of a social life outside of work, so punters are the people they see the most.
So if a WL talks to you about her personal life, don't panic, and don't over think, and over analyse it.
She is probably not trying to rip you off, and you are almost certainly not special or the only punter she tells these things too.
Just go with the flow. Of course if she is using it as a tactic to use up half of your session then cut the conversation short. Take the initiative. Don't be a pushover.
There are many shades of grey in between being a sucker/pushover and being an arsehole/bully.
i guess this is what concerms me.Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
if she told a potential stalker what she told me, she could be,,, well,,, stalked.... which is not very comfortable for her, and her family.
now as others have said, if a young wl gives out their inst details and a stalker stalks the young lady, and it only affects her alone. thats one thing., but, the wl in question, i know where here own daughter goes to school... that, i think, is another thing. telling this kind of information to the wrong punter could end up uncomfortable for not only the wl, but her daughter. i dont get why she done that.
Sir, nicely written your closing arguments . Erudite ..Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
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An interesting topic.
My experience of this was when the WL at our first time told me some things about herself. She then went into detail about how I made her feel.
My view at this point was that it was purely as a hook for me to come back.
Of course, I took the bait and went back.
Each time we saw each other her private life was more and more exposed. She continued to nurse my ego with her charm offensive.
Somehow she felt comfortable talking to me.
We took this friendship outside of our paid sessions (still continuing our paid sessions though), and she began to really open up.
As it turned out she told me she cherished our friendship as I listened to her and did not act as judge, jury, or executioner. Sex work is not a career for the feint hearted. This WL had no real friends, no real social life, and she would tell me that I was the only normal person in her life. She was always interested in my stories, which she always lapped up and told me how jealous she was of my somewhat “normal” life. She never wanted any money from me apart from paying to have sex with her, (although she did tell me about her precarious financial position which was rather scary to say the least) just an ear to chew, and someone to hold her. She told me that my positive energy was helping her to feel better about herself.
She had told me about her future plans and what her exit strategy was from the business would look like, and what she was going to do when she finally got out.
I though, interpreted this as something more. Her life was a mess and I felt that I was her knight in shining armour ready to whisk her away to the promised land.
I then started to discuss what this future would look like with me in it.
From there things began to fall apart.
Our last time together ended in disaster as she told me she was not ready for a relationship, and if I ever wanted to see her again it could only be if I paid to have sex with her. It was one of her many down days, and she was looking for a shoulder to cry on and to comfort her, not some overblown egotistical fool suggesting that I would be able to save her.
Lesson learned. There are some working girls who just want friends, They don’t have many, and that friendship has some special requirements. One being to be just that, a friend.
Somehow, I guessed the ending correctly after reading the first couple of paragraphs ! ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Zinzan
May be Zinzan’s WL was trying to save him first before saving herself ?
Mmmm! Sound like we are seeing the same girl. The story look similar. Can it be make up.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zinzan
I think they see it as part of their job to string customers.
more amusing is when you realise the ML is sharing the life stories of other punters . And likely yours, if you so inclined too divulge.
As for motivations and character. what we say here and how we say it on this forum, if there’s a skerrick of truth, is more of telling of us as a type, than ML’s as some homogenous succubus
I have been in the same situation before with a WL who told me her entire life story and other things that have happened to her after seeing her twice. At first I thought it was bullshit until she proved what she was saying was true. Not going to go into detail but I believed her. On the flip side, I have learnt to not get involved with WL's and have gone back to basics. Arrive at the shop, pay, fuck then leave. General chat is ok but nothing more beyond that. I think most WL girls have their own agendas and are of course only thinking about themselves.
Niceguy11 has spoken- close thread !
The reason why I barely use this forum anymore. Too many keyboard warriorsQuote:
Originally Posted by Dettol
With all due respect bro. You call yourself niceguy, and truth be told you do carry yourself in that fashion on the forum.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
The problem here is, you're doing all that in a forum that is dedicated to smut peddling, whoring and whoremongering. It's all about depravity and satisfying one's inner bad guy here. In a place like this, nobody likes a goody-two-shoes. You are like a shining white pearl in a sea of shit, that's the best analogy I can come up with, no offence intended.
You really are a nice guy. I wish you all the best in your real life adventures, just don't expect any reciprocal treatment from this shithole mate.
Thanks GoldfishMan. Will certainly keep that in mind moving forward. Agree with what you said as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
If a WL shares her private life with you, especially during a booking, then you’re definitely in the ‘friend’ category (if not the ‘easy customer to be lazy with’ category). LOL girls are not open and honest with guys they think are hot or desirable, at least until they’ve decided they’ve snared him. Guys like hot girls just like girls like hot boys, and it’s usually obvious because they’re trying to not make a fool of themselves. We’re all fools inside. Sigh, story of my life...
Respectful and genuine words, hat off to you mate. I liked the analogy too haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
@Niceguy IÂ’m similar to you in terms of sensitivity but just much more realistic now and more cognisant of the fact that 99% of working girls really are the same on some key metrics. It took 3 times getting emotionally/romantically involved with them to truly learn my lesson and stop looking at them through the lens of compassion. Not to say I treat them badly; on the contrary. But they can turn even the softest hearts dark haha. Someone made a comment in a thread once about the tendency of sex work to bring out some less desirable traits in the women, but I would say the same for us too!
Yeah man, I know what you mean.Quote:
Originally Posted by Basil22
That is a bit of a relief as we don’t have anyone lecturing us daily on the ins and outs of dating MLs and WLs
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Originally Posted by Niceguy11
White Knights are like a faded heart
Its not broken
Its not split
You can't save the other heart.
A true professional WL doesn’t just give sex, they give companionship AKA girlfriend experience GFE
Keyboard warrior...Quote:
Originally Posted by quackm2002
I don't mind sharing my private life with an ML. But it's friendship only. I don't mind helping out if they need anything ... to a point. Often they do as not having English as a first language for example.
I don't want it complicated ... but it's just so much nicer if we have some rapport when we get together.
I don’t think I post enough to qualify but thanks for the thought.
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Originally Posted by Niceguy11