An interesting topic.

My experience of this was when the WL at our first time told me some things about herself. She then went into detail about how I made her feel.

My view at this point was that it was purely as a hook for me to come back.

Of course, I took the bait and went back.

Each time we saw each other her private life was more and more exposed. She continued to nurse my ego with her charm offensive.

Somehow she felt comfortable talking to me.

We took this friendship outside of our paid sessions (still continuing our paid sessions though), and she began to really open up.

As it turned out she told me she cherished our friendship as I listened to her and did not act as judge, jury, or executioner. Sex work is not a career for the feint hearted. This WL had no real friends, no real social life, and she would tell me that I was the only normal person in her life. She was always interested in my stories, which she always lapped up and told me how jealous she was of my somewhat “normal” life. She never wanted any money from me apart from paying to have sex with her, (although she did tell me about her precarious financial position which was rather scary to say the least) just an ear to chew, and someone to hold her. She told me that my positive energy was helping her to feel better about herself.

She had told me about her future plans and what her exit strategy was from the business would look like, and what she was going to do when she finally got out.

I though, interpreted this as something more. Her life was a mess and I felt that I was her knight in shining armour ready to whisk her away to the promised land.

I then started to discuss what this future would look like with me in it.

From there things began to fall apart.

Our last time together ended in disaster as she told me she was not ready for a relationship, and if I ever wanted to see her again it could only be if I paid to have sex with her. It was one of her many down days, and she was looking for a shoulder to cry on and to comfort her, not some overblown egotistical fool suggesting that I would be able to save her.

Lesson learned. There are some working girls who just want friends, They don’t have many, and that friendship has some special requirements. One being to be just that, a friend.