Completely agree, Fred. I reckon this is even worse than dating a WL.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fred Flintstone
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Completely agree, Fred. I reckon this is even worse than dating a WL.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fred Flintstone
Some people like to try and fly close to the sunQuote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Like a moth to a flame. I mean, it’s perfectly fine to do your EX-colleague. That’s only 1 resignation letter away. If you’re that close to “The sun”, might as well take that last step if that’s really what you want.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows
Destroyed my first marriage in the early 80s, which was stuffed anyway, not the smartest thing you can do....The upside I got 2 great kids from my first marriage..............Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Well the carrot was dangling for me at one point. Lucky for me I’d already fucked up my marriage by then and was hooked up with a great girl. I just gave it a hard pass, didn’t mull over it (too much!).Quote:
Originally Posted by warwick1
These things destroy not only your marriage but your reputation in your industry as well. Never let a woman wield that kind of power over you!
You are not wrong! Unfortunately it was more than one woman...But my second wife , we were soulmates and she passed away............Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Working from home this week but I have a picture of Bettie Page on one wall, and a picture of Madonna on another wall, and a pic of Sophia Loren on another wall, and a picture of Nancy Kwan as Suzie Wong on the other wall and yeah I would definitely do all of them when they were in their prime.
My condolences. I can tell that she was special to you. We don't throw around that word "soulmate" frivolously, especially not us who are used to female contact through our punting. We do that to satisfy our human needs, we know where we stand.Quote:
Originally Posted by warwick1
Cherish your memories, drink to celebrate them, then carry on and live your life to the best you can, that's the best you can do now.
Wow what a cunt!Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows
Yes, I did with my office colleague.
yes, I did with my colleague. Its really interesting.
I work in sales as an early 30s but I’m in decent shape and there is a 21yo blonde who I get along with really well with, follow the same sports etc. I get innocuous texts from her on weekends usually sporting related but 100% I can fuck her if I wanted. I’ve got a partner and a young kid (unplanned and relationship has suffered as a result) but I just can’t do it. Not to be a good guy or anything (i punt after all) but because I don’t trust a fucking 21yo to be discreet about it and I’ve got too much to lose lol
You talking about me or her?Quote:
Originally Posted by ReginaldBubbles
I actually grew up on an outback station and at the age of 15 started working around the various stations in the district doing various jobs varying from electrical to plumbing to shearing or whatever was available.
It was interesting because I was actually meeting my fellow students from "school of the air" and exploring not only the district where I grew up but many surrounding areas.
In my travel some of these students where girls who I had met previously and in a few previous get togethers as we were growing up a lot of exploratory friendships where going on.
We all were exploring sex and in most cases I moved on and never returned. Eventually when I was 21 I moved to the big smoke (Brisbane) and worked in sales in the city. When I wanted to apply for a passport I first had to obtain a copy of my birth certificate and thats when I found out I was adopted and the named father was not the one I thought was my father. Let me explain,... it turned out my mother did not marry my biological father and the guy who she was living with was his cousin... yeah weird shit going on and eventually I changed my name to match my real father's and have used that for many many years.
I never returned to bush and basically forgot about it all and when I travelled eventually to japan fell in love with the place and stayed there.
It was only during my current trip that I started thinking about my old family and started researching my family and old acquaintances. Well it seems that all those years ago the girls who I had been screwing around with, well around 75% had children around 9 months after I left....
Should I consider them "office colleagues" ??
Thankfully I had changed my name, but I do wonder how many of those kids might be mine ??
(and I really do not want to know).
So you were the stud bull out on the stations?Quote:
Originally Posted by zacsuck
Nancy Kwan as Suzie Wong your taste Sir is excellent. I recall as a young sailor in Hong Kong visiting some of the places (those that were left at that time) and meeting numerous Suzie Wong's. But as time moves on few of the old world places survive now, my old haunts in Singapore have been bulldozed or gone all touristy. SighQuote:
Originally Posted by rooter
I'm surprised a poster of Racquel Welch from a million years b.c didn't make it to a wall.Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
Consider yourself as a farmer just sowing his oats. Good read.Quote:
Originally Posted by zacsuck
Thank you, I sent you a PM but your full upQuote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Probably okay to talk to female colleagues. However, wise not to misinterpret professional interest from a new young colleague with physical interest. If they have a personality disorder you could go through the ringer following one small move.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fred Flintstone
It goes both ways. A male colleague of mine who was as up for it as they come was being repeatedly hit on by his much older, sexually frustrated married female boss. He loved to fuck around and said that in a normal situation he would just fuck her if she wanted it. However, he actually felt quite uncomfortable being hit on by his boss, said that he resented the fact that she was putting him in this situation. The behaviour stopped on its own accord and he didn't have to do anything about it. It was useful to hear a relatable perspective on what harrassment can feel like. If her subordinate was militant about the situation that boss could end up in all sorts of shit.
That said I have often fantasized about fucking colleagues and not surprised it's a common porn scenario.
If you do make a move at work, make a personal note of the time date and description of the situation and word used. If there is no positive response then try no more. And just make sure they're not crazy before trying. Ask for consent before touching, even if it is just a discrete touch on the back. If they say no then it is a clear signal to back off.
Here she is! Is this the one on your wall?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nerius13
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There is a steamy Japanese movie about it you could watch:Quote:
Originally Posted by naughtyprik
会社での愛
I worked in a major retailer in the CBD for a few years in my early 20s. I'm pretty chill and can make people have a good time so eventually got to be known as the Friday drinks guy. Our second Xmas party got heavily drunk with someone at checkout and ended up in the same bed (we both had partners who lived with their parents). Woke up in the morning and had one of those half asleep slow and passionate shags. Eventually we'd stay at one of our places each week in the city and also grab a quick shag in the afternoons while at work. There was a big handicap bathroom on Pitt St that was deep in a building near the Mall that we'd go to every Thursday afternoon for a rough quickie. Miss those times.
The guy who filmed sex with with a colleague and then showed it to another colleague.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows
But in my experience guys who go on about what alphas they are and what simps other guys are are usually cunts.
You can guarantee they'll become unhinged once you try to cut it off.Quote:
Originally Posted by fnmfnmfnm