Thanks mate don't worry though, no cry for help I'm ok, I'm not in a position where I should complain about anything hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by firekombi
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Thanks mate don't worry though, no cry for help I'm ok, I'm not in a position where I should complain about anything hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by firekombi
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Originally Posted by andrewv
Yea that would be me, hence why I prefer to see regulars and just chat and laugh away, even been tempted to just pay for the hour and hangout, although haven't done that yet. But definitely a sucker/simp in some ways at times, in saying that, I could just as easily go on dates and do the same thing but somehow feel they have more pressure on them than punting.
I'm bored,not addicted
This is meQuote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
Im happy and have a partner.
Sexually I am satisfied and get it whenever I feel like it from her. Anything i want, she does (except threesomes) and the sex is crazy good
The one issue is, she doesnt have big tits. Theyre C cups which are great, but by no means does she have them like Polla or Soda do.
So I started this to stick my cock in between big juicy oiled up tits and fuck them without risking STD's
I got the idea from Paizuriguy on Reddit. IYKYK
Only took 6 months to begin requesting FS and bending every ML with a nice ass to go along with big tits over the massage tables and cumming inside them (with dom on) every chance i got
I've reigned it in now as I have my 2 go-to ML's who are quite liberal with me...and while i havent punted in over 2 months......
But seeing new girls pop up on rosters definitely makes me crave some variety. Thrill of the unknown
Addicted. Kind of yes. But more just craving variety rather than connection
Good thread for some self-reflection..
Yes, I think I'm addicted. Been punting for around 2 years now.. started with Kings Court, then E&B privates, then 108 Mirage, and these days mostly Ada's massage shops.
Honestly, it feels like a bottomless pit that never gets filled.
I'm happily married, but there were certain desires like oral and etc. that weren't being fulfilled in my relationship.. and that's where it all started. I somehow convinced myself that punting was therapy for my mental well-being.. lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
Initially, I went to Kings Court thinking I'd just sit in a spa with sexy ladies, enjoy some touching, LFK and a happy ending. No sex meant I was still being a good boy.. haha.
Then came E&B privates.. still no sex, just happy endings. About a year later, one girl got me so excited that I finally crossed that line and had sex.. and there was no looking back.
Fast forward to today.. I was recently doing the maths and realised I've probably spent $25K in 2 years, easily 100 punts!
Now I crave at least one punt every week.. and even that's evolving. It's no longer just about sex or a happy ending. I want more passionate, intimate, proper GFE encounters.. DFK, cuddling, chemistry, everything.
The scary thing about desire is that satisfying it doesn't always make it disappear.. sometimes it just teaches you to want more.
I genuinely think I'm addicted. No major regrets, but definitely not proud of it either.
Do I want to become sane again? Absolutely. But do I have the willpower? Honestly, I don't know.
Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to get it under control? Any advice? Please help me..
And here's the ridiculous irony.. even while writing this confession, part of my brain is wondering who gives the best passionate DFK in Sydney massage shops.. which shop, which girl? Please tell me..
Yes, always chasing that high of the first time...
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Originally Posted by MasterPaizuri
I guess we are happy but... not 100% happy.Quote:
Originally Posted by edging
I am in a similar boat as you and but not as deep down the rabbit hole. I only go once a month but the scary thing is that I am craving for the GFE experience.Quote:
Originally Posted by edging
You will need to find an activity or something that you like doing that will occupy your sparetime....
Addicted and feeling empty because most sessions turn out to be the same routine. It's the thought of "next one will be different" that keeps me on the treadmill
You won't believe it, so I prefer not to say. I was on clouds for a couple of months. I don't know why she was doing that so cheap, she so young and beautiful. I was really depressed when I ruined it. the funny thing was the swallow happened by accident the first time and then she kept doing that.Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
Currently abstaining because it is way too easy to get addicted. I’m not good at moderation.
tell us more! Need to know how you ruined it... did you fart while whe was blowing you?Quote:
Originally Posted by goodadventurer
Usually guys ruin it by being themselves. At first people can put up a front and act cool but after a few meets all that drops and the girls see into our souls and they find nothing there but emptiness and darkness. The ones that also have the same emptiness inside confuse it for kinship or fate and they start developing feelings but both hearts are made of recycled cardboard... And we all know what happens to cardboard when it rains.Quote:
Originally Posted by uplatelately
Hey brothers,
I can honestly say I was hooked to punting for 15 years at least. Going every one to two weeks. There’d be periods when I had a girlfriend and went less, but i was addicted for sure. Now in my early 40s, I just don’t feel the need to go as much any more. I have some regulars who know what I like and do a good job and I see them occasionally. Not sure if this gradual pull back happens to many blokes. Now at my age I know what I want and i do my research or go off recommendations before spending the money. I’m more cautious parting with money now despite making more than I ever have. It’s weird. Maybe it’s just maturity.
I was hooked and addicted to punting but have rarely punted over the past 2 years. Had maybe 2 - 3 punts since January 2025. It just doesn't appeal to me anymore. I still check rosters, get excited for 5 seconds then lose interest. Have saved a tonne of $$ despite hanging out with friends and going to social events.
Had my period of lack of appeal for about a fortnight before I got back into it , just needed to taper off a bit .. I still have hobbies , active social life but relish in the fact I have a stable of regular MLs and WLs that provide the services I want without all the hassle of dating and time wasting / buildup to get sex which is a given certainty . Same $$$ which would have been wasted on a girlfriend / wife and ending up with manogamous , repetitive and / or limited sex . To each their ownQuote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Not anymore, I stick to a a single handful of regulars now. I can't risk trying out new experiences given how expensive this shit is.
I had good regulars but just got to the point where I lost interest. Maybe it’s old age or boredom. I have no idea. It might sound cliche but hanging out with friends and having other hobbies have helped me quit punting.
This is a breath of fresh air and both enlightening and encouraging to read.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Thanks to the summer months with sunlight and longer daylight there are great movies and concerts to go to, good books to read in the park, fishing and sport to indulge in etc etc. Anything and everything to help us beating the devil we know what it is.
It's a healthier and more fulling life. Not to say more money to save for raining days and for tougher days ahead.
Thanks for starting this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by anonymouspunter2
I would agree with this and confess. When I was in a relationship with a widowed milf for a few years, there was zero punting. As soon as we called it quit, I walked straight back to the nearest AMP. What a fucken idiot I was!
Every time I walk pass a decent looking Asian milf with sizeable melons on the street, my mind starts to wonder which AMP I should pay a visit then and there to satisfy the urge. It's just becoming so distracting, time consuming, and very costly. To me it is like going to a pub for a fag and a drink after work. I'm grateful I managed to stop this crappy habit a while ago especially the smoking part.
I too have had my fair share of dud punts and sessions at some very mediocre cum dumps over the years that I am not proud of and regretting. I also started to find the deed less and less appealing, but then as soon as I read someone's review of a decent visit at a parlour on this forum, the feeling starts to get the better of me again. I think I should get some help.
My latest thing is to see a Viet milf/gilf ML. The drive and time it takes to visit one in Cabramatta or Warwick Farm have been the deterrent so far. I should go and get it over and done with soon and enjoy the year end festivities.
Wait Giz, that doesn't make sense to me. I'd say all of us are punting with post tax funds. If you have too much disposable income (post paying tax), and you are paying too much tax, then are you claiming punting as some sort of business expense to offset on the tax you have to lower the tax you pay? That is a great rort if you can do it, but I was not aware that the ATO, especially under Albo and Chalmers, are allowing paying for sex work as a legitimate business write off?Quote:
Originally Posted by Linza Giz
If you have some special insight, I'd love to try it but I run a business with my wife, so I even if the ATO did allow it, I would not be game enough to try to claim that as an expense, even if I say, it wasn't me, it was the client that wanted to go and I waited in the waiting room
I think i am... i use to do it get my rocks off but now i go for the emotional/mental value... probably need to get out and meet people Been going through the same rotation since i dont want to risk duds, maybe its so easy since its within my budgets but i could realistically save a lot more
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Hah... I know what you're getting at. You don't have a good accountant. What you have is good luck (for not being caught), and I wish you more good luck. I don't have no beef with you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Linza Giz
Me personally, I don't have the balls to do it loll...
Find 2 or 3 keepers💦 , and don't bother waisting your time looking for others..
98% of em ..😂.
#1 ..can't fuk wat so ever, boring.🥱.
. #2.. don't like to be fucked good .😈
#3 ..wouldn't know anything about massaging.💆
💯When U find the 2 or 3 keepers . .. Be nice about it.. and ask for there number and keep in touch with them..
Just curious how old are you? Or age bracket..Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11