Some girls just want to pay the investment property off sooner, or have nicer holidays etc, they are usually older MLs ...
They choose to do it.
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Some girls just want to pay the investment property off sooner, or have nicer holidays etc, they are usually older MLs ...
They choose to do it.
I don't know enough WLs to know why they do what they do ! Milo is probably a typical very smart cookie who had a clear direction on what she wanted to do, what she wanted to achieve and how to be financially self sufficient to reach her goals ! Love that girl, hope she found long lasting happiness now !
On the RnT side, I knew a few MLs along the way who worked hard to put themselves through college (note : it's college and university - not the English visa schools !), Maggie, Mia and Cici to name just a few!
But then again , on the other end of the scale you have lots of WLs and MLs who never went to school , just work and money !
Not that any of you really care right ??
The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr. Who
You've piqued my curiosity.Quote:
Originally Posted by gggi
Excellent comment ! :miao:Quote:
Originally Posted by gggi
I talked to a WL recently, she's 21 year old, we talked about many things, she said she need to send money to her parents in Korea. She asked me how much I need to send to my parents, I said "none", she was surprised. She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML. Taking a serious relationship with them means you're going to have to deal with this later on. You can love her as much as you like, but it's better not to go deep into the relationship with a WL/ML otherwise your life and career will be heading south.
Hahahaha, this guy has fallen for the old "I crave sex, I love the taste of your cock" routine.Quote:
Originally Posted by gggi
I'd take it with a grain of salt. It's always possible they could be lying as to why they need the money.Quote:
Originally Posted by xboyx
On the topic of the thread, I was in a relationship with a girl who used to work at La Petite Aroma.
We had a session where we ended up having a really great conversation, making each other laugh a lot. We ended up talking longer than we spent doing sex stuff and when the time was up she said she felt bad that I had "wasted my time" and asked that we exchange numbers. Out of curiosity I agreed to it.
After that she started texting/calling me a lot and I found her to be an extremely funny, charming and all round delightful young lady. A couple of weeks passed and she kept bugging me about meeting up for a drink and I at first thought it was a bit weird but eventually, again out of curiosity, met up with her.
When out with her I found out that she had just moved to Sydney from Melbourne with her daughter and didn't know anybody in Sydney (which explained why she was so persistent in getting me to hang out with her).
I hung out with her a whole bunch over the next couple of months and I eventually moved in with her. We always said we'd keep things non-exclusive and we broke up around two years later when she needed to move back to Melbourne and I didn't really want to.
Well he likes ladyboys so he is probably used to the taste of other mens cum ...Quote:
Originally Posted by MAX FAKE
To be perfectly honest, on rare occasions I would feel a little jealous about other guys getting to enjoy her body/company, but I knew what I was getting into in the beginning and I am a pretty open and relaxed about things, so it was no biggie. The thought that worried me that occasionally entered my head was that she was kissing &/or providing unprotected services on customers, however she always said she would never provide those services and I trusted her, so that was enough for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by MAX FAKE
We always got tested at the same time as well, as according to her that's the done thing if you're in a relationship with someone who is a sex worker. We were both always clean.
Agree. It would've involved a lot of trust as well. Kudos.Quote:
Originally Posted by MAX FAKE
It wasn't really that hard... I mean, I'm pretty open minded about things in general and I don't really believe in monogamy anyway. Like I think it's fucked up to shut yourself off to the idea of romantic love outside of a special one and it's fucked up to expect somebody else to do that for you, so it wasn't some big emotional thing that I had to deal with or anything like that.
There is always going to be minor feelings of jealousy if you're being completely honest with yourself, much like you would feel a little bit jealous if some friends went out and forgot to call you, but it's no massive thing and just fleeting thoughts.
Where did you get that bizarre idea? You're way off base with both my friendship with her (which is based more on shared ideas and interests) and the reasons she does what she does.Quote:
Originally Posted by slangman69
Women are capable of choosing sex work without being in desperate financial straits or because they want handbags. They don't have to be either damaged or nymphos. For the vast majority of these women, sex is a job, which pays relatively well and has a bunch of convenient aspects to it. Most can take or leave the sex, despite whatever fantasies we might have about whatever kegel exercises they're doing when we think they're having an orgasm!
Settle down cowboy, I was joking.Quote:
Originally Posted by gggi
Interesting read. I think.sex.would be great but I.wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy on my side.
Haha, nice one!Quote:
Originally Posted by swag
Call me crazy but I see some ups for dating a WL/ML. I've done it and I've also tried to date people I meet through friends, and online dating.
There's a lot of BS to go through when you meet someone in person or online dating. You have to guess if they like you or not, you can't act too fast, or you can't act too slow. People on online dating will readily ignore you if they think they have found someone better. Not to mention, all the dates you go on can cost $$$ and lead to nothing.
With WL/ML, you get to pick from many and it's more upfront. Being in a room naked gives you privacy and makes you both more relaxed to have fun. Visit her a second time, get her number, and ask her out. She knows what you want, and you know what she wants. There's a lot less BS than the 'traditional' ways.
What do you want? What does she want? You've met for sex and money, but how do you know that's what you're actually after in the longer run?
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Originally Posted by Good_guy_Greg
That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??
I think if any brother who is interested in seeing a WL/ML outside, just keep it simple, treat the lady like any other girl, coffee, dinner, movie, karaoke or whatever, and if the date leads to your place or hers then congratulations !! along the way, you just gonna make sure that you actually enjoy the company and not just thinking about the sex later. easier said then done though, once either or both parties started to develope some feelings and emotions, it gets complicated !!
Good luck to all and enjoy it while it last
Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeers !
Spot on xboyx. Different cultures have different expectations and responsibilities. I'll never forget the first time that I was in Singapore, and saw these massive long lines at a few places in town. Only later someone explained to me that this is where people queue to send money home to family.Quote:
Originally Posted by xboyx
And let's not forget the hugely different attitudes to working as a WL. Perhaps taboo in western culture, but less so in Asian cultures.
[QUOTE=AHLUNGOR;533147]That's very true and I suppose once a man and a woman had fucked, there's not too much you can hide, right ??/QUOTE]
That doesn't sound right.
I want sex and a girlfriend experience outside of her work. She wants companionship, money or citizenship. From my experience anyway, that is what most WLs I see want.Quote:
Originally Posted by gggi
This is very important. Do not look down on them because of their job. Outside of their work, they are just like any other girl, treat them with respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
I wouldn't let some random stranger's opinion affect what you want to do. My only concern is whether she will continue working as a WL after you move in. That may cause some difficulties.Quote:
Originally Posted by Timetogo
Yeh, I agree. Fuck what others think. Guys and girls are probably jealous of her attractiveness (I assume she is attractive).
But surely you would want to support her enough that she doesn't work.