Ever dated a working girl? Share your stories.

[Lancelot]

Think rooter meant a happy ending is what u normally pay for with a ML. Unless like me I find it hard to finish with a happy ending which is why I prefer to see WLs. That is what u meant right rooter?

[rooter]

Think rooter meant a happy ending is what u normally pay for with a ML. Unless like me I find it hard to finish with a happy ending which is why I prefer to see WLs. That is what u meant right rooter?

Exactly. It was just a joke; and a really average one at that

[RoyalFlush]

I not so long ago broke up with a really nice (at least I thought so at the time) and popular ML.

The first time I met her was about a year ago in her shop and not much happened apart from the standard R&T but I knew I was instantly attracted to her. A few weeks later I had a second session with her and towards the end of the session I started cracking jokes and she was laughing so much that I took it as a good sign and therefore asked for her number which she gladly gave to me.

That was the last time I saw her in the shop and so we started dating regularly after a while. I met her family that live in Australia and some of her working friends and friends from her college , I would help her with her studies and go on at least one date a week but on average we would meet up say 2-3 times a week at least for drinks. This went on for about nine months.

The sex was great (really do miss that!) and it got to the point where we were very comfortable together and so she decided to go on the pill.

Holidays were planned together (deposits placed unfortunately) and everything seemed rosy until one night we were in Thai Town to grab some dinner walking down the street hand in hand after spending a nice day together when all of a sudden we run into a bloke who looks furious. Turns out this guy thinks he is her boyfriend, I told him I thought the same thing! We both look at her and she's got nothing so I decide to walk away otherwise I honestly would have lost control. She rang numerous times that night but I never picked up the phone. A few days later we did end up talking and she had apparently been cheating on me for about two months with this guy who she met in her shop.

Sorry for the long post, finally good to write this down and vent a little. This ML's really did screw me over and only now am I truly getting over it. I certainly won't be dating anymore ML's in the future.

Van, If you are NOT looking to marry this ML then why not just keep the good thing going? You are getting free condomless sex from her. Unless you are taking this relationship seriously..

[gggi]

I wasn't looking for love in all the wrong places, but sometimes, shit happens. It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. That is all.

[rage_face]

Van, If you are NOT looking to marry this ML then why not just keep the good thing going? You are getting free condomless sex from her. Unless you are taking this relationship seriously..

Obviously it sounds like emotions were involved. I think it is one thing to date a ML/WL and understand that their job involves them having to be with other men, but it is a totally different thing to date them outside of work and find out that they are dating others outside of work too.

[hikhik]

I've dated hundreds of WLs but for some strange reason my dates always seem to last exactly 1hour.
It's uncanny!

Besides for being amusing, Rooter has the right idea. Enjoy the punt and leave the WL where you found her.
A couple of thoughts come to mind when I consider dating a WL.
Firstly I don't believe there is a WL that truly desires to work in this line of work. And that the reason the WL does this work is financial. (not really rocket science).
In my experience, any person who struggles financially, would prefer a life of financial security. One way for the WL to achieve that is to hook up with a client. In order to drive this process, claims of love and offers of free sex are high on the agenda.
Finally, I believe that a person who thinks this way will always be on the lookout for a 'better' option, hence the all too common two timing.

Am I being a hypocrite in how I view a WL yet still am happy to pay for the service. I don't think so. I'm just being realistic.

[rage_face]

Besides for being amusing, Rooter has the right idea. Enjoy the punt and leave the WL where you found her.
A couple of thoughts come to mind when I consider dating a WL.
Firstly I don't believe there is a WL that truly desires to work in this line of work. And that the reason the WL does this work is financial. (not really rocket science).
In my experience, any person who struggles financially, would prefer a life of financial security. One way for the WL to achieve that is to hook up with a client. In order to drive this process, claims of love and offers of free sex are high on the agenda.
Finally, I believe that a person who thinks this way will always be on the lookout for a 'better' option, hence the all too common two timing.

Am I being a hypocrite in how I view a WL yet still am happy to pay for the service. I don't think so. I'm just being realistic.

I think you're spot on. I would also like to add that different people have different degrees of emotional attachment. While some may be able to leave their emotions at the door and after the 60 minutes is up, others find it hard to avoid building an emotional bond.

It's kinda like walking in the street and seeing a homeless person beg for money. Some will be strong enough to resist, while others will have enough sympathy to offer some coins.

[assoholic]

Interesting topic... Haven't date any WL but wouldn't mind to date one hot Jap WL...

[swag]

^ or Korean. Just for a bit of fun.

[Mr. Who]

I agree that almost all of the WLs do the job for the money as a desperate choice. But let's not forget the fact that many of them did not enter this industry just to be financial independent. Many of them became a WL so that they can experience what a luxury life feels like. I have full respect to those who were just working to survive and quit as soon as they are able to afford tuition fee etc. I wouldn't have a problem to date someone like that. But it is a completely different story for those that are willing to get fucked on a daily basis so that they can afford a Gucci.

And if you spend some time talking with them, it is pretty easy to tell which category they fall into.

[CunningLinguist]

Some girls just want to pay the investment property off sooner, or have nicer holidays etc, they are usually older MLs ...
They choose to do it.

[AHLUNGOR]

I don't know enough WLs to know why they do what they do ! Milo is probably a typical very smart cookie who had a clear direction on what she wanted to do, what she wanted to achieve and how to be financially self sufficient to reach her goals ! Love that girl, hope she found long lasting happiness now !

On the RnT side, I knew a few MLs along the way who worked hard to put themselves through college (note : it's college and university - not the English visa schools !), Maggie, Mia and Cici to name just a few!

But then again , on the other end of the scale you have lots of WLs and MLs who never went to school , just work and money !

Not that any of you really care right ??

[gggi]

I agree that almost all of the WLs do the job for the money as a desperate choice. But let's not forget the fact that many of them did not enter this industry just to be financial independent. Many of them became a WL so that they can experience what a luxury life feels like. I have full respect to those who were just working to survive and quit as soon as they are able to afford tuition fee etc. I wouldn't have a problem to date someone like that. But it is a completely different story for those that are willing to get fucked on a daily basis so that they can afford a Gucci.

And if you spend some time talking with them, it is pretty easy to tell which category they fall into.

The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.

[rage_face]

The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.

You've piqued my curiosity.

[wilisno]

The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.

Excellent comment !

[xboyx]

I talked to a WL recently, she's 21 year old, we talked about many things, she said she need to send money to her parents in Korea. She asked me how much I need to send to my parents, I said "none", she was surprised. She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML. Taking a serious relationship with them means you're going to have to deal with this later on. You can love her as much as you like, but it's better not to go deep into the relationship with a WL/ML otherwise your life and career will be heading south.

[slangman69]

The young woman I've fallen so hard for fits into neither category in the least. She chose the profession for reasons I won't go into here, but you'll find that a great many sex workers in the world are exercising choices for reasons that don't require our opinions. They need neither pity nor judgement.

Hahahaha, this guy has fallen for the old "I crave sex, I love the taste of your cock" routine.

[rage_face]

I talked to a WL recently, she's 21 year old, we talked about many things, she said she need to send money to her parents in Korea. She asked me how much I need to send to my parents, I said "none", she was surprised. She's fucken 21 year old and her parents wanted her to send them money!!!??? that made me realise that she (and perhaps many other ML/WL) goes into this industry for the financial hardship, in a way I feel sorry for her. I think most of us here grow up in a different family background comparing to the ML/WL where they were somehow forced into working as WL/ML. Taking a serious relationship with them means you're going to have to deal with this later on. You can love her as much as you like, but it's better not to go deep into the relationship with a WL/ML otherwise your life and career will be heading south.

I'd take it with a grain of salt. It's always possible they could be lying as to why they need the money.

[slangman69]

On the topic of the thread, I was in a relationship with a girl who used to work at La Petite Aroma.

We had a session where we ended up having a really great conversation, making each other laugh a lot. We ended up talking longer than we spent doing sex stuff and when the time was up she said she felt bad that I had "wasted my time" and asked that we exchange numbers. Out of curiosity I agreed to it.

After that she started texting/calling me a lot and I found her to be an extremely funny, charming and all round delightful young lady. A couple of weeks passed and she kept bugging me about meeting up for a drink and I at first thought it was a bit weird but eventually, again out of curiosity, met up with her.

When out with her I found out that she had just moved to Sydney from Melbourne with her daughter and didn't know anybody in Sydney (which explained why she was so persistent in getting me to hang out with her).

I hung out with her a whole bunch over the next couple of months and I eventually moved in with her. We always said we'd keep things non-exclusive and we broke up around two years later when she needed to move back to Melbourne and I didn't really want to.

[CunningLinguist]

I'm guessing at least you had 2 good years together, that's all that matters.

When you lived together, how did you feel when shame came home, knowing that she had just taken 10 cocks at work?

Well he likes ladyboys so he is probably used to the taste of other mens cum ...