What Japanese sex workers think of punters

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Originally Posted by Laserdog

Hey @andrewv, all good mate.

I realised that most of my experiences with J girls were with those that weren't working 12+ hours a day 7 days a week.

The ones doing those brutal hours will definitely be numb and desensitised after going through all those dudes.

I'm familiar with habituation among sex workers, someone once put it as 'when the act of fucking becomes like a handshake'.

And good WL are experts at stroking men's egos and manipulating emotions.

The point I was trying to make was like the one you made earlier. They are there to maximise their income while being able to get through the day with as much of their physical and mental wellbeing as intact as possible.

There are a few rare gems who are in it not just for the money, but to explore their own sexuality. I've been fortunate to come across some of those unicorns, however they don't tend to stay in the industry for long and they were definitely not FIFO J girls.

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Agreed and thanks. Please DM me if you could suggest/recommend any who -- as you put it -- "few rare gems who are in it not just for the money, but to explore their own sexuality."

I am getting jaded by the 99.99% of girls who I see and know for certain they're just shaking hands (your phrase) waiting for me to get my rocks off, and they have another booking waiting outside in the next 5 to 10 minutes, and she will do the same for him, and the guy after that, and the 5 or 8 after them.

It must take a stronger and more minded man than me to switch off thinking of the reality that the hour you paid for is pure performance. When she says something like "oh, you're so big" to stroke your ego, but you know she has said exactly the same to the 5 punters before you and the 12 she fucked yesterday, etc. ��

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Originally Posted by andrewv

I am getting jaded by the 99.99% of girls who I see and know for certain they're just shaking hands (your phrase) waiting for me to get my rocks off, and they have another booking waiting outside in the next 5 to 10 minutes, and she will do the same for him, and the guy after that, and the 5 or 8 after them.

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Why are you jaded? Funny word in this context. Why do you want more? This is like me saying "I am getting jaded by the 99% of dentists who I know just shake my hand and do a routine check up, and they have another client in 10 minutes and he will do the same routine check up for him and the lady after that and 5 or 8 after them.

Starting to think the dentist goes to his office everyday just for the money, as if he doesn't enjoy having his fingers in my mouth as much as I do...all so jading...

I think it helps to just accept the fact that the reason youÂ’re both there is to make you, the punter, feel happy, whether thatÂ’s through an orgasm or stroking the ego or both. You have to suspend reality for a bit and just enjoy it. Who cares what the ML/WL really thinks or the reason they do their job?

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Originally Posted by johncitizen

I think it helps to just accept the fact that the reason youÂ’re both there is to make you, the punter, feel happy, whether thatÂ’s through an orgasm or stroking the ego or both. You have to suspend reality for a bit and just enjoy it. Who cares what the ML/WL really thinks or the reason they do their job?

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I totally agree with this comment. I'm of the older generation so I'm not ever going to be a Brad or Chris, but I am going there to have my ego and my knob stroked and to enjoy my time with the girl. I try to make it as enjoyable and fun for her as I can, as I enjoy that, so if she's lying to me, she is doing to her job as a service provider to make me feel good physically and emotionally, and once I am out of there, who cares what she does after that. As long as I enjoy the experience my ego isn't going to get caught up on what she thinks about me.

I don't get why we are all caught up in dramas as to if they like younger or older guys, I mean, who cares?? Only those with low self esteem I guess? I don't need them to validate me, I can do that myself as my value as a human is not determined by what a ML/WL thinks of me

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Originally Posted by KakeyA

I totally agree with this comment. I'm of the older generation so I'm not ever going to be a Brad or Chris, but I am going there to have my ego and my knob stroked and to enjoy my time with the girl. I try to make it as enjoyable and fun for her as I can, as I enjoy that, so if she's lying to me, she is doing to her job as a service provider to make me feel good physically and emotionally, and once I am out of there, who cares what she does after that. As long as I enjoy the experience my ego isn't going to get caught up on what she thinks about me.

I don't get why we are all caught up in dramas as to if they like younger or older guys, I mean, who cares?? Only those with low self esteem I guess? I don't need them to validate me, I can do that myself as my value as a human is not determined by what a ML/WL thinks of me

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This hit the nail on the head.

I treat the girls as well as I can because I want them to be comfortable with me, and I want to escape reality for my time with them. But I always remember they don't love me and would probably rather not run in to me outside of their work. They just want a customer who is not too much brain damage and give them enough of a tip to make it worth their while for what I ask of them.

Some good standup comedy materials here 🤣 😆

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Originally Posted by Punt2Win

Why are you jaded? Funny word in this context. Why do you want more? This is like me saying "I am getting jaded by the 99% of dentists who I know just shake my hand and do a routine check up, and they have another client in 10 minutes and he will do the same routine check up for him and the lady after that and 5 or 8 after them.

Starting to think the dentist goes to his office everyday just for the money, as if he doesn't enjoy having his fingers in my mouth as much as I do...all so jading...

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I'm not sure about the analogy with dentists. When I go to see my dentist, I don't judge them about giving me any feelings of pleasure, or how the dentist feels about performing her job. Certainly, my dentist does not resent me as her patient or see me as just another few hundred (or thousand) dollars earned. My dentist is proud of what she does as a profession.

On the other hand, when it comes to any form of sex, it enhances the experience if you receive pleasure from someone who is somewhat genuine about giving it to you. Of the hundreds of MLs and WLs that I have patronised over the last 30+ years, not one of them was proud and wanted to tell the world "Look at me, I am a professional sex worker and I am one of the best in Sydney." My dentist does :):)

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Originally Posted by andrewv

Agreed and thanks. Please DM me if you could suggest/recommend any who -- as you put it -- "few rare gems who are in it not just for the money, but to explore their own sexuality."

I am getting jaded by the 99.99% of girls who I see and know for certain they're just shaking hands (your phrase) waiting for me to get my rocks off, and they have another booking waiting outside in the next 5 to 10 minutes, and she will do the same for him, and the guy after that, and the 5 or 8 after them.

It must take a stronger and more minded man than me to switch off thinking of the reality that the hour you paid for is pure performance. When she says something like "oh, you're so big" to stroke your ego, but you know she has said exactly the same to the 5 punters before you and the 12 she fucked yesterday, etc. ��

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PM just sent : )

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Originally Posted by KakeyA

I'm of the older generation so I'm not ever going to be a Brad or Chris

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You sound like a very low value man

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Originally Posted by andrewv

Of the hundreds of MLs and WLs that I have patronised over the last 30+ years, not one of them was proud and wanted to tell the world "Look at me, I am a professional sex worker and I am one of the best in Sydney." My dentist does :):)

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It’s highly unlikely your dentist does that because they’re proud. They’d do it for marketing and branding to attract more customers and make more money.

If there was no social stigma and risk of obsessive creeps I’m sure more WLs would be more open but the good ones get plenty of business as it is so maybe it’s not required.

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Originally Posted by KakeyA

I totally agree with this comment. I'm of the older generation so I'm not ever going to be a Brad or Chris, but I am going there to have my ego and my knob stroked and to enjoy my time with the girl. I try to make it as enjoyable and fun for her as I can, as I enjoy that, so if she's lying to me, she is doing to her job as a service provider to make me feel good physically and emotionally, and once I am out of there, who cares what she does after that. As long as I enjoy the experience my ego isn't going to get caught up on what she thinks about me.

I don't get why we are all caught up in dramas as to if they like younger or older guys, I mean, who cares?? Only those with low self esteem I guess? I don't need them to validate me, I can do that myself as my value as a human is not determined by what a ML/WL thinks of me

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This.
I pay a wad of cash for sex and some intimacy for an hour. All I want is for the WL to help me suspend my disbelief in that time by pretending to like what we're doing.

I rate enthusiasm as much as looks. Even if the enthusiasm is faked. I'm a happy camper if I get to escape reality for a bit with a hot girl who seems to enjoy my company.