J girls are surprisingly bad at outing themselves, even when they know it will incriminate them. It's like if you ask them a direct question they will surrender the information, unlike K girls they will just lie to your face.
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Thanks mate appreciate it!
Yeh I definitely cannot date a WL guess something I can’t overcome mentally, the things we do in some of my sessions with WLs will always haunt me if I was ever dating one knowing someone else is doing the same or even more. Guess everyone’s different definitely no judgement for all the fellow punters here who dates WLs I’m just sharing my thoughts and think it’s better to steer away from that road in my opinion.
If she is a J WL in a FS shop, 100% one customer at least is fucking her raw. Don't matter if she is short stay or not, its almost guaranteed. You would have to be a moron to date a J WL.
If that was the case, your handle should be Fallinlust.
Soooooo... snooping on her phone acceptable because, hey, you were dating her, had feelings... You said she "felt the same", so guess it would be OK if she took a look at your phone.. checking to see how serious you were. After all, you were MARRIED, while you wanted to date/were dating her, had feelings for her. You ever check her purse to see how many condoms she might be carrying, to see how professional/busy she was (some guys have posted they do). How about checking her social media accounts, just to "see", then blocking yours so she couldn't return the favor? (Might want to be careful there - one sad member's squeeze was of the same nationality as his wife, and they (surprise, surprise - duh) shared memberships in certain Facebook groups).
As ditchtheboss posted, it's compartmentalization. What? Didn't you do the same? Wife/girlfriend, married/dating, work/play? Fantasy/reality? Maybe she was just more successful.
Difference between infatuation and reality. You either accept a person, with all their flaws, or you don't.
You ever think she might have caught some shrapnel herself? Maybe she enjoyed your company just a little bit, nice guy, can relax, trust, let her guard down... You certainly disabused her of those notions with the inquisition (nobody expects the Spanish...), "Yes, she confessed under interrogation". And punters wonder why they have shells...
Based on your posts, you certainly don't seem to be some besotted pup. But she didn't break your heart; you just happened to see her reality.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/gvypKtPhRU0
Oh God, not this again.
Depending on how successful he is with the small camera, he may not even need to ask her for the jerk-off videos.
How would OP hide a small camera inside the roof of the massage parlour? Are you suggesting that the girl does it for him? Does he need to ask for 15 minutes of “alone time” at the beginning of the massage?
Christ, punters raise holy hell about security cameras in the hallway or at the entrance...
Bonus: another income stream for her and/or him. Posting adult videos... Well, if she offers a discount for cowgirl, the room's bright, you might want to rethink the punt... else smile and wave...
Seriously, if a girl was doing this on her own, or snooping in your phone, your bag, there'd be hell to pay. But hey, if it's a punter, seems it's Animal Farm - some more equal than others.
Rule #1 of punt club. Don't take anything home with you!
Just saying, you never know what anyone is really going through in their lives, and the assumptions here of WL's is very narrow.
You never know whats in a relationship until you know.
In my 30's I dated a stripper, and would probably be with her today if my job hadn't taken me across country. We got along for may reasons - and sex wasn't the primary one after a while.
If you want to be with her becuase of the sex, probably no chaance of working. If you actually get along, can talk and support each other then thats something to build on. Just MHO.
I have in the past. Only for short times. Too many issues, too much drama and too much gear. But I'm speaking on more locals.