Anyone having serious relationship with a ML?

[tcrawford]

Actually I found out while snooping on her phone and she finally confessed.

J girls are surprisingly bad at outing themselves, even when they know it will incriminate them. It's like if you ask them a direct question they will surrender the information, unlike K girls they will just lie to your face.

[Fallinlove]

Ok , just seems a bit of emotional immaturity , nothing personal but if you handle her still working but the raw was the issue then yes it was something that you had to get over. If you had to snoop on her phone then trust issues also an issue. As long as you're content now and more alert

Thanks mate appreciate it!

Yeh I definitely cannot date a WL guess something I can’t overcome mentally, the things we do in some of my sessions with WLs will always haunt me if I was ever dating one knowing someone else is doing the same or even more. Guess everyone’s different definitely no judgement for all the fellow punters here who dates WLs I’m just sharing my thoughts and think it’s better to steer away from that road in my opinion.

[tcrawford]

If she is a J WL in a FS shop, 100% one customer at least is fucking her raw. Don't matter if she is short stay or not, its almost guaranteed. You would have to be a moron to date a J WL.

[11Bravo]

IÂ’m recently divorced before when I was married I use to see a Jap WL regularly and developed some feelings for her. Minx told me she felt the same only later to find out she had been letting a regular hit it raw and creampie often. He was younger and she probably liked him better. IÂ’m not bitter just letting my fellow men know the price you have to pay. She will see a lot of guys on a daily basis and get ploughed. If you can accepted that than by all means but that was a tough pill to swallow for me. Hence my user name.

If that was the case, your handle should be Fallinlust.

Actually I found out while snooping on her phone and she finally confessed.

Soooooo... snooping on her phone acceptable because, hey, you were dating her, had feelings... You said she "felt the same", so guess it would be OK if she took a look at your phone.. checking to see how serious you were. After all, you were MARRIED, while you wanted to date/were dating her, had feelings for her. You ever check her purse to see how many condoms she might be carrying, to see how professional/busy she was (some guys have posted they do). How about checking her social media accounts, just to "see", then blocking yours so she couldn't return the favor? (Might want to be careful there - one sad member's squeeze was of the same nationality as his wife, and they (surprise, surprise - duh) shared memberships in certain Facebook groups).

As ditchtheboss posted, it's compartmentalization. What? Didn't you do the same? Wife/girlfriend, married/dating, work/play? Fantasy/reality? Maybe she was just more successful.

Difference between infatuation and reality. You either accept a person, with all their flaws, or you don't.

You ever think she might have caught some shrapnel herself? Maybe she enjoyed your company just a little bit, nice guy, can relax, trust, let her guard down... You certainly disabused her of those notions with the inquisition (nobody expects the Spanish...), "Yes, she confessed under interrogation". And punters wonder why they have shells...

Based on your posts, you certainly don't seem to be some besotted pup. But she didn't break your heart; you just happened to see her reality.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/gvypKtPhRU0

[wallyworld]

I have been dating a girl I met in a massage shop for a few months now. She is very beautiful in terms of look and body. Random people on the street will sometimes comment when we go out that I’m a such lucky man to have such a stunning girlfriend. She has a good personality too, used to like party and club but is now willing to stay at home with me.

Things are getting a bit serious after months and she is willing to settle down. I’m on the other side not sure… at the end of the day we have differences in many ways.

Anyone has any positive experience with similar situation? I know everyone is different but just wanted to hear any real life case.

have to the question you ask her hide a small camera in the roof to film her in action with some her punters be could to see how she behaves or tell you would like to see some videos to jerk off to when she is not around or busy

[ColesBag]

Oh God, not this again.

[johncitizen]

have to the question you ask her hide a small camera in the roof to film her in action with some her punters be could to see how she behaves or tell you would like to see some videos to jerk off to when she is not around or busy

Depending on how successful he is with the small camera, he may not even need to ask her for the jerk-off videos.

How would OP hide a small camera inside the roof of the massage parlour? Are you suggesting that the girl does it for him? Does he need to ask for 15 minutes of “alone time” at the beginning of the massage?

[11Bravo]

have to the question you ask her hide a small camera in the roof to film her in action with some her punters be could to see how she behaves or tell you would like to see some videos to jerk off to when she is not around or busy

Christ, punters raise holy hell about security cameras in the hallway or at the entrance...

Bonus: another income stream for her and/or him. Posting adult videos... Well, if she offers a discount for cowgirl, the room's bright, you might want to rethink the punt... else smile and wave...

Seriously, if a girl was doing this on her own, or snooping in your phone, your bag, there'd be hell to pay. But hey, if it's a punter, seems it's Animal Farm - some more equal than others.

[IDOTHAT]

Rule #1 of punt club. Don't take anything home with you!

[jonnocan]

Rule #1 of punt club. Don't take anything home with you!

Just saying, you never know what anyone is really going through in their lives, and the assumptions here of WL's is very narrow.
You never know whats in a relationship until you know.
In my 30's I dated a stripper, and would probably be with her today if my job hadn't taken me across country. We got along for may reasons - and sex wasn't the primary one after a while.

If you want to be with her becuase of the sex, probably no chaance of working. If you actually get along, can talk and support each other then thats something to build on. Just MHO.

[ffau]

I have in the past. Only for short times. Too many issues, too much drama and too much gear. But I'm speaking on more locals.

[johncitizen]

Random people on the street will sometimes comment when we go out that IÂ’m a such lucky man to have such a stunning girlfriend.

Sounds like they would be up for a girlfriend swap. Have you tried asking them?

[Malort]

Rule #1 of punt club. Don't take anything home with you!

You always have a chance of bringing something home with you, usually the clap or HPV.