Nice. Thanks for looking out for me lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Yeah here's hoping. Cheers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stefana
Yeah, thanks for the support mate it's good to have. :shout:Quote:
Originally Posted by TwiceAweek
Printable View
Nice. Thanks for looking out for me lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Yeah here's hoping. Cheers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stefana
Yeah, thanks for the support mate it's good to have. :shout:Quote:
Originally Posted by TwiceAweek
Hey tawer5ag. Thanks for taking the time to share your own experience. Though I guess I have the opposite problem of not being able to cum at all with any MLs or WLs :cry:Quote:
Originally Posted by tawer5ag
With the recommendation to try medication, it's something I've heard from a few brothers now. I've looked into it and thought about it as explained in my #5 post and I think before I do that, the proper thing to do (and likely more effective thing to do) is directly seek qualified medical help.
Thanks again for your support and sharing your own experience,
? I msgd and asked if I can book with her on Thursday. They said yes, see you then...Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
There's no black magic in this story.
pay per pus subscriber
Yeah, better get medical advice for the ED meds, but I’ll have to warn you, you will most likely not get a script for it based on your age and more importantly your “condition” (can get hard but cannot cum). Once you say you can get a hard-on enough to have sex, case closed, no meds for you.
The medicos will never delve into the fact that you can’t cum because you can’t sustain the “good feeling” long enough to get there. Good luck!
As long as they can help find a "cure" all good!Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Taking a punt (hah) at the OPs issue...
I think the issue you're having is you haven't figured out what you're looking for from a sexual experience. The thing about going to WL and ML is that you're effectively going there to get a service. When they get a customer who doesn't try to run the session or doesn't provide feedback and build chemistry, they fall back to their routine and you end up receiving sex, rather than having sex.
Without first figuring out what you want, you're probably not going to be in a position to run the session in a way that works for you. In being on the receiving end of someone's routine, you're probably not going to get something that matches what you had in mind.
Maybe if you detail the girl that you picture in your mind and some sort of experience you're looking for, we can help figure out a lady who would be patient and amenable to working out your preferred experience. I get this may be a little too intimate to share here but I reckon it could work.
Finally, shit I am so emotional like a father who finally heard his son successfully punt lol, I will let him do the report when he is ready.
But congratulations for you son!
Wow bro spoilers lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Had a good punt finally. Will post report soon.
Bro you are a topic in beef noodle soup alliance, we want to help you to overcome lolQuote:
Originally Posted by gimmesome
There are many guys who are on medications for hair loss. It's not older men who are using such tablets. Many young guys are using it to keep their hair rather than go bald. However, there can be side effects. It can affect sex drive and sperm. It may cause erectile dysfunction or inability to get it up. In addition, if you're planning to have kids with your partner, it's recommended you go off the medications for a few months to get your partner pregnant.
He is not like that lol, he got this death grip syndrome. But 2 noodles bros help him to overcome lolQuote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
Damm, curious how they helped him overcome it?Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
At one point i was worried i had that as well.
But now, i think my issue is that im much less sensitive on my lil bro.
Sent from my ASUS_I001DC using Tapatalk
-edited - better him to report it by himself.Quote:
Originally Posted by tawer5ag
For sensitivity, stop wank, watch porn, touching for 2 -4weeks. Your sensitivity will reset, and go to a girl, or if you want to wank use very plenty lube and doing it very slowly and soft. To simulate vagina muscle or mouth muscle
Seeing as this was a good punt and this girl has already been well recommended elsewhere on the forum it might be ok to put the name down but I might do that as part of a separate, proper AR. As with my previous reports in this thread, this is more focusing on my own "problems" and experience than trying to share an AR.
#6, Strong Pussy V WL
Prelude:
2 weeks ago I had my last disappointing punt with the not so pretty and rushed #5 K WL and I was wondering where to go next. I was thinking there might be some pretty girls at a different brothel worth trying but I had some private discussion with PKING: before I try anything else I should try this WL with an excellent reputation for a cum draining pussy with his own experience to back it up. I'd been burning through punts and cash a bit quickly of late and rushing into another less than excellent punt seemed foolish. I had some more correspondence with PKING and I was convinced to give her a go before trying anything else. So I waited for a week before she showed up on the roster again but unfortunately the days she was on the roster I was working hard and working late so no opportunity to see her. Another week passed and and this Monday was a long weekend. Fortunately for me, she was still working and I was able to make a booking.
So for the past 2 weeks since my previous punt (#5) I've been keeping away from porn or sexually arousing material in general as well as abstaining from masturbating at all. At the same time work has been really busy and stressful. The 2 days of long weekend before this punt weren't much rest either, travelling out of Sydney to see family and doing lots of walking around. The day of the punt was pretty full as well, travelling back to Sydney in the morning, meeting up with an old mate for lunch and walking around exploring to some places in the city all afternoon before finally having my punt at the end of the day, last time slot for the WLs shift. Before I even got to the punt I was already feeling pretty exhausted and not particularly horny. Even making the booking I felt like I was doing it more out of obligation for a previously made plan and not particularly excited to be making the booking. I was feeling a bit like continuing to try punting wasn't even worth it.
I made it to the brothel a bit late but it seems the WL was having her "rest period" after her last customer still so I was sat in the waiting room for some 15 minutes. That gave me a bit of time to rest a bit myself but still I was feeling exhausted and not very excited. I tried looking at some hentai on my phone to get me into a mood a bit more. It got me sorta hard but I was still not feeling very excited or horny at all. Papasan knocks on the waiting room door and directs me to the room where the WL is waiting.
The Girl:
Age: Late 20s appearance, profile says 23 but her history of reviews would indicate that's not likely.
Face: 7/10. Decently pretty, much better than some previous punts but not to the level of being out standing. Vietnamese face with fairly sharp features.
Figure: 7/10. Shortish ~160cm. Decent proportion. Overall pretty nice toned body. No 6 pack abs but decently slim tummy. Large tattoo on back.
Boobs: A 6/10. Quite flat. Not as perky as that #4 T ML and a little bit asymmetrical, nothing bad or off putting but nothing great either
Ass: 7/10. Good. Decently toned, nice n smooth but not huge or otherwise special.
Communication: 8/10. Her English seemed a bit limited and her accent made her a bit difficult to understand for me at times but her conversation felt more pleasant and less awkward than previous MLs. Communication about what we were doing and what felt good was on point too.
Service: 9/10. By far her most outstanding trait was her incredible service. Very attentive and vocal in her commitment to service. Her BBBJ and HJ was good but the way she used her pussy was incredible. By far the very best service I've had so far.
The session:
Coming into the room and seeing the lady for the first time, relief. She looks pretty good, not knock me off my feet pretty but definitely not off putting in anyway. As it was put to me by PKING "the more you look at her, the more you like her" much better than the 3 previous bad punts (#2, #3 and #5). As described above small tits but overall a nice fairly fit body. Her face looks decently pretty and fairly young too, not past late 20s; if anything the profile pictures under sell her a great deal. She starts small talk and immediately affirms her commitment to me for excellent, top effort service even if I am the last customer of the day. I get undressed and get in the shower. She also undresses and helps me shower. Things aren't looking good to begin with down stairs. As mentioned above it's been a long day and I'm a bit tired and not feeling particularly horny. Just seeing her naked and a bit of light touching in the shower I'm still completely soft. No one has quite given me as good shower service as #1 but I guess it's a relatively minor part of the experience.
I get out of the shower and dry off then wait on the bed. The room isn't particularly warm so I'm a bit cold and shivering a little. She's very attentive and notices my discomfort, turning on the heater up nice and toasty for me and in the mean while she comes over to me and starts warming me up with her body. Her English and accent is less than perfect but her conversation is good, comforting and naturally flowing with surprisingly very little awkwardness. Feeling the warmth and softness of her body embracing me and warming me up really helps me relax and get more comfortable and also starts turning me on. She asks me to start playing with her tits and licking her nipples and I oblige. Getting warmed up and playing with her body starts getting me hard.
After a few minutes spent licking and sucking on her tits she moves to give me BBBJ, positioning herself lying down beside me so I can see and play with her pussy. I ask her to come closer so we move to 69. I use my fingers to explore and play with her pussy at first. I didn't have plans to DATY but caught in the flow I start licking her. A couple of times she starts moaning a lot and stops her BJ, a couple of times her BJ is really hard and I stop DATY. (In retrospect maybe she was trying to give me a message? lol) After a couple of minutes of 69 we stop and she puts the condom on and asks me what position I'd like.
I'm feeling tired and I'd also like her to be free to do her thing so I ask her for Cowgirl. She inserts me into her and starts riding me. Unlike the other WLs she starts off leaning over with her body against mine instead of sitting straight up, I find this much nicer stimulation on my dick to begin with and feeling her body on mine is nice too (when I have a boner my dick points straight up and parallel to my body not so much perpendicularly out so maybe that's why this position is better for me?). I don't think her pussy feels particularly "tighter" but I do think it feels more stimulating than other ladies. Unlike other ladies where there's mostly tightness around just the entrance, it feels more like her entire pussy is hugging my dick all the way through. The way she moves her hips and positions herself is really skilful and attentive too, some ladies take positions which I guess look nice or maybe feel better for them but are a bit uncomfortable for me. This lady however really pays attention to what I'm feeling and pumps my dick really well. I also did a bit of DFK and this time she didn't taste like cigarettes! but the kissing itself wasn't that interesting so I stopped after a bit. I actually feel the pleasure building up and for the first time whilst having sex, actually getting closer to cumming. I probably could have held on and lasted longer but I really didn't want to end up blue balled again so I let myself steam roll straight into climax and I came in her pussy after some 10min of CG. As I cum she seems to know just when to keep pumping and when to stop to really maximise the pleasure (that was really incredible and surprising). Finally, I had my punting "cherry" popped properly.
There is still some 30 min left in the session. She lies down and chats with me while waiting for me to recover for another round. I'm feeling even more tired and a bit sleepy now. We chat for a while mostly about health and fitness, she talks about her fitness routine and how she is proud of the exercise she does and supplements she takes to give her excellent stamina and ability to service. She also admonishes me to eat more and enjoy food so I'm less skinny lol. After 10 min I ask her if we can try go again. She takes initiative to try get me hard again with a blow job. After a while of the being not so successful she moves to try getting me hard with a HJ which actually feels quite good but that doesn't have much success getting me properly hard either. So I suggest for the remaining time we can relax a bit and she can give me a normal massage.
So for the next 15 min it's like I'm in a RnT getting part one. Nice and relaxing for sure though, I almost fell asleep. The end of time buzzer goes off so end of massage then I'm into the shower cleaning myself off then drying up and getting dressed.
After Thoughts:
So there it is. It took about 4 weeks of no fap, no porn and 5 unsuccessful punts and I've finally been able to cum once. A great relief physically and mentally. I think a lot of credit to the WL though. She was decently attractive and she did some incredible service. Despite being in a really poor state physically and mentally going into the punt it was still "successful". I certainly didn't go into the session feeling more energetic or horny compared to previous punts, despite the extended no fap. If anything I think the lack of any sexual stimulation was starting to make me generally uninterested in sex (apart from when I wake up at night with a raging boner lol) but that might also just be due to high levels of stress and fatigue. So again, I feel like a lot of credit to the WL here. I think perhaps if I had her as a second punt after just 2 weeks for no fap and no porn then the outcome would have been success as well but I definitely wouldn't have appreciated it as much.
I also noticed the spotty rash on my chest again after coming home from the punt so I think that confirms whatever disinfecting body soap it is they use (Dettol I think?) causes me skin irritation so I'll have to ask they use a different soap or just makes sure I go straight home and have a proper shower immediately which probably is a good idea anyway.
Next Steps:
So the barrier has been broken and hopefully better punting has been unlocked but I'm still not 100% sure I'm "fixed" just yet. I at least know I can cum from real sex now but it remains to be seen if I can cum with a more "regular" WL and it would be really great to be able to cum multiple times in a session like I can when I masturbated. The conditions going into this punt were really less than ideal but pressure (and anxiety) is off to an extent now so I hope to take my time to make sure the next punt I'm well rested and feeling good. I'm thinking of trying a different brothel and some different girls, exploring what's out there and seeing what I like.
As always, would love to hear people's thoughts, tips, advice, recommendations etc.
Also a big thanks to all the brothers that have given their support and advice to me. I wouldn't have made it without you. I already mentioned PKING but all the beef noodle soup alliance brothers have been really supportive and I can't thank them enough as well as all the others that have reached out to lend their support.
This isn't the end though, hopefully just the beginning. With the barrier broken at least once, here's hoping my future punts will be a lot better.
TL;DR
After 4 weeks and 5 bad punts I came! Credit to the WL though, her pussy and cowgirl was top tier.
Don't worry I'm not on any of that type of medication. In the past I've taken Zoloft (a type of SSRI, anti-depression medication) which really affects sexual function but I haven't been on it in years. I'm not on any medications at all right now.Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
Yeah I don't think you're wrong. I don't really know what I want so I'm mostly just going along with it and seeing how I feel. I've detailed what I was looking for going in and what I've tried in my previous punts report posts so far and other brothers have responded and given their advice which has lead to where we are now.Quote:
Originally Posted by alc
Congratulations son! Lol
Stop masturbation or porn for a while, and if you feel horny go to a wl. It might be will become a permanent solution. But it will be take a long run, don't expect it will be fixed instantly. I think based on my experiences, will take 2 - 3 months. But every person different.
And the most important one. From now. If you masturbate, do it slowly and light. Not fast and hard. Use lube from now on. To train your brain, that is how sex feel should be. Because regular girl's vagina and mouth, will not have that same grip strength.
Anyway glad that finally works lol
Good work bro. I know PKing felt as proud and happy as a father seeing his son achieve greatness.
Damm, i recently did something similar.
No shop visits and no ejaculation.
But i was still edging myself multiple times a day.
After 2 weeks, went to see an ml and when i was about to finish. I asked if i can cum on her tummy while doing standing missionary on the edge of the table.
Ended up cumming so hard it became cof. [emoji1787]
Sent from my ASUS_I001DC using Tapatalk
I bet the ML didn't appreciate cum on her face. Did you give extra tip for the unexpected ending?Quote:
Originally Posted by tawer5ag
Looking forward to OP's next adventures and successes.
As always not meant to be an AR but more a report on how things are going with my "issues". Not necessarily the best punt so don't really want to write an AR but people in the know can probably imply who the WL is from the title alone but feel free to PM me if looking for intel.
#7, Petite Mute C WL
Prelude:
Not too much to elaborate on this time. I was feeling alright after my last punt (#6) but a bit apprehensive my issue was not fully resolved and it might have been a fluke. I thought it might be a good plan trying to pick a smaller WL and therefore smaller/tighter pussy. I was also looking to visit the much better regarded N5M and check out the establishment. First choice was booked out first day I tried making a booking. Second day trying to make a booking first choice was booked out again despite contacting mamasan within an hour of roster release (must be popular!) so went with 2nd choice who also is also very small, has some decent reviews and good looking photos/profile. Booked an hour during lunch period. 4 nights since previous punt.
Arriving at N5M; seems pretty busy! Ran into 4 other customers while I was there: one entering at the same time, one inside the corridor (working something out with mamasan) and another entering whilst I was leaving. Mamasan showed me and the other customer to (separate) waiting rooms then a 15 min wait before I was shown to a room. The rooms seem much nicer (and newer) than 479 Ginza.
The Girl:
Age: Early 30s appearance. Not particularly old looking but not that young either.
Face: 5/10. Chinese, not my type, kinda wide and flat but maybe to the liking of others.
Figure: 6/10. Very short <150cm. Very short legs and extremely small feet. Not the best proportions. Tummy a tiny bit flabby and stretched. Photos seem either fake or heavily shopped but they didn't really show much anyway.
Boobs: A 6/10. Small but still a little deflated looking.
Ass: 5/10. On the small side, a little lumpy and flat.
Communication: 6/10. Her being unable to speak or hear was more of a barrier than I anticipated. Having to stop and pull out a phone or otherwise try get her attention and make gestures really didn't help the flow but was able to manage still
Service: 7/10. Pretty good service overall though. Not the best but still quite good.
WL comes in and my first thoughts are: hmmm that face isn't really my type, looks a bit older and wow she is really short. Sitting down a bit of introduction/small talk via google translate then into the shower. Going into the shower I was fully hard but while messing around with the shower and waiting for her I lost my boner. She helped give me a wash and brought the mouth wash, pretty average shower service. I did a bit of DFK. She then also gave me a BBBJ while in the shower, which wasn't the most pleasant because standing there wet was a bit cold. Dried off and on to the bed. By then I was fully soft again.
A bit more clumsy small talk on using google translate. She asked me to not be nervous and if it was my first time so I guess I must look pretty green and awkward still. She did some B2B massage and cat bath which got me going again. I also did a bit more DFK. Not sure if she was just trying to do pussy slide or playing around the entrance of her pussy but she was grabbing my bare cock and sticking it around her pussy while straddling me so I though we was going to BB so I stopped her and tried gesturing to use a condom. I think it wasn't fully understood and she got off, wiped me with tissues and went to BBBJ. The BBBJ was ok, it didn't feel particularly good or at any risk of making me cum but it was enough to get me harder.
After a few mins of BBBJ I gestured for her to start the main course she cleaned me up with tissues and put on the condom. She then straddled me kneeling for some CG. Putting it in and leaning forward but quickly changing to a leaning back posture bending by dick back and pulling it down hard. I tried to move myself to to change the angle to be more comfortable for me but she reset herself back to the same position. So I gave up and let her go at it for a bit. Not longer after she changed to a squatting position leaning forward more and going much faster. This actually felt pretty good and I could feel myself getting closer to cumming. Unlike the last punt where I tried to let myself cum as soon as possible, this time I tried to hold back a bit mentally without getting her to slow down or change position. After what felt like less than 5 min of CG and about 30 min into the session I came in her pussy.
She helped take the condom off and let me rest for a bit. I was still fully hard and I felt like I might have been able to go right again though. We lay down and had some small talk for some 5 min and I started feeling a bit of that post nut sleepiness. I asked her if we could try go a second time. By then though I was completely soft. She tried BBBJ for a bit then also a HJ but that didn't really feel good or get me hard again. So I gave up on trying for a 2nd time and asked her if she could give me a back massage instead for the remaining time but it seemed like she didn't really know what to do. That's when I had the idea to get her to le me finger her.
I got her to give me a condom to put my fingers in then started playing with her pussy. I started playing with her vulva for a few min. She also started touching herself at the same time (probably trying to show me how to do it properly lol) and started grabbing my dick to jerk me off at the same time but again it didn't feel great. I then moved on to sticking my fingers inside her and exploring inside her pussy. By then she'd stopped trying to jerk me off and was grabbing the pillow and moaning as I rubbed her g-spot. That's when I got fully hard again. Noticing she excitedly got out condoms to go again but I wasn't sure there was enough time for a proper round and checked the clock, only 10 min left. I didn't really want to get started then blue balled and I also didn't want to get an extension. So I asked her if she's let me finger her for another few minutes but then she said no and got me to go shower.
I got in the shower and started cleaning myself off then she came over and helped washed me a bit too. I also washed my mouth, finished showering, drying and getting dressed at a leisurely pace before leaving.
After Thoughts:
I did cum but I don't think it was a great session overall. Mostly, I didn't find the WL very attractive. Communication was clumsy and really broke the flow, as did her constant use of tissues. Not being able to keep the flow and momentum going or just dealing/begin ok with awkward and quiet in between periods is I guess something I could do better? Not sure how though, jerking myself off while waiting? lol
The failed attempt to do a round 2 was disappointing but I can't really blame that on the lady. I think more than getting serviced with a HJ or BJ I find it much hotter to play with and explore the girl's body. I felt way more turned on fingering her pussy than I did from everything apart from her riding me CG. Maybe I should try finding a girl that's more willing to let me service her or I guess more "Dom" in proactively getting me to touch and play with her body? So far I've been mostly just letting the WL run the session which seems to result in them following their routine servicing but instead maybe I should be more assertive so I'll get to have more fun with their body?
Otherwise I might be better off going for 45 min sessions for the time being seeing as I was able to cum within 30 min in the last two punts? If I think I can go 2 rounds I might stay at 60min or maybe a bit longer. I guess I've managed to reset my sensitivity to a more "normal" level of endurance now at least.
I guess it's also a good sign with my delayed ejaculation issue that despite not feeling particularly physically attracted to the lady I was still able to cum. I do wonder if that was because she had a relatively tight pussy though? She felt kind of similar to the previous WL #6 (Ginza 479 - Dior) which I guess would indicate well above average pussy?
Next Steps:
I think next I want to try going to a WL with a more "average" pussy but hopefully still physically attractive and if I can, a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Even better might be a WL that will actively direct me on how to touch her and get her off.
As always, I welcome thoughts, advice, tips and suggestions.
TL;DR
Didn't find the WL very attractive but was still able to cum which is good? Trying to find a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Also many thoughts and questions on how I might approach and carry out a session better.
As you have break the barrier, now you can look to good looking atrractive wl, to test if you have solved the problem.
Hey man,
I don't need to be a rocket scientist to know who you're talking about lol. Glad to see I'm not the only one who doesn't find her particularly attractive.
As you say, it's a good sign you were able to cum without being super attracted to the chick. Did you find her pussy to feel tight inside or just at the entrance? Until you get more comfortable with sex, I'd recommend seeing girls with decent communication skills (i.e. can speak English). In general, a lot of doors will open up when you're more comfortable in the room with the girl. You being at ease will put her at ease. Only experience can help that, but I'm sure there are plenty of tips to help: mine is to smile when you first greet the girl.
If you have trouble booking at N5M, just get PKING to book on your behalf. He's Marrickville royalty by now.
RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.
Yes sir!Quote:
Originally Posted by PKING2
Happy to see you back! Thanks for the advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by FatStache
When she was first putting it in it felt pretty tight at the entrance but then decently snug inside. She did use a bit of lube. When fingering her later she felt pretty wet too.
Hopefully the next girl I'm looking at isn't too popular but we'll see lol.
Seems like DATY is the best way to get good service in return from what punters here seem to think?