Hey man,

I don't need to be a rocket scientist to know who you're talking about lol. Glad to see I'm not the only one who doesn't find her particularly attractive.

As you say, it's a good sign you were able to cum without being super attracted to the chick. Did you find her pussy to feel tight inside or just at the entrance? Until you get more comfortable with sex, I'd recommend seeing girls with decent communication skills (i.e. can speak English). In general, a lot of doors will open up when you're more comfortable in the room with the girl. You being at ease will put her at ease. Only experience can help that, but I'm sure there are plenty of tips to help: mine is to smile when you first greet the girl.

If you have trouble booking at N5M, just get PKING to book on your behalf. He's Marrickville royalty by now.

RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.