Hahah I am about 10 years older with zero Fucken patience and a bigger cock 😂😂😂 no disrespect to the Riff my man 🤟
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She "would prefer a Asian sugar daddy" and "man who can take care of me $$$" rules me out.
I've found that being taken care of usually means an expectation of paying for a lot more and not just PPM. One girl wanted someone to cover her full rent while she finishes her uni studies and then asked for support of uni fees too. That is very expensive sex.
I thought I'd share one of my experiences on seeking, which I decided not to proceed with. A particular woman from Seychelles who I met a few years ago but I had too many others to chase so I didn't pursue her. Then about 1-2 years later I got back on seeking and she sent me a message and when I looked at her photo (no face) she had huge boobs, so I asked her if she was the same woman and how she looked different from the earlier meeting.
She replied that yes she had a huge boob job and said that her sugar daddy paid for it but as soon as the operation was done he dropped out of the scene.
I never did end up going for her because when we met for a quick 20 minute coffee she kept talking about how cheap guys were and how she will "not accept small amounts". But if any of you are interested in large (silicone) boobs and (as she called it) "backdoor open" action, see if you could find her. I didn't keep her profile name so can't help. She is around mid-30s.
IMV bad bad bad move
I would never pay $100 just to say hello fuck that. You need to put value on yourself and show that you are not an ATM.
Found plenty of legit girls happy to have that coffee for no fee, those are the girls you want.
I am sure plenty of bitches are making a living from those $100 BS meet ups. Don’t be an amateur, be cool.
I give them the cash during the brief meet-and-greet. Never send money before any meetings, and as you probably know some scammers do ask for "petrol money" or whatever. I don't.
My view (and I take note of the @rogeryou above) is they are selling their time. It isn't dating. But naturally if the very few are prepared to meet & greet without expectations then that's eben better. By the way, a few on seeking tried to ask for $300 or $400 to meet & greet (or meet for lunch or dinner). I reject those because in my experience it takes 2 or 3 minutes to determine if there is chemistry --- and I don't want to get stuck with anyone for a whole lunch or dinner if after 2-3 minutes I wanna get the hell out of there fast.
Hahahaha, yeah there's some history there 😂
It's only a matter of time when the QLD bros will realise the TNT scammer.
Some advice, don't let your SB move in with you. Not unless you can give up your habits.
It's been an interesting 12 months.
Lived with 2 SBs in 2 different apartments. Both found out about each other, 1 hates me completely, I'm still with one.
I'll give staying with one a go for awhile.
Not sure I can fully stop checking out privates here and there.
I swear I don't know how but girls just know.
Sixth sense is real.
Yes, true there are brand new ones and they are ideal before they get corrupted, but many old ones keep creating new profiles every couple of weeks. Gentlemen, what we are sharing here between is has a mirror image somewhere else with seeking girls sharing strategies too, and comparing notes on how to use men as ATM machines. One girl I met told me she only asked for $800 because this is the amount she was advised to ask for on one forum for sugar babies. Does anyone know the names or links to those forums --- we should do some intelligence gathering!!!
The girls have a long running Reddit thread going. That’s one place where they get their info. You should look it up. I am a member of their forum but you should take care as if they think you are a male they will ban you pretty quickly.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/
Yes the career SBs deactivate and make new profiles all the time to confuse guys on Seeking and to appear fresh. It’s is tiresome but, as has been reported on this thread, there is a review forum that maintains the SB’ profile history, other alibis and does photo and profile matching so you have all of their history in one place.
Some here will tell you that is not necessary or very useful but many think it is.
I understand your modus operandus and it’s certainly one I’ve used in the past. I accept that as an older European man I am going to be bypassed by younger, better looking guys in Sydney.
Many young women on the site are just as tired of the players, coke heads and cheapskates that use it like tinder. So I also offer them a gift on our first date and usually take them somewhere nice for dinner - so make it a real date.
I suppose the difference is that I’d spend similar money as you would but I wouldn’t do such a short meet. If I’m ready to spend that money on them then I want a proper evening of their time so that I can convert them for the next meet and hopefully ongoing. My SBs are Caucasians or mixed race and generally between 23 and 30.
The reality is that some girls just turn into expensive private sex workers and pretend they are not. They really should be on Scarlet Blue or with one of the agencies but they probably don’t want to pay for the profile or are just telling themselves that fucking five nights a week is “just a bit of fun on the side”.
Genuine question here as I've never gone on SA but doesn't asking for PPM scream cheapskate? I'm assuming SBs would love a SD that pays them everything and they don't have to put out?
Like how would you convince them to offer themselves BB for prices that are cheaper than a brothel WL?
It depends very much on the country you are punting in and what the SB has been exposed to before joining the site.
The majority of men in Australia, UK and Europe are offering PPMs - what the payment is varies. Some girls want gifts, some want money, some want bills paid, etc.
That kind of thing is romanticised in films like Pretty Women and Netlifx documentaries. It's not reality and most normal women know that. The ones that do expect you to pay for everything don't last long on Seeking as they soon find out that the whales they are after do not exist, or if they do, their expectations are way too high for the women who think they are getting an easy ride.
Allowances are also more common in the USA and Canada, although in some US cities there is still a lot of PPM. It's just a lot higher than here.
The women on the social media sites scream about PPMs as being cheapskate, but the reality is that many women feel safer with cash in hand rather than the promise of an allowance at the end of the month.
Allowances (or monthly payments) also come with lots of strings that most women on Seeking do not want - if you are going to pay someone an allowance you are going to be asking for greater frequency of meets, more access to their life and probably something that looks like a monogamous relationship. Very few men and women go onto a Sugarbabe site looking for that. It's more like a bit of fun on the side for some cash - not giving over your life to someone.
So no it does not scream cheapskate. What screams cheapskate is some fat boy in mum's basement sending messages like "wanna fuck for 200".
Ok thanks for clarifying. The other question is they're taking less cash than a WL which I also find quite strange. Are they not on the site looking get some money?
You get all sorts.
The career SBs, many have premium membership and disappear from time to time.
The girls that want money just for meets. I've even been called in the middle of the night to pay for her Uber from Barangaroo to Emersons Park, lol hard pass. She was hot and 21 though.
You get the WLs that try to fool you and want an hourly rate.
International students looking for money, accommodation and PR.
Girls who are sick of dating apps looking for long term arrangements that evolves into a relationship.
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